Just told a taurus male how I really feel...

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basil777
@basil777
12 Years

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I've been friends with a taurus male for about 4 months now, I'm a pisces with taurus rising, and for the last couple of weeks I've been trying to distance myself a little because I can never tell how he really feels. I realized though from this distance how I feel about him and today decided to just tell him so I explained that I genuinely just want him and am serious about us being together. We've hit on these topics before but he never will open up about it so I would always just leave it alone and not push it. Today though I just decided to say it all because I either need to move on if he doesn't feel the same or feel like this is actually going somewhere. After that the conversation kind of went like this:

Him: What makes you realize you want us together?
Me: Because I'm happier with you in my life than not and I know I can make you happy as well.
Him: I thought I was stressing you out? (cause of the distance thing)
Me: You as a person make me happy, but you aren't easy to read so it's hard for me to want to put myself out there.

That's basically the conversation summed up. From there he just said "I see". And then apologized for not getting in touch with me yesterday because he had an interview for a new job. He then talked about how it went and how he would have to move to another part of town and then sent me a picture of him in his suit from yesterday (he's 28 but he said his mom wanted him to send her a pic lol). From there I just said what me and a couple friends are doing tonight if he would like to join. And he ended the conversation asking for me to send him a pic back (nothing sexual just a selfie)...

How should I act now? He still didn't really give me anything..
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SunTauVenGem
@SunTauVenGem
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I wish I could give you a definate yes or no answer. Me personally is a Taurus female. I have people in my life that is strictly limited to friends zone. Once I put you there most likely it wont develop into anything further. It is good that you put yourself out there n let him know because we never really make a move even if we like you. Let him processes your information. Keep your distance n live your life. Dont push him anymore because he already knows how you feel. He didn't reject you wanting to be with him but he's most likely concerned with the distance. He also does not want to ruin the friendship. Be patient. Good luck 🙂
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FieryBullette
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It sounds like he sort of glazed over it, which is not really a good sign. That's what I do when I don't feel the same, but don't want to hurt their feelings because I like them as a person. And he probably already knew how you felt, especially if he commented that he was "stressing you out with the distance thing." If you didn't care about him "that way," you wouldn't have been stressed.