meeting parents

Just curious, how bulls stand on "meeting the parents" thing?

Me and my guy spend nights over each others places very often. He had no problem at all introducing me to his parents at the very beginning of our relationship (and I don't have problems with that). I staid for a lunch one time. But he still haven't met mine, well actually he did cause he used to hang with my younger brother some years ago, but he didn't met them as my boyfriend. Just to say hello and so that he doesn't have to "sneak" out of the house. He said he is just a bit shy/uncomfortable to do it yet. He doesn't act like he is bothered by that but simply get all shy and confused. Dunno is it cause of my brother or for some other reason.
Don't want to poke him on that topic, I am not that worried about that, but it would be cool since I am comfortable in his house with his parents, so this way we would be even 😉
Sometimes I would just grab his arm and say: ok now, lets get this done and be over with it, but...don't want to force him.

I have no issues with meeting their parents. Meeting her parents will give a man an insight into the characteristics of a woman. It may even help him understand why she is the way she is. One question that is on my mind is this. Does she have the potential to mature and become similar to her mother? May even explain why she dates the men she dates!

I only have a problem with them meeting my parents. Worried about what my parents will say or do, because they can be embarrassing. With the worst case scenario being that she leaves me after meeting my parents. 😛

Posted by soultalk

he is not interested in meeting ur parents cos maybe he does not even want to share u with ur family? possessive? unless until he is ready to legally share

mmm don't think this is the case, was with a Taurus guy some years before and he did acted like this, didn't want to share me...very possessive. In this case could be really that he simply isn't ready yet, cause as I said he gets all shy. But I thought that it won't be like this. When he introduced me to his parents he acted as "meeting the parents" is something normal, practical and respectful towards partner. He even mentioned : now I can say hi to your mother (but she wasn't there at the time)
Don't see a reason why would he change his attitude, cause our relationship is getting better and better. Maybe that is the case, now that we are getting more and more serious, maybe "meeting the parents" is more important to him and now he wants to be prepared for that.

Posted by soultalk

Posted by lucyL

Posted by soultalk

he is not interested in meeting ur parents cos maybe he does not even want to share u with ur family? possessive? unless until he is ready to legally share

mmm don't think this is the case, was with a Taurus guy some years before and he did acted like this, didn't want to share me...very possessive. In this case could be really that he simply isn't ready yet, cause as I said he gets all shy. But I thought that it won't be like this. When he introduced me to his parents he acted as "meeting the parents" is something normal, practical and respectful towards partner. He even mentioned : now I can say hi to your mother (but she wasn't there at the time)
Don't see a reason why would he change his attitude, cause our relationship is getting better and better. Maybe that is the case, now that we are getting more and more serious, maybe "meeting the parents" is more important to him and now he wants to be prepared for that.

is this a new taurus? and the one in your other post that you dreamt about an ex taurus? taurs are damn confusing. they make your head heavy just thinking about them.

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Nah, this one is my current boyfriend. One that I am mentioning in my other post is my ex. I actually have two ex Taurus in my past lol I am like a magnet to them, still love'm! 😉 Actually my current boyfriend is not a tough one, really easy going, and this thing with parents is not that big of a deal I was just curious to know how bulls usually look on it.