My Taurus LDR

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Virgrow
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7 Years

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Good morning all my Taurus man and I I've been in a relationship for 7 years on November 26th! We recently went on vacation together where when it was time to pay I was $ 60 short so he had to cover the $ 60. I know Taurus is are notoriously fond of money and I'm not sure if that upset him. We were there with our families and it seemed that he'd like to spend more time with other people than me. I wanted to discuss moving to Florida to be with him but it seems as if we didn't have enough time to spend alone. After I trip he seemed very withdrawn and like he was hiding something. I asked him multiple times if there was a problem or something was wrong and he just nonchalantly said no! 5 days later I wanted to go ahead and settle things so that I could move to be with him because we are at a plateau in our relationship and this long distance has to be eliminated. I text him we need to talk and I meant it in a positive way but following that message he blocked me and stop returning my text messages. Am I crazy is it over? Is it really over $ 60? Does he think I want to end it? I'm so confused guys I was ready to change my whole life and move my whole family to be with him and now I don't know what to do! Help me guys
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Lakeslady330
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7 Years

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You've been long distance for 7 years and he hasn't brought up closing the gap? I think the $ 60 is a mute point. The larger issue is that it sounds like he's not as invested as you are. I'd say let him go, quit pushing. Give him all the space he needs and you find someone close to you to date. Why are you spending 7 years with someone who obviously isn't that into you? $ 60 isn't going to come between you and a man who really wants you in his life, unless this is a habit of yours with money. I don't know the whole picture but I wouldn't waste anymore years of my life.
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tctaap
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Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a

they're weird about money

pay him back the $ 60


I would say the same, just to get that out of the way but that is ridiculous - Taurus are not that bad - it's been 7 years - but all in all if he blocked her then something else has really gone sour ... if it turns out it's the $ 60 I would first be surprised, then I'd be pissed at how trifling that is after 7 years of being in a relationship
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Virgrow
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7 Years

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Well guys... Truly we have discussed me moving to be with him but as a single mom of a teenage boy it's a lot harder than it sounds and every time I make a move to where I'm leaving we have problems like this and it gets quiet! I am happy to report I paid him his money yesterday and he text back okay! I think he'll be back to talk to me but he really is a good guy when he gets his way! Taurus' are really sweet and can make a girl feel really secure but when they go ghost or get angry over such little petty things it can shake your security even if you love them. Yes we've been in a relationship long distance and we've always been this far apart for 7 years. He lives about 600 miles away but vacation together at least four or five times a year! I think maybe he is tired of waiting for me to move and so am I but I don't feel better about us after this situation! If he does ever call or text again there will be a long talk before we move forward! If we move forward!
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Sunsetvirgo
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Don’t even entertain the thought of moving your whole life for a man who’s so childish to shut you out. Money I understand can put a strain on a relationship, granted though you repaid him, the problem is his inability to want to communicate with you... for DAYS.

7 years and YOU move for HIM? And he can just shut you out like that? Nah

In conclusion,

He ain’t shït
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Nefertari
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8 Years

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Posted by Virgrow

Good morning all my Taurus man and I I've been in a relationship for 7 years on November 26th! We recently went on vacation together where when it was time to pay I was $ 60 short so he had to cover the $ 60. I know Taurus is are notoriously fond of money and I'm not sure if that upset him. We were there with our families and it seemed that he'd like to spend more time with other people than me. I wanted to discuss moving to Florida to be with him but it seems as if we didn't have enough time to spend alone. After I trip he seemed very withdrawn and like he was hiding something. I asked him multiple times if there was a problem or something was wrong and he just nonchalantly said no! 5 days later I wanted to go ahead and settle things so that I could move to be with him because we are at a plateau in our relationship and this long distance has to be eliminated. I text him we need to talk and I meant it in a positive way but following that message he blocked me and stop returning my text messages. Am I crazy is it over? Is it really over $ 60? Does he think I want to end it? I'm so confused guys I was ready to change my whole life and move my whole family to be with him and now I don't know what to do! Help me guys


Hmm, doesn't sound good. Are you sure it is not a goodbye trip? He cld be planning this for some time now.

LDR don't work for Taurus, he probably has it going with some other guy.

Just look for someone else. I wouldn't treat a gf of 7 years this way.