By family, I mean my mother and sister-in-law; and by met, I mean over Skype lol. As I am currently in Germany, we decided to skype because he wanted to meet my sis in law. My mother just happened to be in the same room. When I told him this he almost flipped his shit because (per his own words) he looked like a mess, was up all night, had taken aderrall, had just gotten off work, and a million other things.
I told him I could tell my mother to leave, but he insisted she stay and that he just didn't want to be judged negatively because of his appearance. Needless to say, it went well lol. My mother (an aqua) jokingly asked what were his intentions with me, and he said "Just to be a nice boy and to take care of your daughter."
After all was said and done I told him that I was worried he'd be scared off by meeting my family. But he simply told me "No, I'm right here" and smiled.
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I told him I could tell my mother to leave, but he insisted she stay and that he just didn't want to be judged negatively because of his appearance. Needless to say, it went well lol. My mother (an aqua) jokingly asked what were his intentions with me, and he said "Just to be a nice boy and to take care of your daughter."
After all was said and done I told him that I was worried he'd be scared off by meeting my family. But he simply told me "No, I'm right here" and smiled.