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Jerrod1357
@Jerrod1357
14 YearsScorpio

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Hello everyone.
This might be a little long, but advice would be very appreciated.

Well i met this girl in college And everything was perfect. We went through ups and downs in the relationship, but it just made our love for eachother even stronger. We had both had previous relationships but were eachothers first TURE love. We were dating for almost 3 years. Well up until september, we were arguing more than usual and we didnt know what to do. So we decided to stop talking abruptly(Maybe there was a lack of communication?). She was more hurt in the break up than i was. And we still had feelings for eachother.

well around december 20th, i decided to make contact and tell her i want to make it work. I asked her how she was and everything at first (not bringing up anything about reltionships and what not). She said she misses me so much and i said the same. Then i came out with it and said i wanted to make it work and that i still love her. She said that she never thought i would be able to swallow my pride and call her and also said i was stirring up emotions in her. And she said all of this was hard for her to handle. But then she hit me with the bomb...

She told me she is with another guy. She had been with him for only 2 months. She said she had to date and talk to people to get her mind off of me. But5 she still has strong feelings. So i asked her if it was over 100% between us? are we done? She couldnt answer. she never can answer those kind of questions. Instead she said "well the thing is i'm with i another guy right now and i cant just leave him for you" But 1 month previous to me making contact again, a mutual friend that she had talked to told me that she said she still loves me. And i can tell she does based on her texts.

I feel like this guy happened to be in the right place at the right time and hes kinda her "rebound". A way for her to cope with us not being together (we were so in love).

She said she still has some anger towards the breakup so i know that will take time to heal, But waiting is not easy for me. I dont want to talk to her too much and push her away, but at the same time i dont want to do nothing and watch her drift away. Everyone that knows both of us says we are made for eachother and we we will get back together.

I feel like me and this girl are destined to be together.

Any Advice?

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Jerrod1357
@Jerrod1357
14 YearsScorpio

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Yea i couldnt believe how fast she got into a relationship after us since we were together so long. But maybe its a Taurus thing to jump into a relationship that fast after a breakup dunno. But Her new relationship of 2 months cant possibly compare to our near 3 years. I dunno i just hope she comes around. And yes dreamer the break up is strong in her mind and she has expressed still having anger towards the situation.