Need advice about a Taurus lady

Hey there I'm a saggi guy (saggi/scorpio cusp) but my traits are mostly of the saggi man and i have found myself in a weird predicament with a beautiful Taurus lady and i don't know what to do, could you use some advice on here. Let first start off by saying i know supposedly Saggi men and Taurus ladies aren't "compatible" with each other but either she or i are unique because i have fallen madly in love with her. Our sexual attraction to each other is magnetic and our chemistry is off the charts, to me she is perfect. We have been friends for about a year now but recently as about a month and half ago we have been hanging out constantly together. We flirt with each other all the time, ive caught her staring at me before, we act like a couple, we share a ton of common interests, hell we have even argue like a couple. Its gotten to a point where we can read each others minds and when i flirt with her it drives her crazy . It all sounds good and more so than anything i would love to make a move on her and know i can, but i've hit a roadblock and am kind of confused on what direction to take... The issue is she was abroad earlier this year for a couple of months and met a guy she started dating for a couple of months and they have been LDR for about four months now. I don't know how serious this relationship is because she has never mentioned him to me ever especially when we have been very flirty with each other she has never told me to stop or anything... Only reason i know about this guy is that one night when we were having dinner together he called and she was on the phone with him for a couple secs thats it... told me it was a guy she was dating but in a very non-serious manner. Its gotten to a point now where i really have developed feelings for her which i have shown in subtle ways, but never fully expressed it to her because of it. I know she is into me and ive made a big impact on her life, the look in her eyes and the feeling between us is that we should be more than just friends. The thing is i want to make a move and show my affection for her but don't want to rush it because it did happen (which i know i can do) and she broke up with him because of that, i would feel like an a**hole for doing plus it would mean she cheated on him and violated her integrity which is the one thing i find most attractive about her. I've been really patient with it but find it harder every day to hold my true feelings back. I need some help with this

Hi Saggiman, my parents are Taurus/Saggitarius and have been happily married for over 25 years, so this combo can work!

It sounds like you're sure about her feelings for you and while you both show them, nothing has ever been said. Maybe to her, she's not 100% sure about what's going on between the two of you. Can you tell her how you feel without acting on it or putting pressure on her to do anything about her bf? By doing that, you wouldn't be compromising her integrity, you would be opening up and letting her know where you stand.

I say tell her. Maybe give her a small gift, something that tells her you've been listening to her about things she likes. LTRs are harder to have than one that's local, so you have that plus in your favor. Don't presurre her for a committment, but don't be afraid to tell her how you feel about her as well.

Although, perhaps buying her the right present might also work as the perfect segue into the "feeling conversation". Something less formal, like a pretty bouquet of deliciously fragrant flowers. Then you could bust into, "I've been meaning to tell you how much I love spending time with you" followed with the flat honest truth about how you feel.

Sounds scary though, doesn't it? LOL

Posted by StellaDaVirgo
Sounds scary though, doesn't it? LOL

BTW: By that ^ I meant the act of telling her how you feel is scary to me as I don't like feeling vulnerable. But it sounds as though you're confident about the situation so you have nothing to worry about. I think you being honest and genuine is all that is needed, whether you decide to give her a gift or not.