Need help communicating with Taurus guy

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by bellalove on Friday, March 15, 2013 and has 4 replies.

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@bellalove
13 Years

My Taurus guy is very hard to communicate with.. He thinks he can make things better with sex.. He did something hurtful I've tried telling him but he thinks being intimate is the only way to make it up... He only communicate through touching or giving me things.. How do I get him to communicate verbally without being physical.. He is also very stubborn..

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

1. What's your zodiac sign?
2. What is your current relationship status? FWB? Exclusive Relationship? How many years/months in?
3. What did he do that was hurtful to you?

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@bellalove
13 Years

I'm a sag, We've been in a relationship for a lil over a year. He basically pulled a disappearing act for almost a month and acts as if he did nothing wrong...

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by bellalove
I'm a sag, We've been in a relationship for a lil over a year. He basically pulled a disappearing act for almost a month and acts as if he did nothing wrong...

When he pulled a disappearing act for a month, did you contact anyone in his inner circle, family, friends, to see what was going on?

This rarely happens in an exclusive relationship. Tauruses, once committed can be quite predictable.

Our movements are VERY predictable.

Let me ask you a question bellalove....

In regards to communication, how do you normally attempt to communicate with your Taurus man?

Are you aggressive, drama-filled, and dominant in your approach?

or are you peaceful in your approach?

This makes a huge difference.

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@TaurusLox
13 YearsTaurus

Just ask him GENUINELY and GENTLY how he feels, don't force him to say anything, just ask him to express himself. And then leave it...He'll think about it, and although stubborn, will rationalize and come around in his OWN TIME. I've always had trouble talking/communicating myself verbally since I was young, until about age 19 when I started to force myself to work on that issue, because I became more aware of it as A Taurus. Taurus are tactile by nature, talking seems like a waste of time, so it's usually the last thing we do, we'd rather show you. Tell him how you feel, without being aggressive or Un-lady like and then wait for his response. He may not say anything for 2 days, but when he does you'll know he's being 100% honest with you, as we tend to think slowly and meticulously through things so that are mind is in alignment with our hearts. Hope this helps.🙂