Hi all@ I met this Taurus guy soon after my breakup. I just needed someone to be close to so that I can forget my heartache. Even he went through a terrible breakup 2 months before me. At that time we were not looking for any serious commitments.Our relationship started on a totally different understanding. We enjoyed each others company and we just wanted to see where it will lead both of us. Altogether we are totally different people in every aspect. Ours is not friends with benefits situation but is on similar level to that. Its been 4months so far. So right now I am okay with whatever status our relationship would be but he confuses me a lot. He is a taurus.
Sometimes when he is drunk he says he loves me. At times he tells me that I could be his girlfriend. When he says this stuff I am left thinking what am I supposed to do. I like him and may be I would want to get serious with him. But when am thinking this way he tells me not to trust him and that he doesnt want to give me a heartache. I recently told him that if he doesnt like to share stuff with me then we can better be just treetrunkbuddies. Then he said that he likes me and wants to be my friend. I have no idea what this means. So please guide me regarding this bulls behaviour? What does he want??
What do YOU want? I think the first thing you need to do is figure out what you want. When you decide then you can compare what you've got with what you want. If he doesn't match that then you need to think can you except how it is or move on. It's up to you, don't let the man decide what type of relationship you want. He has told you not to trust him, believe him not your emotions.