not the Lac!!

ok lil bit o background:

Taurus moved here to live with me Labor Day weekend. since this time, his precious and most beloved Cadillac has been hit 3 times. OMG the man flips out each and every time. BUT, they haven't been anything serious. 1 was a scratch on his rear above the wheel. The other a scratch on the front corner. ANd just last night a chick rear ends him at a light and it was hard enough to move his shit to the floor of the front seat. So he chases her down and calls the cops, they do nothing and she denies it. Pisses him off even more. Neither her nor him have any damage, not even a scratch on his car.

He was all down and out all night long. Sweet to me, just his spirits and stuff, i could see him so angry and upset.

Now, i'm very well kinda sympathetic but i mean come on here... not even a scratch. i know it felt like there should be some damage, but THERE WASN'T.

All 3 times were stupid but he goes way off like it's the end of the world.

my question:

Do i have a life time of these little bad snipits happening where they affect him on that kinda level and it's really not that big of a deal as he thinks and feels?

And how do i handle him in these times where i see horns popping out of his damn head and smoke out his ears??

The first time it was hit, lol i made th mistake of saying well it's only a scratch. WRONG ANSWER.

Second time i said nothing but sorry that it happened - WRONG ANSWER he went on a tirade about woman drivers blah blah blah. from there i let everything in one ear and out the other. which he didn't care for neither.

3rd time - said NOTHING. Figured lets try that. WRONG ANSWER - i was accused of not caring which i understood but didn't know how else to deal with him and his horns.

I avoid them popping out due to me and my actions at all costs.

think we are all going a lot of butter right now. see my other post, taurus survey. seriouly, we are just having a hard time with everything in life.

GB -
no see i know "mens rules" lol i was looking for how to deal with situations like THIS and his mood after the fact. I get the car thing.. and umm NO he doesn't love HER more than me LMAO and i do far more for him. He doesn't have a button in his precious lac that will give him happy ending now does he?? LMAO

His love of his Playstation is no different then my love of my playstation. I GET THAT.. ugh..lmao

i have just noticed that with him, small problems he fumes about. I let little things just roll off... it's whatever. no sense worry about it. its done and over with. His car was an example of he is the opposite with the little problems.

Me and him don't argue.. i just wanna ease his mood after little shit like this happens. nothing is directed at me. However i do realize if i had said something real crazy i woulda got a horn up my ass.

aprial - think so? bad time of year for ya'll??