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LOL VB! Yep, I can see that. You Bulls have one hell of a temper but it takes a lot of prodding to get you there. Then you're as happy go lucky as a pig in shit. Some of the most fun people to be around, IMO. I love my Bulls and Bullettes. One of my closest friends is a Bullette. We have so much fun together!

*perking up* A book? I love books. I know a little too. Steffi, bubble to name two.

And awww Leo, I loves all the Lions in my life too. Groovy peeps. 🙂

Ha ha VM20. Yep, that works like a charm on the Lioness! My ex hubby (Bull) used to agravate the fuck out of me. We were both so damn stubborn neither of us wanted to back down in a fight. But, then something funny happened after about five years together. He realized that all he had to do was look at me and say something really cheesy like.... "Im sorry, I dont want to fight, I love you." And I was like, "me neither, now lets go do whatever it was you were wanting to do that we were fighting over and I really didnt care if you did it anyway" and then there was peace and love. 🙂

I was just thinking today... It's strange that I get on so well with Leos because I can't relate at all to the other two fire signs. Aries = No chemistry at all. Saggitarius = I'd go so far as to say that there's actually "anti-chemistry" it's that difficult! But Leos are just adorable!!

Well, Leos are supposed to be a great match with a Sag and for me..... at least with the last one.... crash and burn. He had like ZERO personality and I thought for sure with all the fire in his chart (Moon and Venus in Aries) that he's be a ball of fire. About the only place he was, was in the bedroom. He was a different person when the doors closed, but I just couldnt get him to come out of his shell otherwise. Love the Saggy girls though. They are a riot and fun as crap! I have tons of them in my life. Aries... well, I do just fine with them, although Ive never dated one. They are supposed to be my ideal match right up there with the Sags.

Honestly, I get on pretty good with the Virgos and the earth signs too it seems. I have a Cappy guy that I talk to and he and I get along quite nicely. Ive dated more Virgos than I have anything else over the past year and even though it didnt work for the long haul, it ended on good terms. And well, Ive got quite the track record with the Bulls too. We just keep wandering into the same pasture it seems. Hell, we are supposed to be a HORRIBLE match and I managed 16 years, many good ones (and a few bad) but I love him with all my heart and always will. I just cant live with him. He keeps wandering to less than greener pastures!! LOL!

Still no reply from Miss Bull. As I said before, I was the last to text and I was the last to send a message on FB. I feel that if I send a message and don't get a reply, and then send another message, then I??ll start to look —needy??, and besides, I'm not into game-playing. Either she wants to talk to me or she doesn't. It's not rocket science. At the start of the year I dated a Gemini who was similarly uncommunicative and it turned out that she was dating another guy as well as me. This is all starting to feel ominously familiar.

I hope not VM. 😢

Okay... Still no response from Miss Bull, so I thought I'd send her a message on Facebook. Don't think there's anything wrong with this...

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"Hi *****,

I can't tell whether you want to continue talking to me 'cause you never continued the conversation we were having on FB or replied to the text I sent you on Monday lunchtime. I'd still like to meet you and was wondering if you have some time free this weekend? Otherwise, if you're not interested let me know so I'm not wondering.

Bye for now,
***** x "
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Anyway, she's been on Facebook since I sent this, but she hasn't replied in the hour that has elapsed since. Seems strange that she added me as a friend but now doesn't want to communicate with me. Think it's time to nail the lid on this one!

Damn VM, want a hug? *holding arms out*

Yes please! Thanks VB 🙂

Well bring it then babe, Lord knows you're overdue. 🙂

*hugs VB* 😄

*hugs back nice and tight* 🙂

Get a room, would ya?

😄

LOL!!! Don't tempt me Lady, this dry spell is about to make my eyes cross.

I'm on the next plane LOL 🙂

WOOOHOOOOO!!!!!

Well, she's deleted me from her Facebook friends now. Guess that's it then, LOL! Can't help but laugh at the weirdness of this - She asked me if I were an "internet weirdo" when she sent me her mobile number... she has turned-out to be the weird one!! A simple "F*** off" would have been better manners than ignoring me altogether after I politely asked her to let me know where I stood!

Well, that sucks VM20. I dont understand that whole fb friend deletion thing anyway. All seems a bit childish for grown adults to be adding and deleting friends on the internet to make a point. Sounds to me like it wouldve been a very dramatic relationship anyway and thats the kind of drama you dont really want in your life. I mean come on..... why accept someone then delete them without responding or offering an explanation. I wouldve much rather had the Eff off as well!

The weird thing is... she requested me as a friend in the first place and then texted me asking me to accept her! I was all for waiting until we knew each other before becoming friends on FB. She really was showing an very un-Taurus-like level of enthusiasm, so to then go totally incommunicado and not even extend the courtesy of responding when I asked her where I stood was very strange. In her profile on the site where I met her, her headline asks if there are any good guys left out there! Well, she just passed-up a chance to be with one of the best!! Her loss.

Good attitude to have VM. She sounds a bit bunny boiler to me. Yuck. At the very least confused.

Fleeting fancy. Very UN-Taurean.

Well, I saw my Taurus last night. Remember, he was supposed to be making it up to me when he got from his vacation because he basically stood me up last weekend!

So, he sent me a text and asked me to come over early and hang out so I did. We just chatted about his vacation and looked at the pics. So, he was going to cook me dinner and then we were gonna catch a movie. Well, we were just chilling on the couch and both of us were very tired (Ive been feeling a bit under the weather and he had broken a rib snow skiing) so we laid on the couch and basically ended up dozing off together for a bit. By the time we woke up it was getting a little late so we decided to grab sushi and then hit the movie in lieu of cooking dinner. I am very comfortable with him, its kind of odd. I could tell he wasnt feeling well with his injured rib and all, but he still insisted on making it up to me.

I guess he likes me, but he's a little hard to read. He leaves this afternoon to go back to the oil rig and will be gone for two weeks and I've not heard much from him today. When he was on the rig, he couldnt wait to get back to see me, but since hes been back, Ive felt like either he just had a lot going on with his vacation and all or maybe he's not as interested as I thought he was. Maybe its the comfort thing that throws me off a little. I feel like we are good friends and I know that he enjoys my company but I still fear the dreaded "friend zone" vibe.

to be continued.....

We sat through the movie and he never held my hand but when we got to the car, he reached over and took my hand and held it in his. He has held my hand in public other times (which kinda freaks me out a little because I usually reserve PDA for someone I am commited to and we clearly arent to that point yet) so maybe its me putting out that vibe unknowingly. I guess I could seem a little stand offish publically. IDK... but Ive been told I can seem that way. We make out and stuff when we are alone and he's always very passionate with me. He did tell me (prior to him returning from the rig) that I could possibly be the whole package.... that I seem to meet his criteria of what makes that up in his opinion, but I dont know why I seem to be a bit unsure on his intentions now.

I dont want it to be about sex and tbh last night we did venture there. Maybe Im just worried that I ruined it by taking it a step further with him and knowing that he's leaving today for two more weeks has me a bit freaked out. I really enjoy being around him and I havent had that feeling with anyone Ive dated in a while now. I texted him later and asked him if his opininon of me had changed and wanted him to know that I genuinely enjoy his company and dont want it to be a "booty call" situation. He responded with "my opinion of you has not changed at all and if we continue to get along as we do and something comes of it, that would be awesome. I have no expectations." I responded with, "good answer."

I dont know. Im a little nervous now to see what happens next. I hope I didnt fuck it up!!! But, thats me.... I probably did!! LOL!

Oh and prior to us getting busy.... he was teasing me about the fact that I was trying to hold back about going there with him and said to me "how long do you make a guy wait?.... do you have like a 4 or 5 date minimum or something?" To which I replied, "no, I dont have any criteria, I just do it when I feel comfortable" and he said " so, you dont feel comfortable with me?.... I mean you have made me wait 4 dates and over 4 weeks already!"

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
he's prolly just tired and does have things to catch up on.give me a break with the friend zone worry already....I can't picture that being the case.I don't know about the other bulls,but if you're single,hot and snuggling on my couch....there is no friend zone 😉

I know!!! I know!!! I just get it ALL THE TIME!!! And Im tired of it! LOL!

One thing he did do though..... I rolled over and was laying with my head on his chest and my arm around him and realized that I was on the side of his injured rib... so I immediately raised up and said "OMG, Im on your rib" to which he grabbed my arm and pulled it back down and said "nope, you are fine just where you are."

LOL Bella. I hope so.

I keep trying to remember how it was with the other Bulls Ive dated and they do seem to have that way of remaining a bit mysterious and that always keeps me guessing yet entertained.

I am. I'm private until I get comfortable with someone, then it's gloves off and full on ME.

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
he's prolly just tired and does have things to catch up on.give me a break with the friend zone worry already....I can't picture that being the case.I don't know about the other bulls,but if you're single,hot and snuggling on my couch....there is no friend zone 😉

I know!!! I know!!! I just get it ALL THE TIME!!! And Im tired of it! LOL!

One thing he did do though..... I rolled over and was laying with my head on his chest and my arm around him and realized that I was on the side of his injured rib... so I immediately raised up and said "OMG, Im on your rib" to which he grabbed my arm and pulled it back down and said "nope, you are fine just where you are."

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Woman please! Don't make me fly ALL the way to Fl, to shake you and let you know he likes and wants you!
As Bella stated, I, too, am very private, and people mistake it for mysterious, etc. If I like you, you are in my heart and on my mind. IMO, he likes you, and you are on his mind...the heart remains to be seen. Too soon to tell 🙂

btw, I am not even gonna comment about the "s" word. *giggles in the corner like a 7 year old- tee hee*

*sigh, flutter* Oh Leo, he sounds like a keeper. And congrats on getting busy. 😉

LOL Girls! I havent heard from him today though. I texted him earlier today just to see if he went to the Doctor and got something for his pain and he texted back and said yes and he was feeling better was about to take a nap before he had to leave for his drive to work. He had about an 8 hour drive and has to be at the dock at 3am so I figure he left around 7ish. No phone call though. IDK! I may have misread him. He called me last time on his drive over and we chatted for a while why he drove. I dont think he's a player though. He seems pretty geniune, but..... ur guess is as good as mine!!! I guess I just wait and see if I hear anything soon. I may have screwed up. 😢

I want to call him, but I dont know if I should. I dont want to seem like Im being clingy or needy.

Posted by USCTaurusGal


Woman please! Don't make me fly ALL the way to Fl, to shake you and let you know he likes and wants you!
As Bella stated, I, too, am very private, and people mistake it for mysterious, etc. If I like you, you are in my heart and on my mind. IMO, he likes you, and you are on his mind...the heart remains to be seen. Too soon to tell 🙂

But he hasnt called. 😢

I was hoping he would and Id have something to feel good about. Now Im not so sure!

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
I want to call him, but I dont know if I should. I dont want to seem like Im being clingy or needy.

Ew... I just read that and thought Damn! I sound like such a girl!!! LOL!

call him. couldn't hurt. not sure about taurus men, but for me personally, i don't call guys. in fact, i do my best to resist calling if i'm interested in someone. just like leos i guess 😉 so it might be ok to call him and if you get the VM, just leave a message to let him know that you were thinking about him, that he got to the rig safely...whatever.

Hahaha Tubby. Yeah, Im like that too, but I will eventually call at least like once and then leave it alone if I dont get anything back. I figure it doesnt hurt to let them know but then after that I kinda leave the next move up to them.

I did text him a few mins ago right after I read your post and asked him if he was driving. He just texted back and said "yes, about to stop for gas and coffee" so I told him to be safe and call if he got bored or sleepy so he responded with "I will be careful. Keep your phone close. " I told him I would and to seriously call no matter how late it was and he texted back "thank you."

So, anyway, there it is. Im not gonna do anymore than that.

enough for tonight...yes 😉

keep in mind that fire signs are supposed to chase. you're a lioness, chase down that damn bull and show him who's boss!

overall, i think it's ok for you to be aggressive initially...in a cautious way. don't do the typical leo "i love you" after about 2 months kinda thing 😛 but if you want to call, call. if you feel like texting, text. don't overdo it of course but we're slow to arouse in the love department which is why i think we may be difficult to read initially.

i think when he gets used to you, gets used to knowing that you're going to call or text or whatever, it will make him feel secure and you'll feel more on solid ground. that would probably be a good time to call a lil less as it means change. for a bull CHANGE = CHARGE! we can't chase ya unless we think we're about to lose ya.

Oh girl, you wont have to worry about the I love you coming out of this Lions mouth! I have Aqua rising and I dont do the I love you thing. As a matter of fact, two of the three men Ive ever even said that to were Bulls! FUNNY! LOL! The last man that told me he loved me, I ran like a little Bitch!! Im slow to say those words. I have to KNOW its right, so no worries there. If anything I will probably have him guessing where he stands with me, but not purposely. My Aqua rising makes me appear a bit emotionally detached. Thats why I always worry about what signal I am sending when I really do like someone. I dont usually over do it either, I would say I probably under do it and sometimes thats why they tend to think that Im not interested initially. Ill chase a little.... I promise. 🙂

I love what you said about CHANGE = CHARGE .... cant chase unless you are about to lose us..... I experienced this all the time with my ex husband. I used to say I felt like I had to shake things up just feel him love me. But, as a Lion, I am loyal when in love and do whatever I can to satisfy my partner so Im sure my bull felt security until it was gone.

But yes, I am done for tonight. The rest is up to him. I extended an offer and if he wants to oblige he knows he is wlecome. Thanks for the advice and keep it coming. Im sure I will be asking for more.

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved


But yes, I am done for tonight. The rest is up to him. I extended an offer and if he wants to oblige he knows he is welcome. Thanks for the advice and keep it coming. Im sure I will be asking for more.

Yup, you waved the olive branch, and have gone out of your way. Now, sit back - relax, and float. Stop being a girl! LMAO! Seriously though, don't "think" too much about this. I guaranfriggintee, that had you two not, ummm, become carnally attached (😉), you probably wouldn't even be sweating him texting/calling or anything, but because you may feel that you "gave in too soon" you are feeling uncomfortable, but that really has nothing to do with him - that's you. I may be wrong, but that's the vibe I'm getting.
You are still the same lovely lioness before you "did the deed" as you are now, so be you and don't worry about the rest - what will be will be.

Posted by USCTaurusGal

Yup, you waved the olive branch, and have gone out of your way. Now, sit back - relax, and float. Stop being a girl! LMAO! Seriously though, don't "think" too much about this. I guaranfriggintee, that had you two not, ummm, become carnally attached (😉), you probably wouldn't even be sweating him texting/calling or anything, but because you may feel that you "gave in too soon" you are feeling uncomfortable, but that really has nothing to do with him - that's you. I may be wrong, but that's the vibe I'm getting.
You are still the same lovely lioness before you "did the deed" as you are now, so be you and don't worry about the rest - what will be will be.

I know I know! You are probably right. I wouldnt be sweatin a damn thing. Im sitting back. Not gonna sweat it and hope I hear from him once he gets settled on the rig (he's on an unfamiliar one this week). If I dont hear anything I'll have my answer and just take it with a grain of salt. We will see how it plays out.

^^^Good, I'm glad to hear that! You will be fine, and I would be VERY surprised if he didn't contact you, but remember he IS working (not that you aren't important), but just keep that in mind before you start wildin' out!

Posted by USCTaurusGal
^^^Good, I'm glad to hear that! You will be fine, and I would be VERY surprised if he didn't contact you, but remember he IS working (not that you aren't important), but just keep that in mind before you start wildin' out!

LOL! No, Im good now. I think I was just having a moment yesterday... or a day! LOL! Once I wrap my mind around something Im good to go.

He IM'd me! YAY!!!! 🙂

jus like a leo to hijack and make it aLL about her

weird timing

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
He IM'd me! YAY!!!! 🙂

good onya 🙂

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jus like a leo to hijack and make it aLL about her

Yep! Thanks for noticing! Smooches!

*flips hair and leaves thread*

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
He IM'd me! YAY!!!! 🙂

*smugly looks into sunglasses and buffs them off w/bottom of shirt* Umm, yea...what did I tell ya 😉
I know, smug little biatches we Taurus women are! LMAO!

Ummm, yeah, btw, nobody else can call us "biatches" I'm not sayin', I'm just sayin........

Posted by USCTaurusGal

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
He IM'd me! YAY!!!! 🙂

*smugly looks into sunglasses and buffs them off w/bottom of shirt* Umm, yea...what did I tell ya 😉
I know, smug little biatches we Taurus women are! LMAO!

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Okay Okay! You were right. But Im glad you were. LOL