Perseverance does pay off with Bullettes aka......

Im up in the clouds now 😄

Some of you might remember my on-and-off thing (at first just casual sex) I've been having with a lovely Taurus (moon in Aries) for the past 6 months or so, well theres been quite a few obstacles in the way for us to get into something more serious, there were days when I literally was THIS close of just throwing the towel because of her aloofness and lack of initiative to communicate, but there was always this little voice telling me: "Stay put, keep focussed" so I just stayed cool, went on with my business, gave her her space but also kept initating contact, checking up on her, in other words, showing perseverance, well it looks like she finally gave in 😛 Ever since a couple of weeks ago we've been seeing each other more often, having tons of fun together, shes finally showing me her sensitive side and always initiating communication and conversation, now we are heading somewhere! 😄

Just sharing the good vibes around here 🙂 good luck to you all with your respective Bulls/Bullettes.

Not to mention the sex is magical!!

You get stuck Boomer you know another Bull with Aries Moon. 🙂 Have a splendid.

Funny but I was just thinking of what you said the other day, "Taurus women made the worst first impressions", I hadnt noticed that before because its only recently that Ive been meeting lots of Taurus women, but you are indeed right Mister!

You really have to invest in your own patience before you invest in the patience to deal with a Taurus girl 😛 but if you persevere, the rewards are amazing! They are complicated and changeable, but not in a way that makes me confused, I usually immediately understand WHY shes feeling a certain way.

Posted by venusianbull
You get stuck Boomer you know another Bull with Aries Moon. 🙂 Have a splendid.

You know it better than anybody else on this website 😛 Aries moon is my destiny lol no way to get around them

🙂 Just breathe. It'll be fine. Haha.

Glad to hear you and your Taurus women are crushing along great ..😉 I'm a Taurus women recently finished off my 2.5 years relationship with a Virgo man.. It's funny that you said we tarus women are complicated... I never realized that myself but I certainly don't always make the best impression when meeting new people ! I'm always extremely friendly but is also pretty honest .. There are only Certain people I chose to make friends with because I always stay away from trouble ! I have been doing great so far !! Great friends not friends !! Can you give me some background about your relationship ? Your perseverance ? My Virgo ex has been doing the EXact same thing ! Checking up on me . Offering hell.. Would not stay away no matter how many times I told him there's no point . We broke up because hes got commitment phobia. There was never a plan for Our life our future ! So I put my foot down and told him its fine we need to brake up so it was a natural brake up. . Good break up because we had an amazing relationship plus great sex ofcourse.. Yesterday He said I have a kind heart so I told him I will turn bitchy because obviously being kind didn't help our relationship .. Then his favorite word "you never know" he also got me something for my birthday !! I don't understand why .. I'm telling you all these because I migh help you understand Taurus woman better . At first I wanted to cut off all contacts but he tried and tried .. I like things black and white. You either want me as your Everythig or nothin at all .. But he doesn't understand that.. If he asks me tomorrow to marry him I will not say yes right away.. It will take me a long time to be in a relationship with him again.. A bit late I think .. I give all I have when I was with him so I have no more to give !! However she's seeing you and having sex with u !! Good sign .. Just ask her to be your girlfriend already — My ex took forever too and that has confused the heck out of me untill now.. I know you analyse things too bits and looking for flaws but go with your feelings sometimes 😉 and maybe let your heart play the game for once lol

Posted by Mr. Defense
Well I would just ask one thing Shaka. A Taurus woman isn't a Sag woman. When it's time to get serious, it's serious time. And while the sex is great with them, keep in mind, in the mind of a Taurus woman, you aren't going anywhere. They feel you aren't leaving, and they won't let you leave. just something to consider. Taurus women are very much about settling down, and even the faster ones I've known really do have the prospect of settling down in the back of their heads. so just be sure you're ready to be fully committed, because with a Taurus woman there is no turning back.

That's completely right !! Sex is great but it's better to keep away from us unless you are really serious into committing into a Long term relationship with us .. Me and my Virgo ex chose to stop having sex first so he could see what he wants out of this relationship.. Sex influences many things and without them you can see alot from it.. I knew my ex was the one I could get married with after 6 months . Everything was very compatible .. Longterm potential and he knows all that yet still had no future to offer me because of his perectinism . So I backed away finally !!! 🙂

Posted by Mr. Defense
Well I would just ask one thing Shaka. A Taurus woman isn't a Sag woman. When it's time to get serious, it's serious time. And while the sex is great with them, keep in mind, in the mind of a Taurus woman, you aren't going anywhere. They feel you aren't leaving, and they won't let you leave. just something to consider. Taurus women are very much about settling down, and even the faster ones I've known really do have the prospect of settling down in the back of their heads. so just be sure you're ready to be fully committed, because with a Taurus woman there is no turning back.

Yeah, thats the exact impression I got sometime ago too based on some stuff she told me about herself and how she was feeling like she was almost ready to settle down in a few years, etc Im not scared of commitment at all and things just feel so natural with her, the other day as I saw her from distance when I was going to meet her for a date, I got an instant thought, it was: "there's the future mother of my children" Im not sure why I had it but I never had that before with anybody else. It just feels right..

saweetz1988, you were born in 88 right? My Taurus too 🙂 I'll get back to your lengthy post! hold on a sec.

saweetz, your post was pretty enlightening, so many things I'd like to say about it, Im actually not the type of guy that likes overanalyzing in relationships, in fact that is not what comes natural to me :/ normally Im the guy who just goes by instinct when it comes to getting together with women, and I usually get things moving with women amazingly fast, thats why this whole persevering business was a bit of a new experience for me, normally I would have just moved on to the next girl but like I said there was always this little intuition telling me to stay put.

I met her 6 months ago at a party, instant chemistry, within a few hours we were having sex already, she told me she had a boyfriend while we were having sex, at first I was like WTF? but I just felt so connected to her I didnt want to ruin our night together. After that we didnt talk for like a month, then we met again for drinks...ended up going to a bday party, a club and sleeping with her..all that same night lol so you can imagine how strong the chemistry was. At this point she told me she was about to break up with her boyfriend anyway (I wasnt responsible for it, she was actually planning on dumping him before she met me..) so that made me just go for it and try to get more serious with her, unfortunately she started becoming more aloof, she seemed confused, which initially I understood perfectly, considering she was going to break up with the guy, etc, lots of drama..

So things just kept silent between us for a few months after that, I initiated contact and suggested going out together etc, but she refused every time, saying how busy she was, blah blah. In the mean time even though I kept on trying to go out with her again and showing interest, I was also meeting tons of other girls and going out with them too (just fuckbuddies and one-night stands) though in the back of my mind the only girl it was always the Taurus. The only places we would run into sometimes were at clubs where we would have some drinks together, dance and kiss madly (ocassionally sex too) but that was it..

Fast forward, about a few months ago, we started texting and talking through facebook more and more, ran into each other at the library a few times, and had a few short chats while having coffee, at this point I was not expecting a lot from her anymore, till one time after one of those chats, when saying goodbye I was expecting her to kiss me on the cheek, but she actually kissed me on the mouth. Thats when

I realized she still had genuine feelings for me, so from that moment I made it my goal to "win her back", I kept inviting her to go out together, etc, at first she kept refusing, but I kept trying and trying, always in a fun and light way though and I think that was one of the keys to get her warmed up again, cause I have a pretty interesting life myself and she knows that, so I just figured it was better to keep things fun instead of too serious (=boring)

Well that worked, the rest is history 🙂

Posted by Mr. Defense
The issue with Taurus and Virgo is that neither party is really willing to take a risk. no one is putting themselves out there half of the time. There can be situations where you may want to speak up, but you're afraid to. As a result, communication between a Virgo and a Taurus can be down right horrible. The biggest thing is to keep communication open, and keep it often. Things can turn into some really severe misunderstandings between these signs very quickly.


saweetz, I doubt your relationship with your Virgo is over. The very fact you're talking about him means you haven't emotionally moved on. Seems like you'll stick to your guns for awhile, but he'll eventually come back and win you back at that.


I had a thing with a Taurus woman, who is definitely very bad for me. I'm 100% sure I can win her back, but I refuse to.

I agree that there are certain moments when I feel I have to hold back a bit because she seems more sensitive than she appears, but for the most part our communication is probably the best thing in this thing we have right now, she has Merc in Gemini so we can talk for hours and hours and keep each other entertained, lots of laughter and bantering. Her Aries moon also makes her more fun and vibrant than your typical Taurus, which is really important to me, as I never really date girls with predominant Earth or Water. Its always Fire for me, sometimes air.

Posted by venusianbull
🙂 Just breathe. It'll be fine. Haha.

Whoa, almost forgot..my Taurus has a pretty similar tatoo on exactly the same part of the foot as you VB 🙂 even the colours are exactly the same :o spooky Aries moon thing probably lol

Great great stuff ! I do also disagree with communications between tarus and virgo. We never had any problem communicating . He reads me by the book with his analytical eyes/ears. We are very much the same and my patient deals with his indecisiveness n his critical self very very well. The only problem was him not wanting to communicate about our relationship . That was the only downfall so once he finally did mention I was so happy he finally spoke up .. :d I'm not sure if the relationship is over but I have definately move on . I started liking this tarus man loL two rocks ?? U can see my other posts with my frustration with a Taurus man lol ! He's so slowwww ... Maybe cautious coz he knows me and my ex recently broke up n we were long term etc... Maybe it's lust I don't know .. Never felt this way with a Virgo before !! ... @ shakara ! Yes I was born 1988 . Dragon Taurus so yes we do take risks sometimes If it feels right .. Hearing your stories .. It sounds confusing . Maybe you come across as players to her ... And we don't mess with players EVER .. I know u r not but the fact that you kept asking her out casually .. Fun as you call it doesn't sound appealing to me prrsonnelly .. She could think that you are just casually having fun with her. You should ask her on a proper date .. ? N open up to her that u see her as a long term potential . She will appreciate that and will start giving you all of her.. If that's what you want ofcourse 😄 .. @ mr defense . What's your star sign ? .. I know that my ex can try to win me back if he really wants to but he's very confused himself and he claims he wants me to be happy with a guy who can give me 100 percent because he doesn't think he can give that to anyone ... 😢 so i really don't think there's any future for us .. See what happens I guess ...

I did come across as a player to her before, but every time I kept on making clear that there was a reason I kept coming back to her after so long..and that reason was that I really wanted to get to know the real her, etc, I think now she's fine with me having been a bit of a player, I think secretly she likes it that that there are so many girls that would like to be in her position lol (Im not bragging, its just cause you asked..)

She knows that I like her in a serious manner because Ive been consistent in showing appreciation, in giving her attention, helping her, showing concern for her stuff, etc, in fact I think she has finally realized Im one of the few people in her life that genuinely cares about her a lot!

She will be my girlfriend soon, dont worry about it 😉 the dust just needed to settle down a bit as far as her ex, etc.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I did come across as a player to her before, but every time I kept on making clear that there was a reason I kept coming back to her after so long..and that reason was that I really wanted to get to know the real her, etc, I think now she's fine with me having been a bit of a player, I think secretly she likes it that that there are so many girls that would like to be in her position lol (Im not bragging, its just cause you asked..)

She knows that I like her in a serious manner because Ive been consistent in showing appreciation, in giving her attention, helping her, showing concern for her stuff, etc, in fact I think she has finally realized Im one of the few people in her life that genuinely cares about her a lot!

She will be my girlfriend soon, dont worry about it 😉 the dust just needed to settle down a bit as far as her ex, etc.

that's sounds promising ! Hearing your stories recalled my history as well. It took my Virgo ex 6 months before he got his first kiss from me lol ! Enjoy the rideeee .. 😉

Hahaha it took me about 2 hours before I got her first kiss 😛

There's just something about those Virgo men...😉

Haha the reason it took me that long was because I was still in love with my ex scorpion. This was back 3 years ago . . I was still in love with my ex at the time so I thought kissing another person was a betrayal lol !!!

Posted by FieryBullette
There's just something about those Virgo men...😉

We just have the ability to melt your heart by a single glance, a single witty/charming comment, a single gesture, and we know it, cause your eyes always betray how you feel 😉

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Posted by venusianbull
🙂 Just breathe. It'll be fine. Haha.

Whoa, almost forgot..my Taurus has a pretty similar tattoo on exactly the same part of the foot as you VB 🙂 even the colours are exactly the same :o spooky Aries moon thing probably lol

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— ze ink.

🙂 thats her favourite colour too btw, I'll show you a pic of her tat..

🙂 If she gets another objet d'art Boom, accompany her. The other side of the pain eating is a guaranteed mauling. 😈

Posing next to her mom lol

Oh yes, I can see that nicely. Ocean blues are so gorgeous. 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
🙂 If she gets another objet d'art Boom, accompany her. The other side of the pain eating is a guaranteed mauling. 😈

Hahah good call! She likes stylish tats, shes an art historian 😉 she also likes leather pants and stuff..a girl to my heart

Posted by venusianbull
Oh yes, I can see that nicely. Ocean blues are so gorgeous. 🙂

Still spooky how you're both Taurus with Aries moon and have similar tats on the same part of the body :O

An art historian, how lovely! 🙂 Stylish tats is a very good way to put it. Yes, two women with similar placements..a world apart..sharing a joy for skin art. I am curious as to other similarities.
I am really grinning from ear to ear with this Boom, it's a good match.

Earth & Fire squared is a truly amazing thing. Despite everything that happened at the end of my marriage it was unique. There was much in common, a lot of humor. The passion was unlike anything I've ever experienced, it was unhinged.
I am really pulling for you and your lady.

Posted by venusianbull
An art historian, how lovely! 🙂 Stylish tats is a very good way to put it. Yes, two women with similar placements..a world apart..sharing a joy for skin art. I am curious as to other similarities.
I am really grinning from ear to ear with this Boom, it's a good match.

😄 😄 I can feel the good vibes even from here, as usual you're awesome VB 🙂 I dont think its a coincidence Im so fond of someone with similar placements and tastes to yourself..

She's also obsessed with dinosaurs, ancient alien theories, movies from the 40's, 50's and psychedelic rock from the 60's 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
Earth & Fire squared is a truly amazing thing. Despite everything that happened at the end of my marriage it was unique. There was much in common, a lot of humor. The passion was unlike anything I've ever experienced, it was unhinged.
I am really pulling for you and your lady.

The humour part and having much in common are so true in my case as well! I truly do have a sixth sense about the whole thing, meaning her being "the one", you know my previous history as a player etc, I swear that if she truly is the one, I wont care for any other women, she's that special to me..

Ive been acting like a lovefool the last couple of days, Im literally stunned how she suddenly started opening up so much more and being so loving and tender..

AWWWW THTOP! Making my Pisces all squishy! Haha!

Oh, she loves older aesthetic and things. Another similarity. Better and better. 😄 'We' using the term subjectively here will blossom under the proper attention and care. She will not falter, she will not waver. For all the strength we put out and dazzle with underneath lays a very tender and warm heart.

🙂 🙂 She's all I can think of, she's my morning, afternoon, evening and night. Im in luvvvvv again whaaaaa! 😄

Posted by Mr. Defense
The issue with Taurus and Virgo is that neither party is really willing to take a risk. no one is putting themselves out there half of the time.

Remember, both signs are shy as well as passive aggressive. Virgos observe and analyze quietly(sometimes from a distance)....Tauruses touch, feel, and flirt (but up close, and quite physical)...but still, somehow non-verbal....observing and analyzing quietly as well.

...and actively listening.....

Posted by Mr. Defense
There can be situations where you may want to speak up, but you're afraid to. As a result, communication between a Virgo and a Taurus can be down right horrible. The biggest thing is to keep communication open, and keep it often. Things can turn into some really severe misunderstandings between these signs very quickly.

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I wouldn't say miscommunication...just frustration over indefinite delays due to two parties 'mirroring' each other's behaviors.