Pisces & Taurus

I met a taurus girl about a year and a half ago. I'll try to make this story short. Basically I got caught up in a love triangle. She had broken up with her boyfriend about 4 months before we met, things between her and I developed pretty quick. Emotions and feelings running wild, the sex was incredible....it was like being in heaven
The Ex found out we were hanging out so he came back and tried playing the nice guy....well needles to say she didn't know what to do and decided to get back together with him and try to make things work (they were together for 5 years, and the relationship had grown sour), although she had mentioned to me that she had strong feelings for us.
We spoke on and off for the next few months, just keeping in touch as friends. Then the communication stopped, I guess you could say it was neutral. She was doing her own thing and I was doing mine.
8 months later after hearing she was not with him anymore I decided to call.
It's now been 2 months that we have been hanging out, and the feelings are back. I don't know how to tell her that I still have these feelings for her.
Crazy thing is that I see a future with this girl,and I'm trying to control myself and my feelings. Her and I had a talk about us a long time before and after the ex boyfriend, and I told her how i felt. Nothing worked out. Now I'm a little skeptical on saying anything again.
Please help!
-brobster-

Hey Bobster,
I say go for it. The fact that she tried to make her last relationship work, shows she doesn't give up easily in relationships. If you get the feeling that there is more there then just sex then ask her how she feels about you. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. The worst that can happen is she doesn't feel the same and so that is where you were when you started, single. On the other hand if she feels strongly like you then you have everything to gain. You never know until you try. If you don't you will leave the door open for someone else to come into her life and then you will feel regret for not saying how you truly felt. The only thing I would clarify is that she is totally over the other guy so she doesn't go back to him again. Good Luck. Hope you get what you want either way.
P.S.
Always think positive

Hey,
thanks for the advice.....I actually saw her last night, and had wanted to talk to her about it then, but it wasn't the right place nor the right time, so we'll probably talk within the next few days. I'll let you guys know how it turns out(if anyone cares.
later
-brobster-

how did it go then? I would say don't talk about it. I've been HERE and it's better to let actions speak, NOT WORDS. Alot of women are AFRAID of this kind of talk, as they are terrifed of making a comittment, just coming out of another relationship. I hope you can just keep having fun together, anyway...see what happens but don't speak until she lets you know what's on her mind! If she hasn't already scuttled off scared, that is.

well I didn't get a chance to talk to her but she came up to with it and this is what she said.....she does not want a relationship, boyfriend, husband, marriage or kids. (she's had a pretty rough childhood, from what I hear and from what she tells me)
Now that time a month or two has passed since we had this talk, she is still hanging out, we mess around and cuddle up and do all the things couples do, but what I've noticed, it's always on her terms. Now i feel she doesn't want to talk to me anymore, because i got too drunk before going on stage to play with my band, to say the least she's very disappointed, I'm stressing the situation and she's not even my girl.
arghhhhhh ——————?
-brobster00-