Please help ! Persue or move on ??

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Hopefully this will be my last thread about this Taurus man I like from work . So we like each other . Spent an amazing night together (no sex) ..sensual hugs for hours.. It was the most comfortable hug I ever had in my life . So okay here's the real story .. Since then we never spent another day/night together again because he's a slow bull and I'm also a slow taurean. Here's the confusin part . He never called me first . Never texted me first.. We just watched a movie with our work friends earlier and he came after because he finished work after . . Now according to my other friend .. This T man kept looking at me a few times during the movies . .i also heard that at work .. Before I started work this T man would come to the desk n work like normal but as soon as I started it took him a long while to come .. But he kept looking at the desk (me) and kept walking past .. He finally came n talk to me though . Okay so he's very nervous around me .. Shy and aloof . . He also gives me bufferfly.. I hear all these from my friends after I finally had the courage to call this T up and told him straight that I wanna know what's going on. I told him I had the best time that night n if he doesn't like me that way then tell me now. He told me he had a great time too BUT he can't give me what I want which is a relationship because hes all confused with himself everyday. He was happy to hear from me though I could tell and didn't wanna get off the phone.. So we talked for a bit and I said I had to go ..I told him I will pretend nothin happened that night.. He said why ? Why r u being like this . Bla Bla Bla. So here's the question . I know he can't give me Wat I want which is for him to be my man .. BUT why is his action speaking otherwise ? Is he neglecting his own feelings for me ? Is he just not into me ? I know that he can FEeL what I FeEl !! It's a strong chemistry and he can't deny that for sure ! Should I give up? Play it casually with him ..? No commitment no talk? No sex? Or give up totally !! Helpp I really really really like this man and i trust my own instinct that there is more for us !!! ??Is he being a chicken ? 😢 help please I'm a Taurus sun as well . And we both have Venus in Gemini. I also assured him that he's not a rebound . I just finished 2.5 years relationship . I heard from my friend that he's looking for something casual .. It's wired because it took us 3 hours to finally kiss !! And he was even surprised that we kissed ... Now what's with tha
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Posted by David13
Jesus ! Will you just take him already ?!! BOTH of you are being ROCKS !!! Go ahead and play this 'casual' card of his... no one just chooses or decides to be in a relationship... you're going to just have bed him !!! The longer you deny this... the more you get friend-zoned... YOU are running out of TIME ! Get it done !!!

. I appreciate your response ! I don't want to bed him untill I know he truly wants something from
Me ? What's if he's really a player .. 😢 does having sex with him changed his
Mind ? !! So you are saying that I have to bed him to get myself out of a friend zone ?? Interesting ! 😄
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saweetz1988
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Posted by David13
Jesus ! Will you just take him already ?!! BOTH of you are being ROCKS !!! Go ahead and play this 'casual' card of his... no one just chooses or decides to be in a relationship... you're going to just have bed him !!! The longer you deny this... the more you get friend-zoned... YOU are running out of TIME ! Get it done !!!

. I appreciate your response ! I don't want to bed him untill I know he truly wants something from
Me ? What's if he's really a player .. 😢 does having sex with him changed his
Mind ? !! So you are saying that I have to bed him to get myself out of a friend zone ?? Interesting ! 😄
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So I just called this T man and surprise surprise he's very tired and probably can't come out after his work tonight. Now he's busy for the whole next week .. And he's also going away with a few friends. He also asked who did I ask to do stuff with tonight and I said no one ? He doesn't sound keen . Ok soooo I think I should just forget about him and move on !! He's playing hard to get ?? Or just simply not interested ! However he did pick up my call though !🙂 is this a normal behaviour for a Taurus man ? 😢