please help, Taurus guy confusing me like hell!

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firstaidkit
@firstaidkit
12 Years

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So we met online, and we're just friends. We get along really well, and once we even talked about what we'll name our kids next time. He kept flirting with me, and he called me honey, dear and stuff(but he's English so it probably doesn't matter). When I talk about another guy, he'll talk about girls that he hang out with and all. Then suddenly, he stops talking to me for a few days, and comes back with things like "it's sunny today". So I get pissed and treat him really coldly but become friendly again because I just can't help it and recently it's been an endless circle. And it happened again, for the longest time ever (a week) we didn't talk, and he suddenly said he thinks he's love with this girl from this place who's the complete opposite of him and he really wants to shag her and all but she's totally out of he's league. (no, i am not from that place) and then he recommends me a song to hear because it's stuck in his head which I didn't listen to cos I was pissed. I asked him why he told me about the girl and he said he just needed to share it with someone.

I'm pissed at how I let him use me as a toy, as something to entertain himself with when he's bored or when his other female friend isn't online. He didn't say anything like that, but thats what I think. He asked me why I was so grumpy all the time, (I told him before that I was pissed he didn't talk to me for so long previously), which I ignored. Then he said something unimportant, which I replied to, but then I felt that enough was enough, I will not be used again, and I told him to stop talking to me. (spur of the moment decision) He asked why, which I ignored, and then said it was snowing, yada yada, which I also ignored. So he's quiet now.

I don't stand a chance at all do I? He's in love with someone else. Sigh. Thank you for reading all this, I really want to know what's going on in that mind of his. I'm a Scorpio with a sagittarius moon, and he has a leo moon btw. Thank you so much for helping.
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Taurus with Leo moon here as well. My opinion - sounds like he's taking you a little for granted. Have you hung out yet? If not, and if you really like this guy, you should try to meet up/hang out, and just position it as a friend thing. Go to dinner with him at an elegant restaurant, go see a comedy, etc. We love food and laughter. Scorps have a mystical power and particularly over Taurus IMO. He'll most likely feel a strong attraction to you just being in your presence. In fact, a movie would probably be best - takes all the pressure off, and if we are comfortable in your silent presence, it makes a big impact on us. We are creatures of comfort. Main thing is keep your cool and have confidence. Once he realizes what he's dealing with, things will change. Also, I wouldn't even bring up other men. When a person I'm interested in brings up other men? I instantly bring up other women and have often turned these convos towards the direction of women I'm interested in at the moment (usually highly exaggerated). I kinda intentionally make that girl feel like she's in the friend zone now and I'm cool with that. Why do I do this? Only way I can counterbalance the jealousy I'm feeling. Its very immature on my part, but it usually *does* to serve the purpose of making that woman I'm actually pursuing more interested. Its a form of hard to get, which Taurus men are really good at playing because we naturally move slower.