Pls Some Insight into the Taurus man

Hello all! So I have been reading the Taurus board for a couple months now trying to gain some insight into my particular situation. So far I have learned and put into practice much of the sage advice. The reason I'm finally posting is to get a little more insight into the Tarurean male.

Here's my story:
I met this Taurus back in March of this year through work and there was an almost instant connection between us??_I even texted my best friend right after meeting him that I had just met my future —boo?? LOL Taurus man is 43, divorced with 3 adult children and a four year old daughter. The 4 YO is not his biological daughter as his ex-wife had an affair and got pregnant but he said that he would be in the child??s life as her father because it was not her fault that the circumstances were what they were when she was conceived. Oh yeah, he lives 2 hours away from me, but I recently let him know that if we were to become involved, I would be willing to move to his city??_our jobs are 1 hour away from our respective homes right now.

So anyway, we see each other and chat daily-we do not work for the same company so my boss is cool with us interacting. Over the next few weeks he and I kinda let each other know that we were attracted to one another (thanks guys again for helping me pick up on subtle taurean clues). Now it took us 4 months to hug and it was another 2 before we kissed. Although we both know that we could fall down upon each other naked and have sex at any moment we have not and gosh it seems like at the rate we are moving we never will be anywhere near each other naked??_hence my dilemma. We have never gone out on a —real?? date cause we work all the time and he belongs to a softball team that plays every weekend, although we have discussed going out or staying in and watching movies.

I guess what I want to know is are taureans typically this slow in advancing to the next stage or into a relationship or do you guys think there are some other factors coming into play here? Is he still afraid because of what his ex did to him? I know he is interested in my romantically but I just can't figure him out. Do I just continue to wait for him to make the next move? I don't want to get too attached and then get hurt, but every day it's getting harder and harder not to fall deeper and deeper into this man.

About me: I am a 44 year old Capricorn-Cancer Moon-Virgo Rising..I am divorced with 4 adult children and my ex cheated on me as well but with no progeny that I know of. I don't want a fly by night romance, I want something steady and long lasting i.e. until I leave this plane of existence, so I am not sure why he would be afraid??_HELP PLS!

I was with a Capricorn starting at the end of April and it was finished in the middle of August. It was an instant attraction, and really, I saw my whole future in her eyes at our first meeting... she broke with me... I don't really know why. I guess I am not as cautious as YOUR Taurus... our first kiss led up to being the first of everything. I finally saw her last week... we had dinner... no communication since... just a 'thank you' in an sms.

Yes... Taurus is typically slow... Capricorn is typically cautious... but it can sometimes be the other way around. The problem I find between these two is that there could be something very promising... if it would just ever get started !!!

Mostly here... you are just talking about his kids, your kids, your jobs, and how far apart you live. I am not sure what this has to do with anything... you are probably analyizing too much... and he is probably doing the same. That damned pragmatic nature nature in both of your signs seems to be taking over. I don't know why YOU are attracted to him... but he is attracted to YOU because you are a strong woman... at least on the outside. So... forgot about all of this practical stuff ! Forget about how he is going to fit into your future ! Just take him ! Get it started !