Sex with the Bull

Hey guys.
I need some insight with Taureans and sex. It's almost always said that male bulls are romantic and like sex as well as likes to please their partner, but mine is...._—.

He's been at my home for weeks, but we barely have sex. He's literally up under me daily. I'm an Aries gal (4/18), and he's 4/24 (cusp of Aries Taurus perhaps), so I thought there would be no lacking or slacking with sex.

I barely get it, and when I do it's nothing romantic or sensual. Not to be blunt but he kills it if you get my drift. Just last night after "A" drink, I started with him, got on top but it got hot so he took over for about 5 minutes, stopped because he got dizzy or tired, I told him to lay down so I could get him rock hard again, but he ended up going to sleep on me and went limp and left me hanging.

Am I boring or is his interest gone sexually? Heck, he barely touches me (lack of foreplay) anymore.

What can I do to revamp our sex life cuz I'm not happy at all_??

Thank you for your input. His Venus is in Taurus, just like mine. Maybe your right with saying our relationship has become stale. I asked if he thought our sex life was boring and he said "hell no!"

I will admit, I'm rather shy when it comes to being that person to try to spice things up because I fear I'll look stupid or get rejected. I did buy a liberator ramp/wedge combo (sex furniture), but we have yet to use it.

Weird coming from an Aries who's supposed to be this hot ball of dominance and energy.

And I don't think he's sleeping with someone else; when I tell you he's always here, he's ALWAYS here. To the point to where he brought a lot of his things over to move in before I slowed him down.

How long have you been dating?
How was the sex life at the very beginning?
He doesn't officially live with you, he's just at your place all of the time?

Tell him he has to stay at his own place more often. Only see him a couple times a week. He's gotten too comfortable, he's in the old married couple stage & you're trying to be in the honeymoon stage. He needs to miss you, which he can't do if he's always there.

Wow. Good point RiverLee. We have been together for almost a year after courting for about seven months. The sex at the beginning was good; I was satisfied. And no, he doesn't officially live with me, he's just always here.

He really doesn't have the chance to miss me, and I him, which is why after him being at my place for almost two months straight, I told him he had to go home. The thing is, he takes me to work and picks me up and automatically comes up and stays.

What's a nice way to get back to the "come over a few times a week and go home after you drop me off" stage?

Posted by QueenKoa


What's a nice way to get back to the "come over a few times a week and go home after you drop me off" stage?

maybe get some independence and make your own way to work.

You guys are awesome!
Beautiful disaster, I just moved here less then a year ago and I am saving forms vehicle. It's about 30 dollars a day to and to and from work. With children, that adds up. I suppose I can use the bus to get to and from work though; anything to regain that independence back.

You all are spot on about me though. I have no hobbies, things to do, female friends....ugh....I really need and want to enhance my life and now I see that doing my own thing would make me feel much better, and not focus on him. It's tough being new to a state. Man you guys just made me feel a lot better.

Thanks hun!
He more I read this advice, the more I see I need to put my foot down and have him drop me off and then go home. Maybe I can get a ride a few times a week and make my own way other times. The last time I kept him from coming over so much he complained and said he felt like he was banned from seeing me. Sheesh.

I don't plan on getting a car loan because my credit is kind of blah, so I caving the cash which is almost at my goal.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
I hear that.

My credit used to be really bad too. BUT I FIXED IT 🙂

I got a used car (about $ 11,000 worth, 80,000 miles, Honda civic ex coupe) great on gas)) for 1,000 down and my payments were 325 $ /month for 3 years at some crazy amount of interest like (18.9% ).

SO I paid 500/month and slowly knocked it down, right after 3-4 months I applied for a capital one card and I pay off the balance every month before it's due and like 1.5 years later - my credit kicks ass! Like I was shocked.

It's do-able. Take it from a person who perpetually digs her own grave, you will get there. Time and perseverance which it sounds like you have.

good luck boo

Wow!

I can learn from you! I got two cap one cards but I didn't know paying off the balance every month down to zero would increase your score. I thought you had to pay all but 30% . Wow!

Welp!

I chose to get myself home and when he tried to come back over tonight I told him he was off the hook from being under me for a few days and that he could chill at his crib for some personal space. He did not like that one bit.

He went out and nicely bought me a few things and I thanked him for them and told him I'd get them from him sometime next week. He said "hell no I'll drop them off," but I told him I was in no rush and that is get them from him next week and not to worry.

He was not happy about that and simply replied "yea ok." I'm not trying to be rude nor was I rejecting his gift or what have you, but I didn't expect him to become unhappy with my telling him to go home for a bit and that I'll see him next week. Sheesh this is like walking on egg shells.

You are right.

He is on hand and gets annoyed when I don't ask him for help or let him help me. He questioned who was taking me on errands I had to run and told me I was pushing him away and that it was pissing him off. I don't like being taken care of but I did allow him to take me where ever I needed to go at the drop of a dime.

Everything you all have said is bits and pieces of my bull and I am definitely going to change up my style to reflect how I was before I moved out here. At first I feared that would drive him away, but heck, if my being independent drives him in the arms of another, he wasn't mine fully to begin with.

I reassured him that I love him and that I don't want to beef and meant no harm, but I'm not gonna cave and let him force his way up under me again.

I feel so much better now.

Yes ma'am!

I not gonna give in. That's for sure!

I disagree with everything blue eyes said . I think her advice would work for a Taurus with a Venus in Gemini ... That likes sponaiety change and independence / aloofness ... But not someone with a Venus in Taurus .

I think you may possibly just instigate petty fights that may lead to semi great make up sex ... Which would be I guess a plus temporarily but ultimately I think it will be something that will ultimately undermine all of the trust foundation and work you've put into this relationship .

What's his Mars placement —
Also what's yours ??
Your Mars is what most correlates to your sexual style and preference .

Posted by Adreamuponwaking


What's his Mars placement —
Also what's yours ??
Your Mars is what most correlates to your sexual style and preference .

Both of our Mars placement is in Leo. Our charts are very similar being we're only six days apart birthday wise.