I work w/ this taurus boy and he's so coy and secretive about how much he likes me that I'm not even sure if he does like me. It's like I have to pull his teeth for him to be emotionally open. He has said that he likes me, but he usually blows me off when it comes to spending time with me. I'm just really, really confused about what his intentions are w/ me.
So confused about Taurus boy

If your interested in him, just be blunt and tell him you like him and you too can make it work together. thats if you want to be with him. not unless you just want to know,for personal information. but wouldn't be a waste of time to get him to tell you that he likes if if your not interested in being with him? It would be a waste of time. and you just want to led him on, and have him around for attention sake right?

"but he usually blows me off when it comes to spending time with me."
That will tell you all you need to know, there the confusion is over. It isn't hard to say a bunch of stuff you don't mean when you know what the other person wants to hear. Think about it, you go on a job interview & they ask you if you have a problem with tardiness, you know that you do. Are you going to tell the employer the truth or tell them what they want to hear?
The fact is actions do speak louder than words because it takes EFFORT & if he really liked you, he'd make the effort to show you. Maybe he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. You did say that it's like pulling teeth to get him to be emotionally open. Stop asking him. You shouldn't have to, you wouldn't be confused & you wouldn't have to ask if his actions matched his words but they don't which tells you everything you need to know.
That will tell you all you need to know, there the confusion is over. It isn't hard to say a bunch of stuff you don't mean when you know what the other person wants to hear. Think about it, you go on a job interview & they ask you if you have a problem with tardiness, you know that you do. Are you going to tell the employer the truth or tell them what they want to hear?
The fact is actions do speak louder than words because it takes EFFORT & if he really liked you, he'd make the effort to show you. Maybe he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. You did say that it's like pulling teeth to get him to be emotionally open. Stop asking him. You shouldn't have to, you wouldn't be confused & you wouldn't have to ask if his actions matched his words but they don't which tells you everything you need to know.
Thanks for the advice. He asked him a few things today and he told me he's not looking for a relationship and wants to be just friends. Hopefully that line isn't his way of saying, "sorry, you aren't my type." lol

Either that he means, I'm not looking for a relationship, but we can still have sex."
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