Superficial?!!!

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taurusgoddess
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SUPERFICIAL ATTACK OR IS IT ME?!!

My aqua-roomate came home yesterday from work and talked about how after various conversations his co-workers (he's in furniture sales) said he was selfish and judgemental and only does things for himself. He was not impressed and I just laughed (because it confirmed my notes on him). I said said it's no big deal, all those salespeople are probally like that too!

Then he half-jokingly said he had always thought that I was superficial. I am slightly bothered by this now and am analyzing this. I always considered very open to various people.
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venusasapenis
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yu know, ive been called superficial/shallow once in my life-- and it was from someone on a different (extreeeemely superficial) forum whom i had never met. she was into astrology, and i know for sure she just made a blanket statement because she couldnt' stand me and my awesomeness haha 😛

i think it's easy for taureans to get called that because we don't let little shit bother us-- i think it makes us seem careless and lazy, and therefore superficial in that sense, regardless of the many things running through our heads;
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"It comes out when it really matters. Why waste energy on useless things."

Wow! This is what I usually say to people around me... (those truly uptight and "impractical" people. *LOL*

I never get called "superficial" by anyone, but I do have people around me who think I am too "carefree." It's kind of amusing how they think we are "superficial" when in fact we are just more relaxed in our approaches to life. 🙂
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Judgemental people are superficial taurusgoddess.It proves the point in itself just being as they made a judgement before knowing the truth.Have you ever really watched the people who throw that word around to make others look bad,thier constantly whining about stupid,trivial crap.Openness teaches you ALOT more than sitting back and letting YOUR head make it up without giving a second thought that you could be wrong.
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Ah what the hey!! Isn't it funny how we analyse ourselves when we get told stuff we don't like? Personal growth is a fantastic thing. Whether what people tell you about yourself is true or not it still forces you to look within and make conscious choices not to be that way. Thus making us better and more mature people as life goes on. I say embrace it you superficial fools and look deeper within!!
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I hate being around negative people. Hey my friend burned some sweet grass around me the other day. It was really cool and soothing. They were like wiping the smoke on their face and had beautiful candles burning. I heard on the radio today that smells contribute to 75% of our emotions. I know my nose leads me around.
I'm a sucker for a yummy smelling kitchen, or man or ...am I going off track?