Taurus and Silences?

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sheztina
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Posted by idk
find something/someone you can relate with/to.
....
it's easy for me to sit here and say. do this/do that.
and i don't really have, what i pictured my life to be right now...
but...
if you are living, you are breathing... you are doing great, if you ask me.
it's kind of simple i know. but...............
there is much worse that could be happening



I have to agree and I know that given the choice to be slightly pissed off with him or not have him in my life, well.... I can get over being pissed off!lol
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My bull can get REALLY into his work sometimes to the point the entire world disappears and he forgets everything else. I've gotten used to it and it's actually become a little joke between the 2 of us. In the beginning when I was mirroring I would not reach out first as the Virgo in me would not allow it. But as time goes on I tend to just go with my first desire. So if you want to text...text. If you don't...don't. If he's truly interested he will reach out when he gets his head out of the clouds or wherever it's at. But don't be afraid to send a quick: "Hope you have a great 4th" text; it's simple and friendly...nothing wrong with that especially after a week of no contact. Plus you said he has a child. That coupled with an insane schedule is bound to keep him preoccupied with other things. What does your gut tell you? Go with that! Good luck!
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My bull can get REALLY into his work sometimes to the point the entire world disappears and he forgets everything else. I've gotten used to it and it's actually become a little joke between the 2 of us. In the beginning when I was mirroring I would not reach out first as the Virgo in me would not allow it. But as time goes on I tend to just go with my first desire. So if you want to text...text. If you don't...don't. If he's truly interested he will reach out when he gets his head out of the clouds or wherever it's at. But don't be afraid to send a quick: "Hope you have a great 4th" text; it's simple and friendly...nothing wrong with that especially after a week of no contact. Plus you said he has a child. That coupled with an insane schedule is bound to keep him preoccupied with other things. What does your gut tell you? Go with that! Good luck!



Thank you neuroticvirgo! Sometimes just having someone point out what I already know helps!Its like I keep trying to tell myself,if I focus on all the things he HAS done, he's fantastic! But I just get too virgoey and miss him so get myself pissed off for no reason! I'm so glad I found these boards, I prefer talking to strangers than people who know me 🙂
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My bull can get REALLY into his work sometimes to the point the entire world disappears and he forgets everything else. I've gotten used to it and it's actually become a little joke between the 2 of us. In the beginning when I was mirroring I would not reach out first as the Virgo in me would not allow it. But as time goes on I tend to just go with my first desire. So if you want to text...text. If you don't...don't. If he's truly interested he will reach out when he gets his head out of the clouds or wherever it's at. But don't be afraid to send a quick: "Hope you have a great 4th" text; it's simple and friendly...nothing wrong with that especially after a week of no contact. Plus you said he has a child. That coupled with an insane schedule is bound to keep him preoccupied with other things. What does your gut tell you? Go with that! Good luck!



Thank you neuroticvirgo! Sometimes just having someone point out what I already know helps!Its like I keep trying to tell myself,if I focus on all the things he HAS done, he's fantastic! But I just get too virgoey and miss him so get myself pissed off for no reason! I'm so glad I found these boards, I prefer talking to strangers than people who know me 🙂
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Classic Virgo behavior BELIEVE me I was the same way in the beginning. I don't call myself neurotic for nothing. The best advice I can give you is to calm yourself and go with the flow...and believe me the flow will be slow with this guy. But it's worth it for the right bull. As time goes on you will be able to see him making sacrifices for you and your happiness. It's quite wonderful but it takes time.
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Classic Virgo behavior BELIEVE me I was the same way in the beginning. I don't call myself neurotic for nothing. The best advice I can give you is to calm yourself and go with the flow...and believe me the flow will be slow with this guy. But it's worth it for the right bull. As time goes on you will be able to see him making sacrifices for you and your happiness. It's quite wonderful but it takes time.
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Thank you, I really do take all advice on board and it helps bring me out of a stupor. I have decided I will text him later to wish a good weekend off 🙂
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Posted by Langvad
I have had strong feelings for a while for a Taurus girl, and don't know if it's all Tauruses but she is very selfish. How they say Taurus and Cap are a good match is really beyond me at this point. She doesn't remember the important things that I have shared with her and I remember every little thing she shared with me. My point of view is that they can be very self centered!!



Im a Cap too, and was too thru when my Taurus friend didnt remember my birthday. Im like its the same day as your ex bday...how can you not remember??

Mine hasnt text me much this week either, and we've been texting nearly daily for the past few months. I told him he wont see me for a while until i get my broken tooth fixed, and i guess he figured theres no point in talking either smh. Really communication has gone down since then. I started to send something yesterday but thought eff that lol. Ah well.. its like time and time again im reminded i need to let this thing go.
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Posted by sheztina
Its is? How come all I see is a smiley face? I mean I like smiley faces but I like my cat picture more! I can see your adolf pic ( I aint gonna ask)lol



I love your cat pic it's so cuuuute 😄

But anyways. I would just call him. Ill be honest right now if a man really likes you regardless of his sign he will be contacting you. The fact that he's not would make me on high alert. No man is ever too busy for a woman he likes. End of story.

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sheztina
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I love your cat pic it's so cuuuute 😄

But anyways. I would just call him. Ill be honest right now if a man really likes you regardless of his sign he will be contacting you. The fact that he's not would make me on high alert. No man is ever too busy for a woman he likes. End of story.

Thank you, its one of my favourite pics and sayings....
I have sent him a text so will see what happens. The thing is WHEN I do see him, there is no doubt in my mind! I think its just the fact he hasnt been working in this area this week, coupled with the lack of text = my brain goes into overdrive 🙂
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sheztina
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Posted by MilkySoft
No communication in a week? I would only be able to interpret this one way no matter what sign: he's not interested.



As I've said previously he works from 6am till 11pm and its a very stressful job, also I know he has alot of personal problems which makes him switch off and before you say it, I'm not making excuses for him and I am guarded, but I also have to try and see both sides of the coin because on the whole he hasnt ever done anything wrong. Its just one of those times will tell situations, which reading mine and his horoscopes have fortold
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sheztina
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hey... i think you should leave him alone, alone alone.
you need someone like me
i'm hungry. and i get this feeling you like to cook. so why don't we just get freaky? it's an awesome combo. is it going to work?
it seems kinda dyno to me


I do like to cook, but am I good at it? Hmmmm I'm not so sure! and I dont think you being hungry and me cooking is a good idea to get freaky, I mean I dont mind getting freaky but thats usually for some extreme reason, say for example I got a craving for something sweet then you show up at my door with a huge box of chocs! oh dear thats food again......
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saweetz1988
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Posted by TaurusNikki
Is a bull is silent it's not a good sign

If I were u, and u feel uneasy about things, why don't u just flat out ask him what's wrong, I haven't heard from u in awhile are u ok?

It's simple and to the point

If no answer do what u have to do

+10000 if my man doesn't respond to me within a few days .. I will not tolerate . I am a Taurus female but always respond to things unless something is wrong whether I'm no longer interested /confused or angry . Either one if u ask me straight I will tell you as we are honest people n don't play games
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celticlioness
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If you're not interested in having a relationship with someone who doesn't care to keep in touch with you then you shouldn't be tolerating one, regardless of how hard he is working etc. etc. Texts and phone calls can take seconds or minutes - not an awful lot to give to someone you care about. You're texting him and he's not replying—? I'd be telling him to fuck right off with himself.
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Super-Sag
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Mine has been like this 3 weeks . i asked him he told me dealing with this and that . i atarted texting less. give time. I did the happy 4th July! Miss ya text on Thursday. He replied in five min. You too! Been working ass off w things have to work the holiday . Etc. now I'm leaving it be. For good hell either contact when ready or it's done. I feel all these things too pissed hurt confused sad and screw all this . It's brand new and this shit already. Hmmm
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sheztina
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He does work long hours and also has been evicted from his flat so I know he's had a crap week. The virgo part of me is the reason I've still text him once a day.I'm now going to see what happens this week, tomorrows always another day! and I know alot of people wouldnt agree with this but right now the way things are in my life I'd rather have some hope then none at all 🙂
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