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Let me clue u something else. I was married to a taurus twice for ten yrs . Played this bs game five years bforw marriage. It was a nightmare from hell . It is true I felt caged as they say a taurus mskes a sag feel after time. in he was negative depressing hateful and mean. I left he never got over it. I said I'd never even meet another taurus they don't match. It's been many yrs and now I met this one . Gave chance thinking maybe it was just that one was a dick. Well this one was a dream come true but suddenly here I am in the same game. That I am not playing again! And the game better change real quick
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I know my ex taurus. One time said to my face . Go away and don't ever come back!! I did there wasn't any cell phones then nothing. I was crushed omg. Three days later he tracked me down and said oh I'm sorry blah blah come and see me and like a dumbass I did. Then he played this game forever come and go until I had enough and walked!! Then he freaked and asked me to marry him. They always come around when your gone!!
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Iamawinelover
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Posted by Super-Sag
I know he was going through some stuff tho cuz he was telling me about it for a bit when we were together then he just crapped out ... Lol. So I know what all the stuff is. But idk about leavin me hangin during it.. And for how long

OMG, I swear this is my story as well. Everything was wonderful (so I thought) at first and then suddenly the unexpected pull back from him dealing with his issues (not me). I'm a Cappy Lady and I just let my Taurus guy go for this very reason. Not only the silence but also the ignoring my texts that were sporadically sent. Weeks would go by and still...no response from him. He did respond once (surprised me and caught me off guard) and explained a few things, I would respond back and then he was back in his cubby hole again without ever responding back. I felt that I was being played for a fool and the non-communication & keeping me in limbo is a major turn off and deal breaker for me and as a cappy, there is only so much I can take if I feel that we are being played with. I felt I was being tested of some sorts which does not work well with me and I finally had to (in my own polite way) tell him that I was finished. Of course no response from him & I didn't expect one. I hope your situation works out for you! I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
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Iamawinelover
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Posted by Super-Sag
I know my ex taurus. One time said to my face . Go away and don't ever come back!! I did there wasn't any cell phones then nothing. I was crushed omg. Three days later he tracked me down and said oh I'm sorry blah blah come and see me and like a dumbass I did. Then he played this game forever come and go until I had enough and walked!! Then he freaked and asked me to marry him. They always come around when your gone!!

Do they? I often wondered that if they actually do come around once you have had enough. See, I am the type of women that if he said that to me (what he said to you) my response is "ok...can't make you want to see me if you don't" and then I walk.
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Posted by Super-Sag
Yes no matter what sign they come back . After your gone . I have found

I'm sure you're right. I would be surprised if this Taurus guy came back. I did thank him for reminding me of why I choose not to date anymore. And of course silence...LOL. I'm a cappy. I can get my point across without having to call him names (like his ex does). I chose my words wisely when expressing my disappointment to him. Oh well...it was a life lesson for me.
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Yes no matter what sign they come back . After your gone . I have found

I'm sure you're right. I would be surprised if this Taurus guy came back. I did thank him for reminding me of why I choose not to date anymore. And of course silence...LOL. I'm a cappy. I can get my point across without having to call him names (like his ex does). I chose my words wisely when expressing my disappointment to him. Oh well...it was a life lesson for me.
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I dont think capricorn and taurus are that compatible. I mean we are as far as similarity and comfort, but I dont think we pull the needed things out of eachother to make a relationship work honestly. Its like at any time one can go back to their routines or say screw it, and throw it all away. It just seems comfortable, yet like too much work without enough work really being put in if that makes sense. It becomes mentally exhausting more than anything. Two similar "individuals" that are used to doing things their way.

I think Taurus just as much as Capricorn, need an emotional or mental opposite...just someone that can pull something other than comfort and effection out of them. Just my opinion.
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Yes no matter what sign they come back . After your gone . I have found

I'm sure you're right. I would be surprised if this Taurus guy came back. I did thank him for reminding me of why I choose not to date anymore. And of course silence...LOL. I'm a cappy. I can get my point across without having to call him names (like his ex does). I chose my words wisely when expressing my disappointment to him. Oh well...it was a life lesson for me.



I dont think capricorn and taurus are that compatible. I mean we are as far as similarity and comfort, but I dont think we pull the needed things out of eachother to make a relationship work honestly. Its like at any time one can go back to their routines or say screw it, and throw it all away. It just seems comfortable, yet like too much work without enough work really being put in if that makes sense. It becomes mentally exhausting more than anything. Two similar "individuals" that are used to doing things their way.

I think Taurus just as much as Capricorn, need an emotional or mental opposite...just someone that can pull something other than comfort and effection out of them. Just my opinion.
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Hi lnana04! You and Super-Sag could be right. The hot and cold, cat and mouse, push and pull games were too mentally and emotionally draining while I couldn't get an answer from him so with that, I will remove myself from the situation and leave him be. He is who he is. What I am curious about is with reading so many women all over the internet asking about Taurus men and what shall I do and shall I do this and so forth, what are Taurus men doing to convince someone that he is the one? Everything seems to be about what someone has to do to make him like you. Why does everyone else have to do so much work with them while he can sit back and just watch without saying a word? Major turn off and deal breaker for me.
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Posted by Super-Sag
Yes no matter what sign they come back . After your gone . I have found

I'm sure you're right. I would be surprised if this Taurus guy came back. I did thank him for reminding me of why I choose not to date anymore. And of course silence...LOL. I'm a cappy. I can get my point across without having to call him names (like his ex does). I chose my words wisely when expressing my disappointment to him. Oh well...it was a life lesson for me.



I dont think capricorn and taurus are that compatible. I mean we are as far as similarity and comfort, but I dont think we pull the needed things out of eachother to make a relationship work honestly. Its like at any time one can go back to their routines or say screw it, and throw it all away. It just seems comfortable, yet like too much work without enough work really being put in if that makes sense. It becomes mentally exhausting more than anything. Two similar "individuals" that are used to doing things their way.

I think Taurus just as much as Capricorn, need an emotional or mental opposite...just someone that can pull something other than comfort and effection out of them. Just my opinion.

Hi lnana04! You and Super-Sag could be right. The hot and cold, cat and mouse, push and pull games were too mentally and emotionally draining while I couldn't get an answer from him so with that, I will remove myself from the situation and leave him be. He is who he is. What I am curious about is with reading so many women all over the internet asking about Taurus men and what shall I do and shall I do this and so forth, what are Taurus men doing to convince someone that he is the one? Everything seems to be about what someone has to do to make him like you. Why does everyone else have to do so much work with them while he can sit back and just watch without saying a word? Major turn off and deal breaker for me.
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in all honesty it seems to be an earth sign male thing.
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Super-Sag
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I agree . Why am I doin this to myself again . So I told mine goodbye too . Tired of being sad . I said .....I don't understand . Two people who have a great time together that is happy times .and Then lets not talk to each other or see each other and maybe even miss each other ...when time could be happy. Life's too short .! Blah blah blah blah goodbye. Because I broke down and said I miss you . He answered said I do miss you too. And then I added some more how you doing with these issues and nothing back screw it..
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If I am into someone there is no way I would not respond to a text, no matter how busy I am even if it's just to say "hey sorry I'm busy but I'm thinking of ya...can't wait to see you again"...kinda thing.

If I'm annoyed/pissed off/not interested then I'll ignore text messages until they stop.

I'd be asking wtf is up his arse.



that is true. I'm a taurus female and i'm exactly the same. I find that taurus male are different though. They love hiding behind their caves. Most females on here are frustrated by them. I was one at one point ! ...they are slow as hell.... >
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Posted by Super-Sag
Yes no matter what sign they come back . After your gone . I have found

I'm sure you're right. I would be surprised if this Taurus guy came back. I did thank him for reminding me of why I choose not to date anymore. And of course silence...LOL. I'm a cappy. I can get my point across without having to call him names (like his ex does). I chose my words wisely when expressing my disappointment to him. Oh well...it was a life lesson for me.



I dont think capricorn and taurus are that compatible. I mean we are as far as similarity and comfort, but I dont think we pull the needed things out of eachother to make a relationship work honestly. Its like at any time one can go back to their routines or say screw it, and throw it all away. It just seems comfortable, yet like too much work without enough work really being put in if that makes sense. It becomes mentally exhausting more than anything. Two similar "individuals" that are used to doing things their way.

I think Taurus just as much as Capricorn, need an emotional or mental opposite...just someone that can pull something other than comfort and effection out of them. Just my opinion.

Hi lnana04! You and Super-Sag could be right. The hot and cold, cat and mouse, push and pull games were too mentally and emotionally draining while I couldn't get an answer from him so with that, I will remove myself from the situation and leave him be. He is who he is. What I am curious about is with reading so many women all over the internet asking about Taurus men and what shall I do and shall I do this and so forth, what are Taurus men doing to convince someone that he is the one? Everything seems to be about what someone has to do to make him like you. Why does everyone else have to do so much work with them while he can sit back and just watch without saying a word? Major turn off and deal breaker for me.
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@Iamawinelover I am in the opposite boat with a taurus girl and I feel exactly the same what u write! I have tried so much and I am her best guy friend, I have done everything for this girl and experienced
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the push and pull and finally got the words "I just can't see us as a couple" sucks but now I have to do what I need to do and try to forget that I lost someone I saw as my soulmate:/
But again I feel every word u write, either she loses me forever or give the 2 of us a chance, don't think that will happen but then she is gonna have to live without me, because I don't want to be around when she finds a bf who is not me!
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If I am into someone there is no way I would not respond to a text, no matter how busy I am even if it's just to say "hey sorry I'm busy but I'm thinking of ya...can't wait to see you again"...kinda thing.

If I'm annoyed/pissed off/not interested then I'll ignore text messages until they stop.

I'd be asking wtf is up his arse.
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that is true. I'm a taurus female and i'm exactly the same. I find that taurus male are different though. They love hiding behind their caves. Most females on here are frustrated by them. I was one at one point ! ...they are slow as hell.... > See, that is all that I ask for is communication back to me that you have reconized that I reached out to you. That's all. Just saying something similar to what TaurenAries said would go a long way with me but to ignore me entirely because of issues that don't involve me? Give me a break. Yes! Hiding in their caves is right.
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the push and pull and finally got the words "I just can't see us as a couple" sucks but now I have to do what I need to do and try to forget that I lost someone I saw as my soulmate:/
But again I feel every word u write, either she loses me forever or give the 2 of us a chance, don't think that will happen but then she is gonna have to live without me, because I don't want to be around when she finds a bf who is not me!

I am sorry to hear that and then to hear those words is heartbreaking. Well, I know it sounds like a clich?' but it's not you. It's her. My very best friend is a Taurus and throughout our 20 year friendship, she has done the same thing to many men & I kept reminding her that it will all come back to haunt her when she finally finds the "one". Well, let's just say all that I said is coming true because she is now with a Cappy guy and it scares her to death but she has met her match. I thought he could possibly be my soul mate as well. I just recently got myself semi out of the depression stage because I blamed myself for allowing my walls to drop for the first time in many years but now I am back to not wanting to date anyone anymore. It's not only painful but disappointing to me. I hope you're able to get through this somehow. It's her loss, not yours. 🙂 I hope that helps.
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I read a bunch if forums today real answers from taurus men . They want you to chase them and let them know your never gonna leave . No matter what they do,. Well I tried it some more this afternoon for about two hours lol not workin for it I'm the girl!

Exactly! You shouldn't have to try to work that hard for this guy. Not telling you to drop him or anything but it can drive you crazy if you let it get to you. So basically they are testing to see if you are true about how you feel about them and if they can trust that you won't leave, correct? Again, my question is while the chasing is going on, what are they contributing to the situation to keep my interest in them? That makes no sense. It's a one way street. That doesn't work for me and I had to put my foot down in my situation. As I always say, I can't make a man like me either you do or you don't. It's just that plain simple.
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the push and pull and finally got the words "I just can't see us as a couple" sucks but now I have to do what I need to do and try to forget that I lost someone I saw as my soulmate:/
But again I feel every word u write, either she loses me forever or give the 2 of us a chance, don't think that will happen but then she is gonna have to live without me, because I don't want to be around when she finds a bf who is not me!

I am sorry to hear that and then to hear those words is heartbreaking. Well, I know it sounds like a clich?' but it's not you. It's her. My very best friend is a Taurus and throughout our 20 year friendship, she has done the same thing to many men & I kept reminding her that it will all come back to haunt her when she finally finds the "one". Well, let's just say all that I said is coming true because she is now with a Cappy guy and it scares her to death but she has met her match. I thought he could possibly be my soul mate as well. I just recently got myself semi out of the depression stage because I blamed myself for allowing my walls to drop for the first time in many years but now I am back to not wanting to date anyone anymore. It's not only painful but disappointing to me. I hope you're able to get through this somehow. It's her loss, not yours. 🙂 I hope that helps.
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@Iamawinelover, Thanks for the kind words. To be honest I really hope she will find some douche like her ex and who will treat her the same way as he did, so she can think about how I treat her and how good I am to her. And I'm totally opposite of the guys she falls for apparently, I have this kind of badboy look and have trained/coached MMA, but my softer side is that I would go through anything for the right one and I have never hit nor will I ever hit a girl, like her ex did. I even told her that I would smack him around abit for her if she wanted me to. Why not try another type who would actually be faithfull to u and never leave u torn and broken but will support u like no one else, I can't understand it:/
I can totally relate to "It's not only painful but disappointing to me" exactly how I feel right now.
I does help abit actually that u think it is her loss eventhough I feel it is my loss right now😢
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Posted by TaureanAries
If I am into someone there is no way I would not respond to a text, no matter how busy I am even if it's just to say "hey sorry I'm busy but I'm thinking of ya...can't wait to see you again"...kinda thing.

If I'm annoyed/pissed off/not interested then I'll ignore text messages until they stop.

I'd be asking wtf is up his arse.

If he said something like what you said above, I could live with that and I would give him all of the space he needs yet gladly give him some attention as well. You shouldn't play with people's emotions when it comes to the affairs of the heart. When you do, you end up losing out on a good thing all because they want to "test" someone's true intentions.
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Posted by lnana04
Langvad, I dont think she had enough time to get over her ex.

Just think, before you im sure she felt the guy she was with wasbher soulmate. they were married right? things like that take time to get over and there's no one person that can come and instantly erase the past.

if nothing else, od appreciate the honesty. now you know, now you can move on.



I hear what u are saying but she actually said one time that she was tired of her ex husband, and thought about just going out and be with another guy just to get him off her back for good. So I guess it is just me she doesn't want when I hear something like that:/

I think there's is some truth to what u are saying but again, she made it sound like there's never gonna be a chance for her and I to end up together. So obviously it is me, and that is hard for me to think about because she wasn't exactly my type either, but her personality did it for me and made her beautiful and perfect for me, because it made me rise above the physical BS as I thought we had something very spiritual, the way we could read eachother without talking and so on.
Anyway if she doesn't want me the way I want her, then yes, there is nothing else for me to do than move on.

Just wanted to clarify the ex husband thing as it was not that much black and white with her as far as I'm concerned. People at our gym came up and asked me if we were together because they could tell from our bodylanguage and her and I touching eachother all the time, that we were a couple, so it is not just me who thought that there was something special between us, but I was wrong I guess 😢
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Hello everyone in the same boat! The only difference between yesterday morning and three weeks ago when he started playin crazy is . I told him goodbye and I have myself esteem ! I still can't get it out of my head and so sick of it . But things always change one way or the other . This is the first person I let in my life after two yrs and this is what I get .. I also am sick of all the years if dating . It's too much to go through. I shoulda stayed happy and single like I was a few months ago .. Now I just have a broken heart I did not need . Grrrr
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Wine lover . Yes that's what I read a lot of.. To chase them. What do we get out of it ? What we are getting . Bs . I decided I'm not doing it again . So it's either sit on his back burner and tell him all these great things he want to hear while you keep the communication alive just for an occasional answer . Or leave. Either way it's gonna be what was meant to be . But why be a doormat
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She didn't say that was the reason, I think if she said that then maybe she would feel that she would lead me on, instead she just hurt me worst possible way. But like I said nothing I can do about it. She knows exactly how I feel about her and if she is no way near that, then I know how things will be like for us, and that is me getting over her, hopefully as fast as possible but I guess things like this take time. But I can't do this to myself anymore, I am a good person and usually very happy and positive so all this getting down on myself feeling like I am worth nothing is just not the usual me, and I hate that!
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what is really up with the bulls...is it their 'season' or something? I've had similar situation with taurus guy.. he seemed so interested in me and then out of a sudden, BOOM! He stopped communicating with me and we're coworkers too.. I think 3 weeks is too much of no contact with a person you like regardless of situation...No holla at him... Go with your gut instinct, trust me if you feel he's lost interest then there's nothing you can do about it.. as much as we women still tend to try to change things to back as they used to be...the fact is they will never be as they used to...they're always changing for better or worse.. earth is spinning, life is moving... I learned it the hard way, over and over again.. you gotta accept it and move on to BETTER things.. or at least establish that type of an attitude... What you seek is what you get.