Taurus baby sister in love with shady Libra

Posted by dolluxe
Then I must be a weirdo Libra since I can't stand infidelity. Been cheated on in the past. By a Taurus man. Blame the person not the sign.

Anyway OP your sister's Libra seems to be an immature asshole. You can give her advice to leave but she's a Taurus and would probably be too stubborn to listen. If you've done your part but she still wouldn't listen to reason then just let her learn life's lessons alone.

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Posted by Shrewdsharp

Posted by dolluxe
Then I must be a weirdo Libra since I can't stand infidelity. Been cheated on in the past. By a Taurus man. Blame the person not the sign.

Anyway OP your sister's Libra seems to be an immature asshole. You can give her advice to leave but she's a Taurus and would probably be too stubborn to listen. If you've done your part but she still wouldn't listen to reason then just let her learn life's lessons alone.

So are you suggesting to just leave her alone and let her do her thing?

I'm suggesting you give her advice which is to leave the bastard now. If the Taurus stubbornness kicks in, you can't do much but let her learn for herself.

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Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Let her learn this valuable lesson. She'll wise up eventually.

If you insist on saying something to her, be gentle, make sure she knows you're saying it out of concern, don't use dramatic language, don't make her feel like she's stupid for falling for his games and only say it once. She'll dig her heels in super duper hard if you nag. Oh and let her know if she wants to talk to you, you won't judge her for anything she tells you.

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Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Let her learn this valuable lesson. She'll wise up eventually.

If you insist on saying something to her, be gentle, make sure she knows you're saying it out of concern, don't use dramatic language, don't make her feel like she's stupid for falling for his games and only say it once. She'll dig her heels in super duper hard if you nag. Oh and let her know if she wants to talk to you, you won't judge her for anything she tells you.

I am not insisting, maybe she should learn her lesson. Are you a Taurus?

Nah I'm a Taurus moon with a Taurus moon sis, Taurus mum and Taurus friends. We are sooooo stubborn that we need to learn a lesson before we change our ways.

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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Shrewdsharp
My baby sister; sun in Taurus, Venus in Gemini is in love with a Libra man who treats her like shit. How much does Venus play a part in attraction? The Libra male is a spoiled player 10-years her junior with 3 women. Because of her stubborn nature, I have remained silent for 3 years and watched my beautiful sweet loving warm giving generous Taurus sister buy this man, give him money, send him flowers, give him a key to her apartment and he in return gives very little. He may or may not sleep with her, he will let a month or two pass without returning any of her calls or texts, and he may or may not acknowledge her calls. Recently I have seen some highly intelligent Taurus give thought provoking insight on this forum, and I decided to post this question and ask for feedback regarding how to best handle this situation. Is it best to continue to just keep my mouth shut, or will you listen to your big sister? I thought if I spoke to her about it would make her more stubborn to hold onto the relationship...am I right? If I do voice my concern 'how should i approach the situation?" Thank you in advance.

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Libras are the "Fake Flakes of the zodiac"... 3 years of your sister putting up with that shit is bad.

It'll be 2017 in around 6 weeks... New year fresh start... Time to make some changes and that means kicking that piece of shit to the curb...

Help her get a new image, build up her self esteem so she can get strong enough to put her shoe size up his crack.... ?

Posted by TaurusinTexas
I have 2 older sisters and respect both very much even if I tend to think they can be emotional basket cases. ? Anyway, I would listen, even if i act like I'm not, if you come at me calm and reasonable. And I'm going to need to real evidence, specific examples of his behavior and then examples of what love looks like, so I can dissect and really drill down it all in my head.

Now I may give you, the mind your own business and get stubborn act but I heard you, I need time to think about it. And most likely I know he's crap but I can't avoid it any longer, when I know other ppl see him as that as well. But you have to remain calm and unemotional with your arguments - at least for me.

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Posted by Shrewdsharp
My baby sister; sun in Taurus, Venus in Gemini is in love with a Libra man who treats her like shit. How much does Venus play a part in attraction? The Libra male is a spoiled player 10-years her junior with 3 women. Because of her stubborn nature, I have remained silent for 3 years and watched my beautiful sweet loving warm giving generous Taurus sister buy this man, give him money, send him flowers, give him a key to her apartment and he in return gives very little. He may or may not sleep with her, he will let a month or two pass without returning any of her calls or texts, and he may or may not acknowledge her calls. Recently I have seen some highly intelligent Taurus give thought provoking insight on this forum, and I decided to post this question and ask for feedback regarding how to best handle this situation. Is it best to continue to just keep my mouth shut, or will you listen to your big sister? I thought if I spoke to her about it would make her more stubborn to hold onto the relationship...am I right? If I do voice my concern 'how should i approach the situation?" Thank you in advance.

Libras are the "Fake Flakes of the zodiac"... 3 years of your sister putting up with that shit is bad.

It'll be 2017 in around 6 weeks... New year fresh start... Time to make some changes and that means kicking that piece of shit to the curb...

Help her get a new image, build up her self esteem so she can get strong enough to put her shoe size up his crack.... ?

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Posted by Mayygoo
I have to comment, because your sister reminds me of me ! I am a taurus sun, Gemini moon, Gemini Venus I have been in love with a Libra sun, Scorpio moon, Libra Mercury, Virgo Venus for most of my adult life. Tell your sister to get the hell out now ! She has to move on and date other people. She has to remember how good life was before him and find someone to appreciate her! Tell her not to worry he'll come back sniffing around

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
You can't tell her what to do. Because we get more stubborn and hard headed, and we actually have to go through this bullshit and probably a long time before we do pull the plug on some jaded ass. Don't worry a time will come but it has to be her decision and if she has air placements it will help later but not now.

Posted by jeane
i'd like to take this opportunity on behalf of all librans to apologise.

what is wrong with these libran guys? it seems it's more than one bad apple. it seems like the rule with the good ones being the exception.

Posted by VenusStar
Dont criticize him because you dont like jim. She knows that. What she doesnt seem to know is that she should uphold standards in her relationship and herself and her mate. Dont give yourself and your heart to be abused, tossed aside , stomped on and ignored. I would keep driving that point home. Thd guy she is with should love her all the time with action and words.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Hopefully she's protecting her self and won't catch an std from him or worse, a kid.

Hard to move on from someone if you have a kid tying you together for life.

Posted by Shrewdsharp

Posted by jeane
i'd like to take this opportunity on behalf of all librans to apologise.

what is wrong with these libran guys? it seems it's more than one bad apple. it seems like the rule with the good ones being the exception.

Thanks Jeane, but Jeane he has shown - Is shown a real word? Whatever... he doesn't pretend to be something he is not. He has consistently demonstrated his lack of interest, effort, or desire to be anything but a casual fling. She chooses to allow him to mistreat her, over and over again.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Hopefully she's protecting her self and won't catch an std from him or worse, a kid.

Hard to move on from someone if you have a kid tying you together for life.

We are old, LOL, I know I called her my little sister, but she will always be my little sister. But she has 4 grown children.

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Posted by jeane
i'd like to take this opportunity on behalf of all librans to apologise.

what is wrong with these libran guys? it seems it's more than one bad apple. it seems like the rule with the good ones being the exception.

Thanks Jeane, but Jeane he has shown - Is shown a real word? Whatever... he doesn't pretend to be something he is not. He has consistently demonstrated his lack of interest, effort, or desire to be anything but a casual fling. She chooses to allow him to mistreat her, over and over again.

True but libras are all supposed to be about fairness and seeing a number of competing views. Shameful that he should mistreat her all. Where are his morals? It just seems libran men on the whole (from what you read here) are self centred and uncaring when it comes to others.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by Shrewdsharp

Posted by jeane
i'd like to take this opportunity on behalf of all librans to apologise.

what is wrong with these libran guys? it seems it's more than one bad apple. it seems like the rule with the good ones being the exception.

Thanks Jeane, but Jeane he has shown - Is shown a real word? Whatever... he doesn't pretend to be something he is not. He has consistently demonstrated his lack of interest, effort, or desire to be anything but a casual fling. She chooses to allow him to mistreat her, over and over again.

True but libras are all supposed to be about fairness and seeing a number of competing views. Shameful that he should mistreat her all. Where are his morals? It just seems libran men on the whole (from what you read here) are self centred and uncaring when it comes to others.

maybe we just need more Libra men like @Tiziani to show us the better side of the Libra man - maybe we just have heard an excess of this and it seems that way ... although it does seem that way doesn't it lol omg!

It's probably tied into the rep of the sign being "fair". Once a man is walking around with that rep, a lot of people will assume it's the time to take him for a mark. You see a lot of women post on here about their story of being shocked when they're not really shocked. It's a con.

Besides, the people who are satisfied in their relationship are often too busy having sex to post here. It is what it is.

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Posted by tiziani

Posted by tcta

Posted by jeane

Posted by Shrewdsharp

Posted by jeane
i'd like to take this opportunity on behalf of all librans to apologise.

what is wrong with these libran guys? it seems it's more than one bad apple. it seems like the rule with the good ones being the exception.

Thanks Jeane, but Jeane he has shown - Is shown a real word? Whatever... he doesn't pretend to be something he is not. He has consistently demonstrated his lack of interest, effort, or desire to be anything but a casual fling. She chooses to allow him to mistreat her, over and over again.

True but libras are all supposed to be about fairness and seeing a number of competing views. Shameful that he should mistreat her all. Where are his morals? It just seems libran men on the whole (from what you read here) are self centred and uncaring when it comes to others.

maybe we just need more Libra men like @Tiziani to show us the better side of the Libra man - maybe we just have heard an excess of this and it seems that way ... although it does seem that way doesn't it lol omg!

It's probably tied into the rep of the sign being "fair". Once a man is walking around with that rep, a lot of people will assume it's the time to take him for a mark. You see a lot of women post on here about their story of being shocked when they're not really shocked. It's a con.

Besides, the people who are satisfied in their relationship are often too busy having sex to post here. It is what it is.

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Posted by TaurusinTexas
I have 2 older sisters and respect both very much even if I tend to think they can be emotional basket cases. ? Anyway, I would listen, even if i act like I'm not, if you come at me calm and reasonable. And I'm going to need to real evidence, specific examples of his behavior and then examples of what love looks like, so I can dissect and really drill down it all in my head.

Now I may give you, the mind your own business and get stubborn act but I heard you, I need time to think about it. And most likely I know he's crap but I can't avoid it any longer, when I know other ppl see him as that as well. But you have to remain calm and unemotional with your arguments - at least for me.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
You can't tell her what to do. Because we get more stubborn and hard headed, and we actually have to go through this bullshit and probably a long time before we do pull the plug on some jaded ass. Don't worry a time will come but it has to be her decision and if she has air placements it will help later but not now.