capricorngirl25
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Taurus Boyfriend unprotected sex and leaving Capricorn girl high & dry thoughts??
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He did over react a bit, but you also didn't help the cause here.
Posted by earlorg16thank you, do u think i should text him first? or wait for him to calm down and text me?
He did over react a bit, but you also didn't help the cause here.
Few questions I have...
1. Are you on birth control?
2. Did you both get tested and share your results?
1. Are you on birth control?
2. Did you both get tested and share your results?
How old are both of you?
This is why I do not date Taurus men they are so petty and over the top. Ugh..
Posted by LadyNeptuneHi LadyNeptune 🙂
Few questions I have...
1. Are you on birth control?
2. Did you both get tested and share your results?
1.Yes I am on birth control and I reassured him that I am very responsible and if I even have any doubts like lets say took pill late or w/e I would get the morning after pill, just to show him how responsible I am about not wanting to get preg.
2. No we didn't, but he explained to me his issue wasn't with unprotected sex, it was more about the ejaculating inside me. But I told him pre-cum contains just as much active sperm as actual sperm so there would be no difference.
Posted by cvurkoI understand where I messed up and I am ready to apologize but I think it's kind of fckd up he left me to find my own way home no?
Nobody is at fault, you two just have some kind of communication problem. Either work it out or break it off for good ^^
Posted by DivaCanLeoHi Diva,
So in the middle of sex you stopped him lol to remind him he doesn't want to have sex
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No I just stopped/slowed down to kind of look for a signal if he was going to finish inside or not? Just confused because of our talk the previous night?
Posted by jeaneHe is 26 years old I just turned 28
How old are both of you?
I'd call him if I were you.
Posted by EveryOunceI know 😢 but he works so well with me every other time
This is why I do not date Taurus men they are so petty and over the top. Ugh..
Posted by capricorngirl25Posted by EveryOunceI know 😢 but he works so well with me every other time
This is why I do not date Taurus men they are so petty and over the top. Ugh..click to expand
The stubborness and inability to talk things out without having a fit and storming off is too much sometimes. And they bever get over ANYTHING! This argument will come up for years to come.
Posted by Capri__unicornHaha! Wow! hit the nail on the head here, and yes you are correct about the fights thing...I don't think i do it intentionally but yes you are right. Can you give me some insight about Taurus men work in fights? This is kind of our first actual fight and I'm not sure what to expect here...hes posting snap chats like nothing happened and he seems fine, but I'm feeling sad and depressed and confused whats going on between us? if he's going to text or I should 😢 thanks for ur response btwPosted by earlorg16Agree here...I'm a cap w/ a Taurus and it gets real sometimes but this sounded so unnecessarily dramatic. Had me thinking about times I dragged out something and how annoying it must have been. He offered to wait for you, you basically told him no...so he leaves...and now you're mad because he did. What did you want him to do— Stop being a cap lol say what u mean and mean what u say. What u thought he would do is wait around and beg u...whether you'll admit it or not if you're anything like me you're looking for reassurance through fights...if he takes it and sticks around it means he loves u....that's not how these men work. You have to relax.
He did over react a bit, but you also didn't help the cause here.click to expand
Posted by EveryOunceMy best friend(girl) is a Taurus and she storms off a lot, esp when she doesn't get her wayPosted by capricorngirl25Posted by EveryOunceI know 😢 but he works so well with me every other time
This is why I do not date Taurus men they are so petty and over the top. Ugh..
The stubborness and inability to talk things out without having a fit and storming off is too much sometimes. And they bever get over ANYTHING! This argument will come up for years to come.
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Posted by capricorngirl25Just text him or call like I said. Talk things out. Transparency is key. Don't go around trying to break into his phone either. Learn to trust him. Learn to communicate. If we're physically there with you, we are making an effort to be with you. If you question us, when we're showing you we want you, that's a slap to the face, especially if it's during sex. Don't be afraid to talk it out.Posted by Capri__unicornHaha! Wow! hit the nail on the head here, and yes you are correct about the fights thing...I don't think i do it intentionally but yes you are right. Can you give me some insight about Taurus men work in fights? This is kind of our first actual fight and I'm not sure what to expect here...hes posting snap chats like nothing happened and he seems fine, but I'm feeling sad and depressed and confused whats going on between us? if he's going to text or I should 😢 thanks for ur response btwPosted by earlorg16Agree here...I'm a cap w/ a Taurus and it gets real sometimes but this sounded so unnecessarily dramatic. Had me thinking about times I dragged out something and how annoying it must have been. He offered to wait for you, you basically told him no...so he leaves...and now you're mad because he did. What did you want him to do— Stop being a cap lol say what u mean and mean what u say. What u thought he would do is wait around and beg u...whether you'll admit it or not if you're anything like me you're looking for reassurance through fights...if he takes it and sticks around it means he loves u....that's not how these men work. You have to relax.
He did over react a bit, but you also didn't help the cause here.click to expand
Posted by capricorngirl25Look it's really irresponsible of you both to fuck raw without establishing that you are both clean. Please be a responsible adult about sex and get tested with future partners. Please help halt the spread of disease.Posted by LadyNeptuneHi LadyNeptune 🙂
Few questions I have...
1. Are you on birth control?
2. Did you both get tested and share your results?
1.Yes I am on birth control and I reassured him that I am very responsible and if I even have any doubts like lets say took pill late or w/e I would get the morning after pill, just to show him how responsible I am about not wanting to get preg.
2. No we didn't, but he explained to me his issue wasn't with unprotected sex, it was more about the ejaculating inside me. But I told him pre-cum contains just as much active sperm as actual sperm so there would be no difference.click to expand
As for your story here, he got offended when you stopped him during sex. His ego was bruised and he lashed out. That's only natural most men, and women, would be offended by this. Especially when inebriated. However what you need to question here is if you want to be with someone that prefers to run when things get tough. He bailed on you and left you in another city to fend for yourself and that just isn't cool.
Your asking how YOU can fix things when in all actuality HE should be the one to get on his knees and beg you to take his ass back.
Is he gonna ditch you every time you have an argument? That's what I'd be wondering if I was in your shoes...
Posted by PVandJellyHe is, he's in the entertainment industry and is a pretty big name there. I think I want to get back together, I have never clicked with anyone or met anyone that knows me so well as he does, and something keeps drawing me back into him. in an ideal world i would like to talk to him face to face and hear what he has to say and say my part and figure out a way for us to communicate better so a fight like this doesn't happen again and escalate as bad as this did, and yes get back together if it seems right.
He seems kind of petty and self entitled. After he left you at the hotel, kind of seems like the romance is over. What do you want? Do you want to get back together?
Posted by LadyNeptuneThank you, I already made an appointment with my doctor for testing last week. And it seems very right what you said about his ego getting bruised and him running. I don't understand how he texted me he would wait for me, then just because he didn't get a text back he left me? your right.Posted by capricorngirl25Look it's really irresponsible of you both to fuck raw without establishing that you are both clean. Please be a responsible adult about sex and get tested with future partners. Please help halt the spread of disease.Posted by LadyNeptuneHi LadyNeptune 🙂
Few questions I have...
1. Are you on birth control?
2. Did you both get tested and share your results?
1.Yes I am on birth control and I reassured him that I am very responsible and if I even have any doubts like lets say took pill late or w/e I would get the morning after pill, just to show him how responsible I am about not wanting to get preg.
2. No we didn't, but he explained to me his issue wasn't with unprotected sex, it was more about the ejaculating inside me. But I told him pre-cum contains just as much active sperm as actual sperm so there would be no difference.
As for your story here, he got offended when you stopped him during sex. His ego was bruised and he lashed out. That's only natural most men, and women, would be offended by this. Especially when inebriated. However what you need to question here is if you want to be with someone that prefers to run when things get tough. He bailed on you and left you in another city to fend for yourself and that just isn't cool.
Your asking how YOU can fix things when in all actuality HE should be the one to get on his knees and beg you to take his ass back.
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Posted by capricorngirl25Let her. When you don't give to their temper tantrums they have no one to be petty with.Posted by EveryOunceMy best friend(girl) is a Taurus and she storms off a lot, esp when she doesn't get her wayPosted by capricorngirl25Posted by EveryOunceI know 😢 but he works so well with me every other time
This is why I do not date Taurus men they are so petty and over the top. Ugh..
The stubborness and inability to talk things out without having a fit and storming off is too much sometimes. And they bever get over ANYTHING! This argument will come up for years to come.
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Posted by capricorngirl25You handled things badly. However he bailed on you all together. If you cared about someone would you ever just leave them without a means to get home? The answer is obviously no.Posted by LadyNeptuneThank you, I already made an appointment with my doctor for testing last week. And it seems very right what you said about his ego getting bruised and him running. I don't understand how he texted me he would wait for me, then just because he didn't get a text back he left me? your right.Posted by capricorngirl25Look it's really irresponsible of you both to fuck raw without establishing that you are both clean. Please be a responsible adult about sex and get tested with future partners. Please help halt the spread of disease.Posted by LadyNeptuneHi LadyNeptune 🙂
Few questions I have...
1. Are you on birth control?
2. Did you both get tested and share your results?
1.Yes I am on birth control and I reassured him that I am very responsible and if I even have any doubts like lets say took pill late or w/e I would get the morning after pill, just to show him how responsible I am about not wanting to get preg.
2. No we didn't, but he explained to me his issue wasn't with unprotected sex, it was more about the ejaculating inside me. But I told him pre-cum contains just as much active sperm as actual sperm so there would be no difference.
As for your story here, he got offended when you stopped him during sex. His ego was bruised and he lashed out. That's only natural most men, and women, would be offended by this. Especially when inebriated. However what you need to question here is if you want to be with someone that prefers to run when things get tough. He bailed on you and left you in another city to fend for yourself and that just isn't cool.
Your asking how YOU can fix things when in all actuality HE should be the one to get on his knees and beg you to take his ass back.
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It would be a completely different story if he booked you a flight or left you money for a bus...
Posted by Capri__unicornYes def the talk it out and him wanting space, we definitely love to talk it out haha we want to fix conflict right there and then and be happy and not want things to be awkward, they love to go off for hours or days to think and come back. I don't even know if he's still with me? I told him to just break up with me and leave and he said fine, i know it was heated argument but I'm not sure if we are still together or not? I'm guessing not?.. Yes taurus and virgo are our top guys. My ex was a virgo but he was too overly top attentive to me, and my taurus guy knows just the right amount, thats why i prefer them...but I'm not sure if i can handle taurus guys :/Posted by capricorngirl25Of course it's not intentional and I think we don't realize it until someone else points it out. I can only speak for the Taurus I've dealt with. After fights they act like everything is fine publically. Mine would go out w/the boys...act completely unbothered but his family would tell me about him being extremely sad about it. He wouldn't sulk but he would feel bad. I still struggle with how different he is from me with conflict. I wanna talk it out and he just wants his space to think. If he's your boyfriend he's chosen to be with you...you have to be confident in that and stop worrying about his silence being an indication of disinterest. The cap Taurus dynamic is a powerful connection but your wires will get crossed if you don't learn to understand each otherPosted by Capri__unicornHaha! Wow! hit the nail on the head here, and yes you are correct about the fights thing...I don't think i do it intentionally but yes you are right. Can you give me some insight about Taurus men work in fights? This is kind of our first actual fight and I'm not sure what to expect here...hes posting snap chats like nothing happened and he seems fine, but I'm feeling sad and depressed and confused whats going on between us? if he's going to text or I should 😢 thanks for ur response btwPosted by earlorg16Agree here...I'm a cap w/ a Taurus and it gets real sometimes but this sounded so unnecessarily dramatic. Had me thinking about times I dragged out something and how annoying it must have been. He offered to wait for you, you basically told him no...so he leaves...and now you're mad because he did. What did you want him to do— Stop being a cap lol say what u mean and mean what u say. What u thought he would do is wait around and beg u...whether you'll admit it or not if you're anything like me you're looking for reassurance through fights...if he takes it and sticks around it means he loves u....that's not how these men work. You have to relax.
He did over react a bit, but you also didn't help the cause here.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneAgreed LadyNeptune, he came back a couple times asking me to leave, then he said he would leave me his car and uber home (guessing he looked at prices and decided no) but eventually all that doesn't matter just matters what he did in the end which is leave. oh & never text me and ask me if i got back even?!Posted by capricorngirl25You handled things badly. However he bailed on you all together. If you cared about someone would you ever just leave them without a means to get home? The answer is obviously no.Posted by LadyNeptuneThank you, I already made an appointment with my doctor for testing last week. And it seems very right what you said about his ego getting bruised and him running. I don't understand how he texted me he would wait for me, then just because he didn't get a text back he left me? your right.Posted by capricorngirl25Look it's really irresponsible of you both to fuck raw without establishing that you are both clean. Please be a responsible adult about sex and get tested with future partners. Please help halt the spread of disease.Posted by LadyNeptuneHi LadyNeptune 🙂
Few questions I have...
1. Are you on birth control?
2. Did you both get tested and share your results?
1.Yes I am on birth control and I reassured him that I am very responsible and if I even have any doubts like lets say took pill late or w/e I would get the morning after pill, just to show him how responsible I am about not wanting to get preg.
2. No we didn't, but he explained to me his issue wasn't with unprotected sex, it was more about the ejaculating inside me. But I told him pre-cum contains just as much active sperm as actual sperm so there would be no difference.
As for your story here, he got offended when you stopped him during sex. His ego was bruised and he lashed out. That's only natural most men, and women, would be offended by this. Especially when inebriated. However what you need to question here is if you want to be with someone that prefers to run when things get tough. He bailed on you and left you in another city to fend for yourself and that just isn't cool.
Your asking how YOU can fix things when in all actuality HE should be the one to get on his knees and beg you to take his ass back.
It would be a completely different story if he booked you a flight or left you money for a bus...click to expand
Posted by EveryOuncehaha exactly 😉Posted by capricorngirl25Let her. When you don't give to their temper tantrums they have no one to be petty with.Posted by EveryOunceMy best friend(girl) is a Taurus and she storms off a lot, esp when she doesn't get her wayPosted by capricorngirl25Posted by EveryOunceI know 😢 but he works so well with me every other time
This is why I do not date Taurus men they are so petty and over the top. Ugh..
The stubborness and inability to talk things out without having a fit and storming off is too much sometimes. And they bever get over ANYTHING! This argument will come up for years to come.
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Just call him and sort it out. At least you'll know where you stand.
Posted by DivaCanLeoI know I really should have...looking back on it...but whenever alcohol comes into play 😢 shit gets messy feelings are all over the placePosted by capricorngirl25Are you protected?Posted by DivaCanLeoHi Diva,
So in the middle of sex you stopped him lol to remind him he doesn't want to have sex
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No I just stopped/slowed down to kind of look for a signal if he was going to finish inside or not? Just confused because of our talk the previous night?
Why not just go with the flowclick to expand
Posted by jeaneThat's whats killing me the most thank you!
Just call him and sort it out. At least you'll know where you stand.
I got anxious just by reading this.
Girl calm down and loosen up a bit, it's okay. Everything's okay.
I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion to the max tbh :/
Girl calm down and loosen up a bit, it's okay. Everything's okay.
I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion to the max tbh :/
Posted by cvurkoIt doesn't get any more real than that. Thank you i appreciate your insightPosted by capricorngirl25In my opinion it is fcked up and personally i would just end it right away. But it is your decision and i dont want to bias it with my fav "if i were you..." statement. Truth is none of us knows the true nature of your relationship and can make an objective suggestion on the basis of what you shared.Posted by cvurkoI understand where I messed up and I am ready to apologize but I think it's kind of fckd up he left me to find my own way home no?
Nobody is at fault, you two just have some kind of communication problem. Either work it out or break it off for good ^^
So i decided that the only objective advice i can give you is to either worj on your communication problems or break it off. Its up to you and your moral values to define whether what he did is forgivable or not.click to expand
Posted by capricorngirl25If he does reach out to you and wants to get back together its imperative that you let him know his behavior is hurtful and unacceptable, preferably in person not over the phone. If you don't make that known then you are sending him the message that his behavior is fine and he will continue to walk all over you and treat you with disrespect.Posted by LadyNeptuneAgreed LadyNeptune, he came back a couple times asking me to leave, then he said he would leave me his car and uber home (guessing he looked at prices and decided no) but eventually all that doesn't matter just matters what he did in the end which is leave. oh & never text me and ask me if i got back even?!Posted by capricorngirl25You handled things badly. However he bailed on you all together. If you cared about someone would you ever just leave them without a means to get home? The answer is obviously no.Posted by LadyNeptuneThank you, I already made an appointment with my doctor for testing last week. And it seems very right what you said about his ego getting bruised and him running. I don't understand how he texted me he would wait for me, then just because he didn't get a text back he left me? your right.Posted by capricorngirl25Look it's really irresponsible of you both to fuck raw without establishing that you are both clean. Please be a responsible adult about sex and get tested with future partners. Please help halt the spread of disease.Posted by LadyNeptuneHi LadyNeptune 🙂
Few questions I have...
1. Are you on birth control?
2. Did you both get tested and share your results?
1.Yes I am on birth control and I reassured him that I am very responsible and if I even have any doubts like lets say took pill late or w/e I would get the morning after pill, just to show him how responsible I am about not wanting to get preg.
2. No we didn't, but he explained to me his issue wasn't with unprotected sex, it was more about the ejaculating inside me. But I told him pre-cum contains just as much active sperm as actual sperm so there would be no difference.
As for your story here, he got offended when you stopped him during sex. His ego was bruised and he lashed out. That's only natural most men, and women, would be offended by this. Especially when inebriated. However what you need to question here is if you want to be with someone that prefers to run when things get tough. He bailed on you and left you in another city to fend for yourself and that just isn't cool.
Your asking how YOU can fix things when in all actuality HE should be the one to get on his knees and beg you to take his ass back.
It would be a completely different story if he booked you a flight or left you money for a bus...click to expand
Setting boundaries and communicating is so important at the beginning of relationships.
Posted by SunsetvirgoSo you wouldn't be hurt and feeling a certain way if your boyfriend abandoned you in another city and left you to find your way home? Common be real.
I got anxious just by reading this.
Girl calm down and loosen up a bit, it's okay. Everything's okay.
I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion to the max tbh :/
Posted by earlorg16thank youPosted by capricorngirl25Just text him or call like I said. Talk things out. Transparency is key. Don't go around trying to break into his phone either. Learn to trust him. Learn to communicate. If we're physically there with you, we are making an effort to be with you. If you question us, when we're showing you we want you, that's a slap to the face, especially if it's during sex. Don't be afraid to talk it out.Posted by Capri__unicornHaha! Wow! hit the nail on the head here, and yes you are correct about the fights thing...I don't think i do it intentionally but yes you are right. Can you give me some insight about Taurus men work in fights? This is kind of our first actual fight and I'm not sure what to expect here...hes posting snap chats like nothing happened and he seems fine, but I'm feeling sad and depressed and confused whats going on between us? if he's going to text or I should 😢 thanks for ur response btwPosted by earlorg16Agree here...I'm a cap w/ a Taurus and it gets real sometimes but this sounded so unnecessarily dramatic. Had me thinking about times I dragged out something and how annoying it must have been. He offered to wait for you, you basically told him no...so he leaves...and now you're mad because he did. What did you want him to do— Stop being a cap lol say what u mean and mean what u say. What u thought he would do is wait around and beg u...whether you'll admit it or not if you're anything like me you're looking for reassurance through fights...if he takes it and sticks around it means he loves u....that's not how these men work. You have to relax.
He did over react a bit, but you also didn't help the cause here.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneI would be.Posted by SunsetvirgoSo you wouldn't be hurt and feeling a certain way if your boyfriend abandoned you in another city and left you to find your way home? Common be real.
I got anxious just by reading this.
Girl calm down and loosen up a bit, it's okay. Everything's okay.
I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion to the max tbh :/click to expand
But I'm not talking about that, I'm talking about how this headassery was started because it seems like the both of them don't know how to calm down.
Posted by cvurkoI definitely will! 🙂Posted by capricorngirl25Thanks! Good luck and ill be waiting for an update ^^Posted by cvurkoIt doesn't get any more real than that. Thank you i appreciate your insightPosted by capricorngirl25In my opinion it is fcked up and personally i would just end it right away. But it is your decision and i dont want to bias it with my fav "if i were you..." statement. Truth is none of us knows the true nature of your relationship and can make an objective suggestion on the basis of what you shared.Posted by cvurkoI understand where I messed up and I am ready to apologize but I think it's kind of fckd up he left me to find my own way home no?
Nobody is at fault, you two just have some kind of communication problem. Either work it out or break it off for good ^^
So i decided that the only objective advice i can give you is to either worj on your communication problems or break it off. Its up to you and your moral values to define whether what he did is forgivable or not.click to expand
Posted by SunsetvirgoTrue. However he took this argument to the next level by using the last card available to him, his car, to leave her ass stranded. And apparently he doesn't give a shit because he hasn't reached out to find out if she made it back home, is even still alive, etc. There's some rough areas of SF.Posted by LadyNeptuneI would be.Posted by SunsetvirgoSo you wouldn't be hurt and feeling a certain way if your boyfriend abandoned you in another city and left you to find your way home? Common be real.
I got anxious just by reading this.
Girl calm down and loosen up a bit, it's okay. Everything's okay.
I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion to the max tbh :/
But I'm not talking about that, I'm talking about how this headassery was started because it seems like the both of them don't know how to calm down.click to expand
If it was me I'd be more than just hurt. I'd be done.
Posted by capricorngirl25He told you he is not leaving without you?Posted by cvurkoI understand where I messed up and I am ready to apologize but I think it's kind of fckd up he left me to find my own way home no?
Nobody is at fault, you two just have some kind of communication problem. Either work it out or break it off for good ^^click to expand
You fell asleep and never answered?
He left mad because of it?
So...
You guys shouldn't be drinking because you aren't accustomized for it.
Call and ask to talk it over with him.
Also what really happened when you saw your ex? Everyone can run into ex!
He seems too frihggin sensitive!
He needs to man up! You are with him!
He talked to other girl! You ran into an ex!
Why is it such a tragedy?
It's like past centuries!
Your woman is a ho! Let's have duel!
Who does that anymore!
You put unprotected sex in your caption as if it's a big component to the story.
In some ways it is, because you said that he was "figuring somethings out" based on the fact that he came inside you, right?
And you tried to reassure him but he didn't CALM down, because he was unsure of how he felt about it.
So then y'all drank, got drunk and you didn't CALM down with the thoughts in your head,so you stopped him in the middle of having sex.
Then he got angry for stopping and didn't CALM down, and then you checked his phone, then he started leaving and then you fell asleep?
And he didn't CALM down and instead left you in a hotel in who knows where.
Right?
In some ways it is, because you said that he was "figuring somethings out" based on the fact that he came inside you, right?
And you tried to reassure him but he didn't CALM down, because he was unsure of how he felt about it.
So then y'all drank, got drunk and you didn't CALM down with the thoughts in your head,so you stopped him in the middle of having sex.
Then he got angry for stopping and didn't CALM down, and then you checked his phone, then he started leaving and then you fell asleep?
And he didn't CALM down and instead left you in a hotel in who knows where.
Right?
Posted by LadyNeptuneWell then in that case we're on the same page.Posted by SunsetvirgoTrue. However he took this argument to the next level by using the last card available to him, his car, to leave her ass stranded. And apparently he doesn't give a shit because he hasn't reached out to find out if she made it back home, is even still alive, etc. There's some rough areas of SF.Posted by LadyNeptuneI would be.Posted by SunsetvirgoSo you wouldn't be hurt and feeling a certain way if your boyfriend abandoned you in another city and left you to find your way home? Common be real.
I got anxious just by reading this.
Girl calm down and loosen up a bit, it's okay. Everything's okay.
I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion to the max tbh :/
But I'm not talking about that, I'm talking about how this headassery was started because it seems like the both of them don't know how to calm down.
If it was be I'd be more than just hurt. I'd be done.click to expand
And also good in her case that he already broke up with her so she can move on, yes?
Posted by PVandJellyHonesty is most certainly welcome here 🙂 I agree, I honestly don't feel I should reach out first I'm not trying to be immature but because the bigger issue here was him leaving me high & dry and not even send a quick text later...just kind of shows that he's mad about the situation and because he's mad he can't even show concern still. I agree with everything you saidPosted by capricorngirl25Can I be honest? He left you stranded at a hotel and didn't call to check on you. He's probably moved on. You never checked him on any of his poor behavior. He may think you're a doormat and not respect you. If he's in the entertainment business he may have a big ego and unfortunately, he may not value the relationship.Posted by PVandJellyHe is, he's in the entertainment industry and is a pretty big name there. I think I want to get back together, I have never clicked with anyone or met anyone that knows me so well as he does, and something keeps drawing me back into him. in an ideal world i would like to talk to him face to face and hear what he has to say and say my part and figure out a way for us to communicate better so a fight like this doesn't happen again and escalate as bad as this did, and yes get back together if it seems right.
He seems kind of petty and self entitled. After he left you at the hotel, kind of seems like the romance is over. What do you want? Do you want to get back together?
If you reach out, he may answer, eventually. But he will also feel it's okay to treat you poorly if you keep accepting it. If a Taurus does not respect and value you, the relationship will not be good.click to expand
Posted by Capri__unicornThere's a HUGE difference between saying "I don't want to leave RIGHT NOW cause it's 3am", and "I'm not leaving with you at all, ever". Surely you see the distinction?Posted by LadyNeptuneShe's an earth sign. We see the logic in both. Even the OP sees it went south on both parts. He's wrong for leaving no doubt and I'd be pissed but come on even the OP said he came back Several times...and offered to leave his car and she said no..could you not see that's mixed messages? My water placements would have me crying and hating him but my earth side says...girl what were u thinking alsoPosted by SunsetvirgoSo you wouldn't be hurt and feeling a certain way if your boyfriend abandoned you in another city and left you to find your way home? Common be real.
I got anxious just by reading this.
Girl calm down and loosen up a bit, it's okay. Everything's okay.
I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion to the max tbh :/
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telling me he's going back to los angeles(we drove together from la to SF) he said are you coming with me or staying here? I told him I wasn't going anywhere at this time..it was now about 3am.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by capricorngirl25He told you he is not leaving without you?Posted by cvurkoI understand where I messed up and I am ready to apologize but I think it's kind of fckd up he left me to find my own way home no?
Nobody is at fault, you two just have some kind of communication problem. Either work it out or break it off for good ^^
You fell asleep and never answered?
He left mad because of it?
So...
You guys shouldn't be drinking because you aren't accustomized for it.
Call and ask to talk it over with him.
Also what really happened when you saw your ex? Everyone can run into ex!
He seems too frihggin sensitive!
He needs to man up! You are with him!
He talked to other girl! You ran into an ex!
Why is it such a tragedy?
It's like past centuries!
Your woman is a ho! Let's have duel!
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Between all this stress and crying that last part made me laugh lets have duel lol... Oh gosh the ex thing is a long story..my ex still isn't over me and he's been stalking me and i guess one of his friends was at the restaurant we were at, and texted him that i was there with a guy, and my ex came over and saw us and stormed up to us..it was awful especially because thats the same day he made me his gf 😢
Posted by LadyNeptuneThank you for your insightPosted by SunsetvirgoTrue. However he took this argument to the next level by using the last card available to him, his car, to leave her ass stranded. And apparently he doesn't give a shit because he hasn't reached out to find out if she made it back home, is even still alive, etc. There's some rough areas of SF.Posted by LadyNeptuneI would be.Posted by SunsetvirgoSo you wouldn't be hurt and feeling a certain way if your boyfriend abandoned you in another city and left you to find your way home? Common be real.
I got anxious just by reading this.
Girl calm down and loosen up a bit, it's okay. Everything's okay.
I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion to the max tbh :/
But I'm not talking about that, I'm talking about how this headassery was started because it seems like the both of them don't know how to calm down.
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Posted by capricorngirl25Posted by PVandJellyHonesty is most certainly welcome here 🙂 I agree, I honestly don't feel I should reach out first I'm not trying to be immature but because the bigger issue here was him leaving me high & dry and not even send a quick text later...just kind of shows that he's mad about the situation and because he's mad he can't even show concern still. I agree with everything you saidPosted by capricorngirl25Can I be honest? He left you stranded at a hotel and didn't call to check on you. He's probably moved on. You never checked him on any of his poor behavior. He may think you're a doormat and not respect you. If he's in the entertainment business he may have a big ego and unfortunately, he may not value the relationship.Posted by PVandJellyHe is, he's in the entertainment industry and is a pretty big name there. I think I want to get back together, I have never clicked with anyone or met anyone that knows me so well as he does, and something keeps drawing me back into him. in an ideal world i would like to talk to him face to face and hear what he has to say and say my part and figure out a way for us to communicate better so a fight like this doesn't happen again and escalate as bad as this did, and yes get back together if it seems right.
He seems kind of petty and self entitled. After he left you at the hotel, kind of seems like the romance is over. What do you want? Do you want to get back together?
If you reach out, he may answer, eventually. But he will also feel it's okay to treat you poorly if you keep accepting it. If a Taurus does not respect and value you, the relationship will not be good.click to expand
If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to park your ego at the door when it comes to communication. Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?
Stop trying to aportion blame and take the high road if you want to make up. If you want to break up, then think of him as an utter bastard and move on.
Posted by GC01I told him it wasn't a good idea to leave because we were out drinking, both intoxicated and the alcohol was both in our systems, it was also 5am at that point and drinking+no sleep and having to drive back 6 hours didn't seem like the safe thing to do.
How can you even say he abandoned you?
He said he wanted to leave again and again and you chose to stay behind on multiple occasions.
If I didn't want to get left behind I would say okay babe you want to leave lets go because I'm not staying here alone. Then I would deal with the problems once I'm home safe. Don't be dumb.
Posted by jeane"Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?" that couldn't have been more truePosted by capricorngirl25Posted by PVandJellyHonesty is most certainly welcome here 🙂 I agree, I honestly don't feel I should reach out first I'm not trying to be immature but because the bigger issue here was him leaving me high & dry and not even send a quick text later...just kind of shows that he's mad about the situation and because he's mad he can't even show concern still. I agree with everything you saidPosted by capricorngirl25Can I be honest? He left you stranded at a hotel and didn't call to check on you. He's probably moved on. You never checked him on any of his poor behavior. He may think you're a doormat and not respect you. If he's in the entertainment business he may have a big ego and unfortunately, he may not value the relationship.Posted by PVandJellyHe is, he's in the entertainment industry and is a pretty big name there. I think I want to get back together, I have never clicked with anyone or met anyone that knows me so well as he does, and something keeps drawing me back into him. in an ideal world i would like to talk to him face to face and hear what he has to say and say my part and figure out a way for us to communicate better so a fight like this doesn't happen again and escalate as bad as this did, and yes get back together if it seems right.
He seems kind of petty and self entitled. After he left you at the hotel, kind of seems like the romance is over. What do you want? Do you want to get back together?
If you reach out, he may answer, eventually. But he will also feel it's okay to treat you poorly if you keep accepting it. If a Taurus does not respect and value you, the relationship will not be good.
If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to park your ego at the door when it comes to communication. Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?
Stop trying to abortion blame and take the high road if you want to make up. If you want to break up, then think of him as an utter bastard and move on.
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Posted by capricorngirl25I would do some reading on how to argue with your partner. Apparently it is the number one predictor to determine if your relationship is going to last.Posted by jeane"Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?" that couldn't have been more truePosted by capricorngirl25Posted by PVandJellyHonesty is most certainly welcome here 🙂 I agree, I honestly don't feel I should reach out first I'm not trying to be immature but because the bigger issue here was him leaving me high & dry and not even send a quick text later...just kind of shows that he's mad about the situation and because he's mad he can't even show concern still. I agree with everything you saidPosted by capricorngirl25Can I be honest? He left you stranded at a hotel and didn't call to check on you. He's probably moved on. You never checked him on any of his poor behavior. He may think you're a doormat and not respect you. If he's in the entertainment business he may have a big ego and unfortunately, he may not value the relationship.Posted by PVandJellyHe is, he's in the entertainment industry and is a pretty big name there. I think I want to get back together, I have never clicked with anyone or met anyone that knows me so well as he does, and something keeps drawing me back into him. in an ideal world i would like to talk to him face to face and hear what he has to say and say my part and figure out a way for us to communicate better so a fight like this doesn't happen again and escalate as bad as this did, and yes get back together if it seems right.
He seems kind of petty and self entitled. After he left you at the hotel, kind of seems like the romance is over. What do you want? Do you want to get back together?
If you reach out, he may answer, eventually. But he will also feel it's okay to treat you poorly if you keep accepting it. If a Taurus does not respect and value you, the relationship will not be good.
If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to park your ego at the door when it comes to communication. Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?
Stop trying to abortion blame and take the high road if you want to make up. If you want to break up, then think of him as an utter bastard and move on.
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Posted by Capri__unicornalcohol rarely helps, unless its anal. Or so I've been told lolPosted by LadyNeptuneYip and then She told him to break up with her...he said "if we're broken up I'm not leaving you I'll wait til the morning" so I assume he's waiting outside for her response. No response...so more than likely in his mind the last communication was "she wants to break up, I'm offering to stay and she's not responding.." a lot of assumption and little to no actual communication or benefit of the doubt for either of them. The alcohol didn't help.Posted by Capri__unicornThere's a HUGE difference between saying "I don't want to leave RIGHT NOW cause it's 3am", and "I'm not leaving with you at all, ever". Surely you see the distinction?Posted by LadyNeptuneShe's an earth sign. We see the logic in both. Even the OP sees it went south on both parts. He's wrong for leaving no doubt and I'd be pissed but come on even the OP said he came back Several times...and offered to leave his car and she said no..could you not see that's mixed messages? My water placements would have me crying and hating him but my earth side says...girl what were u thinking alsoPosted by SunsetvirgoSo you wouldn't be hurt and feeling a certain way if your boyfriend abandoned you in another city and left you to find your way home? Common be real.
I got anxious just by reading this.
Girl calm down and loosen up a bit, it's okay. Everything's okay.
I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion to the max tbh :/Posted by capricorngirl25
telling me he's going back to los angeles(we drove together from la to SF) he said are you coming with me or staying here? I told him I wasn't going anywhere at this time..it was now about 3am.
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Posted by Capri__unicornOh yes! He has told me that many many times as well...not directed towards me but he said If you ever feel you aren't happy with me just tell me and we will move on. He has said that many many times before to me about his past relationships as well. They will give you what you want. Unfortunately I was super upset..(also getting my period PMS i know its not an excuse but) emotions were flying high that night + alcohol..I just wasn't in my right frame of mind. He told me he never really gets mad, which is true I've never seen him mad at me or anyone else for that matter, but i pushed him that night with constantly wanting to talk...especially because i knew we had a 6 hour drive ahead the next day and i didn't want things to be painfully awkward in the car. I like the ground rules thing that you brought up though. So i guess now my biggest question is...With your experience in Taurus males...At this point would he come back around? or do u think he's had enough and i pushed him too far?Posted by capricorngirl25Ha! Yup I used to try to talk immediately! Resolve on the spot. One thing my Taurus would say also is "if you decide to leave me I'll just say ok...I won't be happy but I'll give you what you ask for because it's what you want." They don't do hints...don't try to test his loyalty by telling him to leave...he will. That was true of 2 Taurus men I've been with. Both adored me...cried about how much they loved me, but I just kept trying to test it.Leave well enough alone. Let's not forget him also tho. They are pettttttttyyyy when they're mad. Those stubborn fits are the worst. Sometimes I have to let him be before I say something mean, but I let him know even if we get mad at each other there are basic rules of respect. Maybe some ground rules made when you're happy? Like mine knows he better not ever ignore me. He has to at least say "I received your message and I'm using time to think" and then I don't care how long we don't talk.Posted by Capri__unicornYes def the talk it out and him wanting space, we definitely love to talk it out haha we want to fix conflict right there and then and be happy and not want things to be awkward, they love to go off for hours or days to think and come back. I don't even know if he's still with me? I told him to just break up with me and leave and he said fine, i know it was heated argument but I'm not sure if we are still together or not? I'm guessing not?.. Yes taurus and virgo are our top guys. My ex was a virgo but he was too overly top attentive to me, and my taurus guy knows just the right amount, thats why i prefer them...but I'm not sure if i can handle taurus guys :/Posted by capricorngirl25Of course it's not intentional and I think we don't realize it until someone else points it out. I can only speak for the Taurus I've dealt with. After fights they act like everything is fine publically. Mine would go out w/the boys...act completely unbothered but his family would tell me about him being extremely sad about it. He wouldn't sulk but he would feel bad. I still struggle with how different he is from me with conflict. I wanna talk it out and he just wants his space to think. If he's your boyfriend he's chosen to be with you...you have to be confident in that and stop worrying about his silence being an indication of disinterest. The cap Taurus dynamic is a powerful connection but your wires will get crossed if you don't learn to understand each otherPosted by Capri__unicornHaha! Wow! hit the nail on the head here, and yes you are correct about the fights thing...I don't think i do it intentionally but yes you are right. Can you give me some insight about Taurus men work in fights? This is kind of our first actual fight and I'm not sure what to expect here...hes posting snap chats like nothing happened and he seems fine, but I'm feeling sad and depressed and confused whats going on between us? if he's going to text or I should 😢 thanks for ur response btwPosted by earlorg16Agree here...I'm a cap w/ a Taurus and it gets real sometimes but this sounded so unnecessarily dramatic. Had me thinking about times I dragged out something and how annoying it must have been. He offered to wait for you, you basically told him no...so he leaves...and now you're mad because he did. What did you want him to do— Stop being a cap lol say what u mean and mean what u say. What u thought he would do is wait around and beg u...whether you'll admit it or not if you're anything like me you're looking for reassurance through fights...if he takes it and sticks around it means he loves u....that's not how these men work. You have to relax.
He did over react a bit, but you also didn't help the cause here.
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Posted by Capri__unicornTo be honest with you I don't remember how great of detail we went into that, I do remember saying we have both been drinking It's not good idea to leave nowPosted by capricorngirl25Smart choice...did you guys discuss that or was it just "I don't want to leave now"Posted by GC01I told him it wasn't a good idea to leave because we were out drinking, both intoxicated and the alcohol was both in our systems, it was also 5am at that point and drinking+no sleep and having to drive back 6 hours didn't seem like the safe thing to do.
How can you even say he abandoned you?
He said he wanted to leave again and again and you chose to stay behind on multiple occasions.
If I didn't want to get left behind I would say okay babe you want to leave lets go because I'm not staying here alone. Then I would deal with the problems once I'm home safe. Don't be dumb.
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We get food and come back to hotel and he wasn't making any moves on me so I started to..and then he said lets talk. So he opened up and said that interaction with my ex really kind of set him back he said it's fine and we are fine but he just needs time to get over that. He said also I was his first girlfriend to ever ejaculate inside. And he was just starts to get worried about it. So he wanted to postpone for awhile until he can figure out what he wants to do. We talked it out and both agreed no sex until he decides. Saturday everything was fantastic! Saturday night we went out dancing and we both drank not a lot but enough to be tipsy kind of starting to get drunk. We come back to hotel start fooling around he starts having Sex with me but I stop him after awhile and he gets mad and turns over. I explained to him I stopped because I wasn't sure what he wanted to do in regards to this..and we just talked about something Friday night and I didn't know if he already decided or what? So he tells me he decided because he proceeded to have sex with me so that means he decided. So I just simply told him I didn't know that's what it meant he didn't make it clear. So I tried to brush it off and start up again kissing him. He said he's not in the mood and turns over... I'm a Capricorn and we like to solve problems and we don't like when things feel awkward.
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