Taurus Cheating?

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My intuition led me to finding my Taurus at another womens house......This woman Ive asked her about and she says its nothing, but ive seen her send her little memes about, someone being home, those who give peace should get the most time....

I do believe it didnt go further than a visit and phone convos which is still emotionally cheating...BUT now WHAT?

We got into a very bad fight, we both calmed down and spoke civilized about whats going on. Taurus says she is tired and this was her escape for the moment. That I was no longer reciprocating as a partner. Despite her distance with me due to my nagging and accusations smh...She still came home and did her part.

But NOW, am I loosing her for good? Although she apologized and owned up to being wrong, She somehow made me feel bad for my reaction (Physical Violence is never the answer) and also for my part in causing her to run away.

Since our discussion and her minimal details on how shes not going to entertain her anylonger, shes been very affectionate and trying to get back to the way we were....BUT then I saw she sent the girl another pic of some celebrity, then a nother quote about people just clicking...My Virgo friend says this is bait to see if I am keeping my end of the bargain and not snooping....

We live together so my wanting to just run away with my daughter isnt the easiest option.... and lately I know ive allowed my insecuritues to turn me into a nag, but her inability to communicate didnt help....

Ive read that Taurus's dont cheat, but I also read that they would start to court somoene new before leaving....

Whats with her efforts, her affection, her telling me im her home.....Is this woman (Virgo) a real threat??

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Taurus can definitely cheat, just like every other sign. They are humans and at times humans make bad decisions wetter it be sexual, lust, or emotional.

As a taurus I know I usually do have a "back up plan" or someone I start to get close to if I feel the relationship is dying....it's a shut thing to do, but it does seem to be my habit.

Hate to admit I've cheated, my Taurus bf cheated in a past relationship but I notice this more so with younger taurus'. Also Venus and Mars placements could give clues to that as well.

As for your situation, yeah don't turn this around on youself. When someone cheats it's not your fault...they are the one doing it. Don't chafe yourself they should apologize and try to work on things if they want you and make it uontonyou. If not good ridden better off without them.
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Posted by Boots1313
Taurus can definitely cheat, just like every other sign. They are humans and at times humans make bad decisions wetter it be sexual, lust, or emotional.

As a taurus I know I usually do have a "back up plan" or someone I start to get close to if I feel the relationship is dying....it's a shut thing to do, but it does seem to be my habit.

Hate to admit I've cheated, my Taurus bf cheated in a past relationship but I notice this more so with younger taurus'. Also Venus and Mars placements could give clues to that as well.

As for your situation, yeah don't turn this around on youself. When someone cheats it's not your fault...they are the one doing it. Don't chafe yourself they should apologize and try to work on things if they want you and make it uontonyou. If not good ridden better off without them.


Shes going to be 44! NOT 1 thing young about her...Yeah I figured this was a back up plan sort of thing...
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Posted by Ssasy
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Taurus can definitely cheat, just like every other sign. They are humans and at times humans make bad decisions wetter it be sexual, lust, or emotional.



As a taurus I know I usually do have a "back up plan" or someone I start to get close to if I feel the relationship is dying....it's a shut thing to do, but it does seem to be my habit.



Hate to admit I've cheated, my Taurus bf cheated in a past relationship but I notice this more so with younger taurus'. Also Venus and Mars placements could give clues to that as well.



As for your situation, yeah don't turn this around on youself. When someone cheats it's not your fault...they are the one doing it. Don't chafe yourself they should apologize and try to work on things if they want you and make it uontonyou. If not good ridden better off without them.





Shes going to be 44! NOT 1 thing young about her...Yeah I figured this was a back up plan sort of thing... click to expand
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Then possibly it fear and immaturity (yes you can be immature at 44)

But don't make excuses for her behavior.
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Taurus can definitely cheat, just like every other sign. They are humans and at times humans make bad decisions wetter it be sexual, lust, or emotional.





As a taurus I know I usually do have a "back up plan" or someone I start to get close to if I feel the relationship is dying....it's a shut thing to do, but it does seem to be my habit.





Hate to admit I've cheated, my Taurus bf cheated in a past relationship but I notice this more so with younger taurus'. Also Venus and Mars placements could give clues to that as well.





As for your situation, yeah don't turn this around on youself. When someone cheats it's not your fault...they are the one doing it. Don't chafe yourself they should apologize and try to work on things if they want you and make it uontonyou. If not good ridden better off without them.









Shes going to be 44! NOT 1 thing young about her...Yeah I figured this was a back up plan sort of thing... click to expand



Then possibly it fear and immaturity (yes you can be immature at 44)
But don't make excuses for her behavior.
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No excuses....Where I am aware that I wasnt doing some of my part but 😢 this is all shocking to me that she would go this road.....

Fear of what? We were going soo good....at least I thought so.
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Taurus are loyal yes, faithful no. A shadow side Taurus will stay in a relationship indefinitely while doing nothing to maintain it and cheating. Every sign is draining to date when theyre dark sided, but the Taurus dark side is the worst.



If you try to confront them about their behavior, they will BULLy you until you give up. If you push them too far, violence of some kind is a possibility



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We live together....Ive always asked her why she hasnt left. she has the means to and has places to go....😢 Just dont understand why she isnt leaving....

This situation has me so sick......
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I disagree with all the posters on this post.

What I see here is 'Speculation.'



Your relationship is definitely in trouble, but I do not see 'cheating' here.



Ssassy,



Consider this constructive criticism.



Your partner is unhappy.

She's not communicating with you because she dreads coming home to you.

When she attempts to be optimistic about coming home to you, she is shut down, both emotionally and physically.

Not a good retaliation.

Bulls are VERY affectionate signs.

I think she is opening up to the idea of other possibilities, but I strongly believe that she hasn't 'acted' on them yet.

She's in limbo, and waiting to see if things will greatly improve with you, which judging by your actions, has not.



Set an objective.

Ask yourself what is that you really want....and what is it are you trying to accomplish with this Bull.



Silence will never work with a Bull. We can be just as stubborn and resilient.
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Posted by FishyDude
In my experience, I've only known one Taurus female to cheat, and my one uncle is a Taurus - he's married and he has a weakness for attractive looking women.



OP, your partner is a Taurus, the "other" female is a Virgo, I would also be weary if I was you.


Although she hasnt admitted to me, I know she had a quick affair with a virgo in the past...

Although this woman isnt usually who she would go after, I know there is something there....
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In my experience, I've only known one Taurus female to cheat, and my one uncle is a Taurus - he's married and he has a weakness for attractive looking women.



OP, your partner is a Taurus, the "other" female is a Virgo, I would also be weary if I was you.



Omg right? These two signs LOOOVE each other. Both love being baf. Both on the negative axis so if cheating was an option ....





I can see Virgo dangling the idea of cheating in front of Taurus, Adam and eve style ... You know Taurus can't resist...its a forbidden fruit.



Sorry you're going through this op. Jump ship asap! click to expand
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Jump ship asap?? Ummm Not my first option.But i Get it.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
I disagree with all the posters on this post.

What I see here is 'Speculation.'



Your relationship is definitely in trouble, but I do not see 'cheating' here.



Ssassy,



Consider this constructive criticism.



Your partner is unhappy.

She's not communicating with you because she dreads coming home to you.

When she attempts to be optimistic about coming home to you, she is shut down, both emotionally and physically.

Not a good retaliation.

Bulls are VERY affectionate signs.

I think she is opening up to the idea of other possibilities, but I strongly believe that she hasn't 'acted' on them yet.

She's in limbo, and waiting to see if things will greatly improve with you, which judging by your actions, has not.



Set an objective.

Ask yourself what is that you really want....and what is it are you trying to accomplish with this Bull.



Silence will never work with a Bull. We can be just as stubborn and resilient.


Thank You for your honesty. I am terrified. Not sure how to relax, trust, and Not be so paranoid.

She has since then said some amazing transparent things to me. She told me that she is naked for me and that she recognizes that the she has caused me to act out of character and basically apologized in her own way, and that it is just us.....Even after this im ok, But my gut (or paranoia) wont let me stay calm.

Just celebrated her birthday Friday 5/4 and went all out. She cried a bit said she was happy.....

In my head im like is she really? I think im just afraid that this Virgo has a hold somewhere, despite me being "home" and her comfort place....Im afraid that she secretly wants to be there.

Hate my thoughts at times....
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In my experience, I've only known one Taurus female to cheat, and my one uncle is a Taurus - he's married and he has a weakness for attractive looking women.



OP, your partner is a Taurus, the "other" female is a Virgo, I would also be weary if I was you.





Although she hasnt admitted to me, I know she had a quick affair with a virgo in the past...

Although this woman isnt usually who she would go after, I know there is something there.... click to expand
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When I mean in the past, way before me...But its one of those things she didnt want to disclose for whatever reason.