im Taurus and Can't do emotional attachments?

maybe you can help me understand myself. I'm Taurus sun, Libra Moon, Gemini Mars, Aquarius neptune. also taurus saturn, taurus venus, and taurus jupiter.

I cant bring myself to form romantic relationships. If I like someone, once they try to initiate something I automatically feel insecure about who I am about myself and I feel uncomfortable with the sweettalk because it seems corny to me. plus I am always afraid of getting cheated on or used or not cared about. lets say me and someone are hitting it off well, if i see one bit of disrespect I cut them off. I haven't been hurt in the past. never been in a relationship!

Posted by xkraft
Bro, u need to work on your self esteem.

maybe you're right. like I like my physical appearance and generally think I'm a strong person but once it comes to relationships I question a lot (not about my physical appearance though)

Ugh..aqua gemini and libra...all flaky af....

And afraid of real stuff. Youre gonna just have to dive in. Also you probably havent met the right one yet .

Depending on how old you are... not having been in a relationship ever is gonna make most people uncomfortable. Red flag.

Don’t settle. But also don’t punish people for your fears. There are good eggs out there. I promise.

Taurus Venus, what house? Cause typically we don’t do relationships lightly. But once we are locked in we are solid af.

Posted by boxcarmirnta
Ugh..aqua gemini and libra...all flaky af....

And afraid of real stuff. Youre gonna just have to dive in. Also you probably havent met the right one yet .

loool haha thanks

Posted by LadyNeptune
Depending on how old you are... not having been in a relationship ever is gonna make most people uncomfortable. Red flag.

Don’t settle. But also don’t punish people for your fears. There are good eggs out there. I promise.

im pretty young and thanks

Posted by LadyNeptune
Taurus Venus, what house? Cause typically we don’t do relationships lightly. But once we are locked in we are solid af.

11th house. i dont know what that means though

Posted by Impulsv

Posted by LadyNeptune
Depending on how old you are... not having been in a relationship ever is gonna make most people uncomfortable. Red flag.

Don’t settle. But also don’t punish people for your fears. There are good eggs out there. I promise.

You expect perfection from other? Or more of self defense to avoid getting hurt

But your hurting those that love you by cutting them off so cold for a mistake. click to expand

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good insight thank you

Posted by Impulsv
Do you undeterstand that nobody is you and we always going to hurt each many times not intending to do so. People will hurt your you but change ur mentality

Most humans have good intentions n hurt unknowingly. Instead of cutting them of tell them they hurt you

Who knows they may offer a different perspective

People behave differently and everything is not so black n white

ok thank you

Posted by Taurooo

Posted by LadyNeptune
Taurus Venus, what house? Cause typically we don’t do relationships lightly. But once we are locked in we are solid af.

11th house. i dont know what that means though click to expand

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It means it’s better for your process to become friends first and then pursue a relationship.

Ouch! It's important for you to tackle those fears and insecurities. A relationship should be the furthest thing from your mind while you're struggling with your own self esteem. You ought to build a better relationship with yourself first.