Taurus Too Busy?

Seems like my girlfriend has booked up most of her Saturday without me. Before she was single and booking her time independently. She claims she wants to hangout at my place but says she will see come Saturday.

Are Taurus normally this clingy and then independent?

Our jobs and obligations are very important to us, and like anyone else...yes we get busy.

We do want to spend time with our significant other, and will try as hard as we can to fit them into our busy schdule. Her response of "we'll see come Saturday" is very typical

I have a super busy week this week, and I literally just told my boyfriend "let's play it by ear"

Doesn't mean I don't want to see him, I would LOVE to , I just can't give him a definitive

It just seems like she is taking me for granted and not wishing me a good night/good morning anymore. Last night she was super happy after I gave her a great weekend-birthday celebration but then today seemed like she was worried about maintaining our covenants and how 'coming over to my place meant = having sex' even though we did PG-13 things for two months before being unable to resist each other.

I know her parents are stressing her out and her job conditions but she should be happy she has someone who is as well off and stable as I am in her life. She has a fully booked Saturday but knows I'd like to hangout that day because we will both be working full-time from tomorrow onwards. She should want to make the time to see me.

After bringing this up as a concern, she will now at least meet me Saturday afternoon but did not agree to coming over yet..

I do not believe so. She actually put out on Sunday and said,'I need to find someone from the church' before I managed to calm her down. Her parents and job are extremely stressful lately and I really hope she moves on and moves out from both.

She said she had a horrible time because all of the people there were mean to her and she was too tired to enjoy the dancing and had to find a table to sit down at.

She was acting more normal on Sunday and was reaching out too.

Posted by Impulsv
She dating someone on Saturday nights?

I thought I mentioned before in my post that she went dancing with her mom last Saturday. Usually she hangs out with me almost daily but in the last few weeks, she has been straying from following the gospel and this is also upsetting her. She is starting to hate her job and her family is making it impossible (in my eyes) to live there much longer. If you have read my other posts on the topic, she is expected to move out soon but isn't sure if she can move in with me due to her religious beliefs. (But drank a little on Saturday when she was also supposed to be abstaining for life.)

I really doubt she danced with someone new because that was the first Saturday where I did not actually see her all day, although she sent photos and kept in touch through FB except for when she visited her brother's girlfriend's family.

I am a little concerned that she is getting emotionally connected to one or two guys but we will see if she acts strange at all this upcoming Saturday when I see her.

No, she started to open up and has expressed an interest in moving in but wants to spend a few nights here first to see what living here would be like on a daily basis.

Is there anything I can say or do to make her living here easier?

Posted by piscesman707
No, she started to open up and has expressed an interest in moving in but wants to spend a few nights here first to see what living here would be like on a daily basis.

Is there anything I can say or do to make her living here easier?

Allow her the space to figure out what she truly wants. Alienating your family...disappointing them, is no small choice.

If she’s going through some shit rn you should be the rock of stability in her life. Not whining about how your not getting enough of her time. Not a good look.

I think I was being assertive to her, not whining.

We both are working full-time now so we have to both make an effort to see each other to keep things going. 🙂

Give because you want to give, not because you expect anything in return, do this and you will never feel like you are being taken “for granted”

Something doesn’t really feel right to me, but not from her side, I just hope you aren’t that control guy.

Everything is going well. She is talking about "when" we have kids. A real turn-around from before.