Eva
@Eva
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Taurus ex still tries to contact me- i've moved on
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Impulsv, his friends knew i was a good catch but when i found out how they were trying to have my ex hand me off to them, i was pissed off even more but i kept that to myself.
Taurus ex is still lonely and single
Taurus ex is still lonely and single
Impulsv i am a capricorn
Redbull,
I actualy changed my facebook name so i hope he can't find me anymore on facebook and i blocked him too. My phone number has changed so noone he knows , knows my number.
For me when someone was so cruel to you and broke your heart and lea you one for so long, there is mo friends afterwards.
Before he even thought of lying or cheating on me, if he straight up said "i need to end things as i am not ready to commit to a relationship and never with you", as upset as i would feel, i'd appreciate that more than him ripping my heart out as thats what it felt.
After the break up i said to myself that i deserved so much more and am glad i moved on and found a lovely guy i hope to spend the rest of my life with.
So many men in this world act differently with women
I actualy changed my facebook name so i hope he can't find me anymore on facebook and i blocked him too. My phone number has changed so noone he knows , knows my number.
For me when someone was so cruel to you and broke your heart and lea you one for so long, there is mo friends afterwards.
Before he even thought of lying or cheating on me, if he straight up said "i need to end things as i am not ready to commit to a relationship and never with you", as upset as i would feel, i'd appreciate that more than him ripping my heart out as thats what it felt.
After the break up i said to myself that i deserved so much more and am glad i moved on and found a lovely guy i hope to spend the rest of my life with.
So many men in this world act differently with women
waste of time to even inquire about it....cut him off, move on....No reason to be curious. People are all very strange....Take it as flattery for you and karma for him...
sounds like he doesn't want you to forget about him. like he has to remind you of his presence as to remember he was a part of your life at one time.
you have to ask yourself if his attempts and this method is working or not.
you have to really burn that bridge to where he can't get under your skin and irritate you or you have to make yourself completely unreachable to him.
you have to ask yourself if his attempts and this method is working or not.
you have to really burn that bridge to where he can't get under your skin and irritate you or you have to make yourself completely unreachable to him.
burn it emotionally i mean.
So Eva,
This current husband of yours, does he still know he's a rebound?
You can block phone numbers, emails or any individual on social media.
Ask yourself... why haven't you done that yet?
Because you know deep down inside you want him to still contact you.
I remember you. You were here last year, wasting breath and attacking everyone who sought to give you practical advice in regards to this Bull.
I told you to contact him before you and this rebound became serious and before he got married.
You were bull-headed and a straight ass about the whole thing.
...And yet you still haven't found closure.
Now here you are.
Entertaining us with the the same BS scenario.
No ask us what you really want to ask us!
This current husband of yours, does he still know he's a rebound?
You can block phone numbers, emails or any individual on social media.
Ask yourself... why haven't you done that yet?
Because you know deep down inside you want him to still contact you.
I remember you. You were here last year, wasting breath and attacking everyone who sought to give you practical advice in regards to this Bull.
I told you to contact him before you and this rebound became serious and before he got married.
You were bull-headed and a straight ass about the whole thing.
...And yet you still haven't found closure.
Now here you are.
Entertaining us with the the same BS scenario.
No ask us what you really want to ask us!
Posted by Eva
Redbull,
I actualy changed my facebook name so i hope he can't find me anymore on facebook and i blocked him too. My phone number has changed so noone he knows , knows my number.
RedBull,
LOL.
I doubt she did any of this!
Bulls are earth signs.
But we're also Venusian.
If we're 100% certain about anything.
It's our hearts.
Unfortunately, (as much as I love Cappies) your hearts, at times, can be too stone-cold.
To the point of complete denial and oblivion.
You're the master and creator of your own happiness.
Unfortunately very few Cappies exercise this free will.
But we're also Venusian.
If we're 100% certain about anything.
It's our hearts.
Unfortunately, (as much as I love Cappies) your hearts, at times, can be too stone-cold.
To the point of complete denial and oblivion.
You're the master and creator of your own happiness.
Unfortunately very few Cappies exercise this free will.
Taurusbull 1977,
My husband is not a rebound.
I have blocked my ex from contacting me on facebook and changed numbers as i moved overseas after marriage.
Last year when i messaged here, alot taurus came up with nonsense that he was genuinely sorry and had to apologise which i felt was rubbish as when you end things and apologise afterwards, you don't need to keep dwelling on apologising time and time again.
What inana04 says makes sense, i do feel at times its like he's preventing me from movin on and it causes issues. When he tries contacting me before, i have told my husband as we live in the same city as my ex but completely different suburbs and past 6 months of marriage, have not bumped into him thank god.
I told my husband incase we maybe out somewhere and he were there too, and he tried to approach us, hubby would support me in telling him to piss off.
As a married woman, i don't need issues from ex's popping up but thankyou to redbull1977 for insinuating i do want to cheat on y husband and allow contact lines with my ex to be open still - i am the complete opposite and about to have a baby. I don't need a taurus idiot ex from the pass coming back into my life with his issues and immaturity. Some taurus are exactly that and this is what i have learnt from my experience
My husband is not a rebound.
I have blocked my ex from contacting me on facebook and changed numbers as i moved overseas after marriage.
Last year when i messaged here, alot taurus came up with nonsense that he was genuinely sorry and had to apologise which i felt was rubbish as when you end things and apologise afterwards, you don't need to keep dwelling on apologising time and time again.
What inana04 says makes sense, i do feel at times its like he's preventing me from movin on and it causes issues. When he tries contacting me before, i have told my husband as we live in the same city as my ex but completely different suburbs and past 6 months of marriage, have not bumped into him thank god.
I told my husband incase we maybe out somewhere and he were there too, and he tried to approach us, hubby would support me in telling him to piss off.
As a married woman, i don't need issues from ex's popping up but thankyou to redbull1977 for insinuating i do want to cheat on y husband and allow contact lines with my ex to be open still - i am the complete opposite and about to have a baby. I don't need a taurus idiot ex from the pass coming back into my life with his issues and immaturity. Some taurus are exactly that and this is what i have learnt from my experience
I believe only me and inana04 could see something didn't make sense with my ex's behaviour and most of the taurus that did reply last time all said that this taurus was genuine in apologising and didn't have an alterior motive.
Well my ex still tries to use relatives connections to get in contact with me which i do not want so i changed my number and didn't let these relatives know. Some of them just handed my husbands phone number to people in my family he's never met before- such disrespect
Are taurus so bull headed to the point that even when things are over and you've moved on, they still think "i know she's married but i'll still try". Is there no integrity and respect for the sanctity of marriage?
As stubborn as some capricorns can be and stuck in our ways, i love that karma bit him back in the ass. Ex playe around more with other girls who ended up using him, his money and dumping him and he still tries to want to make contact with me.
Well my ex still tries to use relatives connections to get in contact with me which i do not want so i changed my number and didn't let these relatives know. Some of them just handed my husbands phone number to people in my family he's never met before- such disrespect
Are taurus so bull headed to the point that even when things are over and you've moved on, they still think "i know she's married but i'll still try". Is there no integrity and respect for the sanctity of marriage?
As stubborn as some capricorns can be and stuck in our ways, i love that karma bit him back in the ass. Ex playe around more with other girls who ended up using him, his money and dumping him and he still tries to want to make contact with me.
why are you wasting so much time thinking about this?
lol, Eva is pissed...this is no rebound situation. I couldn't imagine...id be pissed too.
my Virgo sis goes through the same thing with her taurus ex, so i witness the behavior. my mother gets pissed when my sister mentions him still contacting her because its very disrespectful to my sister, my sister's new relationship, his marriage etc etc. he just came to town last week with his wife and asked my sis to come see him smh. she just ignores.
some guys are like that though. i think its an ego/control/power thing. my mom was about to marry and her leo ex would call and try to reminisce on their good times to get her back to a "place" emotionally, and said that he even prayed her relationship would fail.
i think its an inconvenience to have to change numbers you may have had for years etc to get rid of someone but hey...
my Virgo sis goes through the same thing with her taurus ex, so i witness the behavior. my mother gets pissed when my sister mentions him still contacting her because its very disrespectful to my sister, my sister's new relationship, his marriage etc etc. he just came to town last week with his wife and asked my sis to come see him smh. she just ignores.
some guys are like that though. i think its an ego/control/power thing. my mom was about to marry and her leo ex would call and try to reminisce on their good times to get her back to a "place" emotionally, and said that he even prayed her relationship would fail.
i think its an inconvenience to have to change numbers you may have had for years etc to get rid of someone but hey...
Eva, I'm thinking you're still hurt. Let it go. It's a good point that you moved on.
lol. There are many @ssholes taurus men - including my ex and he's now sending me request and pretending
somebody else - all I said was * M, knows better - this old tactics from a psycho * I'm sure he's hurt.
He read my msg... sorry. not wishing for him to comeback.
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
I read that.
Eva,
We have more information on this Bull than your current rebound.
Perhaps, his persistence and diligent actions has more to do with your inability to let go.
He consumes your thoughts, emotions, and energy.
Bulls have the highest respect for the sanctity of marriage...and we're not that dedicated to the cause, that we're so blinded by love, our practical senses turn into mush.
...Unless we were absolutely certain, the other person felt the same way.
Something tells me that his intuition is accurate.
This SECOND thread is proof of it!
We have more information on this Bull than your current rebound.
Perhaps, his persistence and diligent actions has more to do with your inability to let go.
He consumes your thoughts, emotions, and energy.
Bulls have the highest respect for the sanctity of marriage...and we're not that dedicated to the cause, that we're so blinded by love, our practical senses turn into mush.
...Unless we were absolutely certain, the other person felt the same way.
Something tells me that his intuition is accurate.
This SECOND thread is proof of it!
You may consider it Karma for him...
But it's still an empty victory for you.
You may have won a prize, but it's not the prize you really wanted.
But it's still an empty victory for you.
You may have won a prize, but it's not the prize you really wanted.
"Bulls have the highest respect for the sanctity of marriage...and we're not that dedicated to the cause, that we're so blinded by love, our practical senses turn into mush.
...Unless we were absolutely certain, the other person felt the same way.
Something tells me that his intuition is accurate.
This SECOND thread is proof of it!"
Even if his intuition was correct what does he want from her? Is he going to attempt to disrupt her current union until...? Like what is the goal of a Taurus in this type of situation.
It almost makes you wonder if he ended the relationship prematurely. Busyeyes said that obviously something was lacking which is why he ended it, but I think he may have been guilty of denial of feelings on his end as well. I get that impression from my sister's ex Taurus. Its like the males will end a situation prematurely then dwell on it because their true emotions haven't caught up with their actions to end it. Then it's a thing of being stuck in the past.
I keep running into a reaccuring theme of the Taurus not really believing or feeling the Cap is into them like that so there's a rush to take action when there's that uncertainty.
Cap females been getting in trouble lately on the boards regarding the exes lol. I think there's a misunderstanding there.
...Unless we were absolutely certain, the other person felt the same way.
Something tells me that his intuition is accurate.
This SECOND thread is proof of it!"
Even if his intuition was correct what does he want from her? Is he going to attempt to disrupt her current union until...? Like what is the goal of a Taurus in this type of situation.
It almost makes you wonder if he ended the relationship prematurely. Busyeyes said that obviously something was lacking which is why he ended it, but I think he may have been guilty of denial of feelings on his end as well. I get that impression from my sister's ex Taurus. Its like the males will end a situation prematurely then dwell on it because their true emotions haven't caught up with their actions to end it. Then it's a thing of being stuck in the past.
I keep running into a reaccuring theme of the Taurus not really believing or feeling the Cap is into them like that so there's a rush to take action when there's that uncertainty.
Cap females been getting in trouble lately on the boards regarding the exes lol. I think there's a misunderstanding there.
We compartmentalize like crazy. The compartment is tucked away but him popping up keeps bringing her to that space inside.
It makes sense for her to feel a certain way because there was no real closure...on either end obviously. For him to not give proper closure then try to disrupt her current union is very interesting to say the least.
It makes sense for her to feel a certain way because there was no real closure...on either end obviously. For him to not give proper closure then try to disrupt her current union is very interesting to say the least.
I had to look up the first thread lol I agree with the other Taurus people. Add to that, I'm always confused when people pose a question about a particular sign looking for insight & then when many people of that sign reply & are all pretty much in agreement, the question asker argues with the answer because it's not what they wanted to hear. Makes no sense to me
Posted by RiverLee
I had to look up the first thread lol I agree with the other Taurus people. Add to that, I'm always confused when people pose a question about a particular sign looking for insight & then when many people of that sign reply & are all pretty much in agreement, the question asker argues with the answer because it's not what they wanted to hear. Makes no sense to me
Some people don't like the truth if they already had a tiny sense of a gut feeling, on the other hand many repress linking their gut feeling with decisions/actions.
In my opinion the OP makes it clear there is self-doubt/guilt, everyone I've known who've impulsively married under 2yrs of meeting either falls apart as they acted upon lust than love, wanted to flee their ex in revenge with their next crush/lust, settled with someone closest like their ex, allowed their friends/family to do an arranged marriage to solve the biological clock for children or chose someone in their field/similar work as a love-work relationship of both benefit each other yet lack the glue for each other.
When it comes to exes you either never ever ever want to see/contact them or the person held a certain greater place in your heart. I've only had one ex which we've jokingly admit sooner or later we'd likely marry because we've found time to air out our differences and forgave each other... then again I'm a Taurus with an Aqua moon and my ex is a Libra with the same air moon.
Posted by Eva
As stubborn as some capricorns can be and stuck in our ways, i love that karma bit him back in the ass. Ex playe around more with other girls who ended up using him, his money and dumping him and he still tries to want to make contact with me.
Forgive my bluntness....I hope it feels good to gloat a little, but I don't think anyone here really cares. And no one here can help you. Insinuating that this bull's behavior with regards to respecting your marriage is somehow related to his Sun Sign, or characteristic of most/some/any other bulls, is just you being an idiot. I think a lot of women come here to vent abuse on a sun sign, as if we are a stand-in for the man they are having issues with. Buuuut...Its not our fault, is it? When you date an idiot, of any sign - YOU attracted this person, YOU were attracted TO this person, and now YOU have to deal with the repercussions. That is *your* karma. Its one thing to ask for help. But with this? No one here can help you and you should know that.
Good luck with your issue and thx for visiting the Taurus board!
Posted by tizianiPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I think a lot of women come here to vent abuse on a sun sign, as if we are a stand-in for the man they are having issues with.
DXP in a nutshell.click to expand
Nothing wrong with a bit of healthy ranting!! _—
Posted by AgentP911Posted by tizianiPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I think a lot of women come here to vent abuse on a sun sign, as if we are a stand-in for the man they are having issues with.
DXP in a nutshell.
Nothing wrong with a bit of healthy ranting!! _—click to expand
I'd be fine to listen and even respond, but when I feel like I have to atone vicariously for another bull's sins....
Eva,
Never question a Bull's morality, ethics, or integrity.
Don't mistake his love for you as weakness either, despite your malicious attempt to seek revenge (gloating).
This Bull will eventually call "Game Over."
...And you will be stuck with your rebound.
He will find love again.
Remember, he's Venusian.
Our hearts are not as stone-cold as the Cappies.
And the Bulls will cheer "No more threads from Eva!"
Never question a Bull's morality, ethics, or integrity.
Don't mistake his love for you as weakness either, despite your malicious attempt to seek revenge (gloating).
This Bull will eventually call "Game Over."
...And you will be stuck with your rebound.
He will find love again.
Remember, he's Venusian.
Our hearts are not as stone-cold as the Cappies.
And the Bulls will cheer "No more threads from Eva!"
Posted by lnana04
"Even if his intuition was correct what does he want from her? Is he going to attempt to disrupt her current union until...? Like what is the goal of a Taurus in this type of situation.
He doesn't buy the pretentious mask she's wearing.
Or the rebound she calls a 'husband.'
Bulls know Cappies better than Cappies know themselves.
Bulls don't chase unless we're convinced that there is absolute certainty.
Otherwise, we will fall all the way back.
She can proceed to create thread #3 in self-denial...
And the Bulls will still call her out on her BS!
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by AgentP911Posted by tizianiPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I think a lot of women come here to vent abuse on a sun sign, as if we are a stand-in for the man they are having issues with.
DXP in a nutshell.
Nothing wrong with a bit of healthy ranting!! _—
I'd be fine to listen and even respond, but when I feel like I have to atone vicariously for another bull's sins....click to expand
Duhhhhh... Didn't you know it's ALL your fault??!!
Heh heh heh...
I can understand the OP posing the question about why the ex is doing this etc but I do feel the OP is dedicating more thought to it than is necessary. If she wasn't married with baby on the way then I'd understand dwelling on it but to be married with baby on the way AND be overly curious about it is concerning.
I've only had one situation where I broke up with someone and they wouldn't piss off. I ignored every attempt of contact and blocked everything I could. This was in 2009 so the ability to block mobile numbers wasn't available back then... Thank God for iPhone... If it wasn't for that I'd still be getting calls and texts from him in 2015!! I found it more irritating and draining than being interested in why he was doing it. It was easy to block him and not think of it and I wasn't even with anyone else let alone married and with child. Even now I'll still receive about 2/3 contact attempts per year. Now he gets some random person it the UK (he's in Egypt) to message me saying... 'You don't know he but xxx wanted me to contact you...' I just think 'oh boy' and delete it and think little of it.
I didn't read the older threads as I couldn't be arsed but there's lots of feedback and views here which must be helpful.
I've only had one situation where I broke up with someone and they wouldn't piss off. I ignored every attempt of contact and blocked everything I could. This was in 2009 so the ability to block mobile numbers wasn't available back then... Thank God for iPhone... If it wasn't for that I'd still be getting calls and texts from him in 2015!! I found it more irritating and draining than being interested in why he was doing it. It was easy to block him and not think of it and I wasn't even with anyone else let alone married and with child. Even now I'll still receive about 2/3 contact attempts per year. Now he gets some random person it the UK (he's in Egypt) to message me saying... 'You don't know he but xxx wanted me to contact you...' I just think 'oh boy' and delete it and think little of it.
I didn't read the older threads as I couldn't be arsed but there's lots of feedback and views here which must be helpful.
He doesn't buy the pretentious mask she's wearing.
Or the rebound she calls a 'husband.'
Bulls know Cappies better than Cappies know themselves.
Bulls don't chase unless we're convinced that there is absolute certainty.
Otherwise, we will fall all the way back.
She can proceed to create thread #3 in self-denial...
And the Bulls will still call her out on her BS!
This makes absolutely no sense. So he's certain of her feelings for him now that she's married? She hasnt seen the Taurus in what it seems over a year, what do you mean he's not buying the pretentious mask she's wearing? This seems like extremely selfish, tortuous, ego driven controlling behavior from someone that is afraid of being completely iced out.
Bulls know Caps better than Caps know themselves? Thats funny. If that's the case then these Bulls need to figure out how to make it work with the Cap instead of resorting to such annoying behavior.
A person can't even get an honest answer around here from the sensitivity and fear of the light you feel your painted being in. Dont take these threads so personal. Eva managed to
clearly get under the skin of a few, which if you put yourself in her shoes should shed light on why she's annoyed. You all seem to be annoyed everytime she pops up...WELL the Taurus is doing this to her. Get it now? It has nothing to do with feelings just a unique way more compatible signs can get under eachothers skin. That simple smh.
Or the rebound she calls a 'husband.'
Bulls know Cappies better than Cappies know themselves.
Bulls don't chase unless we're convinced that there is absolute certainty.
Otherwise, we will fall all the way back.
She can proceed to create thread #3 in self-denial...
And the Bulls will still call her out on her BS!
This makes absolutely no sense. So he's certain of her feelings for him now that she's married? She hasnt seen the Taurus in what it seems over a year, what do you mean he's not buying the pretentious mask she's wearing? This seems like extremely selfish, tortuous, ego driven controlling behavior from someone that is afraid of being completely iced out.
Bulls know Caps better than Caps know themselves? Thats funny. If that's the case then these Bulls need to figure out how to make it work with the Cap instead of resorting to such annoying behavior.
A person can't even get an honest answer around here from the sensitivity and fear of the light you feel your painted being in. Dont take these threads so personal. Eva managed to
clearly get under the skin of a few, which if you put yourself in her shoes should shed light on why she's annoyed. You all seem to be annoyed everytime she pops up...WELL the Taurus is doing this to her. Get it now? It has nothing to do with feelings just a unique way more compatible signs can get under eachothers skin. That simple smh.
Smh at Eva being called an idiot. Is it THAT serious?? LoL. You'd think she cursed you personally.
I think we are all guilty of idiocy from time to time - particularly where emotions are involved.
Good point Champranger, I didn't notice that.
The behavior is still interesting though. Again, my sister goes through it. Parts of her do like the ego boost from the attention, especially now, but I still don't understand the Taurus male contacting someone when either theyve ended the relationship, or moved on how my sister ex did.
Its known what needs to be done if you want to get rid of someone, but why does a person has to go to those lengths. Unless Im in fear of my life Im not changing addresses, numbers, deleting Facebooks etc. His behavior still makes no sense.
Its known what needs to be done if you want to get rid of someone, but why does a person has to go to those lengths. Unless Im in fear of my life Im not changing addresses, numbers, deleting Facebooks etc. His behavior still makes no sense.
Posted by lnana04
The behavior is still interesting though. Again, my sister goes through it. Parts of her do like the ego boost from the attention, especially now, but I still don't understand the Taurus male contacting someone when either theyve ended the relationship, or moved on how my sister ex did.
Its known what needs to be done if you want to get rid of someone, but why does a person has to go to those lengths. Unless Im in fear of my life Im not changing addresses, numbers, deleting Facebooks etc. His behavior still makes no sense.
Now I'm not going to call this one way or the other with OP, however, Ina these are EXACTLY my sentiments! I be damned if everytime some male I deal with seems to have a problem understanding the word "no...don't contact please", that I have to go in the "witness protection program"...GTFOH...LOL! I'd be true to Virgo 'chameleon' form if I did that....that *ish takes too much dam energy & time of which I don't have either for someone who simply tries harder than others at rekindling *ish, reminiscing, or simply just trying to manipulate for the sake of 'chasing'. Men, most of them, love the cat 'n mouse game....the mere 'challenge' of it....period point blank! So some of them will go a bit harder in the paint just to feel like they've 'conquered'.....and this dam sure doesn't exclude BULLS!
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by Eva
Redbull,
I actualy changed my facebook name so i hope he can't find me anymore on facebook and i blocked him too. My phone number has changed so noone he knows , knows my number.
RedBull,
LOL.
I doubt she did any of this!click to expand
Inana,
I stated this on the very first page. I understand that you're trying to look out for your fellow Cappie, it's quite admirable, but trust and believe when I tell you...Bulls can spot Bullsh*tters with our eyes closed. Being harsh was never my intention. I do have a sincere love for Cappies. But this Eva character needs to face reality. SHE'S NOT OVER HIM! All Eva is doing is going around in circles, tip-toeing around the issue, not asking what she really wants to ask. I guarantee you "anger' is the not the only emotion she's experiencing.
It's a collage of emotions, anger, happiness, relief, regret, denial, bitterness. They're all conflicting, and she can't put them into perspective.
But I can assure you, she's not happy in her current situation.
You all are missing that my Virgo sister goes through this with her Taurus too. I definitely understand Eva, but Ive been curious about this type of behavior for two years now because of my sisters issues. Ive asked my male friend even why my sisters Taurus wont leave her alone. Ive posted about him for a long time now on these boards, and he's even worse than Evas ex.
Like Lovely Isis my sister isn't going through all of that. But she has changed her numbers and she blocked him on facebook, but he found her on instagram, and her name is different than on facebook.
Its not so much defending Eva but Ive been seeing this for a while so I understand.
I think LovelyIsis answered the question though...men just like to conquer. Its just so weird my sisters ex reunited with his first girlfriend, got married, yet wont leave my sister alone.
I do agree TaurusBull, Eva could have a ton of emotions. Im just curious why the males would put a person through that when they don't have to.
Like Lovely Isis my sister isn't going through all of that. But she has changed her numbers and she blocked him on facebook, but he found her on instagram, and her name is different than on facebook.
Its not so much defending Eva but Ive been seeing this for a while so I understand.
I think LovelyIsis answered the question though...men just like to conquer. Its just so weird my sisters ex reunited with his first girlfriend, got married, yet wont leave my sister alone.
I do agree TaurusBull, Eva could have a ton of emotions. Im just curious why the males would put a person through that when they don't have to.
Posted by lnana04
You all are missing that my Virgo sister goes through this with her Taurus too. I definitely understand Eva, but Ive been curious about this type of behavior for two years now because of my sisters issues. Ive asked my male friend even why my sisters Taurus wont leave her alone. Ive posted about him for a long time now on these boards, and he's even worse than Evas ex.
Like Lovely Isis my sister isn't going through all of that. But she has changed her numbers and she blocked him on facebook, but he found her on instagram, and her name is different than on facebook.
Its not so much defending Eva but Ive been seeing this for a while so I understand.
I think LovelyIsis answered the question though...men just like to conquer. Its just so weird my sisters ex reunited with his first girlfriend, got married, yet wont leave my sister alone.
I do agree TaurusBull, Eva could have a ton of emotions. Im just curious why the males would put a person through that when they don't have to.
So, we have 2. I know a Cap at my place of business that was having an affair with a married woman for over a year. Then there's Tiger Woods....lol. I guess its pretty safe to generalize and say that Caps don't respect the sanctity of marriage.
Posted by lnana04
You all are missing that my Virgo sister goes through this with her Taurus too. I definitely understand Eva, but Ive been curious about this type of behavior for two years now because of my sisters issues. Ive asked my male friend even why my sisters Taurus wont leave her alone. Ive posted about him for a long time now on these boards, and he's even worse than Evas ex.
Like Lovely Isis my sister isn't going through all of that. But she has changed her numbers and she blocked him on facebook, but he found her on instagram, and her name is different than on facebook.
Its not so much defending Eva but Ive been seeing this for a while so I understand.
I think LovelyIsis answered the question though...men just like to conquer. Its just so weird my sisters ex reunited with his first girlfriend, got married, yet wont leave my sister alone.
I do agree TaurusBull, Eva could have a ton of emotions. Im just curious why the males would put a person through that when they don't have to.
Ina...I guess I can sympathize a bit with the Bull women point of view in regards to Eva, however, I don't fully know Eva's situation that they are speaking on, so I won't comment on that part of it. What I do know though is that I've dealt with 3 Bull MEN....and that dam "possessive/selfish" trait always rears its dam head when I've dealt with them and they tend to "charge" full head on true to their nature regardless of what you say to them...hard-headed a**es! But as my dad used to say...."a hard head makes a soft a** everyday!"...lol! It's Bull men "possessive/selfish" behavior that makes them chase merely for the dam sake of "possessing"...smh....sometimes relentlessly......true *ish!!! I'm still not going into a dam 'witness protection program' because of it either....as far as I'm concerned...it's a "HIM" problem....not a dam "ME" problem....so I won't be responsible for HIS dam issues/problems.....f*** that! There's always more ways than 1 to skin a dam 'cat'....oops I meant "BULL"! But I'm a dam Virgo 'robot' so I may be biased on speaking on this since 'emotions' are all entangled...LOL!
The majority of complaints about bulls on this board revolve around them being too passive/disinterested/aloof in relationships.
oh, and sloooowww...
This is confusing. But just be happy with your current relationship. You should not be even thinking about him... You like the chase or maybe the idea if you're current relationship don't work out, you'll go back cause it's a comfortable zone.. but it's bad enough when you've tried to work, and no positive feedback or compromise happened to begin with..
.. Lol, but he's not worth it. You finally found a Capricorn you like. Quit thinking about it. Figure out what you want.. Focus on you though..Just ignore him.. This is drama.
.. Lol, but he's not worth it. You finally found a Capricorn you like. Quit thinking about it. Figure out what you want.. Focus on you though..Just ignore him.. This is drama.
Tls, passive/aloof IN relationships yes. Im giving two examples of relationships that have been cut off by the Taurus and the possessiveness begins. Thats why Im confused. Its as if theres a delay with the actions vs the emotions.
Its just interesting to me, but my sisters Taurus told her he wish he would have done better and almost wishes she was the one he chose. It could all be silly talk, but i still don't understand the effort after the fact.
Its just interesting to me, but my sisters Taurus told her he wish he would have done better and almost wishes she was the one he chose. It could all be silly talk, but i still don't understand the effort after the fact.
i don't understand why you are saying you need to go into the 'witness protection programme'. just do what agentp does; block him when he pops up and then get on with your life. it's what all sensible non-drama queens would do.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
oh, and sloooowww...
no backing out of this, you guys are guilty as charged
Eva is married and pregnant. This guy should be so far down the priority list that he's not even on the priority list! Clearly he's a feature on the priority list. Why?
I think the Bulls have summed it up.
If you don't want someone to contact you then you make all effort to block them. She hasn't done this. The lines of communication are still open.
Who knows why this bull is contacting her and it shouldn't matter but clearly it matters to OP. A little curiosity may be justified but going to these lengths is not justified. He's on her mind more than he should be. If she wasn't married and/or pregnant then reminiscing and looking into it to this level isn't too bad at all.
I think the Bulls have summed it up.
If you don't want someone to contact you then you make all effort to block them. She hasn't done this. The lines of communication are still open.
Who knows why this bull is contacting her and it shouldn't matter but clearly it matters to OP. A little curiosity may be justified but going to these lengths is not justified. He's on her mind more than he should be. If she wasn't married and/or pregnant then reminiscing and looking into it to this level isn't too bad at all.
Posted by jeane
i don't understand why you are saying you need to go into the 'witness protection programme'. just do what agentp does; block him when he pops up and then get on with your life. it's what all sensible non-drama queens would do.
That persistent little shit gets his arse blocked every time!! He's not had my attention since about Feb/March 2009! It will stay that way. Thankfully he won't be able to get a visa for the UK so I'm safe!! I just hope he's got on with his life. No malice from my end.
I had another persistent little shit too last year. Five dates and he thought we were married!! His arse got blocked. He had his ex gf contact me via FB. He also posted stuff to my house. It was creepy. I had that sick feeling in my stomach. I mean, I know I check people out but at least I do it silently!! I had to tell him I would send the boys round if he didn't fuck off. He fucked off. Wise choice.
So yes, if you really didn't want contact, you'd block them.
I dunno though... I have been known to have a little drama occasionally although prefer not too...
Posted by jeanePosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
oh, and sloooowww...
no backing out of this, you guys are guilty as chargedclick to expand
What is all the rush about anyway? We are all headed to the same place....Let's just take our time and enjoy ourselves...
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
What is all the rush about anyway? We are all headed to the same place....Let's just take our time and enjoy ourselves...
there is no enjoyment when you are sitting on hands while waiting for someone else to:
a) make a decision
b) realise that the time is now
c) get to the point you were at weeks/months/years ago
d) jump on in because the water is fine
for the rest of us, the urge to take the proverbial bull by the horns can be overwhelming and infuriating.
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