Taurus guy back after months saying he loves me—

Hi

This is my first time here and found this forum due trying to look for an answer about this lovely and strange Taurus man...
We first meet in June last year in a very unusual situation.Not getting in details it happened we almost made love the first time we meet.. Was a craziness that never ever happened to me before. But this guy... God was explosive.
well that night he was keeping telling me all the time that he had found in me his soulmate and he didnt want to let me go.. He repeated several times, "I am crazy to let you go" you are the woman of my life... well all that stuff that melts any woman..
The truth is at that time I wasn't prepared or wanted any relationship.. had been trough a lot..
either way he kept texting me, calling, pursuing. he told me he felt for me...I kept questioning him how if we just had a few hours together... I did.. I think I felt for him too.. all the weeks next were overwhelming. he wanted a real date... and we had... all too prepared... that night he kept saying he wanted to know more about me, be my boyfriend.. well we were both separated at the time (but not divorced) I had and have a girl with 7 and he has got 3 kids... lets say we both in age enough to do things right.
That date we made love.. but something happened and i felt sick all night.. he was caring and wonderful but was a strange thing.
the days next he kept contacting me caring.. until one day we say nothing at all.. strange and with my temper i sent him a few texts that now I recognize were not nice... we spoke by text a couple of weeks more but we stop contact each other...
I got myself thinking, that he came after me, made me emotionally involved and then disappeared...
A few weeks later he got back to me but I was hurt and just treated him in a cold way...
I got into other relationship, this time with a cancer that last till a couple a weeks ago... Well cancer are just... Cancer...
Last week this Taurus contacted me again. started texting me. I treated him badly. First because i still hurt with the way he disappeared, second because I am tired of platonic relations... I need a stable relation or any...Tired of try stuff. so after my last relation I decided to be alone for years.. only want a relation if I feel its my soumate.. Thats what I'm looking for and don't take anything less..
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However Taurus get back to me and I put him off but he didn't gave up... And we have been texting in a daily basis. He says what he felt for me after the first time we meet and almost made love, he cant forget.. He says that he had a lot going on on his life that time after me he got back again to his wife but they separated once again. he says he got back to her for the wrong reasons and always thinking about me...
I still have an emotional connection with him, but not sure about what I feel.
In between he was insisting a lot to see me. and always talking about the sexual area. He says he wants me and loves me and Im the woman of his life.. I am always defensive and thinking that all he wants is sex.. This guy tell me that if he is sure of his feelings about me and I feel the same, he wants me to the rest of his life?

I am afraid this is a game.. he seems so honest, but he played with me once... I suggested meet him as a friend and take it from there...
we were supposed to meet yesterday once he was insisting.. I said yes, but told him that he can have my friendship only. I don't want anyone fooling around with my feelings anymore. And I'm not looking for a pure sexual relation. that's not what I want. After so many texts on Thursday he got quiet. we didn't had the place to meet ( we live 90m driving away)I asked him if was everything alright? I got suspicious that he has been lying to me.. sorry I have trust issues...
He sent me some texts saying that now he was not sure. he wanted to meet me only he is absolutely sure.. that he felt for me but his life is too complicated... well got back...it just blow my brains away.. I told him that he is the one contacting me and insisting... well my brains got a twist. I told him, look if you are not prepared to meet me fine. I am not rushing anything.. you were the one that contacted me back, so ... well the thing is he got me totally confused.... I don't understand what does he want? can any Taurus help me?

Sorry about all this writing and not sure if you guys can completely understand the story but I need so Taurus to help understand this man.

Sorry my message start down.. was not sure how to do it..

thanks

And I am a Scorpio by the way...

miop37 - male taurus currently doing the dance with female scorpio...

My opinion is he told you the truth about how he feels. He's a man and you are so attractive to him and its very obvious why he would be so sexual. That doesnt' mean he only wants sex. In my experience Taurus men are not really players at all; we want committed relationships that last. Loyalty and steadfastness is one of our stongest qualities.

My advice to you is very simple. You are more complex emotionally than he is. You need to just lay it out, tell him how you are feeling and stop hiding bc you are afraid or distrusting. Scorpios are SO confident in everything; why do they have trouble telling the bull how they feel? We will be SO gentle, accepting, and elated to hear it. He's told you already. Do your part. I know its harder for Scorpios to verbalize their emotions and there's a big distrust there, but you will know where you stand when you do.

Scorpio/Taurus just have so much trouble reading each other - its exhilirating to try but also exhausting. I have been on a bunch of forums and its the same story everywhere. If you aren't familiar with the Taurus/Scorpio issues, read the following sites:

http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/taurus-man-scorpio-woman/<BR>
http://cynthiarickson.blogspot.com/2010/11/scorpio-woman-and-taurus-man.html

Hi Tauruslovescorpio and thank you so much for your help.

I do know I have an issue regarding guys get closer to me.Intimacy for me is very important and I don't want to have relations just on behalf of the sexual area.. It doesn't last and I am so tired of try.

I am not ready for a relation at the moment too I think. Better I am,but only with someone that it is totally right to me... But how to know if he is the one? Gosh I feel tired to get hurt and don't want more drama like in my last relation... One thing I really do appreciate is the way he values me (or says so) Yeah I am always thinking is not really truth...

He really shows a side very romantic (is that possible?) that totally goes along with me.. But I do agree I am a very complex person in emotional terms.. I believe in a soul mate and in love for life.. but find this has been looking like impossible...

My last relation I found bits of me I wasn't aware.I found I can be a truly Scorpio that when crossed I am able to be really hurtful to the other person.I have never been that way... But the thing is I ended more hurt and fragile
and I think to myself if any day I will find someone I can really open myself.. If I can trust other soul to really see who I am... This Taurus seems to know.. better he has an energy over me that makes me feel he does... But I do am Scared. And I told him already. I told him straight away I am scared to get really involved with him and get hurt again. My emotional side can't take more stuff. otherwise I am real near to feel bitter about Love.

The links you have post , specially the first one were really helpful to understand. I identify myself exactly like the Scorpio described. And yes I am afraid to my dark side. If Now at 37, I found myself being resentful and revengeful like I did to the last relation, what else can I be? Yeah there is an area to study about me...

Tauruslovescorpio.. I can see by your name you love a scorpio woman.. Can you handle with her emotional depth? Do you know it already? have you seen her other dark side? How do you deal when is need good comprehension and acceptance and make the peace between?

thank you again