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Posted by DrinkWater
Maybe its procrastination, there is probably one thing you want the most, its also the hardest. The rest is just distraction's you're using as excuses to avoid the big thing...maybe.
That or you can do a little bit of everything and they will all benefit or compliment each other in some way, I have a whole bunch of different goals and things I love doing, when I do one thing, I get better at the other thing. My hunting makes me better at skiing through the way I navigate in the mountains, My skiing gives me inspiration for art and makes me move differently on my bike. I can put down some activeitys for a couple years and then focus on one thing while and then switch it up, I don't actually have to pick one thing over the other. Or maybe I'm just procrastinating.
Posted by Redbull
I think a lot of my outlook and what I have gotten done is due to the point I am at in life but I can answer some of your questions.
How do you manage to set reasonable expectations/goals.. etc.?
I have a thing where I have "must do's" these are things that I think about and its like "I gotta do it". Then its a matter of the steps to get it done. Who knows how long it will take. These are things that my heart is in sufficiently. Some instincts and practicality usually weighs into it to. These are easier decisions.
The harder ones are the ones like a current one-should I sell or keep my house. Because the "feel" side is kind of divided as is the practical. possibly gain money but how much and wht do I have to do vs. keep the house which costs money but I have a house...which will cost money, time, energy and needs a lot. but its hard to decide whether to move on for whatever reason. I think we can ponder and dont want to "mess up". Still trying to decide this one.
Sometimes its just a matter of getting going. If unemployed try to find a job which eliminates a lot of daily decisions. Gotta go to work if need that money. No debate. Which can open up other paths. Or start business. Get it going and the rest unfolds from there.
Posted by Impulsv