Taurus Male acting different PLEASE help

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by goldrockett on Tuesday, February 17, 2015 and has 3 replies.

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@goldrockett
12 Years

Ive been dating I guess you can say this guy for a month now. We click like crazy. Been seeing each other every weekend since. Spent Valentine's weekend with him and it was perfect up until I had to leave. I all of a sudden start to cry. Hes just been so amazing to be around and hes been great to me and calls me cute names ALL the time but I was sad I guess about having to leave that and go back home. We live about 40-50 mins away. Well he hugged me so tight and consoled me. Well I guess since then things been a little different. Almost kind of dry. He did tell me that my crying overwehlmed him and even questioned that if/when we got together if thats how itd be. I sometimes show crying as my frustration. I explained it to him and he said ok he understood and we're good. But something just still seems a little off. Usually we talk back to back to back ALL day but since the incident our convos die off after a little. I'm thinking about just backing off a little to give him space and I guess allow him to miss me or realize the change in our communication or the flame somewhat dimming. Would giving him space be wise ? Would he bounce back ?

One more thing, i asked if wed seen each other this coming weekend and he said he thinks we need time apart, to give each other a chance to miss each other and we also have friends. See I guess weekends for us are better bc were both off. Seeing each other during the week might be a little complicated even seeing how were not in a relationship yet. I guess I just took it wrong bc it made me feel like he wasnt pressed to see me and that we'd have to wait 2 weeks before seeing each other again. Since that talk yesterday morning things been a little different. Maybe I should give him space and let him approach me ?

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@goldrockett
12 Years

Posted by jeane
honestly? it sounds like you may have done your dash.

well hes still talking to me and calling me cute names and stuff. Hes not ignoring me at all.