Taurus male and aquarius female

I've been with this girl for 5years.I read horoscopes to better understand her.She is a tough girl and I feel like she doesn't show her indepth feelings for me.I love her to death and I know she loves me.I need to know how to make her on fire in bed also.She says she enjoys it and I satisfy her.But mentaly I don't totally feel it. I am a body builder now and used to be a model but my self esteme of myself is not their.I do get copliments from her sometimes,but I need more. We've living together after the 1st 6months of the relationship. Everything is great overall I shouldn't complain.We have a communication problem I decifer what she says differently and she does the same.Things that are minute to her are very important to me.I always try to keep her interested and make things exciting by using an intellectual approach.Even sometimes buying little gifts like a good book [ripley's believe it or not,every day after work she read it until she finished she loved it.Recently 4days ago I bought her an electronic cross word puzzle game.She han't put it down yet either.Thigs like this I believe have made her relize how important her well being is to me.I have talked to her about trying to make me feel like i'm #1 and not just saying it.This is not an easy relationship,I know she is faithful and wants to be with me forever ,but the stars say we will never work.I am not going to give up anytime soon.Just need advice from some aquariuses out their!!!!!

I didn't type this before,,,I definetly want to hear opinions from all the Taurus people out their.Plenty of aquarien people have responded. Now I really need a different angle.Thank you

dear Taurus guy, i unerstand that u'll wanted to hear from taurus people, but as an aqua girl, esp aqua deeply in love with taurus..so i just wanted to mention that i'm having almost the same quetions and a lot of them to taurus , and sometimes they make even my aquahead spin but hey i'm still here ,no intensions to move any time soon - i guess it is love.....
good luck......from aqua2(u can look up previous messages i had some questions for taurus people too)

Ask me anything you want.Were both in the same boat.Maybe we can help each other.Talk to me!!!!! Thanks

Sorry wrong ### message above is to #152.Thanks

hello once again and about sex....if she tells u that she is satisfied-thats mean that she is.u feel that way cause first girls need a little bit more than just phisical, i mean it is not always the main thing,,,esp aqua girl we spin it with some rainbow dreams.lol.....and sooner or later she'll open them up to u....and if she is with u and for 5 years,,,,,thats alredy a big prove that she is into u....i know sometimes we aloof,a little bit cold or distant but we heard all what u said and we do think that u are very special(of course u are, she is there by ur side) p.s i'm judging by myself...but i have few close gf and they all aqua ,believe me no big difference. but problem(for us it is not a problem) with us is that we can travel , it is like 3 dimension past,present and future,,,,and it is such a tease to get a pick and entertain ourselves...
please mention her birthday,,,,this way it will be easy to tell u more , i'm kinda expert at that now......lol, also trying to figure this swweet bull out......first question,,,,,do u show her ur affection a lot? and is it was right from a start of your rela-p or u kinda looking for her to start action and than u respond? did she clearly told u how she feels about u? i mean do she tells u that she loves u?( asking , because one of my gf,still tells her bf after 3 years of living toghether that she loves him, but not in love with him. she even got her own theory about the difference in this two expresions.) do she also feel that u are her friend also,,wierd but for aquas that very important.....
sorry for wrong spelling, kind rushing ....any questions u welcome and i'm thinking on ,my questions to u.....bye....take care.
aqua2

HI!!! You have some great points.Well to start I make the first move almost all the time.I know she is a little goofy and wants to kiss me and call me all these funny sayings like your my honey bunches of oats,,or your so scrumpshish and dittleyumpshish ect.She would rather me cuddle on the couch and watch tv.Note tv is a big thing with her.We both work for ATT/broadband.I would rather spend one on one time with the friggen thing off.I tell her she is like a clydsdale horse with flaps on the sides of her eyes and she has [Tunnel vision].She says she loves me all the time+I say the same.She feels i'll never be satisfied with her.She says she has been trying more lately.I asked HOW.She's like well I have been humping you more. I laughed and said well that's not everything but it's about time.Sex is not on the top of her list.Her mom + grandmother made her think it was dirty growing up.Portugues old school.I'm french and I'll tell ya theirs women out their who would love a guy like me.3times a day easy.I can't get enough that's for sure!!!! I thought for awhile I didn't hit it right[ excuse my french],,,,but she says I'm the man.I told her I want to feel like i'm the man.So she has been expressing herself alittle more so I shouldn't complain.It's like I want to take care of her and then myself.She wants it the other way around most of the time.I get mental satisfaction from taking care of business.I shouldn't say this but I feel a women can get blue balls in a way.Then if some casanova gets her on one of those days she might stray.That's my mentality and something I need to work on.It's all about trust.I don't trust women to well.My mom left when I was 7 and @15 my stepmother put me in a foster home.I was never a trouble maker my stepmother physically abused me.She stabbed me with a ginsue steak knife @ 15 right before they got rid of me.Enough of my childhood drama.I think I expect to much from my girl because I need that women figure in my life to be content.She was born on Jan 22,1974 2:45pm.I May18,1974 07:00am.I'ts past 7:00pm and I have to leave work,Talk to you soon and thankyou.Tell your friends I said hi and get input from them also.

just a quick hello.....hey u a really strong person esp after all what happend to u.....and do u know what exactly turn her on?
asking because by my relationship know that taurus have more plain, earthy view of sex ,,,,,here oh G-d it depends..truly sometimes the way he sipping hot tea,or eating grape ,even if it happend at the morning , makes me going whole day.lol.....consulted my gf and they had the same answers, but we do have plain lusty desires and believe me pretty often,,but i do hide it from him sometimes,,,can't explain why..i think just takes time to open up,,
about tv....with me it is totaly different- he likes to watch it all the time. for me it is the way how he used to spent his time, kinda relaxing him and helps to switch his thoughts from daily problems......i like to read,draw, listen to music and preferebly spend time cuddling and talking to him.......lol
o.k talk to u later....two question ....did u fall for her from the start or how long did i took?
also,,do u get satisfied? ( for aquas more important to keep special person happy,cause our sexuality as i told u kinda different from urs.so u got to be first if we are in love)i asked u that ,cause there are opinion that taurus man even if in love, very lusty and prefer to have side partners,,,,and there loyalty is just mental.. not phisical(one taurus told me that sex is like brekfast, for him,,,,and having gf ,is not cheating on his wife,by his words mentally he loves his wife,,but body needs variety.....lol
bye..

I have a question for you.I can't understand some of you abrieveations.My spelling's not the greatest,as you can see.Anyway what does this statement mean.I think i took this the wrong way.,,,,,,,asking because by my relationship know that taurus have more plain, earthy view of sex ,,,,,here oh G-d it depends..truly sometimes the way he sipping hot tea,or eating grape ,even if it happend at the morning , makes me going whole day.lol.....What does ""here oh g-d"""mean.Sounds kinky at that moment.Hope I didn't offend you.If I did i'm sorry.Anyway My veiw of sex is anytime anyplace.I love adventure and new exciting ways of turning on or being turned on.By the way she takes care of business but I can't leave the house in the morning without takin the edge off.I she's their or not.I've been that way for years it's just like having a cigarette when you wake up.Sometimes I think their is something wrong with me.And it's like when I am home from work and she walking around half naked ,,,now it's time to do the real thing.She sometime says ,,,again.I just gave it to you this morning I say that doesn't count.Maybe it's just me.As for having a mental love and needing another piece for a change of pace.This is a tough one Every guy no mater what sign if he is good looking and some hottie wants to tear him up.Hey men are men.I have been faithful to her but it does cross my mind.Like I just came back from the mall next to were I work.It must be spring fever ,,it was jammed.Some blonde was staring @ me and she said to her friend look@ the size of the arms on that guy.I smerked and she called me over.I said what's up.She said can I feel it.I said feel what .Your arm.OK.I made a remark like I have something else that feels better than that.She said O yea I bet+ looked at the buldge in my pants.What would any guy do.She was hot.If she would have said how about going to my car and I could feel that other ""arm""of yours.I don't know if I could turn her down.That were you get that taurus thinking going.Life is short and I need to stop being so into to this girl in certain ways.I love her but don't know if she can fufill all my needs.I want to have a happy future because I know I'm worth it.Well enough of that stuff .Good news though my girl told me I was the love of her life .That made me feel real good.If I did ever do something I would feel guilty but wouldn't tell her,,that would be digging my own grave ya know what I mean.Hope I don't sound like a dog but I'm still a man with alot of drive.Talk to ya soon.

that meant oh God,,,,,BUT IN MY CULTURE PEOPLE PREFER NOT TO SAY HIS NAME,SO IT IS SO THEY SHORT CUT IT....lol maybe wierd.....anyway about all the males i guess u are right.but my another male friend says that sex is something that u defenetly can work out,,,if u want...it is achivable...but how u explained me she do love u very much, and u are the love of her lifeand it is very important for aquas..
i have a question for u,,,,i don't know it is like he do have some feelings for me and when we are toghether it is great( we still need to work on sex issue too, believe me it sound almost like yours)but he do act "funny" sometimes like he don't want to get involved,i think he was hurt before....and sometimes i just want to walk away, but i love him so much,he is so special to me despite all the difference. but the way he act blocking me to show my affection and fully open up in sex..(i guess i need to be encourged by him.)
so the question is how can figure out that he is serious? what is it question of time? is it any signs that maybe will encourge me , and i'll open it up by myself.....——??

Am a female taurus, have an acquarius fiancee. Believe me am also going through a similar crisis. The best thing is to give her some space.. Taurus.. possessive and acquarius don't handle that very well. So show her affection and don't expect much.. That way you will survive

strange, in my case i'm aqua female with rising in taurus- and he is taurus but he needs a lot of space and as soon as he feels that little by little i'm getting too close he backs off.......

aqua2

Hi,

For the Taurus men here who have posted on this subject -- and others as well; I'm a little confused now because I have a Taurus male friend who said to me that he is not sexually attracted to many women. Now judging from the posts here, and that some of the Taurus men said they wouldn't turn down many and/or hot looking females, I'm wondering if my friend just said that to me out of curiousity to see what type of woman I was. But I have heard that Taurus men want one woman and stability. And being that I'm not attracted to many men -- and I don't make many connections either, I do wonder about this now. Any feedback of this would be appreciated. Is this a Taurus male trait?