Taurus male - how slow is S-L-O-W?

Hi need your advice. Read lots on Taurus men, but here's my situ. Met and got together fast, got wined/dined/holidays at start very passionate - perfect! Then slowed to stop when he realised not over ex. We have never broken up but not seen each other for a while. I am not sure how long to wait. I love this man and know we have a future. On top of that he is moving home and says wants to be settled and sorted before 'picking up with me'. I said I am happy to wait, but this has been a few months now. Says not to worry if he goes quiet. This is hard for me, I am an air sign, communication is my thing. I have not pressurised him and tried to go with the flow, but am worried he will 'forget' me. I am spontaneous and fast, and he seems very slow. How slow is slow with these men? I read that they can take YEARS! Is this characteristic Taurus behaviour?

Eek, sorry to hear but could be a while. I'm not a man, but I am the same.

I'm guessing he didn't think anything was going to transpire from your relationship otherwise he wouldn't have moved fwd still fresh from an ex. But it happens. He is probably weighing it all out, trying to figure out what's best. He knows it's not right to do both, which is hard for you but what can you do?

Just move on with your life and send him msgs to check up on him once in a while - let him know you still care. That's if you really do. Otherwise, just keep going. Not fair for you and its not like he can give you an exact date on when he will have it all straightened out.

Interesting when you say 'I'm guessing he didn't think anything was going to transpire from your relationship otherwise he wouldn't have moved fwd still fresh from an ex,' since he was doing all the chasing, arranging our futures etc (we knew each other as friends for a while before).It was the transpired feelings for the ex that stalled him.

Thanks for your advice. I am hesitant with moving on as this impiles we are done. I understand Taurus are very sensitive souls who might not show these feelings. Glad it's ok to send him msgs to check up on him once in a while - I still care and want a relationship with him. He knows this. He says that when he has moved he will feel better and can move forward, so will look forward to that.

Thanks!

Guess my next question is, should I just be patient....??

You're saying he realized he still had feelings for his ex, correct?

Not sure what their relationship was like or if he feels he still has a shot w/the ex...? Would hate for you to be patient if he's trying to work things out w/the ex and I'm not saying he is. I just don't know what the situation is.