Taurus males help me an Aries understand you guys.

Hi Taurus long term stalker on dxpnet recent member.

To cut a long story short this Taurus guy he's 28 born 25th April 1984 I'm an Aries 22 born 6th April 1990.
We met at work we've known each other for a couple of months now and he's so sweet but bossy at the same time but he does it in a nice way.
I'm a bit confused with him since I don't know where I stand sometimes I think he likes me more than a friend since he says things like he misses me and calls me baby, touches my elbow/arm and recently started asking me more personal questions about my family and if I had a boyfriend also if I can cook and my Cancer guy co worker said Taurus gets jealous when Cancer guy is around me, which he shouldn't since Cancer has a wife and 3 kids so I wouldn't go there anyway.

I've only liked 2 other guys in my life and that fizzled out quickly.
This Taurus guy is the first guy that I am interested in and I care a lot about what he thinks about me but sometimes he gets cold towards me that's why I'm confused why would he say one thing one moment then get cold and distant the next.

I just want to know if this is normal Taurus behaviour or what I should do to make him like me more also does Aries and Taurus work in a relationship and if you know our charts it would be great thanks. I'm a Virgo rising and moon not sure what his is.

Posted by Kira
Hello,

As a Taurus man, I think he is clearly interested in you. We love physical contacts that's why if a Taurus guy touches you it's usually pretty good sign. As for him being jealous of cancer guy... I don't actually think it's jealousy but possessivity especially with the current state of your relationship...He just doesn't feel exclusive anymore... but nothing to worry about it's just us being attention whore 😛.

It made me laugh when you said he ask you if you're able to cook.... how typical lol.
But once again... we only ask personal questions if we're interested in that person...if not... we usualy don't bother and rather talk about everyday's stuff.

As for him being cold to you sometime... don't read too much into it... we're just like that and we take time to sort out our feelings. We also idolize the object of our affection a lot so sometime if we don't get the reaction we're expecting, we're just a little disapointed...but again nothing to worry about.

You're still in the getting to know each other phase... so just do that... don't rush things take your time and learn more about each other.

Here's a few stuff you could do:

Return the favor... and gently touch him and look at his face 🙂
We like feminine woman so just act ladylike...but don't go out of your way...be yourself so the relation stays honest 🙂


Good luck to you

Thanks Kira for the reply I'm just worried that I'm reading the signs wrong since I've accidently read the signs with a guy before and made a move and I was wrong 😢. Glad it happened though or I wouldn't have met Taurus guy.

That's reassuring to know there was a bit of paper in his hair the other day and I wanted to take it out for him but I left it since I thought he would think it was weird or something.
Also Cancer guy told me Taurus guy hasn't had a gf or wife for a long time plus I did catch him look at my bum in the office but I just thought he's just being a typical man.
Plus he helps me with my work so I'm not behind on anything which I found really sweet.

I just can't stop having dreams about him I've been late for work a couple of times since I don't want to leave my bed sorry for the TMI lol.

I can be feminine I am a lot more since I turned 18 I wear make up, do my nails and hair but me being an Aries I have boyish qualities too which I'm toning down.

The next time you see paper in his hair... REMOVE IT ! 😉

Posted by David13
The next time you see paper in his hair... REMOVE IT ! 😉

Oh I will!!!!!!! 🙂

Posted by scorchedearth
as an aries you're really going to have to done down your impulsivity. it'd also be nice if you could let things flow naturally and not try to ram at things to make them go quicker. you're probably going to have to be the one to initiate things, being the cardinal sign. taurus is good at follow through but initiation isn't taureans best quality.

it seems like he likes you already so it shouldn't take much for it to keep moving.

just remember to be yourself.

Thanks scorchedearth it's interesting you mentioned about Taurus being bad at initiation since I'm OK with that since I don't think about the consequences until later but I'm terrible at follow through so I hope that would balance us out.

I'm a Virgo rising and moon not sure it that will tone down my Arian nature.

Posted by scorchedearth
the virgo probably does calm your fire a little bit. plus, it's super compatible with his taurus-bits.

my best advice you to is to be patient but persistent.

Ok I will hope I don't have to wait long >.

Posted by ands
He is born near me. These taureans have a lot of Scorpio in them too. Mars, Pluto, Saturn in scorp.

I checked his Mars it is in Scorpio is that a good thing or not what type of girls do you like and how do you show someone you like them what signs should I look out for.

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Posted by ands
He is born near me. These taureans have a lot of Scorpio in them too. Mars, Pluto, Saturn in scorp.

I checked his Mars it is in Scorpio is that a good thing or not what type of girls do you like and how do you show someone you like them what signs should I look out for.

you need to google mars in scorpio because there's no way to explain it well without sounding like an egomaniac. it's a very intense placement. obsessive.

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Posted by Rammalot

Posted by ands
He is born near me. These taureans have a lot of Scorpio in them too. Mars, Pluto, Saturn in scorp.

I checked his Mars it is in Scorpio is that a good thing or not what type of girls do you like and how do you show someone you like them what signs should I look out for.

I actually like virgos and Virgo risings! But I have merc on my descendant. I like Leos too but my moon is there.

Taureans like beauty. Don't mind the boyish part I read a few posts up. Idk about other taureans but I like masculine energy in females. Especially Leo, libra, Aries as of late. They're still feminine for me in many ways despite the labeling.

You're also a horse year no?

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Yeah a horse and I think he's a rat but I read that is a bad combo 😢 just my luck

I asked Taurus if he was serious about what he said when he says he misses me but because he's such a jokey type person I'm not sure.
Do you Taurus guys say what you mean or just like to test the waters?