Angeleyes17
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Taurus man - Hot and Cold
I am a Taurus with Aquarius moon..I don't know why people are hot n cold. But I am stable but I do have tendencies to detach any kind of actions or words.like I get scared or don't know how to handle a certain situa.idk..but anyone that has air or mutable is always changing their minds. Including me. But I will always be honest and straight forward with you..
If I am stressing I hardly communicate. I don't like burdening others with my random mood swings.. Rather I space out and then come back when I have attached myself to reality..then I communicate.. maybe its his Mars, Venus and moon as well..
Why don't you actually meet him and then you'll have something to go on. Fretting over online/text isn't worth it.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I am a Taurus with Aquarius moon..I don't know why people are hot n cold. But I am stable but I do have tendencies to detach any kind of actions or words.like I get scared or don't know how to handle a certain situa.idk..but anyone that has air or mutable is always changing their minds. Including me. But I will always be honest and straight forward with you..
If I am stressing I hardly communicate. I don't like burdening others with my random mood swings.. Rather I space out and then come back when I have attached myself to reality..then I communicate.. maybe its his Mars, Venus and moon as well..
Thank you for this.. Its weird because I also do keep my distance when I'm stressed about something but that's because iv never been dependent on anyone to share/express my feelings too.. Now I don't know whether that's naturally in me or if its my life experience.lol Its just annoying that we have this connection and I really do want to meet him/go on a date, but its just dragging too much now.
So you think this Taurus guy is like this too? became overwhelmed? I guess im just not liking that fact that I'm being ignored.
Posted by AgentP911
Why don't you actually meet him and then you'll have something to go on. Fretting over online/text isn't worth it.
trust me i really want to meet this guy.. I would rather have a conversation face to face. He has mentioned it twice that we will meet up and he was the one who first asked me if I would like to go out for dinner some day... that 'some day' was months ago 😢
grrr men..slow men...why oh why lol
cheekyfaerie,
We've been chatting since March 2014.. is that a bad sign if he isn't initiating anything? Because from what I have learnt about from this forum about the Taurus is that they are very patient and don't rush.
We've been chatting since March 2014.. is that a bad sign if he isn't initiating anything? Because from what I have learnt about from this forum about the Taurus is that they are very patient and don't rush.
Posted by Angeleyes17
cheekyfaerie,
We've been chatting since March 2014.. is that a bad sign if he isn't initiating anything? Because from what I have learnt about from this forum about the Taurus is that they are very patient and don't rush.
Text buddies only.
Like CF said, there's slow and then there's taking the piss.
There was 5000 miles distance between me and this Taurus guy. We'd met before and kept in contact for six months. I flew over to see him recently and it was a fucking disaster. Turns out he preferred the attention of text instead of the reality of a person. Total dick head.
If this guy is within reasonable distance of you and hasn't asked you out and set a date since March then he's not interested or serious enough.
In a way I'm glad my situation only lasted six months and has ended as otherwise I could have seen it being strung out into early next year while the Taurus guy 'procrastinated' about it all!
Either cut contact or ask him out and be very direct about it. He'll either agree to meet and follow through without cancellation or he'll avoid it and make an excuse.
Angeleyes17:
I'm in a similar situation with a Taurus man. We did manage to meet once but haven't been able to make it happen again.
We've been talking for over a year - wish I could break-free but the connection I feel is so strong.
Sometimes I wonder if its just the Scorpio intensity! Haha.
I think that Taurus are just so cautious! They also get so into work, kids, etc. and can't seem to multi-task well.
AgentP911 is right - you should ask him and be very direct.
If nothing else the Taurus will help teach you patience! Lol. I'm not good with being patient but have learned to be because of the Taurus Man! Ha
Good Luck! 🙂
I'm in a similar situation with a Taurus man. We did manage to meet once but haven't been able to make it happen again.
We've been talking for over a year - wish I could break-free but the connection I feel is so strong.
Sometimes I wonder if its just the Scorpio intensity! Haha.
I think that Taurus are just so cautious! They also get so into work, kids, etc. and can't seem to multi-task well.
AgentP911 is right - you should ask him and be very direct.
If nothing else the Taurus will help teach you patience! Lol. I'm not good with being patient but have learned to be because of the Taurus Man! Ha
Good Luck! 🙂
Almost same situation for me too. We had an AMAZING first date for coffee, which lasted for hours.
He texted me right after we departed declaring the connection yadda, yadda... kept texting daily and even said, "can't wait to see you again," more than once.
However, haven't heard from him for 3 days.
I like him, feel a connection, but I'm allergic to bullsheet, no pun.
My feeling is, while they are slow to decide, there has got to be some REAL sign of interest. Otherwise, it's nothing more than a charming game.
I'm sure my bull, and yours will resurface... but I'm going to continue dating others and living my life.
I'm a patient sag (can you even imagine "patient" and "sag" in the same sentence?), but I won't allow a bull or any other bullsheeter to walk on me.
He texted me right after we departed declaring the connection yadda, yadda... kept texting daily and even said, "can't wait to see you again," more than once.
However, haven't heard from him for 3 days.
I like him, feel a connection, but I'm allergic to bullsheet, no pun.
My feeling is, while they are slow to decide, there has got to be some REAL sign of interest. Otherwise, it's nothing more than a charming game.
I'm sure my bull, and yours will resurface... but I'm going to continue dating others and living my life.
I'm a patient sag (can you even imagine "patient" and "sag" in the same sentence?), but I won't allow a bull or any other bullsheeter to walk on me.
Have you talk to him lately?
throw random texts and see which one applies?
like I was really worried about you and I care for you, are you ok?
Are you in the hospital?
Just tell me what is up? I really want another date with you why are you ignoring me?
throw random texts and see which one applies?
like I was really worried about you and I care for you, are you ok?
Are you in the hospital?
Just tell me what is up? I really want another date with you why are you ignoring me?
Hm trying flirting or complimenting him on something..We do have alot of things to do, but if I was interested I would not ignore you.Even if i was busy I would find time. Regardless if I have an airy wishy washy moon sign. I love communication..and hate being ignored. I can only take so much of the ignoring before I send a couple more texts and find the motive on why you havent's text back when i found the time...
Posted by cheekyfaerie
There's not rushing and there's taking the piss. Unless there's a considerable amount of distance between you, I'd think 9mths of talking is enough to know if he wants to meet you or not. The fact he's brought it up a few times, but hasn't made a plan, makes it seem like a dangling carrot. Once again, if there's not a great distance involved.
They may be slow to decide things, but once they make up their minds, they seem keen to go about getting it. That requires some sort of action, while you're experiencing a holding pattern.
He travels a lot due to work and lives in 2 different places.. one of them is closer in London. So I understand he may be stressed with the pressure of work or has a busy schedule. I just hoped that at some point I mattered.. if that makes sense. I do want to meet him and i have mentioned it.. I guess I'll just have to move forward.. keep busy..
Posted by AgentP911Posted by Angeleyes17
cheekyfaerie,
We've been chatting since March 2014.. is that a bad sign if he isn't initiating anything? Because from what I have learnt about from this forum about the Taurus is that they are very patient and don't rush.
Text buddies only.
Like CF said, there's slow and then there's taking the piss.
There was 5000 miles distance between me and this Taurus guy. We'd met before and kept in contact for six months. I flew over to see him recently and it was a fucking disaster. Turns out he preferred the attention of text instead of the reality of a person. Total dick head.
If this guy is within reasonable distance of you and hasn't asked you out and set a date since March then he's not interested or serious enough.
In a way I'm glad my situation only lasted six months and has ended as otherwise I could have seen it being strung out into early next year while the Taurus guy 'procrastinated' about it all!
Either cut contact or ask him out and be very direct about it. He'll either agree to meet and follow through without cancellation or he'll avoid it and make an excuse.
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I sense that randomly he's not interested when he gets cold about showing he's not interested. I've been through that many times when i have made the effort and travelled far to meet a guy and it just turns out to be a mega disappointment. That's really awful tho.. how was he when you saw him? shy? reserved? rude?
Posted by TrueScorp12
Angeleyes17:
I'm in a similar situation with a Taurus man. We did manage to meet once but haven't been able to make it happen again.
We've been talking for over a year - wish I could break-free but the connection I feel is so strong.
Sometimes I wonder if its just the Scorpio intensity! Haha.
I think that Taurus are just so cautious! They also get so into work, kids, etc. and can't seem to multi-task well.
AgentP911 is right - you should ask him and be very direct.
If nothing else the Taurus will help teach you patience! Lol. I'm not good with being patient but have learned to be because of the Taurus Man! Ha
Good Luck! 🙂
I hope it works out for the both of us. From what youre saying i can tell you dont get that connection easily. Thats the thing.. im shocked at myself that im being this patient and its getting to a point where im thinking.. "why the hell is he not making the move" lol
Posted by nycchick
Almost same situation for me too. We had an AMAZING first date for coffee, which lasted for hours.
He texted me right after we departed declaring the connection yadda, yadda... kept texting daily and even said, "can't wait to see you again," more than once.
However, haven't heard from him for 3 days.
I like him, feel a connection, but I'm allergic to bullsheet, no pun.
My feeling is, while they are slow to decide, there has got to be some REAL sign of interest. Otherwise, it's nothing more than a charming game.
I'm sure my bull, and yours will resurface... but I'm going to continue dating others and living my life.
I'm a patient sag (can you even imagine "patient" and "sag" in the same sentence?), but I won't allow a bull or any other bullsheeter to walk on me.
Have you heard from him now? Thats the best way at the moment really.. to contintue the usual daily life style .. keep busy etc.. if its ment to be, it will be. 🙂
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Have you talk to him lately?
throw random texts and see which one applies?
like I was really worried about you and I care for you, are you ok?
Are you in the hospital?
Just tell me what is up? I really want another date with you why are you ignoring me?
We had a long conversation on the 25/11 and he was asking how my birthday went etc and from there the convo just carried on.
29/11 i messaged him how he is and what hes up to tonight. - No reply
04/12 I messaged again saying "Hey I havent heard from you for a while.. you ok? xxx - No reply
Since then no communication at all. I hate being ignored to.. i mean after you get that kind of attention from someone you like and randomly its gone, it can get very puzzling.
Posted by Angeleyes17Posted by AgentP911Posted by Angeleyes17
cheekyfaerie,
We've been chatting since March 2014.. is that a bad sign if he isn't initiating anything? Because from what I have learnt about from this forum about the Taurus is that they are very patient and don't rush.
Text buddies only.
Like CF said, there's slow and then there's taking the piss.
There was 5000 miles distance between me and this Taurus guy. We'd met before and kept in contact for six months. I flew over to see him recently and it was a fucking disaster. Turns out he preferred the attention of text instead of the reality of a person. Total dick head.
If this guy is within reasonable distance of you and hasn't asked you out and set a date since March then he's not interested or serious enough.
In a way I'm glad my situation only lasted six months and has ended as otherwise I could have seen it being strung out into early next year while the Taurus guy 'procrastinated' about it all!
Either cut contact or ask him out and be very direct about it. He'll either agree to meet and follow through without cancellation or he'll avoid it and make an excuse.
I sense that randomly he's not interested when he gets cold about showing he's not interested. I've been through that many times when i have made the effort and travelled far to meet a guy and it just turns out to be a mega disappointment. That's really awful tho.. how was he when you saw him? shy? reserved? rude?click to expand
He was an idiot. Not the behaviour expected of a 34 year old man. However, I went there to see if there was anything there and to get to know each other better. I did get to know him better and concluded he was an idiot!
As for me flying out there instead of him coming to me, this was taken into serious consideration and originally he was coming over to see me which would show he was surely interested enough but due to various circumstances it didn't work out that way. I took the chance and it didn't have a 'happy ever after'. Nobody could have predicted how fucking awful the entire thing would be. Regardless, if it was meant to be it was meant to be. It wasn't meant to be.
Posted by AgentP911Posted by Angeleyes17Posted by AgentP911Posted by Angeleyes17
cheekyfaerie,
We've been chatting since March 2014.. is that a bad sign if he isn't initiating anything? Because from what I have learnt about from this forum about the Taurus is that they are very patient and don't rush.
I sense that randomly he's not interested when he gets cold about showing he's not interested. I've been through that many times when i have made the effort and travelled far to meet a guy and it just turns out to be a mega disappointment. That's really awful tho.. how was he when you saw him? shy? reserved? rude?
He was an idiot. Not the behaviour expected of a 34 year old man. However, I went there to see if there was anything there and to get to know each other better. I did get to know him better and concluded he was an idiot!
As for me flying out there instead of him coming to me, this was taken into serious consideration and originally he was coming over to see me which would show he was surely interested enough but due to various circumstances it didn't work out that way. I took the chance and it didn't have a 'happy ever after'. Nobody could have predicted how fucking awful the entire thing would be. Regardless, if it was meant to be it was meant to be. It wasn't meant to be.
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Oh yeah you expect a man at that age to be in a mature state of mind. In some weird way good comes out of the bad.. its good that you went to see him, that curiosity you had about him how he would be etc went after seeing him. Its really true though because we make the effort first they take us for granted. I've learnt from my mistake and I will never do that again. I'm gona make sure he makes the move/effort first. Did he try to contact you after?
Yes. He called me once a few days after I flew home. I've no idea wtf he wanted but considering I was in the USA for three weeks and we spent a grand total of about 8 hours together, most of which was instigated by me because he couldn't or wouldn't muster enough effort to make any arrangements at all and he didn't even take me out for dinner or drinks at all, he spent about ??7 on me (so $ 10) and bitched about that too, so I have to say I'm not interested in wtf he was calling me for.
He's a big bowl of bullshit and a suit full of nothing. An extremely poor excuse of a human being. I hope he dies a very long and painful death in a very dark and lonely corner somewhere in his tragic little world...
He's a big bowl of bullshit and a suit full of nothing. An extremely poor excuse of a human being. I hope he dies a very long and painful death in a very dark and lonely corner somewhere in his tragic little world...
+Cheeky
Sounds like he's most likely either married and/or in a very serious relationship with someone. Single men meet and they meet as soon as possible because they don't want to build up a relationship online only to fall short later on down the line.
Tread carefully, you're in it's going nowhere zone and it's a Bitch to get out of once you're fully in it.
I agree with "You are very puzzling to me. You are spending so much time thinking of a guy, who doesn't display respect, nor interest with u and yet it is a turn on for you. Think hard for a moment: what kind of relationship do want to have? This is not a taurus related issue, It is you, your thought that needs some adjustments. And to all ladies who is reading this post, NEVER fly over to see a guy or drive long distance to meet up with a guy unless "He did this first for you." (I'm talking in term of romance interest here), He will never respect you if you do this. It is nothing to do with horoscope, it is a hormone thing. Find a gentleman please, wheat out the jerk!"
He does not respond to you, hello, wake up, a man that does not respond is not that into you.
What kind of relationship can you build with a guy that does not respond and if he doesn't respond now while you're just friends what will it look like when you're in a relationship with him and how will his not responding make you feel.
Think!! Think about what you're doing and how his behavior will effect you much later down the road.
Sounds like he's most likely either married and/or in a very serious relationship with someone. Single men meet and they meet as soon as possible because they don't want to build up a relationship online only to fall short later on down the line.
Tread carefully, you're in it's going nowhere zone and it's a Bitch to get out of once you're fully in it.
I agree with "You are very puzzling to me. You are spending so much time thinking of a guy, who doesn't display respect, nor interest with u and yet it is a turn on for you. Think hard for a moment: what kind of relationship do want to have? This is not a taurus related issue, It is you, your thought that needs some adjustments. And to all ladies who is reading this post, NEVER fly over to see a guy or drive long distance to meet up with a guy unless "He did this first for you." (I'm talking in term of romance interest here), He will never respect you if you do this. It is nothing to do with horoscope, it is a hormone thing. Find a gentleman please, wheat out the jerk!"
He does not respond to you, hello, wake up, a man that does not respond is not that into you.
What kind of relationship can you build with a guy that does not respond and if he doesn't respond now while you're just friends what will it look like when you're in a relationship with him and how will his not responding make you feel.
Think!! Think about what you're doing and how his behavior will effect you much later down the road.
I agree with Tiki, delete his number and jog on. Otherwise you're in danger of hanging on to something that simply isn't there.
I thought there was something there with the Wanky Yanky (his nickname) and despite all his words and his excitement of my visit the reality is there wasn't anything there at all, and THAT is the biggest understatement of 2014!!
Just uninvest yourself immediately. Don't give this prick any more of your time. It's not going anywhere you want it to go.
I thought there was something there with the Wanky Yanky (his nickname) and despite all his words and his excitement of my visit the reality is there wasn't anything there at all, and THAT is the biggest understatement of 2014!!
Just uninvest yourself immediately. Don't give this prick any more of your time. It's not going anywhere you want it to go.
Shocking and comforting to know so many of us are having issues with Taurus man! Lol. I got to see mine for the 2nd time Saturday night - I'm still in shock. It was wonderful and he messaged minutes after he left and now nothing - the silence is the worst thing for a Scorp!
Angeleyes17: I completely agree - I never have this much patience for ANYONE! I don't know what it is about this man.
Sending hopeful thoughts your way 🙂
Angeleyes17: I completely agree - I never have this much patience for ANYONE! I don't know what it is about this man.
Sending hopeful thoughts your way 🙂
Posted by AgentP911
Yes. He called me once a few days after I flew home. I've no idea wtf he wanted but considering I was in the USA for three weeks and we spent a grand total of about 8 hours together, most of which was instigated by me because he couldn't or wouldn't muster enough effort to make any arrangements at all and he didn't even take me out for dinner or drinks at all, he spent about ??7 on me (so $ 10) and bitched about that too, so I have to say I'm not interested in wtf he was calling me for.
He's a big bowl of bullshit and a suit full of nothing. An extremely poor excuse of a human being. I hope he dies a very long and painful death in a very dark and lonely corner somewhere in his tragic little world...
What a TWAT!! I've experienced the similar with this guy i was seeing. It was my first Valentines day i was spending with a guy and he did nothing. I made the similar effort like you did, the travel and time to spend and get to know him and the bubble perception I had of him just popped. I soo understand your hate though.. Its how you get made felt in the moment. At least its in the past now.. just best to learn from situations like this and dont do them again.. I'm still learning lol
@tiki33,
He's defiantly not married but a little doubt maybe he could be with someone else..who knows..Not really in a place to think these things anyways.. If I was in a relationship with this guy and did this, then I would question it. I partly agree with the comment made by 'Lust' Nothing puzzling about it, a guy I am getting to know/want to know randomly stopped messaging me and I'm curious to why, that's all.. He hasn't responded back to my messages so I have stopped. If he gets back to me.. fair enough.. if not, I??ll move forward - Simple 🙂
Everyone has different ways of handling a situation. EVERYONES thoughts are different, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.. some make effort.. some don't..
Like any other woman, I want love, care, respect and that spark/connection in a man. No one gets that easily. I'll have to go through my experiences to make better decisions. I'm making effort to get to know this guy. I'm NOT in the wrong. If he isn't responding back with effort.. his loss. I'll just move on. >>
He's defiantly not married but a little doubt maybe he could be with someone else..who knows..Not really in a place to think these things anyways.. If I was in a relationship with this guy and did this, then I would question it. I partly agree with the comment made by 'Lust' Nothing puzzling about it, a guy I am getting to know/want to know randomly stopped messaging me and I'm curious to why, that's all.. He hasn't responded back to my messages so I have stopped. If he gets back to me.. fair enough.. if not, I??ll move forward - Simple 🙂
Everyone has different ways of handling a situation. EVERYONES thoughts are different, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.. some make effort.. some don't..
Like any other woman, I want love, care, respect and that spark/connection in a man. No one gets that easily. I'll have to go through my experiences to make better decisions. I'm making effort to get to know this guy. I'm NOT in the wrong. If he isn't responding back with effort.. his loss. I'll just move on. >>
Posted by TrueScorp12
Shocking and comforting to know so many of us are having issues with Taurus man! Lol. I got to see mine for the 2nd time Saturday night - I'm still in shock. It was wonderful and he messaged minutes after he left and now nothing - the silence is the worst thing for a Scorp!
Angeleyes17: I completely agree - I never have this much patience for ANYONE! I don't know what it is about this man.
Sending hopeful thoughts your way 🙂
I think thats why I'm curious when I know about others experiences being similar. Its good to share and I agree, it is comforting to know. I feel we love the attention that one person gives us that we like, and when that goes, we feel lost.
Its new having patience.. Odd how someone can have that kind of effect of us.. hehe
Thanks hun.. I hope all goes well for you too.. *sending postive vibes*
Posted by Angeleyes17Posted by AgentP911
Yes. He called me once a few days after I flew home. I've no idea wtf he wanted but considering I was in the USA for three weeks and we spent a grand total of about 8 hours together, most of which was instigated by me because he couldn't or wouldn't muster enough effort to make any arrangements at all and he didn't even take me out for dinner or drinks at all, he spent about ??7 on me (so $ 10) and bitched about that too, so I have to say I'm not interested in wtf he was calling me for.
He's a big bowl of bullshit and a suit full of nothing. An extremely poor excuse of a human being. I hope he dies a very long and painful death in a very dark and lonely corner somewhere in his tragic little world...
What a TWAT!! I've experienced the similar with this guy i was seeing. It was my first Valentines day i was spending with a guy and he did nothing. I made the similar effort like you did, the travel and time to spend and get to know him and the bubble perception I had of him just popped. I soo understand your hate though.. Its how you get made felt in the moment. At least its in the past now.. just best to learn from situations like this and dont do them again.. I'm still learning lolclick to expand
Lol I don't hate him, I just think he's a bloody idiot with no manners, heart or brain... Shame as he was cute but he had zero to offer and didn't even offer that! I was just expecting him to be normal...
Yeah I've tried stuff different ways regarding making too much or too little effort and a level of effort somewhere in between. I don't think there's a right or a wrong way. I think it just depends on the dynamics of the two people. There needs to be a balance that both are happy with otherwise it's not a match.
I don't particulary like to chase but that last situation was like flogging a dead horse! Equally I get put off by guys who appear overly keen in their sentiments towards me simply because they think they like me or like what they see but they don't actually know me at all and that's not good either.
I'll still do whatever I think or feel is right and I'll still take calculated chances as that's me and that's not going to change!
Posted by AgentP911Posted by Angeleyes17Posted by AgentP911
Yes. He called me once a few days after I flew home. I've no idea wtf he wanted but considering I was in the USA for three weeks and we spent a grand total of about 8 hours together, most of which was instigated by me because he couldn't or wouldn't muster enough effort to make any arrangements at all and he didn't even take me out for dinner or drinks at all, he spent about ??7 on me (so $ 10) and bitched about that too, so I have to say I'm not interested in wtf he was calling me for.
He's a big bowl of bullshit and a suit full of nothing. An extremely poor excuse of a human being. I hope he dies a very long and painful death in a very dark and lonely corner somewhere in his tragic little world...
What a TWAT!! I've experienced the similar with this guy i was seeing. It was my first Valentines day i was spending with a guy and he did nothing. I made the similar effort like you did, the travel and time to spend and get to know him and the bubble perception I had of him just popped. I soo understand your hate though.. Its how you get made felt in the moment. At least its in the past now.. just best to learn from situations like this and dont do them again.. I'm still learning lolclick to expand
Lol I don't hate him, I just think he's a bloody idiot with no manners, heart or brain... Shame as he was cute but he had zero to offer and didn't even offer that! I was just expecting him to be normal...
Yeah I've tried stuff different ways regarding making too much or too little effort and a level of effort somewhere in between. I don't think there's a right or a wrong way. I think it just depends on the dynamics of the two people. There needs to be a balance that both are happy with otherwise it's not a match.
I don't particulary like to chase but that last situation was like flogging a dead horse! Equally I get put off by guys who appear overly keen in their sentiments towards me simply because they think they like me or like what they see but they don't actually know me at all and that's not good either.
I'll still do whatever I think or feel is right and I'll still take calculated chances as that's me and that's not going to change!
lol. some women are too attached to their emotion and forget to live in their own. chasing a man. Figuring out the man, changing themselves because of a man. waiting a man (even it's clear that a man is no longer saying he's interested)
That is not a man thing. A real man will tell you directly..it maybe slow but atleast the woman know her value.
We, women should Stop giving a man for those excuses. We are bound to settle for less and suffer heartaches.
That is not a man thing. A real man will tell you directly..it maybe slow but atleast the woman know her value.
We, women should Stop giving a man for those excuses. We are bound to settle for less and suffer heartaches.
Posted by cheekyfaeriePosted by Angeleyes17Posted by cheekyfaerie
There's not rushing and there's taking the piss. Unless there's a considerable amount of distance between you, I'd think 9mths of talking is enough to know if he wants to meet you or not. The fact he's brought it up a few times, but hasn't made a plan, makes it seem like a dangling carrot. Once again, if there's not a great distance involved.
They may be slow to decide things, but once they make up their minds, they seem keen to go about getting it. That requires some sort of action, while you're experiencing a holding pattern.
He travels a lot due to work and lives in 2 different places.. one of them is closer in London. So I understand he may be stressed with the pressure of work or has a busy schedule. I just hoped that at some point I mattered.. if that makes sense. I do want to meet him and i have mentioned it.. I guess I'll just have to move forward.. keep busy..
Huge red flag.
If he travels alot, he has no incentive to tie himself down. It sounds like you're what he does when he's bored. He probably cultivates "relationships" with many women so he has the option of meeting up with em when he's on the road. Do as you wish, but I'd not give this guy another thought.
You've done this before, yes? The waiting? Wanna say I remember you from a back in the day thread. If I'm wrong, I apologize, but if I'm right, it sounds like you have a pattern of building people up in your head. It sets you up for heartache and disappointment.click to expand
Yeah that's what came to my mind too.. if this guy travels a lot he wont make the time for me.. and for me, I'd want a man who is there for me and i am able to reach out to him.
Yeah that's was me.. nice to be remembered lol.. It was with my Aquarius guy a while back. I've moved on from him, it really wasn't worth it.. I deserve better. Its my expectations and hopes that they would be the guy for me. With this Taurus guy, I am curious with this behaviour. I've learnt from my mistakes. I'm not waiting around for anyone. 🙂
If you all have never met he is probably seeing someone.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Good. Everything has an expiry. Best not to put yourself on the shelf. 🙂
Exactly. Tired of being the one waiting around for someone.. its about time someone made the effort for me.
My Last taurus guy I met online texted for about 3/-4 days asked me out we talked on the phone first then went out all within a week maybe 2 max due to work
He then scheduled another date later that day after the first
He proceeded to text me every day and call me from then on every day the whole time we dated and always made a follow up date immediately so I knew when I would see him again
There was zero flaking and by about 2 months he made me fully aware of all his movements such as a Friday or Saturday night if I wasn't with him so I never ever second guessed
I don't buy this flakiness hot cold from a taurus if he is genuinely interested and he was going through divorce and had kids
I would go find someone else he sounds like he is married or in a relationship or otherwise unavailable
He then scheduled another date later that day after the first
He proceeded to text me every day and call me from then on every day the whole time we dated and always made a follow up date immediately so I knew when I would see him again
There was zero flaking and by about 2 months he made me fully aware of all his movements such as a Friday or Saturday night if I wasn't with him so I never ever second guessed
I don't buy this flakiness hot cold from a taurus if he is genuinely interested and he was going through divorce and had kids
I would go find someone else he sounds like he is married or in a relationship or otherwise unavailable
Posted by soundsunscene
My Last taurus guy I met online texted for about 3/-4 days asked me out we talked on the phone first then went out all within a week maybe 2 max due to work
He then scheduled another date later that day after the first
He proceeded to text me every day and call me from then on every day the whole time we dated and always made a follow up date immediately so I knew when I would see him again
There was zero flaking and by about 2 months he made me fully aware of all his movements such as a Friday or Saturday night if I wasn't with him so I never ever second guessed
I don't buy this flakiness hot cold from a taurus if he is genuinely interested and he was going through divorce and had kids
I would go find someone else he sounds like he is married or in a relationship or otherwise unavailable
A lot of Taurus men are flaky and its not because they're not interested. Sometimes its because they're very interested and dont want to show their feelings to early. So they dont respond...think of what to say instead of what they really feel and their mind goes someone else...they usually let it hoping itll come to them...by then the person on the other end is like "where are you"....hot and cold isnt a good way to describe it.
soundsunscene,
That's what I was hoping.. building a good communication, build that trust, meet and see where it goes. We already made it clear from both sides that we are attracted to each other so now this is the part what confused me.
Roam,
Yeah that's exactly how its become. We didn't communicate a hell of a lot but when we did it was fun, exciting and flirty and I enjoyed it. I really hoped with this guy, the feelings were mutual.. Oh well.. 😢
That's what I was hoping.. building a good communication, build that trust, meet and see where it goes. We already made it clear from both sides that we are attracted to each other so now this is the part what confused me.
Roam,
Yeah that's exactly how its become. We didn't communicate a hell of a lot but when we did it was fun, exciting and flirty and I enjoyed it. I really hoped with this guy, the feelings were mutual.. Oh well.. 😢
He is showing you just what he is about. If you were treating him that way he would certainly feel as though you weren't worthy of his excellence. Taurus's attitude is prove yourself to them and maybe one day in this lifetime you'll be worthy. Know this, believe this and then know you deserve someone to treat you with the same common courtesy as you extend to them.
Posted by LeoGurlz
He is showing you just what he is about. If you were treating him that way he would certainly feel as though you weren't worthy of his excellence. Taurus's attitude is prove yourself to them and maybe one day in this lifetime you'll be worthy. Know this, believe this and then know you deserve someone to treat you with the same common courtesy as you extend to them.
Thats some wise good advice. Thank you x
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