taurus man ignoring me for 2 weeks.

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shygal
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12 Years

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This is my first post on here..i was hoping Taurus men on here might help me..im really trying to understand him.

about two weeks ago me and my man(im thinking we have broken up)were talking about moving together to a different state.so that night I told him that I don't think that moving is a good idea for me and that I want to stay here..and we started talking about ldr and I told him that they never work out for anyone.so he got really upset and gave me my house key and walked out..i asked him to say and talk but he wouldn't ...he had afew of his stuff in my hse so I told him to take them then and he said he doesn't want them..i got pissed off and as he was leaving I threw his things out in the trash(I know that was horrible of me).I love this man and I know for a fact that he love me. so the next day I try to call him and text him he doesn't pick or respond..i have apologized and apologized and begged him to forgive me but he will not talk to me or even see me.i went to his place to take back other things he left but he didn't bother to comeout so I left them outside his door. he is going to be going in a week or so.i love this man and I was scared of the move because its a huge step. now its been almost 2 weeks and he will still not pick up or return my calls(he has never acted like this towards me)and im usually collected and would never try to call a man for 2 weeks without any response. should I just give up on him and move on?
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fingirl31
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13 Years

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I wouldn't beat yourself up too much about throwing away his stuff. He did say he didn't want it. As a Taurus he is probably much more upset by your saying you didn't want to move, and further that you didn't want to even try LDR. I am a Taurus and while I would understand your unwillingness to move, I would see your unwillingness to even attempt LD as defeatist and to me it would display instability. We have to feel like we can count on you or its done. We don't move on that easily so he will probably come around if you sound remorseful. If you want him back you tell him you want to move with him or you tell him you are fully committed to working on the LDR until your relationship progresses to a point where you would feel comfortable moving i.e. marriage.
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shygal
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12 Years

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I told him to never ask me to marry him beginning ..marriage isn't for everyone.its not for me and he understood that.we talk about it and said that if I ever wanted to I should ask him.at s4nd-i would sex him up good if he would pick up my calls or text me back..lol..the sex with him was crazy.just like us leos love it.. will me stop trying to text him look like I stopped trying to him?
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David13
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Yes... you should give up for now... you can't expect this one to blow over so soon. Leave him alone... he is not ready to talk to you. He will come back around... obviously he is/was serious about you... but the love that you say you have for him should be demonstrated in... well... a more 'loving' way. All the communication that you are giving him now is making you look a bit insane... not the message that you want to convey now is it ? Give him a couple of weeks to cool down... then let him come to you.