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@thecrazyariestaurus
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Taurus man trying to piss me off?
My partner is Taurus Sun, cancer mars.
He doesn't like to get a rise out of me.
He doesnt try to make me jealous.
It seems like you have to sort out some problems first between you before should even begin contemplating getting a place together.
He doesn't like to get a rise out of me.
He doesnt try to make me jealous.
It seems like you have to sort out some problems first between you before should even begin contemplating getting a place together.
Yes major red flags between. Now and your past posts. You have make sure you need to move in with someone but why?
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My ex and I have been trying to work things out for the past two weeks after being broken up for about two months. When I saw him on Thursday, he told me he wanted to get an apartment together, which was what I wanted too. We were planning this a while back when we were together. I went over to his house last night, and we hanging out. I was texting in an IG group chat with our friends. One of my friends named the chat "Hoe is Life" as a joke lol. He saw it and said "oh really, so is that what you live by now? That's how it's like? Ok I see." And I told him that I don't live by that, and that our friend named the chat that. He then came and laid down next to me and looked at his phone. I noticed that his lock screen was a pic of him and another girl. So I called him out saying "who's that? Your new girl?" And he said "yeah, one of 20". Just being an asshole about it. And it got silent, and he said "so are you leaving now?" And I said yes, and left.
What I'm thinking is if he were dating someone else, I really don't think he would be that dumb enough to save a pic like that on his lock screen, and make it completely visible for me to see. I would think he would be hiding his phone from me. His lock screen was a completely different picture on Thursday, and all of a sudden it's of him and a girl. I almost feel like he changed it real quick after he saw my group chat. They weren't kissing, they were just sitting next to each other. One of our friends thinks he's just doing it to get back at me somehow, or to piss me off. I know I'm a Taurus, but do Taurus men do this shit? Do they like to get a rise out of you? Do they like to make you jealous? He gets jealous easily, and he's really sensitive but doesn't like to show it (Taurus sun, cancer Mars). I'm so hurt right now, because I was trying so hard to be affectionate (in one of my last posts I said its hard for me to be affectionate), and make an effort to work things out. Sorry for the long post.
You should hold off on taking an apartment together.
Posted by puhleezeAt this point I'm holding off on moving forward with him at all. I'm just curious if he did that to me on purpose just to be an assholePosted by thecrazyariestaurus
My ex and I have been trying to work things out for the past two weeks after being broken up for about two months. When I saw him on Thursday, he told me he wanted to get an apartment together, which was what I wanted too. We were planning this a while back when we were together. I went over to his house last night, and we hanging out. I was texting in an IG group chat with our friends. One of my friends named the chat "Hoe is Life" as a joke lol. He saw it and said "oh really, so is that what you live by now? That's how it's like? Ok I see." And I told him that I don't live by that, and that our friend named the chat that. He then came and laid down next to me and looked at his phone. I noticed that his lock screen was a pic of him and another girl. So I called him out saying "who's that? Your new girl?" And he said "yeah, one of 20". Just being an asshole about it. And it got silent, and he said "so are you leaving now?" And I said yes, and left.
What I'm thinking is if he were dating someone else, I really don't think he would be that dumb enough to save a pic like that on his lock screen, and make it completely visible for me to see. I would think he would be hiding his phone from me. His lock screen was a completely different picture on Thursday, and all of a sudden it's of him and a girl. I almost feel like he changed it real quick after he saw my group chat. They weren't kissing, they were just sitting next to each other. One of our friends thinks he's just doing it to get back at me somehow, or to piss me off. I know I'm a Taurus, but do Taurus men do this shit? Do they like to get a rise out of you? Do they like to make you jealous? He gets jealous easily, and he's really sensitive but doesn't like to show it (Taurus sun, cancer Mars). I'm so hurt right now, because I was trying so hard to be affectionate (in one of my last posts I said its hard for me to be affectionate), and make an effort to work things out. Sorry for the long post.
You should hold off on taking an apartment together.
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Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by puhleezeAt this point I'm holding off on moving forward with him at all. I'm just curious if he did that to me on purpose just to be an assholePosted by thecrazyariestaurus
My ex and I have been trying to work things out for the past two weeks after being broken up for about two months. When I saw him on Thursday, he told me he wanted to get an apartment together, which was what I wanted too. We were planning this a while back when we were together. I went over to his house last night, and we hanging out. I was texting in an IG group chat with our friends. One of my friends named the chat "Hoe is Life" as a joke lol. He saw it and said "oh really, so is that what you live by now? That's how it's like? Ok I see." And I told him that I don't live by that, and that our friend named the chat that. He then came and laid down next to me and looked at his phone. I noticed that his lock screen was a pic of him and another girl. So I called him out saying "who's that? Your new girl?" And he said "yeah, one of 20". Just being an asshole about it. And it got silent, and he said "so are you leaving now?" And I said yes, and left.
What I'm thinking is if he were dating someone else, I really don't think he would be that dumb enough to save a pic like that on his lock screen, and make it completely visible for me to see. I would think he would be hiding his phone from me. His lock screen was a completely different picture on Thursday, and all of a sudden it's of him and a girl. I almost feel like he changed it real quick after he saw my group chat. They weren't kissing, they were just sitting next to each other. One of our friends thinks he's just doing it to get back at me somehow, or to piss me off. I know I'm a Taurus, but do Taurus men do this shit? Do they like to get a rise out of you? Do they like to make you jealous? He gets jealous easily, and he's really sensitive but doesn't like to show it (Taurus sun, cancer Mars). I'm so hurt right now, because I was trying so hard to be affectionate (in one of my last posts I said its hard for me to be affectionate), and make an effort to work things out. Sorry for the long post.
You should hold off on taking an apartment together.
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Maybe he did. But even it was just to make you jealous, that is childish and mean. If he is jokingly saying she is one of 20 then what does he think you 2 are. I think a couple should make each other feel secure not insecure. But on the other hand, maybe he felt the same way when he saw your IG group chat status. Though his handling was immature maybe if you want to give it a chance you should talk to him if he is really serious about you, and also what you both need to do to make this work.
Posted by puhleezeI'm definitely not disagreeing that what he did was mean and immature. It was very hurtful and insensitive.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by puhleezeAt this point I'm holding off on moving forward with him at all. I'm just curious if he did that to me on purpose just to be an assholePosted by thecrazyariestaurus
My ex and I have been trying to work things out for the past two weeks after being broken up for about two months. When I saw him on Thursday, he told me he wanted to get an apartment together, which was what I wanted too. We were planning this a while back when we were together. I went over to his house last night, and we hanging out. I was texting in an IG group chat with our friends. One of my friends named the chat "Hoe is Life" as a joke lol. He saw it and said "oh really, so is that what you live by now? That's how it's like? Ok I see." And I told him that I don't live by that, and that our friend named the chat that. He then came and laid down next to me and looked at his phone. I noticed that his lock screen was a pic of him and another girl. So I called him out saying "who's that? Your new girl?" And he said "yeah, one of 20". Just being an asshole about it. And it got silent, and he said "so are you leaving now?" And I said yes, and left.
What I'm thinking is if he were dating someone else, I really don't think he would be that dumb enough to save a pic like that on his lock screen, and make it completely visible for me to see. I would think he would be hiding his phone from me. His lock screen was a completely different picture on Thursday, and all of a sudden it's of him and a girl. I almost feel like he changed it real quick after he saw my group chat. They weren't kissing, they were just sitting next to each other. One of our friends thinks he's just doing it to get back at me somehow, or to piss me off. I know I'm a Taurus, but do Taurus men do this shit? Do they like to get a rise out of you? Do they like to make you jealous? He gets jealous easily, and he's really sensitive but doesn't like to show it (Taurus sun, cancer Mars). I'm so hurt right now, because I was trying so hard to be affectionate (in one of my last posts I said its hard for me to be affectionate), and make an effort to work things out. Sorry for the long post.
You should hold off on taking an apartment together.
Maybe he did. But even it was just to make you jealous, that is childish and mean. If he is jokingly saying she is one of 20 then what does he think you 2 are. I think a couple should make each other feel secure not insecure. But on the other hand, maybe he felt the same way when he saw your IG group chat status. Though his handling was immature maybe if you want to give it a chance you should talk to him if he is really serious about you, and also what you both need to do to make this work.
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Posted by candycloudssI'm debating if I should even do that. Maybe I'll just wait it out and see how I feel, or see if he even tries to reach out. But as for right now, I don't wanna even try anymore
I also think you should talk to him and find out his thoughts about a serious exclusive relationship with you..
How do u feel? If ur still wanna even move forward maybe u can send a msg to ask if he's ready to talk.
If ur still mad girl wait him out lol
But I def think he was being insecure and childish... u can still be mad at that tho
If ur still mad girl wait him out lol
But I def think he was being insecure and childish... u can still be mad at that tho
Posted by DiddybopI'm just really hurt, frustrated, and pissed off. I'm mainly hurt at how insensitive he is. This has been a hard week for me because a close friend of mine just passed, and I hate this time of year due to a lot of deaths that occurred at this time. My thing is if you're gonna do something petty like that out of spite, pick another time to do it. I have seasonal depression and this just added to it. I don't really feel like moving forward, but I always say this and end up doing it anyway. Right now I can't speak to him because I'll just go off on him since I'm so angry. Definitely gonna wait it out and see how I feel when I'm not angry.
How do u feel? If ur still wanna even move forward maybe u can send a msg to ask if he's ready to talk.
If ur still mad girl wait him out lol
But I def think he was being insecure and childish... u can still be mad at that tho
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusI always try again with my exes but I always found that they are who they were.Posted by DiddybopI'm just really hurt, frustrated, and pissed off. I'm mainly hurt at how insensitive he is. This has been a hard week for me because a close friend of mine just passed, and I hate this time of year due to a lot of deaths that occurred at this time. My thing is if you're gonna do something petty like that out of spite, pick another time to do it. I have seasonal depression and this just added to it. I don't really feel like moving forward, but I always say this and end up doing it anyway. Right now I can't speak to him because I'll just go off on him since I'm so angry. Definitely gonna wait it out and see how I feel when I'm not angry.
How do u feel? If ur still wanna even move forward maybe u can send a msg to ask if he's ready to talk.
If ur still mad girl wait him out lol
But I def think he was being insecure and childish... u can still be mad at that thoclick to expand
That man should be there for u now and while you're going through this. And he isn't. I think that's a big red flag. It sounds like he's got some insecurities going on and insecure people lash out - maybe u shld let him deal with his issues on his own rather than him being kinda there and then not being there when it counts.
Hugs honey and I'm so sorry about ur friend ?
Posted by DiddybopThank you for your advice. I completely agree with what you said. Hugs ?Posted by thecrazyariestaurusI always try again with my exes but I always found that they are who they were.Posted by DiddybopI'm just really hurt, frustrated, and pissed off. I'm mainly hurt at how insensitive he is. This has been a hard week for me because a close friend of mine just passed, and I hate this time of year due to a lot of deaths that occurred at this time. My thing is if you're gonna do something petty like that out of spite, pick another time to do it. I have seasonal depression and this just added to it. I don't really feel like moving forward, but I always say this and end up doing it anyway. Right now I can't speak to him because I'll just go off on him since I'm so angry. Definitely gonna wait it out and see how I feel when I'm not angry.
How do u feel? If ur still wanna even move forward maybe u can send a msg to ask if he's ready to talk.
If ur still mad girl wait him out lol
But I def think he was being insecure and childish... u can still be mad at that tho
That man should be there for u now and while you're going through this. And he isn't. I think that's a big red flag. It sounds like he's got some insecurities going on and insecure people lash out - maybe u shld let him deal with his issues on his own rather than him being kinda there and then not being there when it counts.
Hugs honey and I'm so sorry about ur friend ?click to expand
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What I'm thinking is if he were dating someone else, I really don't think he would be that dumb enough to save a pic like that on his lock screen, and make it completely visible for me to see. I would think he would be hiding his phone from me. His lock screen was a completely different picture on Thursday, and all of a sudden it's of him and a girl. I almost feel like he changed it real quick after he saw my group chat. They weren't kissing, they were just sitting next to each other. One of our friends thinks he's just doing it to get back at me somehow, or to piss me off. I know I'm a Taurus, but do Taurus men do this shit? Do they like to get a rise out of you? Do they like to make you jealous? He gets jealous easily, and he's really sensitive but doesn't like to show it (Taurus sun, cancer Mars). I'm so hurt right now, because I was trying so hard to be affectionate (in one of my last posts I said its hard for me to be affectionate), and make an effort to work things out. Sorry for the long post.