I usually see people making those posts about dating compatibility but I'll break the pattern asking for some help with my mother who's making me crazier than I already am. Look at this person:
http://i.imgur.com/beJku.gif<BR> doesn't this chart scream anger issues? Of course it does. You know that person who's always looking for an excuse to complain for hours about shit (nothing. is. ever. good. enough)? The one who'll make a scene in front of everyone because of the smallest reasons? That's my mom. Seriously, I love her but she's an exhausting little tyrant. She needs to chill out. We share a house and being around her on a daily basis drains my energy. I know Pisces people usually lead lives of masochism but this is too much even for me. I'm tired of putting up with her crap to avoid fights. Hell, even my Gemini sister can't stand it anymore and Geminis are not exactly famous for being sensitive. So, it's THAT bad. Because I know one does not simply convince Taurus people of anything (especially that they're not unwordly perfect) is there any way to make her realize she's being an asshole on her own?
Same here, being a Pisces & having a Taurus mom who can bitch like nothing I know. She's getting a plunger for Christmas cause bitches loving bringing up old shit..
But in the end you just accept it cause she's your mom. You can survive this.. fight back, yell, retreat, do SOMETHING. We're very forgiving people as Pisces, but family is family.. they can mess up nuclear wise but we'll always forgive them. If you can't count on them to be there at any time of need..
Mine drives me bonkers too at times with her moodswings, happy/angry/sad/frustrated but you get used to it. Underneath it all you know she only wants the best for you, perhaps a hard time showing it. Teach her how.
@OP, as someone who has lost my mom and butted heads with her for similar reasons, looking back, i needed to get over myself. in addition, i wonder if she was going through peri-menopause and if that were the cause of some of the unnecessary outbursts? the irony is, this is something i too will experience one day and imagine how much of a shit i'll feel like when the shoe is on my foot.
your mom may have always had this type of personality, but IF her outbursts are increasing/different than they were in the past, you should really consider the menopause angle. she may not even be aware of it herself and if that be the case, the situation requires compassion. in a way, it'd be akin to getting mad at someone who is bipolar...while knowing they're bipolar.
overall, it's you that has changed, not her. she's a taurus after all. she's your mother, you will ALWAYS be her child. she has to LEARN how to treat you as a young woman and when you are acting a little more young, than woman, hey, you get what you get.
oh and there is nothing in her chart that screams "anger issues." also, she's more like you than you than you may realize (your mom has venus in Pisces in her 12TH HOUSE) 😛
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mother who's making me crazier than I already am. Look at this person:
http://i.imgur.com/beJku.gif<BR>
doesn't this chart scream anger issues? Of course it does. You know that person who's always looking for an excuse to complain for hours about shit (nothing. is. ever. good. enough)? The one who'll make a scene in front of everyone because of the smallest reasons? That's my mom.
Seriously, I love her but she's an exhausting little tyrant. She needs to chill out. We share a house and being around her on a daily basis drains my energy. I know Pisces people usually lead lives of masochism but this is too much even for me. I'm tired of putting up with her crap to avoid fights. Hell, even my Gemini sister can't stand it anymore and Geminis are not exactly famous for being sensitive. So, it's THAT bad.
Because I know one does not simply convince Taurus people of anything (especially that they're not unwordly perfect) is there any way to make her realize she's being an asshole on her own?
Here's my chart, btw
http://i.imgur.com/sDms1.gif<BR>
Is there something I can do about this trainwreck of a relationship?
P.S: sorry about eventual mistake, english is not my first language.