is he/she an aqua? if so, "substance" doth not exist.
"moving on" is difficult for me and the only way to do so when i'm smitten is to let the feelings run their course. for taurus this means staying put but i think what it should mean is learning to be ok with the fact that your feelings run deep. but just because they run deep doesn't mean you need to stay in a rut.
1. accept that you love him/her
2. accept that their "love" is deficient
3. stop accepting deficiency
4. go out, get out, do something...alone or with some body. who cares if you're not in the mood? who cares if you miss him/her? get off your ass and just do it.
we drag ourselves to work when we don't want to go. people with kids rise and fall every morning to attend to their little one's needs. we go to the gym or deny ourselves sweets in order to maintain health. we do shit we don't want to do everyday because we recognize that the world doesn't stop turning simply because we're sad.
so the next time someone asks you out, go out. the next time you're home alone and bored, catch a movie or treat yourself to dinner. just do SOMETHING!
eventually you'll run in to someone new who gets that motor runnin' but you can't change or find someone new when you're walling yourself off.
If there is no substance...maybe it's just infatuation. When I'm in a committed relationship...there is no moving on until every avenue of resolution has been exhausted. When it's infatuation....I just transfer my focus on to a new target,because I grow bored when there is no progress or substance. 😈(venus in Aries)
So,you feel as though she is paying you lip service basically? we are demonstrative people,and it is hard to only be told,but not be shown to the point of feeling it. I understand how you are feeling,and don't have advice except that if you are unhappy now,you will be more so in the future and this is what you should remind yourself of if you really do want to move on.
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"moving on" is difficult for me and the only way to do so when i'm smitten is to let the feelings run their course. for taurus this means staying put but i think what it should mean is learning to be ok with the fact that your feelings run deep. but just because they run deep doesn't mean you need to stay in a rut.
1. accept that you love him/her
2. accept that their "love" is deficient
3. stop accepting deficiency
4. go out, get out, do something...alone or with some body. who cares if you're not in the mood? who cares if you miss him/her? get off your ass and just do it.
we drag ourselves to work when we don't want to go. people with kids rise and fall every morning to attend to their little one's needs. we go to the gym or deny ourselves sweets in order to maintain health. we do shit we don't want to do everyday because we recognize that the world doesn't stop turning simply because we're sad.
so the next time someone asks you out, go out. the next time you're home alone and bored, catch a movie or treat yourself to dinner. just do SOMETHING!
eventually you'll run in to someone new who gets that motor runnin' but you can't change or find someone new when you're walling yourself off.