Iceman86
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Taurus woman and cheating (Insights)
A Taurus is very loyal.. until they’re not. If something is going very wrong in the relationship and she isn’t comfortable expressing love in the relationship, she may go looking elsewhere to give and receive. Due to her loyalty she may have gone back to the original relationship. I’m assuming this based on you saying it didn’t end well between you two.
Reasons why she would cheat....
1. Her partner wasn't affectionate, romantic or attentive.
2. She simply 'settled' for him. He was a 'safe' option based on stability and may be some insecurities she had about herself. Not a choice made with her heart....That need for 'love and affection' kicked in, and then you came along.
3. She just may be a chronic cheater and has no morals. Check her placements.
4. The emotional connection left the relationship a long time ago, and she may be holding on as a result of fear of change and to take a risk with someone new.
1. Her partner wasn't affectionate, romantic or attentive.
2. She simply 'settled' for him. He was a 'safe' option based on stability and may be some insecurities she had about herself. Not a choice made with her heart....That need for 'love and affection' kicked in, and then you came along.
3. She just may be a chronic cheater and has no morals. Check her placements.
4. The emotional connection left the relationship a long time ago, and she may be holding on as a result of fear of change and to take a risk with someone new.
It often stems from lack of affection or their partner withdrawing. There usually is a huge issue in the relationship. Sadly they hold onto toxic/bad relationships and emotionally cheat, before physically over just leaving the relationship. Sort of need a back up plan if they cant work things out with their partner (which the usually do)
Not just taurus but women in general check out of a relationship mentally way before they do physically so that relationship was over for a while probably in her head. But for Taurus, though they're loyal, if they feel the person they're with does not care for them or meet them halfway in terms of effort or simply takes them for granted, they may be tempted to stray. There's only so much you can endure of mistreatment or feeling unappreciated before you're like nah bye.
What’s interesting about this post is that I was going to post one similar. I’ve been with my Taurus now for maybe 2years and 2 months.... we are now in separation mode because during the course of our relationship, after I’ll say leading up year one, we had several arguments about the relationship she was keeping with her Ex. For whatever reason she felt the need to lie about their friendship because she felt I wouldn’t understand as they were friends first- Fast forward to now there have been encounters where she has either spoken to her or once seen her without my acknowledgment, in addition to forming random “friendships” & lying about where she’s crashing for the night—- I’ve finally had it with these women falling for her and Taurus saying it’s nothing...
Before I continue let me throw this in— at one point directly one month after she gave up her independence and moved in with me ( something she claims she never did) she overheard a convo with my friend and I and I said a Few things that were clearly unforgivable- she confronted me and I tried making amends and moving forward unbeknownst to me until recently she still told me she never trusted me again since then....
So here we are 2 years in feeling like it’s 5 with all the things we’ve been through- passing or my mom, Jon promotions; involved with each other’s family to a degree, moved and got our own place together and she begins her inappropriately befriending again and I catch her in a lie.
I’ve decided that the lies and the friends are too much and I no longer feel safe .... everyone friends and family is begging for us to fix it because clearly they had no idea what she was doing.
She finally admitted that these situations were not going to amount to anything and that when she doesn’t feel celebrated at home it’s soo easy for everyone else to put her on a pedestal and she craves that....
I’ve realized that she’s built a wall when she heard that convo and there isn’t anything I can do to break it down and because of that there isn’t a gift or a meal or a vacation planned I can do for her to hear my celebratory words or ego stroking screams that she’s looking for.
Do I think she slept with these women? I’m undecided- they aren’t the usual women she go for they are the easy ones that go nuts over her no challenges , but you can’t put anything past anyone....
Do I think eventually she will hit the jackpot and find that one who strikes the match and she’ll begin dating them seriously-yes.
I think that for now she’s playing safe- because something at home is disturbed....
she’ll still try to fix at home and of course she still takes care of home.... but eventually she’s going to find someone worth doing more with and take that leap.
Before I continue let me throw this in— at one point directly one month after she gave up her independence and moved in with me ( something she claims she never did) she overheard a convo with my friend and I and I said a Few things that were clearly unforgivable- she confronted me and I tried making amends and moving forward unbeknownst to me until recently she still told me she never trusted me again since then....
So here we are 2 years in feeling like it’s 5 with all the things we’ve been through- passing or my mom, Jon promotions; involved with each other’s family to a degree, moved and got our own place together and she begins her inappropriately befriending again and I catch her in a lie.
I’ve decided that the lies and the friends are too much and I no longer feel safe .... everyone friends and family is begging for us to fix it because clearly they had no idea what she was doing.
She finally admitted that these situations were not going to amount to anything and that when she doesn’t feel celebrated at home it’s soo easy for everyone else to put her on a pedestal and she craves that....
I’ve realized that she’s built a wall when she heard that convo and there isn’t anything I can do to break it down and because of that there isn’t a gift or a meal or a vacation planned I can do for her to hear my celebratory words or ego stroking screams that she’s looking for.
Do I think she slept with these women? I’m undecided- they aren’t the usual women she go for they are the easy ones that go nuts over her no challenges , but you can’t put anything past anyone....
Do I think eventually she will hit the jackpot and find that one who strikes the match and she’ll begin dating them seriously-yes.
I think that for now she’s playing safe- because something at home is disturbed....
she’ll still try to fix at home and of course she still takes care of home.... but eventually she’s going to find someone worth doing more with and take that leap.
Sheesh thst was long sorry ..... I guess I should have made my own post 😔
Posted by morjantaurean
A Taurus is very loyal.. until they’re not. If something is going very wrong in the relationship and she isn’t comfortable expressing love in the relationship, she may go looking elsewhere to give and receive. Due to her loyalty she may have gone back to the original relationship. I’m assuming this based on you saying it didn’t end well between you two.
She told me that the only problem with her relationship was that he wanted an engagement with her and she don't want yet because she is young (24 years old) and they have a 4 year ralationship. She didn't broke up with him at any point of our 6 month affair, although she stated that she was confused whether to do it for me or not...
Posted by Boots1313
It often stems from lack of affection or their partner withdrawing. There usually is a huge issue in the relationship. Sadly they hold onto toxic/bad relationships and emotionally cheat, before physically over just leaving the relationship. Sort of need a back up plan if they cant work things out with their partner (which the usually do)
She told me that the only problem with her relationship was that he wanted an engagement with her and she don't want yet because she is young (24 years old) and they have a 4 year ralationship. She didn't broke up with him at any point of our 6 month affair, although she stated that she was confused whether to do it for me or not...
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Reasons why she would cheat....
1. Her partner wasn't affectionate, romantic or attentive.
2. She simply 'settled' for him. He was a 'safe' option based on stability and may be some insecurities she had about herself. Not a choice made with her heart....That need for 'love and affection' kicked in, and then you came along.
3. She just may be a chronic cheater and has no morals. Check her placements.
4. The emotional connection left the relationship a long time ago, and she may be holding on as a result of fear of change and to take a risk with someone new.
She told me that the only problem with her relationship was that he wanted an engagement with her and she don't want yet because she is young (24 years old) and they have a 4 year ralationship. She didn't broke up with him at any point of our 6 month affair, although she stated that she was confused whether to do it for me or not...I was (and am still sadly for me) so in love with her,I wanted her so much...I didn't see it as an adventure I wanted to win her heart but she gave me a "half opportunity"...
I created this topic also because I read that a taurus cheats only if she is in love with a new partner and its done emotionally with their current and they don't like casual hook ups...but she left me feel at the end that I was nothing to her at all...would a taurus cheat to her partner for 6 months with someone who doesn't feel anything for?
Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313
It often stems from lack of affection or their partner withdrawing. There usually is a huge issue in the relationship. Sadly they hold onto toxic/bad relationships and emotionally cheat, before physically over just leaving the relationship. Sort of need a back up plan if they cant work things out with their partner (which the usually do)
She told me that the only problem with her relationship was that he wanted an engagement with her and she don't want yet because she is young (24 years old) and they have a 4 year ralationship. She didn't broke up with him at any point of our 6 month affair, although she stated that she was confused whether to do it for me or not...click to expand
Sounds familiar, with really any Affair, not just tourists in general. A lot of people say they'll leave their relationship but they never do. I contribute a lot to her actions being that she's only 24 not ready for commitment yet, and she's not mature enough yet to have that hard discussion with her significant other. Hack if I was 24 again I wouldn't want to settle down with the only person I pretty much ever been with. So she probably has that anxiety to get out and explore and try something new, hence where you come into play. I don't condone it but I completely understand it
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313
It often stems from lack of affection or their partner withdrawing. There usually is a huge issue in the relationship. Sadly they hold onto toxic/bad relationships and emotionally cheat, before physically over just leaving the relationship. Sort of need a back up plan if they cant work things out with their partner (which the usually do)
She told me that the only problem with her relationship was that he wanted an engagement with her and she don't want yet because she is young (24 years old) and they have a 4 year ralationship. She didn't broke up with him at any point of our 6 month affair, although she stated that she was confused whether to do it for me or not...
Sounds familiar, with really any Affair, not just tourists in general. A lot of people say they'll leave their relationship but they never do. I contribute a lot to her actions being that she's only 24 not ready for commitment yet, and she's not mature enough yet to have that hard discussion with her significant other. Hack if I was 24 again I wouldn't want to settle down with the only person I pretty much ever been with. So she probably has that anxiety to get out and explore and try something new, hence where you come into play. I don't condone it but I completely understand itclick to expand
Iceman86
I created this topic also because I read that a taurus cheats only if she is in love with a new partner and its done emotionally with their current and they don't like casual hook ups...but she left me feel at the end that I was nothing to her at all...would a taurus cheat to her partner for 6 months with someone who doesn't feel anything for?
Posted by Iceman86
I created this topic also because I read that a taurus cheats only if she is in love with a new partner and its done emotionally with their current and they don't like casual hook ups...but she left me feel at the end that I was nothing to her at all...would a taurus cheat to her partner for 6 months with someone who doesn't feel anything for?
She prob did feel something, "lust" and then ahe didnt.
Maybe you got too intense...and she felt maybe you were pushing for a committment too...
Rarely do people who cheat end up with that person. Just statistics.
Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313
It often stems from lack of affection or their partner withdrawing. There usually is a huge issue in the relationship. Sadly they hold onto toxic/bad relationships and emotionally cheat, before physically over just leaving the relationship. Sort of need a back up plan if they cant work things out with their partner (which the usually do)
She told me that the only problem with her relationship was that he wanted an engagement with her and she don't want yet because she is young (24 years old) and they have a 4 year ralationship. She didn't broke up with him at any point of our 6 month affair, although she stated that she was confused whether to do it for me or not...
Sounds familiar, with really any Affair, not just tourists in general. A lot of people say they'll leave their relationship but they never do. I contribute a lot to her actions being that she's only 24 not ready for commitment yet, and she's not mature enough yet to have that hard discussion with her significant other. Hack if I was 24 again I wouldn't want to settle down with the only person I pretty much ever been with. So she probably has that anxiety to get out and explore and try something new, hence where you come into play. I don't condone it but I completely understand it
Iceman86
I created this topic also because I read that a taurus cheats only if she is in love with a new partner and its done emotionally with their current and they don't like casual hook ups...but she left me feel at the end that I was nothing to her at all...would a taurus cheat to her partner for 6 months with someone who doesn't feel anything for?click to expand
I wouldn't linger on this idea. Its over, plus that isn't a person you want to be with. Someone who was charing on their s.o with you.
They cant be trusted fornlong term.
You aound sound...you will learn from expierence.
Move on and learn from this.
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86
I created this topic also because I read that a taurus cheats only if she is in love with a new partner and its done emotionally with their current and they don't like casual hook ups...but she left me feel at the end that I was nothing to her at all...would a taurus cheat to her partner for 6 months with someone who doesn't feel anything for?
She prob did feel something, "lust" and then ahe didnt.
Maybe you got too intense...and she felt maybe you were pushing for a committment too...
Rarely do people who cheat end up with that person. Just statistics.click to expand
I wasn't intense for committment at all or push her to take a decision,I left her to go at her own pace but stated that I wanted her for me and I don't want only sex with you.
The statistic I think is wrong, because in most cases the cheating leads to a new relationship, as many women and men do, first find the next one before break up with the current...some people cant stand to stay alone for a while, to think things through and to make some self criticism...
Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86
I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
click to expand
Interesting story...
Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86
I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
click to expand
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86
I created this topic also because I read that a taurus cheats only if she is in love with a new partner and its done emotionally with their current and they don't like casual hook ups...but she left me feel at the end that I was nothing to her at all...would a taurus cheat to her partner for 6 months with someone who doesn't feel anything for?
She prob did feel something, "lust" and then ahe didnt.
Maybe you got too intense...and she felt maybe you were pushing for a committment too...
Rarely do people who cheat end up with that person. Just statistics.
I wasn't intense for committment at all or push her to take a decision,I left her to go at her own pace but stated that I wanted her for me and I don't want only sex with you.
The statistic I think is wrong, because in most cases the cheating leads to a new relationship, as many women and men do, first find the next one before break up with the current...some people cant stand to stay alone for a while, to think things through and to make some self criticism...click to expand
Well either way, it didnt workout for whatever reason....find a single girl
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313
It often stems from lack of affection or their partner withdrawing. There usually is a huge issue in the relationship. Sadly they hold onto toxic/bad relationships and emotionally cheat, before physically over just leaving the relationship. Sort of need a back up plan if they cant work things out with their partner (which the usually do)
She told me that the only problem with her relationship was that he wanted an engagement with her and she don't want yet because she is young (24 years old) and they have a 4 year ralationship. She didn't broke up with him at any point of our 6 month affair, although she stated that she was confused whether to do it for me or not...
Sounds familiar, with really any Affair, not just tourists in general. A lot of people say they'll leave their relationship but they never do. I contribute a lot to her actions being that she's only 24 not ready for commitment yet, and she's not mature enough yet to have that hard discussion with her significant other. Hack if I was 24 again I wouldn't want to settle down with the only person I pretty much ever been with. So she probably has that anxiety to get out and explore and try something new, hence where you come into play. I don't condone it but I completely understand it
Iceman86
I created this topic also because I read that a taurus cheats only if she is in love with a new partner and its done emotionally with their current and they don't like casual hook ups...but she left me feel at the end that I was nothing to her at all...would a taurus cheat to her partner for 6 months with someone who doesn't feel anything for?
I wouldn't linger on this idea. Its over, plus that isn't a person you want to be with. Someone who was charing on their s.o with you.
They cant be trusted fornlong term.
You aound sound...you will learn from expierence.
Move on and learn from this.click to expand
Thank you for your advice, but its very difficult for me to just move on, i was so in love with her for many years...she knew it all along and I wonder why she gave me this half chance with her and with these circumstances...
Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313
It often stems from lack of affection or their partner withdrawing. There usually is a huge issue in the relationship. Sadly they hold onto toxic/bad relationships and emotionally cheat, before physically over just leaving the relationship. Sort of need a back up plan if they cant work things out with their partner (which the usually do)
She told me that the only problem with her relationship was that he wanted an engagement with her and she don't want yet because she is young (24 years old) and they have a 4 year ralationship. She didn't broke up with him at any point of our 6 month affair, although she stated that she was confused whether to do it for me or not...
Sounds familiar, with really any Affair, not just tourists in general. A lot of people say they'll leave their relationship but they never do. I contribute a lot to her actions being that she's only 24 not ready for commitment yet, and she's not mature enough yet to have that hard discussion with her significant other. Hack if I was 24 again I wouldn't want to settle down with the only person I pretty much ever been with. So she probably has that anxiety to get out and explore and try something new, hence where you come into play. I don't condone it but I completely understand it
Iceman86
I created this topic also because I read that a taurus cheats only if she is in love with a new partner and its done emotionally with their current and they don't like casual hook ups...but she left me feel at the end that I was nothing to her at all...would a taurus cheat to her partner for 6 months with someone who doesn't feel anything for?
I wouldn't linger on this idea. Its over, plus that isn't a person you want to be with. Someone who was charing on their s.o with you.
They cant be trusted fornlong term.
You aound sound...you will learn from expierence.
Move on and learn from this.
Thank you for your advice, but its very difficult for me to just move on, i was so in love with her for many years...she knew it all along and I wonder why she gave me this half chance with her and with these circumstances...click to expand
It could be any reason and you will drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out.
It's more a young woman thing than a taurus thing.
I did very similar in my youth. I still don't know why. All the guys i hurt, for opportuniry or lust?.passion and just feeling that adrenaline...probably a power play. Unsure.
im ashamed looking back now.
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86
I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.click to expand
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
Posted by Foxy777Posted by Boots1313Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86
I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
I think they lacked something or he didn't make enough of her. She felt she had to work for his love maybe?
She was told by Michael Hutchenes manager to LEAVE him alone after she went up to him and said 'Ill sleep with him or something.' IT didn't stop her ...his security was warned ...she still pursued him.
I think she made Michael miserable.click to expand
Yeah we can be intense when we are looking for love or affection in the wrong places, or its not reciprocated .
Interesting story, i never knew of.
Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86
I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..click to expand
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Posted by Foxy777Posted by Boots1313Posted by Foxy777Posted by Boots1313Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86
I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
I think they lacked something or he didn't make enough of her. She felt she had to work for his love maybe?
She was told by Michael Hutchenes manager to LEAVE him alone after she went up to him and said 'Ill sleep with him or something.' IT didn't stop her ...his security was warned ...she still pursued him.
I think she made Michael miserable.
Yeah we can be intense when we are looking for love or affection in the wrong places, or its not reciprocated .
Interesting story, i never knew of.
Very sad he killed himself then she died of an over dose ...then her daughter died of an overdose years later.click to expand
Damn, tragic. What all the best love stories are made of. Romeo and Julietesque
There is a quote ..i think I heard it here.
"Every love story; if you wait long enough, becomes a tragedy"
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It often stems from lack of affection or their partner withdrawing. There usually is a huge issue in the relationship. Sadly they hold onto toxic/bad relationships and emotionally cheat, before physically over just leaving the relationship. Sort of need a back up plan if they cant work things out with their partner (which the usually do)
She told me that the only problem with her relationship was that he wanted an engagement with her and she don't want yet because she is young (24 years old) and they have a 4 year ralationship. She didn't broke up with him at any point of our 6 month affair, although she stated that she was confused whether to do it for me or not...
Sounds familiar, with really any Affair, not just tourists in general. A lot of people say they'll leave their relationship but they never do. I contribute a lot to her actions being that she's only 24 not ready for commitment yet, and she's not mature enough yet to have that hard discussion with her significant other. Hack if I was 24 again I wouldn't want to settle down with the only person I pretty much ever been with. So she probably has that anxiety to get out and explore and try something new, hence where you come into play. I don't condone it but I completely understand it
Iceman86
I created this topic also because I read that a taurus cheats only if she is in love with a new partner and its done emotionally with their current and they don't like casual hook ups...but she left me feel at the end that I was nothing to her at all...would a taurus cheat to her partner for 6 months with someone who doesn't feel anything for?
I wouldn't linger on this idea. Its over, plus that isn't a person you want to be with. Someone who was charing on their s.o with you.
They cant be trusted fornlong term.
You aound sound...you will learn from expierence.
Move on and learn from this.
Thank you for your advice, but its very difficult for me to just move on, i was so in love with her for many years...she knew it all along and I wonder why she gave me this half chance with her and with these circumstances...
It could be any reason and you will drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out.
It's more a young woman thing than a taurus thing.
I did very similar in my youth. I still don't know why. All the guys i hurt, for opportuniry or lust?.passion and just feeling that adrenaline...probably a power play. Unsure.
im ashamed looking back now.click to expand
When you feel that you wronged someone with your behavior or hurt his feelings do you try at some point to make things right or you leave them to just move on with their lives and figure out themselves what went wrong?
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It often stems from lack of affection or their partner withdrawing. There usually is a huge issue in the relationship. Sadly they hold onto toxic/bad relationships and emotionally cheat, before physically over just leaving the relationship. Sort of need a back up plan if they cant work things out with their partner (which the usually do)
She told me that the only problem with her relationship was that he wanted an engagement with her and she don't want yet because she is young (24 years old) and they have a 4 year ralationship. She didn't broke up with him at any point of our 6 month affair, although she stated that she was confused whether to do it for me or not...
Sounds familiar, with really any Affair, not just tourists in general. A lot of people say they'll leave their relationship but they never do. I contribute a lot to her actions being that she's only 24 not ready for commitment yet, and she's not mature enough yet to have that hard discussion with her significant other. Hack if I was 24 again I wouldn't want to settle down with the only person I pretty much ever been with. So she probably has that anxiety to get out and explore and try something new, hence where you come into play. I don't condone it but I completely understand it
Iceman86
I created this topic also because I read that a taurus cheats only if she is in love with a new partner and its done emotionally with their current and they don't like casual hook ups...but she left me feel at the end that I was nothing to her at all...would a taurus cheat to her partner for 6 months with someone who doesn't feel anything for?
I wouldn't linger on this idea. Its over, plus that isn't a person you want to be with. Someone who was charing on their s.o with you.
They cant be trusted fornlong term.
You aound sound...you will learn from expierence.
Move on and learn from this.
Thank you for your advice, but its very difficult for me to just move on, i was so in love with her for many years...she knew it all along and I wonder why she gave me this half chance with her and with these circumstances...
It could be any reason and you will drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out.
It's more a young woman thing than a taurus thing.
I did very similar in my youth. I still don't know why. All the guys i hurt, for opportuniry or lust?.passion and just feeling that adrenaline...probably a power play. Unsure.
im ashamed looking back now.
When you feel that you wronged someone with your behavior or hurt his feelings do you try at some point to make things right or you leave them to just move on with their lives and figure out themselves what went wrong?click to expand
Sadly the latter...sometimes closure just
Opens old wounds.
Also i had issues closing doors completely. When i came back to try and explain myself, i just fell back into the same pattern.
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86
I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
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Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.click to expand
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86
I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️click to expand
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86
I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelingsclick to expand
Yes and no, i think its complicated the way the human mind makes up lies and stories to justify shitty behavior.
Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Foxy777Posted by Iceman86
I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Tauruses like the stability of a relationship and marriage they don't want to mess things up or split things in half. They like structure. Tradition. It could be she stays for that.click to expand
She stays for that after she messed all up the structure and all the rest...out of guilt maybe she stays but for how long I wonder can she lie to herself...
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Tauruses like the stability of a relationship and marriage they don't want to mess things up or split things in half. They like structure. Tradition. It could be she stays for that.
She stays for that after she messed all up the structure and all the rest...out of guilt maybe she stays but for how long I wonder can she lie to herself...
Probably forever knowing Taurus! Sorry dont mind me i may know nothing!
But if they will cheat with you ..they will cheat on you ...etcclick to expand
Accurate
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Yes and no, i think its complicated the way the human mind makes up lies and stories to justify shitty behavior.click to expand
Maybe she stays out of guilt with him, but I know that when I am in a relathionship that I am in love with i don't stray, I have eyes only for her, if I would feel the urge to cheat that would mean that I don't have the same feelings anymore and end the relationship to do what I want...
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Tauruses like the stability of a relationship and marriage they don't want to mess things up or split things in half. They like structure. Tradition. It could be she stays for that.
She stays for that after she messed all up the structure and all the rest...out of guilt maybe she stays but for how long I wonder can she lie to herself...
Probably forever knowing Taurus! Sorry dont mind me i may know nothing!
But if they will cheat with you ..they will cheat on you ...etc
Accurate
Yeah ...if they are TRULY unhappy or ready to leave ..they WILL ...without you getting involved...or well they won't with taurus usuallyclick to expand
I've gotten better in age with leaving when im unhappy. I still tend to prolong the inevitable sometimes...but not like in the past.
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Tauruses like the stability of a relationship and marriage they don't want to mess things up or split things in half. They like structure. Tradition. It could be she stays for that.
She stays for that after she messed all up the structure and all the rest...out of guilt maybe she stays but for how long I wonder can she lie to herself...
Probably forever knowing Taurus! Sorry dont mind me i may know nothing!
But if they will cheat with you ..they will cheat on you ...etc
Accurate
Yeah ...if they are TRULY unhappy or ready to leave ..they WILL ...without you getting involved...or well they won't with taurus usually
Unless you are Paula Yates of course. But i think she is the exception that proves the rule. Her moon is in Scorpio the opposite of her sun in Taurus.click to expand
She sounds super complex...i sort of feel this gut wrenching pain for her. Scorpio placements are tough...
I only have scorp in pluto thankfully.
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Tauruses like the stability of a relationship and marriage they don't want to mess things up or split things in half. They like structure. Tradition. It could be she stays for that.
She stays for that after she messed all up the structure and all the rest...out of guilt maybe she stays but for how long I wonder can she lie to herself...
Probably forever knowing Taurus! Sorry dont mind me i may know nothing!
But if they will cheat with you ..they will cheat on you ...etc
Accurate
Yeah ...if they are TRULY unhappy or ready to leave ..they WILL ...without you getting involved...or well they won't with taurus usually
Unless you are Paula Yates of course. But i think she is the exception that proves the rule. Her moon is in Scorpio the opposite of her sun in Taurus.click to expand
She is a Taurus with Scorpio rising and me a Libra with Scorpio rising if that says something to the ones that know those things...
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Tauruses like the stability of a relationship and marriage they don't want to mess things up or split things in half. They like structure. Tradition. It could be she stays for that.
She stays for that after she messed all up the structure and all the rest...out of guilt maybe she stays but for how long I wonder can she lie to herself...
Probably forever knowing Taurus! Sorry dont mind me i may know nothing!
But if they will cheat with you ..they will cheat on you ...etc
Accurate
Yeah ...if they are TRULY unhappy or ready to leave ..they WILL ...without you getting involved...or well they won't with taurus usually
Unless you are Paula Yates of course. But i think she is the exception that proves the rule. Her moon is in Scorpio the opposite of her sun in Taurus.
She is a Taurus with Scorpio rising and me a Libra with Scorpio rising if that says something to the ones that know those things...click to expand
Rising doesn't have much to do with the long-term... The rising is more the facade you put on a pain meeting people. Rising just can contribute to the initial attraction
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Maybe she stays out of guilt with him, but I know that when I am in a relathionship that I am in love with i don't stray, I have eyes only for her, if I would feel the urge to cheat that would mean that I don't have the same feelings anymore and end the relationship to do what I want...
you can continue to torture yourself with the whys or wherefores and you can continue thinking that you are better than her because you would not engage in this sort of behaviour.
bottom line - she doesn't want you. it hurts. it's terrible for your ego but you've lost. i know it's hard for men when women decide they are no longer interested. she's not. chin up. feel your pain and accept the reality of the situation.
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Tauruses like the stability of a relationship and marriage they don't want to mess things up or split things in half. They like structure. Tradition. It could be she stays for that.
She stays for that after she messed all up the structure and all the rest...out of guilt maybe she stays but for how long I wonder can she lie to herself...
Probably forever knowing Taurus! Sorry dont mind me i may know nothing!
But if they will cheat with you ..they will cheat on you ...etc
Accurate
Yeah ...if they are TRULY unhappy or ready to leave ..they WILL ...without you getting involved...or well they won't with taurus usually
Unless you are Paula Yates of course. But i think she is the exception that proves the rule. Her moon is in Scorpio the opposite of her sun in Taurus.
She sounds super complex...i sort of feel this gut wrenching pain for her. Scorpio placements are tough...
I only have scorp in pluto thankfully.
Yeah during the custody trial for her kids she actually only found out then through a DNA test the man she had thought to be her father all her life ..was not.click to expand
Yikes, I have to watch a doc on these guys or something
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Tauruses like the stability of a relationship and marriage they don't want to mess things up or split things in half. They like structure. Tradition. It could be she stays for that.
She stays for that after she messed all up the structure and all the rest...out of guilt maybe she stays but for how long I wonder can she lie to herself...
Probably forever knowing Taurus! Sorry dont mind me i may know nothing!
But if they will cheat with you ..they will cheat on you ...etc
Accurate
Yeah ...if they are TRULY unhappy or ready to leave ..they WILL ...without you getting involved...or well they won't with taurus usually
Unless you are Paula Yates of course. But i think she is the exception that proves the rule. Her moon is in Scorpio the opposite of her sun in Taurus.
She is a Taurus with Scorpio rising and me a Libra with Scorpio rising if that says something to the ones that know those things...
Rising doesn't have much to do with the long-term... The rising is more the facade you put on a pain meeting people. Rising just can contribute to the initial attractionclick to expand
Oh I see, thats interesting...
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Tauruses like the stability of a relationship and marriage they don't want to mess things up or split things in half. They like structure. Tradition. It could be she stays for that.
She stays for that after she messed all up the structure and all the rest...out of guilt maybe she stays but for how long I wonder can she lie to herself...
Probably forever knowing Taurus! Sorry dont mind me i may know nothing!
But if they will cheat with you ..they will cheat on you ...etc
Accurate
Yeah ...if they are TRULY unhappy or ready to leave ..they WILL ...without you getting involved...or well they won't with taurus usually
Unless you are Paula Yates of course. But i think she is the exception that proves the rule. Her moon is in Scorpio the opposite of her sun in Taurus.
She sounds super complex...i sort of feel this gut wrenching pain for her. Scorpio placements are tough...
I only have scorp in pluto thankfully.
Yeah during the custody trial for her kids she actually only found out then through a DNA test the man she had thought to be her father all her life ..was not.
Yikes, I have to watch a doc on these guys or something
Yeah when i was a kid her daughter was a bit of an icon. Peaches Geldof.click to expand
Ohhhh, ive heard of her
Posted by jeanePosted by Iceman86
Maybe she stays out of guilt with him, but I know that when I am in a relathionship that I am in love with i don't stray, I have eyes only for her, if I would feel the urge to cheat that would mean that I don't have the same feelings anymore and end the relationship to do what I want...
you can continue to torture yourself with the whys or wherefores and you can continue thinking that you are better than her because you would not engage in this sort of behaviour.
bottom line - she doesn't want you. it hurts. it's terrible for your ego but you've lost. i know it's hard for men when women decide they are no longer interested. she's not. chin up. feel your pain and accept the reality of the situation.click to expand
I see your point,I didn't mention that before to prove to someone that I am better from her, I mentioned it to see if I have any damn HOPE still for her...
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I read about your sign that is a rare thing to cheat to your partner, why would a taurus woman cheat on her partner?
I want insights because I was having an affair with a female taurus for 6 months while she was in a relationship,but it didn't end up well between us...
Actually you might be interested in this. I don't know if you know of her in the US. But there was a Taurus called Paula Yates. She was married to a Guy called Bob Geldoff. She left her husband for Michael Hutchence (a Capricorn).
Of course she had a scorpio moon and that influenced her.
But Geldoff was known as a saint. Saint Bob etc he did live Aid. And at that time people worshipped him.
She was sort of seen as his groupie. And just a black sheep in comparison to him. She had a terrible childhood. And she was seen as this crazy hysterical woman in the press who did drugs and lived this rockstar life style with sex and heroine along with kids. While Geldoff even though living in the same house possibly doing the same things was seen as a SAINT.
She had THROWN herself at Geldoff when they were young.
She met Hutchence in the eighties and started following him even bringing her daughter to his concerts saying 'I'm going to have him'.
I think it was the idea of having someone so not an Angel that she didn't have to be in the shade off. Also a very dysfunctional childhood.
I think that affected her self esteem. She did an interview with Hutchence. You can tell the tension. They had LONG LONG started an affair before this interview. In effect she did leave her husband ..only it took like TEN years for her to do that.
Bob Geldoff is a Libra.
I think it might be more basic than that. But yes all that makes a ton of sense.
Also ime libra men arent affectionate to the level that Taurus womean need.
Also if he was in the spotlight he prob paid more attention to his career than her.
We are selfish with attention...we want it all. Always.
She had the 100% of my attention to her I assure you, I even thought that maybe that was the case that I was so in to her and maybe I shouldnt...i am a libra also..
I dated a libra once. It started out so intense. But it was lacking something. It never got "deep" enough for me. I never felt that love. It was a little too practical?
He thought he gave me enough attention but he was detached, he only saw me 4xs a week. That felt like enough to him...but not I.
Every situation is differner tho. I dont know yours from firsthand.
Thats was not the case as I was seeing her when she could be with me keeping in mind that she was in a relationship, I was seeing her 3-4 times a week that wasn't enough for me but I didn't push her at any point.
Ok, like i said not your situation.
But hey dude, sometimes things don't jive. Sometimes its you, sometimes its her. Sometines its the fact shes in a relationship and her and her dude worked it out. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
My opinion is that when you reach the point to cheat you don't have true feelings for your partner...I would understand maybe a one night stand,or if she was married and the routine hitted the door, but she was seeing me for 6 months ,you do that when you have true feelings for either of them?ego thinking maybe but not feelings
Tauruses like the stability of a relationship and marriage they don't want to mess things up or split things in half. They like structure. Tradition. It could be she stays for that.
She stays for that after she messed all up the structure and all the rest...out of guilt maybe she stays but for how long I wonder can she lie to herself...
Probably forever knowing Taurus! Sorry dont mind me i may know nothing!
But if they will cheat with you ..they will cheat on you ...etc
Accurate
Yeah ...if they are TRULY unhappy or ready to leave ..they WILL ...without you getting involved...or well they won't with taurus usually
Unless you are Paula Yates of course. But i think she is the exception that proves the rule. Her moon is in Scorpio the opposite of her sun in Taurus.
She sounds super complex...i sort of feel this gut wrenching pain for her. Scorpio placements are tough...
I only have scorp in pluto thankfully.
Yeah during the custody trial for her kids she actually only found out then through a DNA test the man she had thought to be her father all her life ..was not.
Yikes, I have to watch a doc on these guys or something
Yeah when i was a kid her daughter was a bit of an icon. Peaches Geldof.
Ohhhh, ive heard of her
Yeah she died of an overdose about 5 yrs ago.click to expand
Jfc she lived fast and died young.
She would have been my age.
Died at 25.
Two marriages and 2 children in just 25 years...nuts.
Posted by Iceman86Posted by jeanePosted by Iceman86
Maybe she stays out of guilt with him, but I know that when I am in a relathionship that I am in love with i don't stray, I have eyes only for her, if I would feel the urge to cheat that would mean that I don't have the same feelings anymore and end the relationship to do what I want...
you can continue to torture yourself with the whys or wherefores and you can continue thinking that you are better than her because you would not engage in this sort of behaviour.
bottom line - she doesn't want you. it hurts. it's terrible for your ego but you've lost. i know it's hard for men when women decide they are no longer interested. she's not. chin up. feel your pain and accept the reality of the situation.
I see your point,I didn't mention that before to prove to someone that I am better from her, I mentioned it to see if I have any damn HOPE still for her...click to expand
No.
You are making excuses and trying to create the story to fit your narrative
No hope. Just move on.
I hate to be blunt but you have some cognitive dissonance about the situation.
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by jeanePosted by Iceman86
Maybe she stays out of guilt with him, but I know that when I am in a relathionship that I am in love with i don't stray, I have eyes only for her, if I would feel the urge to cheat that would mean that I don't have the same feelings anymore and end the relationship to do what I want...
you can continue to torture yourself with the whys or wherefores and you can continue thinking that you are better than her because you would not engage in this sort of behaviour.
bottom line - she doesn't want you. it hurts. it's terrible for your ego but you've lost. i know it's hard for men when women decide they are no longer interested. she's not. chin up. feel your pain and accept the reality of the situation.
I see your point,I didn't mention that before to prove to someone that I am better from her, I mentioned it to see if I have any damn HOPE still for her...
No.
You are making excuses and trying to create the story to fit your narrative
No hope. Just move on.
I hate to be blunt but you have some cognitive dissonance about the situation.click to expand
Thats true,being in love does that to you...
Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by jeanePosted by Iceman86
Maybe she stays out of guilt with him, but I know that when I am in a relathionship that I am in love with i don't stray, I have eyes only for her, if I would feel the urge to cheat that would mean that I don't have the same feelings anymore and end the relationship to do what I want...
you can continue to torture yourself with the whys or wherefores and you can continue thinking that you are better than her because you would not engage in this sort of behaviour.
bottom line - she doesn't want you. it hurts. it's terrible for your ego but you've lost. i know it's hard for men when women decide they are no longer interested. she's not. chin up. feel your pain and accept the reality of the situation.
I see your point,I didn't mention that before to prove to someone that I am better from her, I mentioned it to see if I have any damn HOPE still for her...
No.
You are making excuses and trying to create the story to fit your narrative
No hope. Just move on.
I hate to be blunt but you have some cognitive dissonance about the situation.
Thats true,being in love does that to you...click to expand
Yup...but you will survive and find better love. Trusttttt me on it.
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Guy you are torturing yourself
Guy you are torturing yourself
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by Boots1313Posted by Iceman86Posted by jeanePosted by Iceman86
Maybe she stays out of guilt with him, but I know that when I am in a relathionship that I am in love with i don't stray, I have eyes only for her, if I would feel the urge to cheat that would mean that I don't have the same feelings anymore and end the relationship to do what I want...
you can continue to torture yourself with the whys or wherefores and you can continue thinking that you are better than her because you would not engage in this sort of behaviour.
bottom line - she doesn't want you. it hurts. it's terrible for your ego but you've lost. i know it's hard for men when women decide they are no longer interested. she's not. chin up. feel your pain and accept the reality of the situation.
I see your point,I didn't mention that before to prove to someone that I am better from her, I mentioned it to see if I have any damn HOPE still for her...
No.
You are making excuses and trying to create the story to fit your narrative
No hope. Just move on.
I hate to be blunt but you have some cognitive dissonance about the situation.
Thats true,being in love does that to you...
Yup...but you will survive and find better love. Trusttttt me on it.click to expand
I hope that for the future although now I wish that this woman could give me that better love...
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Guy you are torturing yourself
Sadly yes, I wish I could easily let go and act like I don't care anymore...
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