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@Boots1313
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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Love the spelling mistake 😂
I’m generally careful with money but will sometimes splurge on something I want or save for something extravagant.
Money for me represents security and options.
Like you I need time off to decompress, I wouldn’t take overtime at every opportunity. I even worked part-time only a few years ago (full-time now).

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
If I had a specific goal in mind I could work a long time without a break but generally wouldn’t want to. Relaxation is very important.


Posted by Ooops
I've always been fortunate to actually enjoy what I do. It's never seemed like work and the money was never the main focus, but the control freak in me cant sit idle knowing something is going on (I've tried) I have to be in there. Now, I do like to cut loose occasionally and blow off steam, but i actually enjoy working. Hell, most of my hobbies are what most people consider work.
Maybe he actually enjoys his work and/or likes being part of a team.

Posted by Boots1313Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Love the spelling mistake 😂
I’m generally careful with money but will sometimes splurge on something I want or save for something extravagant.
Money for me represents security and options.
Like you I need time off to decompress, I wouldn’t take overtime at every opportunity. I even worked part-time only a few years ago (full-time now).
Lol, my life is a spelling mistake (i tried to edit it but it wouldn't let me edit the title?)
Im finacially in the hole atm, but i can easily just limit my spending and save.
Thats how i am, i need my sleep and a day off (sometimes i work a full week...like laat week) but i wont do that for a month straight (i have but different circumstances)
My comfort and decompression time is just as important
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Posted by Boots1313Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
If I had a specific goal in mind I could work a long time without a break but generally wouldn’t want to. Relaxation is very important.
I guess my job except for on rare ocassuins doesnt have an "overtime" option...if it did i would prob work nore...becasue i need the money and im working toward things.
My s.o on the other hand there is always work, everyday and since he wants a house/comfortable life, he usually takes whatever is available, whenever it is.
Im just afraid he will burn out and also when he breaks plans because of it. Its annoying.
But this was something he told me from the begining...he is a workaholic. And he just assures me we're both going to benefit.
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Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Boots1313Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Love the spelling mistake 😂
I’m generally careful with money but will sometimes splurge on something I want or save for something extravagant.
Money for me represents security and options.
Like you I need time off to decompress, I wouldn’t take overtime at every opportunity. I even worked part-time only a few years ago (full-time now).
Lol, my life is a spelling mistake (i tried to edit it but it wouldn't let me edit the title?)
Im finacially in the hole atm, but i can easily just limit my spending and save.
Thats how i am, i need my sleep and a day off (sometimes i work a full week...like laat week) but i wont do that for a month straight (i have but different circumstances)
My comfort and decompression time is just as important
I am exactly the same. My Taurus Moon and Mars shows. I need a balance. Fun and work. But my time off and comfort is more important than money. And I need to enjoy my work. Very important. I see a big difference with all my friends regarding to this.click to expand

Posted by OoopsPosted by Boots1313Posted by Ooops
I've always been fortunate to actually enjoy what I do. It's never seemed like work and the money was never the main focus, but the control freak in me cant sit idle knowing something is going on (I've tried) I have to be in there. Now, I do like to cut loose occasionally and blow off steam, but i actually enjoy working. Hell, most of my hobbies are what most people consider work.
Maybe he actually enjoys his work and/or likes being part of a team.
He does really love his job and coworkers and hes fortunate to have the job he does becasue its not easy to get into.
If he sticks with it and works hard he will be one rhe top guys in a few years...and i know he definitely wants to be part owener...which has been a conversation hes had with his boss...taking over when he retires. So he has long term goals there and i think its great.
His attitide is do it while you're young and able.
Yeah, seems more like raw ambition and determination than greed or the love of money. Though money obviously is a byproduct.
It sounds like a good thing to me, a lot of people nowadays have no drive nor ambition. Even though it makes date night a little frustrating.click to expand

Posted by ellllePosted by ParkourlerPosted by elllle![]()
Taurus in a nutshell
I was being silly about the spelling error. Lol
Tautus sounds like Tortoise 😝click to expand

Posted by OoopsPosted by Boots1313Posted by OoopsPosted by Boots1313Posted by Ooops
I've always been fortunate to actually enjoy what I do. It's never seemed like work and the money was never the main focus, but the control freak in me cant sit idle knowing something is going on (I've tried) I have to be in there. Now, I do like to cut loose occasionally and blow off steam, but i actually enjoy working. Hell, most of my hobbies are what most people consider work.
Maybe he actually enjoys his work and/or likes being part of a team.
He does really love his job and coworkers and hes fortunate to have the job he does becasue its not easy to get into.
If he sticks with it and works hard he will be one rhe top guys in a few years...and i know he definitely wants to be part owener...which has been a conversation hes had with his boss...taking over when he retires. So he has long term goals there and i think its great.
His attitide is do it while you're young and able.
Yeah, seems more like raw ambition and determination than greed or the love of money. Though money obviously is a byproduct.
It sounds like a good thing to me, a lot of people nowadays have no drive nor ambition. Even though it makes date night a little frustrating.
Exctally that. I dont understand it completely, but i do love his drive and ambition. I find it very attractive and it is frustrating with date night...but nearly a year in i understand now. i just laugh when he turns to me and says "umm...my boss just asked me to work sunday...i know we had plans buttt..." lol i just smh smile and say "go ahead honey"
Maybe sit him down and try to work out a plan of 1 or 2 date nights a month. Tell him you need it.click to expand

Posted by Black-Mamba
why don't you work as hard as him so you can also have property, you know real estate endeavors can eventually make money

Posted by Boots1313Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Boots1313Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Love the spelling mistake 😂
I’m generally careful with money but will sometimes splurge on something I want or save for something extravagant.
Money for me represents security and options.
Like you I need time off to decompress, I wouldn’t take overtime at every opportunity. I even worked part-time only a few years ago (full-time now).
Lol, my life is a spelling mistake (i tried to edit it but it wouldn't let me edit the title?)
Im finacially in the hole atm, but i can easily just limit my spending and save.
Thats how i am, i need my sleep and a day off (sometimes i work a full week...like laat week) but i wont do that for a month straight (i have but different circumstances)
My comfort and decompression time is just as important
I am exactly the same. My Taurus Moon and Mars shows. I need a balance. Fun and work. But my time off and comfort is more important than money. And I need to enjoy my work. Very important. I see a big difference with all my friends regarding to this.
Whats the diffence you notice with your friends ? What is their attitude in regards to work/money?click to expand

Posted by ellllePosted by ParkourlerPosted by elllle![]()
Taurus in a nutshell
I was being silly about the spelling error. Lol
Tautus sounds like Tortoise 😝click to expand

Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Boots1313Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Boots1313Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Love the spelling mistake 😂
I’m generally careful with money but will sometimes splurge on something I want or save for something extravagant.
Money for me represents security and options.
Like you I need time off to decompress, I wouldn’t take overtime at every opportunity. I even worked part-time only a few years ago (full-time now).
Lol, my life is a spelling mistake (i tried to edit it but it wouldn't let me edit the title?)
Im finacially in the hole atm, but i can easily just limit my spending and save.
Thats how i am, i need my sleep and a day off (sometimes i work a full week...like laat week) but i wont do that for a month straight (i have but different circumstances)
My comfort and decompression time is just as important
I am exactly the same. My Taurus Moon and Mars shows. I need a balance. Fun and work. But my time off and comfort is more important than money. And I need to enjoy my work. Very important. I see a big difference with all my friends regarding to this.
Whats the diffence you notice with your friends ? What is their attitude in regards to work/money?
That they will work more to get more money. They work harder to get more comfort but then they complain that they don’t have time. I prefer to have less money than sacrificing my comfortclick to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by Boots1313Posted by Black-Mamba
why don't you work as hard as him so you can also have property, you know real estate endeavors can eventually make money
My job doesnt offer o/t...i did have a part time job up until recently...but i got burned out...I just can't be a work horse. I need 1 day off a week.
I hear you , i wish i had a partner, man the extra income would help me move things even more quickly.
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Posted by OoopsPosted by Boots1313Posted by OoopsPosted by Boots1313Posted by OoopsPosted by Boots1313Posted by Ooops
I've always been fortunate to actually enjoy what I do. It's never seemed like work and the money was never the main focus, but the control freak in me cant sit idle knowing something is going on (I've tried) I have to be in there. Now, I do like to cut loose occasionally and blow off steam, but i actually enjoy working. Hell, most of my hobbies are what most people consider work.
Maybe he actually enjoys his work and/or likes being part of a team.
He does really love his job and coworkers and hes fortunate to have the job he does becasue its not easy to get into.
If he sticks with it and works hard he will be one rhe top guys in a few years...and i know he definitely wants to be part owener...which has been a conversation hes had with his boss...taking over when he retires. So he has long term goals there and i think its great.
His attitide is do it while you're young and able.
Yeah, seems more like raw ambition and determination than greed or the love of money. Though money obviously is a byproduct.
It sounds like a good thing to me, a lot of people nowadays have no drive nor ambition. Even though it makes date night a little frustrating.
Exctally that. I dont understand it completely, but i do love his drive and ambition. I find it very attractive and it is frustrating with date night...but nearly a year in i understand now. i just laugh when he turns to me and says "umm...my boss just asked me to work sunday...i know we had plans buttt..." lol i just smh smile and say "go ahead honey"
Maybe sit him down and try to work out a plan of 1 or 2 date nights a month. Tell him you need it.
That is what we do. We do 1 or 2 a month and im content with that. Im really fine with it. Were going away next weekend...also a reason he is working so much O/T
Awesome! Hope you guys have a good time. Sounds like you understand where he's coming from and that you're going to benefit also, you're just frustrated right now. Just be patient for the time being. If he cancels your getaway... then maybe kill him.. jkclick to expand

Posted by Boots1313Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Boots1313Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Boots1313Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Love the spelling mistake 😂
I’m generally careful with money but will sometimes splurge on something I want or save for something extravagant.
Money for me represents security and options.
Like you I need time off to decompress, I wouldn’t take overtime at every opportunity. I even worked part-time only a few years ago (full-time now).
Lol, my life is a spelling mistake (i tried to edit it but it wouldn't let me edit the title?)
Im finacially in the hole atm, but i can easily just limit my spending and save.
Thats how i am, i need my sleep and a day off (sometimes i work a full week...like laat week) but i wont do that for a month straight (i have but different circumstances)
My comfort and decompression time is just as important
I am exactly the same. My Taurus Moon and Mars shows. I need a balance. Fun and work. But my time off and comfort is more important than money. And I need to enjoy my work. Very important. I see a big difference with all my friends regarding to this.
Whats the diffence you notice with your friends ? What is their attitude in regards to work/money?
That they will work more to get more money. They work harder to get more comfort but then they complain that they don’t have time. I prefer to have less money than sacrificing my comfort
How do they clean and cook and just have them time?
I need a balance.click to expand

Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Boots1313Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Boots1313Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Boots1313Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Love the spelling mistake 😂
I’m generally careful with money but will sometimes splurge on something I want or save for something extravagant.
Money for me represents security and options.
Like you I need time off to decompress, I wouldn’t take overtime at every opportunity. I even worked part-time only a few years ago (full-time now).
Lol, my life is a spelling mistake (i tried to edit it but it wouldn't let me edit the title?)
Im finacially in the hole atm, but i can easily just limit my spending and save.
Thats how i am, i need my sleep and a day off (sometimes i work a full week...like laat week) but i wont do that for a month straight (i have but different circumstances)
My comfort and decompression time is just as important
I am exactly the same. My Taurus Moon and Mars shows. I need a balance. Fun and work. But my time off and comfort is more important than money. And I need to enjoy my work. Very important. I see a big difference with all my friends regarding to this.
Whats the diffence you notice with your friends ? What is their attitude in regards to work/money?
That they will work more to get more money. They work harder to get more comfort but then they complain that they don’t have time. I prefer to have less money than sacrificing my comfort
How do they clean and cook and just have them time?
I need a balance.
But that is the thing they don’t have the time. They feel like they have to do everything.
I am an expert at working as little as possible and enjoying my life as much as possible. My friends always ask me for advice on that. But in reality it’s all about priorities.click to expand

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I need a balance...because i work hard but im a lazy fuck too.
My s.o on the other hand he can't turn down a chance to make $ $ even if we had plans...if he is offered a day to work he takes it.
So other taurus weigh in...how arw you with work/money?