@goldrockett
12 Years
Taurus boyfriend is being a jerk to me
Understanding Taurus Boyfriend's Behavior in Conflict
A Taurus boyfriend may become distant or respond with harsh words when feeling stressed or misunderstood. Open communication is key but may be difficult due to their stubborn nature. It's important to set boundaries and approach calmly to foster understanding and reduce conflicts. Consider giving him space and encouraging honest discussions to improve your relationship.
Tell him how you feel, the wording you're using here
"yet tells me I can always feel comfortable enough to talk to him but when I do and it's a bit on the heavy side he can't take it"
No one can tell you anything about your relationship really. Communication is key, so If he wants to hear what you have to say, let him have it and let him digest it and deal with it. It won't get fixed by not talking.
"I fall back and he reacts like a emotional ahole."
Why should you fall back? let him know this, that his emotion overtakes logic and that he's not hearing you.
I'm going to see him later. We really need to have a take. Things have been a mess. He won't acknowledge it tho so it makes me feel like I'm the only one that things haven't been great which makes me feel like I'm the only one tripping. I'm scared to talk to him bc things are already bad and seeing how he can't even handle it when i express myself by text I can only imagine how it'd be verbally
Tell him how you feel, the wording you're using here
"yet tells me I can always feel comfortable enough to talk to him but when I do and it's a bit on the heavy side he can't take it"
No one can tell you anything about your relationship really. Communication is key, so If he wants to hear what you have to say, let him have it and let him digest it and deal with it. It won't get fixed by not talking.
"I fall back and he reacts like a emotional ahole."
Why should you fall back? let him know this, that his emotion overtakes logic and that he's not hearing you.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
eem to think so. I'm guilty for falling asleep on the phone but that time I wasn't sleep. He stopped talking to his cousin for a second and asked me if I was still awake , I said yes then he proceeded to still talk to his cousin. I'm scared but I definitely want to discuss things later when I see him. If he's going to be like this in our relationship and continue with the rudeness and disrespect then I don't want to be with him. Im wayyyyyyyy to good to him to be treated like this
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Having you waiting on the phone for 15min is rude. Ofc you're going to hang up when you don't know how long he is going to talk to him. I think he might have seen it as you attacking him passive-aggressively by hanging up so he gets upsets because he thinks you're upset and he becomes defensive. Honestly he should be the one apologizing to you. I think the communication is lacking in here. You should have a talk with him.
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I'm going to see him later. We really need to have a take. Things have been a mess. He won't acknowledge it tho so it makes me feel like I'm the only one that things haven't been great which makes me feel like I'm the only one tripping. I'm scared to talk to him bc things are already bad and seeing how he can't even handle it when i express myself by text I can only imagine how it'd be verbally
Tell him how you feel, the wording you're using here
"yet tells me I can always feel comfortable enough to talk to him but when I do and it's a bit on the heavy side he can't take it"
No one can tell you anything about your relationship really. Communication is key, so If he wants to hear what you have to say, let him have it and let him digest it and deal with it. It won't get fixed by not talking.
"I fall back and he reacts like a emotional ahole."
Why should you fall back? let him know this, that his emotion overtakes logic and that he's not hearing you.
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You still have a right to be heard and no one is living under a rock. These are the types of issues that will need to get ironed out in the long run. Mutual understanding and compromising is key in a long relationship. Just say what you have to say and let him digest it and think on it. Either it will get fixed or worked out, or it won't.
Don't let his stubbornness get in the way and you shouldn't be nervous about talking to him. If he can see you naked and have sex with you and do all the other nasty stuff you guys do to each other, then you can have a conversation with him. You are aware that he will clam up and get uncomfortable, but maybe that's his way of dealing with things, so say what you want in a respectful way and if he clams up or looks uncomfortable, just keep talking till it's all out and let him digest everything. Don't expect an immediate response if he's the type that needs time to think. Give him a little room 🙂
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
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Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
I won't be afraid. Thank you. I'm just going to get it all out and over with. After that I really don't have much else to discuss
I'm going to see him later. We really need to have a take. Things have been a mess. He won't acknowledge it tho so it makes me feel like I'm the only one that things haven't been great which makes me feel like I'm the only one tripping. I'm scared to talk to him bc things are already bad and seeing how he can't even handle it when i express myself by text I can only imagine how it'd be verbally
Tell him how you feel, the wording you're using here
"yet tells me I can always feel comfortable enough to talk to him but when I do and it's a bit on the heavy side he can't take it"
No one can tell you anything about your relationship really. Communication is key, so If he wants to hear what you have to say, let him have it and let him digest it and deal with it. It won't get fixed by not talking.
"I fall back and he reacts like a emotional ahole."
Why should you fall back? let him know this, that his emotion overtakes logic and that he's not hearing you.
You still have a right to be heard and no one is living under a rock. These are the types of issues that will need to get ironed out in the long run. Mutual understanding and compromising is key in a long relationship. Just say what you have to say and let him digest it and think on it. Either it will get fixed or worked out, or it won't.
Don't let his stubbornness get in the way and you shouldn't be nervous about talking to him. If he can see you naked and have sex with you and do all the other nasty stuff you guys do to each other, then you can have a conversation with him. You are aware that he will clam up and get uncomfortable, but maybe that's his way of dealing with things, so say what you want in a respectful way and if he clams up or looks uncomfortable, just keep talking till it's all out and let him digest everything. Don't expect an immediate response if he's the type that needs time to think. Give him a little room 🙂
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what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
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Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
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So why not say, call me back when your done talking.
Communicate.
Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.
Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
So why not say, call me back when your done talking.
Communicate.
Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.
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This is true.
A few months ago, i behaved like this. Hanging up, making it about me, and my boyfriend reacted as such as well. I started to look into myself and trying to focus in not being so reactionary and guess what!? His whole attitude changed and we are better than ever now.
Taurus very much give you what you give them.
e your miserable negativity somewhere else. There's more to what I'm going through than what you're speaking on. It always has to be someone like you in a forum trolling ppl. Fk off
Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
So why not say, call me back when your done talking.
Communicate.
Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.
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Honestly take your miserable negativity somewhere else. There's more to what I'm going through than what you're speaking on. It always has to be someone like you in a forum trolling ppl. Fk off
Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
So why not say, call me back when your done talking.
Communicate.
Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.
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Posting in a public forum asking for peoples opinion and then getting butt hurt when people give their opinion...
CHILDISH
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
15min is a long time. Do you really expect the other person to just sit around on the line for 15min and wait for you to get back whenever. That 15min could have turned to 30min who knows. I don't understand why they are making such a big deal of it. Ok she is no longer on the line after I got back 15min later. Just call again or talk tomorrow. Why turn nasty?
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To clarify... its childish to just hang up on someone.
So his cousin is talking to him and you can't hang around waiting. So say that. Call me back when your done.
Easy enough.
Hanging up on someone is rude and childish. He's not wrong for saying that.
taurus tend to say shit they dont mean wenn emotional
if you still love him enought to try to make it work you will need alot of patient and understanding
be layedback give him some space to breath, dont be to sencetiv
show him you can be a rock, that you can be depended on. remember we can be SUPER STuBBORN.
Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
So why not say, call me back when your done talking.
Communicate.
Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.
I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.
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I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.
But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?
I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.
Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
So why not say, call me back when your done talking.
Communicate.
Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.
I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.
I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.
But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?
I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.
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Yea. You're right. I could have said call me back when you're done. But I didn't. So you coming on MY forum with that trash delivery is wack. You I'm sure do that to a lot of ppl on here and that speaks highly of you in the worst way possible. I'm going through enough over her so you can calm all that sht down. Kthnxbai
Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
So why not say, call me back when your done talking.
Communicate.
Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.
I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.
I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.
But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?
I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.
Yea. You're right. I could have said call me back when you're done. But I didn't. So you coming on MY forum with that trash delivery is wack. You I'm sure do that to a lot of ppl on here and that speaks highly of you in the worst way possible. I'm going through enough over her so you can calm all that sht down. Kthnxbai
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Actually...this site and it’s forums belong to Duncan. It’s not ‘yours’.
The sense of entitlement is too funny.
Don’t be mad I’m not a yes man 🤷♀️
Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
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How can you say you see future with him after all you written here?
Are you serious?
Though everybody who said hanging up afyer 15 min wait is childish...I am lmao...
How is it childish? And how can she tell him ‘call me later’ when she was on hold?
Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
So why not say, call me back when your done talking.
Communicate.
Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.
I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.
I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.
But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?
I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.
They are both Taurus right. Probably both being stubborn and getting upset lol. I don't see why they are making such an issue over it. He is upset because he thinks she is upset and being passive aggressive hanging up and she is upset because he is upset lol.
They don't know how to communicate with each other without getting nasty.
I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return.
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You can't call someone a jerk for calling you insane when you called him that first.
At the very least they are both being jerks.
Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
So why not say, call me back when your done talking.
Communicate.
Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.
I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.
I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.
But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?
I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.
They are both Taurus right. Probably both being stubborn and getting upset lol. I don't see why they are making such an issue over it. He is upset because he thinks she is upset and being passive aggressive hanging up and she is upset because he is upset lol.
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One just needs to back down and apologize. The stubborness is real hahaha
Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.
He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do
Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?
Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.
I'd be mad too.
Childish is right.
He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.
So why not say, call me back when your done talking.
Communicate.
Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.
I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.
I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.
But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?
I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.
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I totally agree with you
. what you really want is for him to look forward to coming home and fucking you, then making him a sandwich as a pre-meal to give him energy before he takes you someplace nice for dinner and gives you a new jewelry to match your eyes. lol
This^
It's worked wonders for me.
They really appreciate the little things. And not blowing small things out of proportion. They are only human, and not mind readers. This i had to really focus on to save my relationship when we were in a rough spot.
More selflessness less selfishness
A healthy relationship isnt one in which you "have the upper hand' ,that's not a healthy way to think. Sure maybe he's not communicative but you arent being the best partner to him either. The best thing to do is be honest, have a peaceful convo and tell him what you wrote in your thread, that you need to talk to him but you sense when it's heavy that he doesn't wanna deal with it and ask him if its too much for him and if he wants to remain with you etc. You guys have to be honest. Taurus are honest and appreciate direct communication, so just be real with him with your feelings.
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