To chase....or not to chase. That is the question.

The general consensus seems to be that Taurus will abruptly cut off or reduce contact, even if all other signs point to him being interested.

The questions is- How to react when they do this?

Went on date #3 with a Taurus guy on Sunday. Awesome date. Fun concert. Kept touching me, holding my hand, telling me how much he likes being around me. Some sexy smooches at the end. Then POOF! Crickets on his end.

I noticed that after date #2, the contact significantly slowed. He was previously texting me every day, always initiated by him. Although, his response time grew from a few hours to 8-24 hours. He would also drop out of a convo with no explanation.

I asked him out for both dates #2 AND #3 and he readily accepted. At this point, although I do love a good chase, I will NOT be the one to ask him out again. He has to do a little leg work.

Is it a test? Should I wait him out? Normally I would assume he isn't interested but it's so odd. He is so hot when we are together, yet doesn't follow up.

I am Aries Sun/Virgo Moon/ Virgo Asc/Venus Taurus. I don't know his other planets.....yet.

Slooow down Aries. Don't push your bull into a corner - while I'm sure he was excited and might even accept if you asked him out again, that's not what he NEEDS. He needs to move at his own pace and build up the excitement and energy to ask YOU out. Don't rush - let him work things out and come back when he's ready. In the meantime, don't worry about it too much. If/when he comes back, take it one step at a time.