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Mostly everyone knows my story. I just had a daughter and my bd is a Taurus. He was acting sweet til the day I had my daughter. He basically saying he wants a dna test and all this but what go get it done when I offer to do one. It’s like he’s holding some type of resentment towards me. He told me I had 9 months of opportunity to get my life figured out on what I should’ve done. Okay now does this make any sense if he doesn’t believe the baby is his why bring your kids and mother to the hospital to meet my daughter! Then in texts you act like the baby is precious but in my face he says mean things to me. I really don’t understand this. He’s immature but what type of behavior is this. He told me also I’ll need his approval on dating and basically told me we got a love like Ike and Tina ? Now someone please tell me your thoughts on this.

that sounds abusive so get that straight right now - get legal girl and stay away from him - give him rights to see his daughter but make it clear he's got nothing to do with you and/or the way you live your life

I told him I only want it to be bout her and he does that in texts but the tension he has when we face to face is no other. I just don’t understand if he doesn’t believe my daughter is his he can go get a dna and he’ll be paying for it. And I think he does a lot of head games to get reaction out of me. He said sometimes I miss you and think of you now I like you. He has been possessive over me. He kept telling me I’m not going anywhere? Is this Taurus behavior??

He also told me he was gonna end up with one of us baby mommas. He hmu a month before I had her so why did he come back around ?

he's probably afraid to be a dad.

how old are you? have you ever damaged the relationship? was the baby planned or did it just happen?

Why would you choose to bring a life into the world with this person?

Posted by sagittariusxo

he's probably afraid to be a dad.

how old are you? have you ever damaged the relationship? was the baby planned or did it just happen?

He already a dad. And he told me over a year ago I had him going back to his old ways but I never understood. He said we got a love and hate relationship because of me. I asked him for a baby a year ago and now I have my daughter. We both knew what we was doing. I think he’s upset I rejected him because he said no one is going to have a baby by me less we are together. He lets the convos be strictly bout the baby but I think he’s trying to use that to get to me.

Posted by Impulsv

Someone probably told him it might not be his seed planted

So if it is his why not let him pay for the dna

I asked him 5 times and he avoids the convo. My daughter is his twin she’s dead on him. In texts he’s sweet bout the baby but in my face he acts cold with me. I don’t know if it’s because of rejection or what ?

Posted by sagittariusxo

he's probably afraid to be a dad.

how old are you? have you ever damaged the relationship? was the baby planned or did it just happen?

Don’t be sound like a narcissist?

Posted by PurtyWingzFly2

Posted by Impulsv

Someone probably told him it might not be his seed planted

So if it is his why not let him pay for the dna

I asked him 5 times and he avoids the convo. My daughter is his twin she’s dead on him. In texts he’s sweet bout the baby but in my face he acts cold with me. I don’t know if it’s because of rejection or what ?

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No he’s smart. Text are evidence. Words are he said she said.

Just be careful how you interact with him. You don’t want him and his new bitch down the line trying to take your child on the grounds that you are an unfit mother.

But yes, get a court order to get the dna test done and then squeeze him for every dollar he owes.

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Posted by PurtyWingzFly2

Posted by Impulsv

Someone probably told him it might not be his seed planted

So if it is his why not let him pay for the dna

I asked him 5 times and he avoids the convo. My daughter is his twin she’s dead on him. In texts he’s sweet bout the baby but in my face he acts cold with me. I don’t know if it’s because of rejection or what ?

No he’s smart. Text are evidence. Words are he said she said.

Just be careful how you interact with him. You don’t want him and his new bitch down the line trying to take your child on the grounds that you are an unfit mother.

But yes, get a court order to get the dna test done and then squeeze him for every dollar he owes.

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I don’t think he’ll do all that he doesn’t want the responsibility of her. And tbh I think he texts me to get closer to me cause I said I want it strictly bout the baby. We were never in a relationship and tbh nothing else to talk bout besides our daughter tbh.

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Posted by sagittariusxo

he's probably afraid to be a dad.

how old are you? have you ever damaged the relationship? was the baby planned or did it just happen?

Don’t be sound like a narcissist?

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I don't think narcissist is a bad thing. pretty sure human nature agrees

Posted by PurtyWingzFly2

Posted by sagittariusxo

he's probably afraid to be a dad.

how old are you? have you ever damaged the relationship? was the baby planned or did it just happen?

He already a dad. And he told me over a year ago I had him going back to his old ways but I never understood. He said we got a love and hate relationship because of me. I asked him for a baby a year ago and now I have my daughter. We both knew what we was doing. I think he’s upset I rejected him because he said no one is going to have a baby by me less we are together. He lets the convos be strictly bout the baby but I think he’s trying to use that to get to me.

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sounds immature.

Posted by sagittariusxo

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Posted by sagittariusxo

he's probably afraid to be a dad.

how old are you? have you ever damaged the relationship? was the baby planned or did it just happen?

He already a dad. And he told me over a year ago I had him going back to his old ways but I never understood. He said we got a love and hate relationship because of me. I asked him for a baby a year ago and now I have my daughter. We both knew what we was doing. I think he’s upset I rejected him because he said no one is going to have a baby by me less we are together. He lets the convos be strictly bout the baby but I think he’s trying to use that to get to me.

sounds immature.

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Just opinion why would he contact me after months I was pregnant if he didn’t think the baby is his? He could completely leave me alone but why you think he would come back ?? I end things cause I didn’t see it going no where tbh.