Very COnfused w/ guys.....need serious help.

O.k.....here we go. A sag likes me, first of all. Hes ok I guess, but still...most of my friends hate him, and everyone I talk to thinks hes a stupid asshole, but I talk to him and he seems great, and it could be because they dont know him to well, but then again they've known him longer then I have. Ok, then theres this Pisces whos my best guy friend. I thought for like a little while that I like him, but then I realized that hes my best friend, and I could never like him. But every time I see him I think about liking him, and then I get confused. Then theres this Capricorn. Umm, I've liked him for a year 1/2. And, well, hes got a really great personality and all, and I tried telling him I liked him once but it didnt really work. Should I give up though? I mean it was a while ago that I told him. What should I do? Can anyone analyze this for me? Thanks.
~Aquila

You seem confused? Why don't you write out a list of healthy traits you desire in a man... and only date men who have these traits. For ex. honest, well educated, family oriented, a man who courts you, a man who respects women and his mother... focus on attracting a healthy man--not just a man...these men don't seem really interested in you. Why don't you be interested in yourself...and focus on being a better person, healthier person, a person who has goals. Men find women with this traits desirable.

Just my opinion.