What do you think about Taurus girl + Pisces guy relationship?

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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
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I'm a Taurus female. I find that talking to Pisces men... just flows, more than any other sign. My biggest issue w/ Pisces men is that they seem to fall for almost every girl, and I no longer feel special.

I need to feel like someone's Only Option. if it aint 100% then I'd rather wait for the right one.
I think you just have to meet the right Pisces. A reserved one.

I'm always dedicating 100% in every relationship I was in, and the other person is always my only option.

This may be a double edged sword, but I always enjoy treating the other person like a queen.
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Posted by kris_01
my parents are happy with each other for almost 25 years that's gonna be something, my mom was a Taurus and my dad was a Pisces there are times that my dad was oversensitive and my mom was inconsiderate but they somehow stay together even i don't get why cause i really can't stand my mom but my dad can 😉
I think your dad might see the light in her that you don't.

I know how he feels.
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I haven't been in a long term relationship with a Taurus woman, but I seem to attract them to me more than any other sign. I also find myself attracted to them more than any other sign. From a Pisces male perspective Taurus women seem to provide the strength and stability a Pisces craves and needs. I love Taurus women. To me they're probably the most beautiful sign in the zodiac. They're strong and sturdy while still being very feminine and sometimes passive. I don't know if most Taurus women see anything in Pisces men, but I think there's some good chemistry there. But it obviously depends on other aspects and placements than just sun sign
I think Tauruses are simply full of love to give to the world and have pure hearts. This is what I find so irresistible about them (beside the fact that they are so sensual and gentle).

I feel like only a Taurus is capable of giving me the amount of love that I crave.

I know a lot of people hate Pisces for being so changeable and unstable.

But here's something to Taurus girls:

If your Pisces man truly loves you, he will make you the center of his world, and he will change himself however much he has to in order to make it work. That is, if he truly cares about you and your relationship.

However he will get turned off and swim away if he feels unwanted, unloved, ignored, hurt, or if you weren't there for him in his time of need, when he's always trying to be there for you.
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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
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Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
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I'm a Taurus female. I find that talking to Pisces men... just flows, more than any other sign. My biggest issue w/ Pisces men is that they seem to fall for almost every girl, and I no longer feel special.

I need to feel like someone's Only Option. if it aint 100% then I'd rather wait for the right one.
I think you just have to meet the right Pisces. A reserved one.

I'm always dedicating 100% in every relationship I was in, and the other person is always my only option.

This may be a double edged sword, but I always enjoy treating the other person like a queen.


Dude, i dont want to be offensive but hiw many relationships have you had at the age of 20?

And if they are a lot how were you 100% in?
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I've had 3-4 adventures, nothing serious, short relationships, but right now I'm in my 2nd serious relationship for 6 months. Last one I was in lasted 7 and a half, with a Scorpio. She cheated on me
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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.

See what on different sides of the same sign? What's your dominant? I don't like clingy/lazy women. Taurus women I've dealt were either one or the other or both.

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Well, I'm already very attached to her. I love her, I see no real problem big enough to make me want to break up. She's never lazy when she does something for me though.

Sometimes I use this, so I convince her to do something for me, when it's actually for her.
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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
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That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
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I'm a Taurus female. I find that talking to Pisces men... just flows, more than any other sign. My biggest issue w/ Pisces men is that they seem to fall for almost every girl, and I no longer feel special.

I need to feel like someone's Only Option. if it aint 100% then I'd rather wait for the right one.
I think you just have to meet the right Pisces. A reserved one.

I'm always dedicating 100% in every relationship I was in, and the other person is always my only option.

This may be a double edged sword, but I always enjoy treating the other person like a queen.


Dude, i dont want to be offensive but hiw many relationships have you had at the age of 20?

And if they are a lot how were you 100% in?
I've had 3-4 adventures, nothing serious, short relationships, but right now I'm in my 2nd serious relationship for 6 months. Last one I was in lasted 7 and a half, with a Scorpio. She cheated on me
Sorry. Dont let that affect your new relationship.
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Yeah well... The trust issues and paranoia in me that was left from that last relationship, it got projected into this current relationship, in the early stages.

And the Taurus girl helped me overcome it. Every time I was paranoid or jealous or distrustful, she would immediately show me her private chats, without me asking for them. This went on for a few months and I slowly realized that there's nothing to be insecure/jealous/paranoid about. And my trust was healed.

And right now, we share our privacy with each other and have an "open-door" into each other's private stuff, but neither of us snoop around, because we're always honest with each other and we never hide things from each other or lie.
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I'm a Taurus female. I find that talking to Pisces men... just flows, more than any other sign. My biggest issue w/ Pisces men is that they seem to fall for almost every girl, and I no longer feel special.

I need to feel like someone's Only Option. if it aint 100% then I'd rather wait for the right one.
From the other side of this as a Pisces male, I also find that everything flows well between Pisces and Taurus. This might partly be because Taurus women have such a warm and welcoming presence that makes me feel more comfortable and confident. The energies just seem to connect well without much work
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Yeah I agree.

And there is a huge feeling of security, stability, loyalty and trust.

I happen to value those things a lot in a relationship.
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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
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Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^

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lol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travelling

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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^

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Maybe it seems weird for a Pisces, but I absolutely hate mind games like manipulation or lying, etc. I just really value honesty and openness.
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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^


lol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travelling


🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂

Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
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he had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -

and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore



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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^


lol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travelling


🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂

Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
he had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -

and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore



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I'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.

Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^


lol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travelling


🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂

Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
he had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -

and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore




I'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.

Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
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I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.

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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^


lol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travelling


🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂

Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
he had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -

and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore




I'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.

Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.



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Communication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.

Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.

You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.
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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^


lol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travelling


🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂

Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
he had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -

and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore




I'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.

Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.




Communication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.

Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.

You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.
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he knew he had all the problems that he did and promised to work them out for the relationship and I was willing to support and help where I could - we were friends, more like brother sister actually because there wasn't much romance but there was intimate friendship until the year or so before the decision to separate

I gave more than 100% - he still says that after 5 years of divorce - how he was so wrong and that he'll never find another woman like me - oh well

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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^


lol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travelling


🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂

Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
he had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -

and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore




I'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.

Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.




Communication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.

Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.

You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.
he knew he had all the problems that he did and promised to work them out for the relationship and I was willing to support and help where I could - we were friends, more like brother sister actually because there wasn't much romance but there was intimate friendship until the year or so before the decision to separate

I gave more than 100% - he still says that after 5 years of divorce - how he was so wrong and that he'll never find another woman like me - oh well



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If he does manage to fix all the issues, are you still willing to consider getting back together?

Although the lack of romance kinda bothers me there.
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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^


lol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travelling


🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂

Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
he had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -

and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore




I'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.

Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.




Communication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.

Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.

You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.
he knew he had all the problems that he did and promised to work them out for the relationship and I was willing to support and help where I could - we were friends, more like brother sister actually because there wasn't much romance but there was intimate friendship until the year or so before the decision to separate

I gave more than 100% - he still says that after 5 years of divorce - how he was so wrong and that he'll never find another woman like me - oh well




If he does manage to fix all the issues, are you still willing to consider getting back together?

Although the lack of romance kinda bothers me there.
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no I don't trust that anymore and I've moved on with my life - it's been 5 years and I've had too many promises broken in my lifetime - I am too patient

yes the lack of romance that's another chapter - basically I am a very sensual / sexual person and when he tried to convince me that sex wasn't important and that I had a problem, yet jerked off when surfing porn constantly when I was asleep or not home and didn't try to amend that problem, then I am done

I gave it my all and had to throw in the towel

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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^


lol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travelling


🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂

Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
he had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -

and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore




I'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.

Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.




Communication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.

Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.

You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.
he knew he had all the problems that he did and promised to work them out for the relationship and I was willing to support and help where I could - we were friends, more like brother sister actually because there wasn't much romance but there was intimate friendship until the year or so before the decision to separate

I gave more than 100% - he still says that after 5 years of divorce - how he was so wrong and that he'll never find another woman like me - oh well




If he does manage to fix all the issues, are you still willing to consider getting back together?

Although the lack of romance kinda bothers me there.
no I don't trust that anymore and I've moved on with my life - it's been 5 years and I've had too many promises broken in my lifetime - I am too patient

yes the lack of romance that's another chapter - basically I am a very sensual / sexual person and when he tried to convince me that sex wasn't important and that I had a problem, yet jerked off when surfing porn constantly when I was asleep or not home and didn't try to amend that problem, then I am done

I gave it my all and had to throw in the towel

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He seems hypocritical... You made the right decision by moving on. You shouldn't tolerate promises being broken over and over again.

I really hope you meet (or have already met) someone who is worthy of your love.
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You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
Actually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)

I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.

She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.

After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.
Maybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢
I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.

Just my two cents.
That's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.
Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.

Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
Yeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...

I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.

I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.

I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.

It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.

Otherwise she seems cool ^^


lol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travelling


🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂

Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
he had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -

and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore




I'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.

Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.




Communication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.

Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.

You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.
he knew he had all the problems that he did and promised to work them out for the relationship and I was willing to support and help where I could - we were friends, more like brother sister actually because there wasn't much romance but there was intimate friendship until the year or so before the decision to separate

I gave more than 100% - he still says that after 5 years of divorce - how he was so wrong and that he'll never find another woman like me - oh well




If he does manage to fix all the issues, are you still willing to consider getting back together?

Although the lack of romance kinda bothers me there.
no I don't trust that anymore and I've moved on with my life - it's been 5 years and I've had too many promises broken in my lifetime - I am too patient

yes the lack of romance that's another chapter - basically I am a very sensual / sexual person and when he tried to convince me that sex wasn't important and that I had a problem, yet jerked off when surfing porn constantly when I was asleep or not home and didn't try to amend that problem, then I am done

I gave it my all and had to throw in the towel


He seems hypocritical... You made the right decision by moving on. You shouldn't tolerate promises being broken over and over again.

I really hope you meet (or have already met) someone who is worthy of your love.

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yes and thank you for your kind words
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Honestly for me, Pisces men always annoyed me incessantly because it seems that whatever you say to them goes in one ear and right out the other. And they seem to “miss” a lot of what i’m saying to them, and think they are always right. But with that being said, I like lighthearted relationships and fun, and not-serious conversations with them, they definitely are fun to hang with.

Also take into consideration i have very strong gemini influence so that may play a role also