
What do you think about Taurus girl + Pisces guy relationship?



Posted by rabidtalkerExplain your thoughts please 🙂
That's one lucky pisces guy!


Posted by thecrazyariestaurusCan you even call it a relationship then, if you need so much space away from the other person?
No.
Well for me at least. My ex was too sensitive and clingy and a push over. I need lots of SPACE





Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.

Posted by DelilahoneyI think you just have to meet the right Pisces. A reserved one.
I'm a Taurus female. I find that talking to Pisces men... just flows, more than any other sign. My biggest issue w/ Pisces men is that they seem to fall for almost every girl, and I no longer feel special.
I need to feel like someone's Only Option. if it aint 100% then I'd rather wait for the right one.

Posted by kris_01I think your dad might see the light in her that you don't.
my parents are happy with each other for almost 25 years that's gonna be something, my mom was a Taurus and my dad was a Pisces there are times that my dad was oversensitive and my mom was inconsiderate but they somehow stay together even i don't get why cause i really can't stand my mom but my dad can 😉

Posted by ValleysofNeptuneI think Tauruses are simply full of love to give to the world and have pure hearts. This is what I find so irresistible about them (beside the fact that they are so sensual and gentle).
I haven't been in a long term relationship with a Taurus woman, but I seem to attract them to me more than any other sign. I also find myself attracted to them more than any other sign. From a Pisces male perspective Taurus women seem to provide the strength and stability a Pisces craves and needs. I love Taurus women. To me they're probably the most beautiful sign in the zodiac. They're strong and sturdy while still being very feminine and sometimes passive. I don't know if most Taurus women see anything in Pisces men, but I think there's some good chemistry there. But it obviously depends on other aspects and placements than just sun sign

Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.click to expand

Posted by CvurkooI've had 3-4 adventures, nothing serious, short relationships, but right now I'm in my 2nd serious relationship for 6 months. Last one I was in lasted 7 and a half, with a Scorpio. She cheated on mePosted by alexa566Dude, i dont want to be offensive but hiw many relationships have you had at the age of 20?Posted by DelilahoneyI think you just have to meet the right Pisces. A reserved one.
I'm a Taurus female. I find that talking to Pisces men... just flows, more than any other sign. My biggest issue w/ Pisces men is that they seem to fall for almost every girl, and I no longer feel special.
I need to feel like someone's Only Option. if it aint 100% then I'd rather wait for the right one.
I'm always dedicating 100% in every relationship I was in, and the other person is always my only option.
This may be a double edged sword, but I always enjoy treating the other person like a queen.
And if they are a lot how were you 100% in?click to expand

Posted by Jayc3onWell, I'm already very attached to her. I love her, I see no real problem big enough to make me want to break up. She's never lazy when she does something for me though.Posted by alexa566Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
See what on different sides of the same sign? What's your dominant? I don't like clingy/lazy women. Taurus women I've dealt were either one or the other or both.
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Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.click to expand

Posted by CvurkooYeah well... The trust issues and paranoia in me that was left from that last relationship, it got projected into this current relationship, in the early stages.Posted by alexa566Sorry. Dont let that affect your new relationship.Posted by CvurkooI've had 3-4 adventures, nothing serious, short relationships, but right now I'm in my 2nd serious relationship for 6 months. Last one I was in lasted 7 and a half, with a Scorpio. She cheated on mePosted by alexa566Dude, i dont want to be offensive but hiw many relationships have you had at the age of 20?Posted by DelilahoneyI think you just have to meet the right Pisces. A reserved one.
I'm a Taurus female. I find that talking to Pisces men... just flows, more than any other sign. My biggest issue w/ Pisces men is that they seem to fall for almost every girl, and I no longer feel special.
I need to feel like someone's Only Option. if it aint 100% then I'd rather wait for the right one.
I'm always dedicating 100% in every relationship I was in, and the other person is always my only option.
This may be a double edged sword, but I always enjoy treating the other person like a queen.
And if they are a lot how were you 100% in?click to expand

Posted by ValleysofNeptuneYeah I agree.Posted by DelilahoneyFrom the other side of this as a Pisces male, I also find that everything flows well between Pisces and Taurus. This might partly be because Taurus women have such a warm and welcoming presence that makes me feel more comfortable and confident. The energies just seem to connect well without much work
I'm a Taurus female. I find that talking to Pisces men... just flows, more than any other sign. My biggest issue w/ Pisces men is that they seem to fall for almost every girl, and I no longer feel special.
I need to feel like someone's Only Option. if it aint 100% then I'd rather wait for the right one.click to expand

Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imoclick to expand

Posted by alexa566yes you can - space is goodPosted by thecrazyariestaurusCan you even call it a relationship then, if you need so much space away from the other person?
No.
Well for me at least. My ex was too sensitive and clingy and a push over. I need lots of SPACEclick to expand

Posted by SweetestFataleglad it worked for you
I absolutely love it. My man is amazing and we are a lot alike. We were friends for years and we've been official since July. I wouldn't trade him for the world.

Posted by Cvurkoolol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travellingPosted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
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Posted by CvurkooMaybe it seems weird for a Pisces, but I absolutely hate mind games like manipulation or lying, etc. I just really value honesty and openness.Posted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
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Posted by Cvurkoohe had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -Posted by tctao🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂Posted by Cvurkoolol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travellingPosted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me askingclick to expand

Posted by tctaoI'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.Posted by Cvurkoohe had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -Posted by tctao🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂Posted by Cvurkoolol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travellingPosted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore
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Posted by alexa566I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.Posted by tctaoI'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.Posted by Cvurkoohe had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -Posted by tctao🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂Posted by Cvurkoolol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travellingPosted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore
Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.click to expand

Posted by tctaoCommunication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.Posted by alexa566I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.Posted by tctaoI'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.Posted by Cvurkoohe had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -Posted by tctao🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂Posted by Cvurkoolol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travellingPosted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore
Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
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Posted by alexa566he knew he had all the problems that he did and promised to work them out for the relationship and I was willing to support and help where I could - we were friends, more like brother sister actually because there wasn't much romance but there was intimate friendship until the year or so before the decision to separatePosted by tctaoCommunication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.Posted by alexa566I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.Posted by tctaoI'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.Posted by Cvurkoohe had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -Posted by tctao🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂Posted by Cvurkoolol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travellingPosted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore
Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.
You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.click to expand

Posted by tctaoIf he does manage to fix all the issues, are you still willing to consider getting back together?Posted by alexa566he knew he had all the problems that he did and promised to work them out for the relationship and I was willing to support and help where I could - we were friends, more like brother sister actually because there wasn't much romance but there was intimate friendship until the year or so before the decision to separatePosted by tctaoCommunication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.Posted by alexa566I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.Posted by tctaoI'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.Posted by Cvurkoohe had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -Posted by tctao🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂Posted by Cvurkoolol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travellingPosted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore
Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.
You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.
I gave more than 100% - he still says that after 5 years of divorce - how he was so wrong and that he'll never find another woman like me - oh well
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Posted by alexa566no I don't trust that anymore and I've moved on with my life - it's been 5 years and I've had too many promises broken in my lifetime - I am too patientPosted by tctaoIf he does manage to fix all the issues, are you still willing to consider getting back together?Posted by alexa566he knew he had all the problems that he did and promised to work them out for the relationship and I was willing to support and help where I could - we were friends, more like brother sister actually because there wasn't much romance but there was intimate friendship until the year or so before the decision to separatePosted by tctaoCommunication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.Posted by alexa566I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.Posted by tctaoI'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.Posted by Cvurkoohe had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -Posted by tctao🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂Posted by Cvurkoolol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travellingPosted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore
Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.
You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.
I gave more than 100% - he still says that after 5 years of divorce - how he was so wrong and that he'll never find another woman like me - oh well
Although the lack of romance kinda bothers me there.click to expand

Posted by tctaoHe seems hypocritical... You made the right decision by moving on. You shouldn't tolerate promises being broken over and over again.Posted by alexa566no I don't trust that anymore and I've moved on with my life - it's been 5 years and I've had too many promises broken in my lifetime - I am too patientPosted by tctaoIf he does manage to fix all the issues, are you still willing to consider getting back together?Posted by alexa566he knew he had all the problems that he did and promised to work them out for the relationship and I was willing to support and help where I could - we were friends, more like brother sister actually because there wasn't much romance but there was intimate friendship until the year or so before the decision to separatePosted by tctaoCommunication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.Posted by alexa566I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.Posted by tctaoI'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.Posted by Cvurkoohe had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -Posted by tctao🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂Posted by Cvurkoolol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travellingPosted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore
Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.
You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.
I gave more than 100% - he still says that after 5 years of divorce - how he was so wrong and that he'll never find another woman like me - oh well
Although the lack of romance kinda bothers me there.
yes the lack of romance that's another chapter - basically I am a very sensual / sexual person and when he tried to convince me that sex wasn't important and that I had a problem, yet jerked off when surfing porn constantly when I was asleep or not home and didn't try to amend that problem, then I am done
I gave it my all and had to throw in the towel
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Posted by alexa566yes and thank you for your kind wordsPosted by tctaoHe seems hypocritical... You made the right decision by moving on. You shouldn't tolerate promises being broken over and over again.Posted by alexa566no I don't trust that anymore and I've moved on with my life - it's been 5 years and I've had too many promises broken in my lifetime - I am too patientPosted by tctaoIf he does manage to fix all the issues, are you still willing to consider getting back together?Posted by alexa566he knew he had all the problems that he did and promised to work them out for the relationship and I was willing to support and help where I could - we were friends, more like brother sister actually because there wasn't much romance but there was intimate friendship until the year or so before the decision to separatePosted by tctaoCommunication is one of the most important elements. If I'm about to spend the rest of my life with a person, of course I want to be able to have a normal conversation with them.Posted by alexa566I agree about the extremes. It didn't have anything to do with space - we normally had no problem with that - but toward the end, I did pull away considerably since I couldn't even stand to have an actual conversation with him or even be in the room with him. Space was heaven at that point because I'm not one to argue, I will walk away and stay away in a minute.Posted by tctaoI'm sorry for that. It's really unfortunate. I understand that space and personal identity is a must, but too much space can also be a problem.Posted by Cvurkoohe had issues he could not overcome that affected our marriage - he said he didn't want to do the work -Posted by tctao🤭 I think most pisces either do it subconsciously or dont admit to themselves that they are doing sth wrong lol 😂Posted by Cvurkoolol at the classic Pisces manipulation maneuver ? didn't know that was a classic but I get it - married to a Pisces man for 9.5 years, knew him 1.5 years prior - ended in disaster but we had good adventures in travellingPosted by alexa566Thats okay. Just make sure you arent using the classic pisces manipulation manœuvre when you purposefully show a tiny bit of feeling bad for something in order to make the other (or see if the other will) work hard and care to know whats happening and try to help.Posted by CvurkooYeah honestly I am trying my best not to let my insecurities project. But sometimes it's just too strong and it comes out...Posted by alexa566Helping each other is cool but my insecurities are my own burden. I sometimes might feel jealous too but i would never show it or limit my partner's freedom in any way because above all i trust her and wouldnt burden her with my own imaginary problems. I deal with it and it passes.Posted by CvurkooThat's how a perfect relationship would look like. There are no perfect relationships. Love is just 2 unperfect people accepting the light and dark in each other and growing together as a couple, helping each other overcome their insecurities together.Posted by alexa566I really dont think thats healthy. People in relationships should trust each other and not project their own insecurities on the other.Posted by CvurkooMaybe I just don't mind those things because no one was ever jealous/possessive/clingy towards me before... I was always the one being accused of those things. 😢Posted by alexa566I have cancer AS too, but clinginess, jealousy and possessiveness i cant tolerate at all.Posted by Jayc3onActually, I've been with my Taurus girl for 6 months now and I haven't gotten tired of those things. I myself am a very clingy and needy person and I'm the possessive and jealous type. (probably because of my Cancer ascending)
You'll get tired of her possessive ways, jealousy, noisiness and most importantly laziness. I'm a Pisces man and I don't approve of this match.
I find it very flattering when she's needy, possessive and jealous. Her laziness does frustrate me, but I'm very lazy too.
She seems to stop being lazy every time I do the same. I guess it motivates her.
After all, nobody's perfect, and she treats me with more love and care than anyone else ever has. And that's what I always craved. To be truly loved and cared for.
Just my two cents.
Being conscientious about what to share with your loved one and what to keep for yourself in order to build a healthy and loving relationship is important. And yeah, you cant always prevent projecting on her but trying yor best is what counts imo
I prefer to hide my insecurities, but my Taurus gets mad at me when I do and wants me to not hide any feelings.
I try not to show it, but she always willingly takes it upon herself to help me with it.
I told her countless times that it's my burden to bear, but she always insists and tries hard to help me with it and always tries to be understanding.
It's hard to say no to that... I try not to burden her with it, but she always pulls it out of me and tries to talk with me about it to fix it.
Otherwise she seems cool ^^
Why did it end in a disaster, if you dont mind me asking
and after all that time I just couldn't live with him and love him anymore
Everything is bad when taken to an extreme.
Getting along well with a person in a friendship way is a foundation to a good relationship. Attraction is necessary too, but friendship is just as important.
You may be BF and GF or husband and wife, but the foundation should be friendship that holds everything together.
I gave more than 100% - he still says that after 5 years of divorce - how he was so wrong and that he'll never find another woman like me - oh well
Although the lack of romance kinda bothers me there.
yes the lack of romance that's another chapter - basically I am a very sensual / sexual person and when he tried to convince me that sex wasn't important and that I had a problem, yet jerked off when surfing porn constantly when I was asleep or not home and didn't try to amend that problem, then I am done
I gave it my all and had to throw in the towel
I really hope you meet (or have already met) someone who is worthy of your love.
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