What now?

Sigh* Taurus men smh...Wow u guys are hard to get over! Anyways My Taurus ex n I dated for about 4 months n drifted apart in December?/ January....reasons were because he didn't make time for me...he attempted to but he didnt keep his word n the next time he tried to make time he didnt show up again n blamed me smh it'd go a week or two n I wouldn't hear from him! So I'd text him to at least to know he's alive n I dnt hear back. But then I c on fb ur posting pics with other girls through ur phone? Him ignoring me made me do the same so we drifted apart n never really broke up. Even tho we drifted apart he'd randomly text me n I'd call him n we'd always talk. Then my bday came which he forgot smh. His best friend would always come to me n tell me how my ex misses me n only talks about me n hasn't had a gf since we started dating. Come to find out he got a ride from his school (2 hours away ) to come back home for some pussy from some random girl back in January n he's done it multiple times probably til this day smh bit I still cared for him. Now he's out of school n I was curious about us n asked him what of it n he ended with he didn't want a relationship but he wants us to be friends n I said cool with me ,u can delete my # n all we have to do is say hi/bye and i dnt care if we do that. Then he said fine we'll see how being friends consist of hi/bye n we left it at that.idk why he was mad but he got over it quick cuz he called me the next day even after I said he can go ahead n delete my #. He called to ask me a question he could've gotten the answer from anyone so y me? Then I come home one day and find him in my living room?(we go to the same church n I think that was his excuse to come n talk to my family as a church visit) then he was asking my lil sister personal questions about me smh. And the worst thing is I c him every Sunday so it was hard to get over him...but now that I am over him i still notice he's always staring at me n talking about me to his two best friends ...and just yesterday he had the nerve to ask me on a date! Smh I just want to kno what's his deal? He said he doesn't want a relationship, I told him to delete my # but he still acts like he. Wants me....can someone plz explain his actions?

You know what? Who knows!

I'm in the same situation as you and it's been going on for about 2 years. Mind you I did the same thing. I told him to leavve me alone and stop talking to me. He would still try and contact me over the year and I would outright ignore him. Then we were at a function again because we work for the same company but different buildings. Then he wormed himself back around but nothing has changed. He acts like he's my boyfriend without the title. I'm trying to be professional but I'm really tempted to say leave me alone but we work together on different groups.

So I fully understand. No one can figure this guy out. I mean I literally told him to leave me alone and not to talk to me anymore and he still comes around and talks to me. Yet, doesn't go any further. I believe it's all a game to them or he has no self awareness..

Again, I say "Who Knows!" The only thing I can do is pray on it and leave it there, I can't keep trying to figure out what people are thinking.