What to do?

I am 18 years old, when I was 15 I met a guy that I was with for only 7 months. We broke up and he moved away to New York. We didn't keep in touch for almost a year, then one day, out of the blue he called mr from New York. We talk all the time, and he wants me to drive up there to see him. I still to this day believe he is my soul mate, but I'm not sure if I should take the trip up there. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one working for this relationship.Can anyone help me out?

If he is really serious about you, as you feel with him, let him come to you - then can be assured he cares.

Get on with your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Have you tried being honest with him & tell him how you feel ?I would explain to him your reservations. then take it from there .

At 18 everything feels real. Why did he leave and move to New York?
New York is a hard place. Changes are
he is not doing too good.
Stay where your are, you are safe. You do not know what he has done over the past few years.
Get on with your life and ask him not to call any more.
It may be hard but in time you will know you made the right decision.

Hey! i have a very similar situation. Iam 18, went out with a guy when i was 15 for 6mnths. The relationship was fine, had some good times that i'll never forget. We broke up and after two years he came back into my life. I couldnt believe that after all the nights i cried, thinking of him every morning when i woke up to the last thing on my mind at night that he was here again. Again he left me alone. I still very much love him and i know he still cares for me but i guess we can just never make it. But i dont regret giving it another try, it was perfect and ive got some more memories that i'll keep forever and i know i'd do the same again. If anything it has made me realise that there is no one else i would want to be with because their is something special that happens between us two that i feel with no one else. There'll be more men but no one like him, hes the right one and i guess i'll keep waiting till he comes back again and i know he will! love jem