Scorpio_dragon214
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When a Taurus man is angry... what to do—!!!!
Good morning. I, too, met a Taurus (4 May) man online (OKCupid), both of us are from Texas. Long story short, he drove from Texas to California to see his ailing father (he texted me a driving app and I could see his travels). He too, makes me laugh soooooooo much! My story is a little different from yours. He deactivated his profile and when I asked him "why" he said, "Because I found the one". I, too, deactivated my account. Well, he arrived to CA on Tuesday, texted me, and said, "We'll talk tonight" we did. Last night, we lost the call and I frantically tried calling him back (but NOT 30 times like you did). I am Piscean; I allow the man to get in touch with me. He did. There seems to be hot spots in that damn area and this has happened before. After the "what happened questions" my Taurus guy said, "Yeah, things like this happens...I'm not tripping". I told him I didn't like that feeling of not contacting him and he said, "I thought YOU were mad at me for not calling you at work today" I told him I wasn't since he is with his family in CA, driving to the hospital, recuperating from a 31 hour drive (yeah, I asked him how long it took him to drive from Texas to CA; he had car problems and was stuck in Arizona; he had me on speaker as he was talking to the mechanic....what a sweetheart! etc). No matter what a Taurus man is going thru it was wrong of you to have contacted him 30 times. Again, as Piscean I allow the man to get in touch with me (a little "test" I do) and it seems to work with this Taurus man. You went thru a scenario in your head in a "negative" way (he doesn't like me, what the f*uc*k did I do? Is he playing with me? Why is he ignoring me?, etc). In my mind MY scenario was like this, "Damn California hot spots! Oh, well, he'll contact me IF HE CARES". He did. I know it's not a good feeling when a man blocks you, then calls you and verbally tells you to stop calling him. Next time, when this happens you will think POSITIVE and let the dude get in touch with you first; allow the man to come after YOU if he cares that much; if he doesn't then you can move on.
Sorry, it's a lesson learned little Scorpio.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Sorry, it's a lesson learned little Scorpio.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Give him some space and if he doesn't reach out again, don't even bother. Though honestly, Tauruses with this kind of attitude to me are very immature. If he's gonna snap at nothing because I don't think you did anything major wrong here, yeah, you should probably avoid. Mature Tauruses can snap, but it usually takes a LOT to make them snap. Considering that the only thing you did that Maybe could've been a bit much was calling him that many times, but you were already deleted or blocked before that. If he snapped over one phone call, you should seriously move on.
There are great taureans out there. Don't let one bad egg ruin it for the rest of us. That scorpio/taurus energy is crazy magnetic when it's with the right one!
There are great taureans out there. Don't let one bad egg ruin it for the rest of us. That scorpio/taurus energy is crazy magnetic when it's with the right one!
That Pisces/Taurus energy is crazy magnetic when it's with the right one!
I switched this to apply to me! Loved this! 😘
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I switched this to apply to me! Loved this! 😘
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
you called him 30 times after he blocked you?
how long had you been speaking for? have you met in person?
i think if you really got him as angry as you did, this might be done for.
however, if you really did have an amazing connection, then give him some time. he'll likely be back (dependent on a number of factors).
how long had you been speaking for? have you met in person?
i think if you really got him as angry as you did, this might be done for.
however, if you really did have an amazing connection, then give him some time. he'll likely be back (dependent on a number of factors).
Did he delete and block you after you called like 30 times?
Or did you call him 30 times after he deleted and block you...and from which number did you call him from?
Or did you call him 30 times after he deleted and block you...and from which number did you call him from?
Personally.. I would let this one go unless he makes a huge effort to get you back.
You already called him non-stop and he didn't bother answering your calls. No doubt he was ignoring you (for reasons we don't know) and then got fed up.
I believe Taurus men are very slow at building romantic relationships. And the thing about meeting people online - most don't take it THAT seriously until you have met a few times.
You have no idea what's going on in his personal life so try not to take it personally.
You already called him non-stop and he didn't bother answering your calls. No doubt he was ignoring you (for reasons we don't know) and then got fed up.
I believe Taurus men are very slow at building romantic relationships. And the thing about meeting people online - most don't take it THAT seriously until you have met a few times.
You have no idea what's going on in his personal life so try not to take it personally.
Posted by TaurusBull1977I messaged him like 3 times and got no answer then called once (it wasn't like him) then he just said out of the blue "leave me" then that's when he blocked and deleted me. So I rang demanding some answers as to why he could be just as dismissive like that when I didn't do anything wrong apart from a good morning greeting? He told me he had a bad day and me calling made it worst. I asked him if we could talk again, he said "maybe... he will think about it"
Did he delete and block you after you called like 30 times?
Or did you call him 30 times after he deleted and block you...and from which number did you call him from?
Being a typical Scorpio woman, I'm quite independent although I really enjoyed talking to him cause he was by far one of the nicent and genuine guy I've ever come across, I just don't think I could put up with anyone ghosting me like that? Hence I called like 30 times demanding for answers till he finally answered his phone! I know it's a bad thing but I was pissed myself as to why he could just block me and not give me a good reason when everything was fine (I thought they were fine! We weren't fighting)
Posted by EvatheDivaI guess I came across a stupid immature bull I must say! He just confused the living sh*t out of me and being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it. Who would? After he told me he likes me and all... all the sweet endearment names then all of a sudden just go rogue? I thought I deserve better than that?!
Good morning. I, too, met a Taurus (4 May) man online (OKCupid), both of us are from Texas. Long story short, he drove from Texas to California to see his ailing father (he texted me a driving app and I could see his travels). He too, makes me laugh soooooooo much! My story is a little different from yours. He deactivated his profile and when I asked him "why" he said, "Because I found the one". I, too, deactivated my account. Well, he arrived to CA on Tuesday, texted me, and said, "We'll talk tonight" we did. Last night, we lost the call and I frantically tried calling him back (but NOT 30 times like you did). I am Piscean; I allow the man to get in touch with me. He did. There seems to be hot spots in that damn area and this has happened before. After the "what happened questions" my Taurus guy said, "Yeah, things like this happens...I'm not tripping". I told him I didn't like that feeling of not contacting him and he said, "I thought YOU were mad at me for not calling you at work today" I told him I wasn't since he is with his family in CA, driving to the hospital, recuperating from a 31 hour drive (yeah, I asked him how long it took him to drive from Texas to CA; he had car problems and was stuck in Arizona; he had me on speaker as he was talking to the mechanic....what a sweetheart! etc). No matter what a Taurus man is going thru it was wrong of you to have contacted him 30 times. Again, as Piscean I allow the man to get in touch with me (a little "test" I do) and it seems to work with this Taurus man. You went thru a scenario in your head in a "negative" way (he doesn't like me, what the f*uc*k did I do? Is he playing with me? Why is he ignoring me?, etc). In my mind MY scenario was like this, "Damn California hot spots! Oh, well, he'll contact me IF HE CARES". He did. I know it's not a good feeling when a man blocks you, then calls you and verbally tells you to stop calling him. Next time, when this happens you will think POSITIVE and let the dude get in touch with you first; allow the man to come after YOU if he cares that much; if he doesn't then you can move on.
Sorry, it's a lesson learned little Scorpio.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
When he finally answered the phone he told me to stop calling and leave him alone. I had to tell him to calm down because I will respect his wish as long as he gives me a reason as to why he just changed his mind all of a sudden? You can't be liking a person then all of a sudden just either curve or ghost them?!!! I thought highly of this bull, it wasn't just so like him or perhaps I misjudged him. He was super nice and funny and cool then everything just changed drastically and I'm just really sad and disappointed. #sigh
Posted by Scorpio_dragon214I know, that's why I use my "cyber hugs" as MY signature block because you need this hug. I know about Scorpios; you have your stinger and you use it! (lived with an ex-bf for five years; Scorpio). Just imagine this: you called him 30 times (you used your stinger 30 times on him; it takes ONE sting from a scorpion to die from since the poison is DEADLY; you stung him 30 times -- overkill). That's how he felt. Uh! He said at the first ring; then went to voicemail (he goes back to his "problems/trials/tribulations", ring#2 from X 15 = 30 times you called. Would YOU be pissed off? What would you think of when he saw your pic on his phone when you called? Yeah, he sighed, rolls his eyes, turned it off and went back to his trials/tribulations, etc. Gets a break for lunch. He checks his phone. "30 messages from you" he saw/heard on voicemail. DANG girl! Question: are you EMBARRASSED by this? after the fact, yeah, you are, and you just validated the reason, "Being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it." Well, you're gonna lose a batch of GOOD men until one of them puts up w/this and then y'all can live happily ever after...wanna wait 20 years? Not! Scorpios want their way yesterday!!! If they don't get their way they hold their breath until they turn purple and the person gives in. Learn to change. Learn from your mistakes.Posted by EvatheDivaI guess I came across a stupid immature bull I must say! He just confused the living sh*t out of me and being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it. Who would? After he told me he likes me and all... all the sweet endearment names then all of a sudden just go rogue? I thought I deserve better than that?!
Good morning. I, too, met a Taurus (4 May) man online (OKCupid), both of us are from Texas. Long story short, he drove from Texas to California to see his ailing father (he texted me a driving app and I could see his travels). He too, makes me laugh soooooooo much! My story is a little different from yours. He deactivated his profile and when I asked him "why" he said, "Because I found the one". I, too, deactivated my account. Well, he arrived to CA on Tuesday, texted me, and said, "We'll talk tonight" we did. Last night, we lost the call and I frantically tried calling him back (but NOT 30 times like you did). I am Piscean; I allow the man to get in touch with me. He did. There seems to be hot spots in that damn area and this has happened before. After the "what happened questions" my Taurus guy said, "Yeah, things like this happens...I'm not tripping". I told him I didn't like that feeling of not contacting him and he said, "I thought YOU were mad at me for not calling you at work today" I told him I wasn't since he is with his family in CA, driving to the hospital, recuperating from a 31 hour drive (yeah, I asked him how long it took him to drive from Texas to CA; he had car problems and was stuck in Arizona; he had me on speaker as he was talking to the mechanic....what a sweetheart! etc). No matter what a Taurus man is going thru it was wrong of you to have contacted him 30 times. Again, as Piscean I allow the man to get in touch with me (a little "test" I do) and it seems to work with this Taurus man. You went thru a scenario in your head in a "negative" way (he doesn't like me, what the f*uc*k did I do? Is he playing with me? Why is he ignoring me?, etc). In my mind MY scenario was like this, "Damn California hot spots! Oh, well, he'll contact me IF HE CARES". He did. I know it's not a good feeling when a man blocks you, then calls you and verbally tells you to stop calling him. Next time, when this happens you will think POSITIVE and let the dude get in touch with you first; allow the man to come after YOU if he cares that much; if he doesn't then you can move on.
Sorry, it's a lesson learned little Scorpio.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
When he finally answered the phone he told me to stop calling and leave him alone. I had to tell him to calm down because I will respect his wish as long as he gives me a reason as to why he just changed his mind all of a sudden? You can't be liking a person then all of a sudden just either curve or ghost them?!!! I thought highly of this bull, it wasn't just so like him or perhaps I misjudged him. He was super nice and funny and cool then everything just changed drastically and I'm just really sad and disappointed. #sigh
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🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
you didn't do anything other than be your normal psycho self JK so no worries - he probably either met someone else or got spooked at you actually calling him rather than letting him breathe and make the moves - and then you confirmed it over and over and over again - only he would not have known that part if he blocked you right ? which is confusing I must say
Posted by EvatheDivaSo in other words it's okay to ghost somebody and just leave them hanging rather than tell them what really the problem is?Posted by Scorpio_dragon214I know, that's why I use my "cyber hugs" as MY signature block because you need this hug. I know about Scorpios; you have your stinger and you use it! (lived with an ex-bf for five years; Scorpio). Just imagine this: you called him 30 times (you used your stinger 30 times on him; it takes ONE sting from a scorpion to die from since the poison is DEADLY; you stung him 30 times -- overkill). That's how he felt. Uh! He said at the first ring; then went to voicemail (he goes back to his "problems/trials/tribulations", ring#2 from X 15 = 30 times you called. Would YOU be pissed off? What would you think of when he saw your pic on his phone when you called? Yeah, he sighed, rolls his eyes, turned it off and went back to his trials/tribulations, etc. Gets a break for lunch. He checks his phone. "30 messages from you" he saw/heard on voicemail. DANG girl! Question: are you EMBARRASSED by this? after the fact, yeah, you are, and you just validated the reason, "Being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it." Well, you're gonna lose a batch of GOOD men until one of them puts up w/this and then y'all can live happily ever after...wanna wait 20 years? Not! Scorpios want their way yesterday!!! If they don't get their way they hold their breath until they turn purple and the person gives in. Learn to change. Learn from your mistakes.Posted by EvatheDivaI guess I came across a stupid immature bull I must say! He just confused the living sh*t out of me and being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it. Who would? After he told me he likes me and all... all the sweet endearment names then all of a sudden just go rogue? I thought I deserve better than that?!
Good morning. I, too, met a Taurus (4 May) man online (OKCupid), both of us are from Texas. Long story short, he drove from Texas to California to see his ailing father (he texted me a driving app and I could see his travels). He too, makes me laugh soooooooo much! My story is a little different from yours. He deactivated his profile and when I asked him "why" he said, "Because I found the one". I, too, deactivated my account. Well, he arrived to CA on Tuesday, texted me, and said, "We'll talk tonight" we did. Last night, we lost the call and I frantically tried calling him back (but NOT 30 times like you did). I am Piscean; I allow the man to get in touch with me. He did. There seems to be hot spots in that damn area and this has happened before. After the "what happened questions" my Taurus guy said, "Yeah, things like this happens...I'm not tripping". I told him I didn't like that feeling of not contacting him and he said, "I thought YOU were mad at me for not calling you at work today" I told him I wasn't since he is with his family in CA, driving to the hospital, recuperating from a 31 hour drive (yeah, I asked him how long it took him to drive from Texas to CA; he had car problems and was stuck in Arizona; he had me on speaker as he was talking to the mechanic....what a sweetheart! etc). No matter what a Taurus man is going thru it was wrong of you to have contacted him 30 times. Again, as Piscean I allow the man to get in touch with me (a little "test" I do) and it seems to work with this Taurus man. You went thru a scenario in your head in a "negative" way (he doesn't like me, what the f*uc*k did I do? Is he playing with me? Why is he ignoring me?, etc). In my mind MY scenario was like this, "Damn California hot spots! Oh, well, he'll contact me IF HE CARES". He did. I know it's not a good feeling when a man blocks you, then calls you and verbally tells you to stop calling him. Next time, when this happens you will think POSITIVE and let the dude get in touch with you first; allow the man to come after YOU if he cares that much; if he doesn't then you can move on.
Sorry, it's a lesson learned little Scorpio.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
When he finally answered the phone he told me to stop calling and leave him alone. I had to tell him to calm down because I will respect his wish as long as he gives me a reason as to why he just changed his mind all of a sudden? You can't be liking a person then all of a sudden just either curve or ghost them?!!! I thought highly of this bull, it wasn't just so like him or perhaps I misjudged him. He was super nice and funny and cool then everything just changed drastically and I'm just really sad and disappointed. #sigh
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
It's probably just me but I've never really liked being ghosted (this is actually the first). I've always been nice and not really into online dating either. I was just there with no expectations. The 30 miscalls was me demanding for answers why he wanted to be done. Like I've mentioned, everything was good till he just decided that he had a bad day and I added to it and for that, I am done too. (In his book)
I suppose there isn't anything I can do from my end? The damage has been done and might as well just let it go? I sent him a final message today, (I started to accept that he isn't coming back) so I told him how grateful I am for all the times he spared and the good conversation and I apologized if I have hurt or upset him in any way I wasn't aware about.
Let me add though, during our phone conversation he said he was the bad one and I shouldn't be apologizing. He just doesn't know. He used the term "I'm busy buying time" what does this mean— As much as I'd hate to think of it, I think he was just there to play games and I fell for it. Shame
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Posted by tctaHe wounded my ego and pride just by saying "leave me" and that's that! He blocked and delete me when I didn't do anything wrong nor said anything offensive apart from greeting him good morning and wished he had a good day?
you didn't do anything other than be your normal psycho self JK so no worries - he probably either met someone else or got spooked at you actually calling him rather than letting him breathe and make the moves - and then you confirmed it over and over and over again - only he would not have known that part if he blocked you right ? which is confusing I must say
I'm just confused with the attitude. I got pissed so bad that yes I've called 30 times because I thought to myself "I'm not gonna let this one go unless he tells me what I did wrong" and I don't chase people especially men btw, I just always prefer a clear beginning and a clear ending. (If that makes sense). — or maybe not!
Posted by Scorpio_dragon214did you hear him say "it wasn't you" "that he was buying time" ... you didn't do anything wrong so find a way to let this go - sheesh - people can just be real aholesPosted by tctaHe wounded my ego and pride just by saying "leave me" and that's that! He blocked and delete me when I didn't do anything wrong nor said anything offensive apart from greeting him good morning and wished he had a good day?
you didn't do anything other than be your normal psycho self JK so no worries - he probably either met someone else or got spooked at you actually calling him rather than letting him breathe and make the moves - and then you confirmed it over and over and over again - only he would not have known that part if he blocked you right ? which is confusing I must say
I'm just confused with the attitude. I got pissed so bad that yes I've called 30 times because I thought to myself "I'm not gonna let this one go unless he tells me what I did wrong" and I don't chase people especially men btw, I just always prefer a clear beginning and a clear ending. (If that makes sense). — or maybe not!click to expand
if I understand why every guy I've known did things I would be filthy rich giving out tips to the women and I'm sure that goes the other way around as well lol
Posted by tizianiI truly do understand what you mean but for one to say he likes you a good amount then ghost you the next day? I've left him alone. I've decided to be done with him. As much as I hate it, there isn't anything I can do really I think his mind has been made up. I'm done in his book. Sigh
Usually Scorpios understand (in the big picture) that less is more, and that's pretty much what applies here. Your best bet is not doing anything and leaving him to sort himself out. After all, he asked for that much.
Posted by tizianiyou are so bad lolPosted by Scorpio_dragon214Ah c'mon, he'll call you in a few days and you'll both be fine.Posted by tizianiI truly do understand what you mean but for one to say he likes you a good amount then ghost you the next day? I've left him alone. I've decided to be done with him. As much as I hate it, there isn't anything I can do really I think his mind has been made up. I'm done in his book. Sigh
Usually Scorpios understand (in the big picture) that less is more, and that's pretty much what applies here. Your best bet is not doing anything and leaving him to sort himself out. After all, he asked for that much.click to expand
I know, that's why I use my "cyber hugs" as MY signature block because you need this hug. I know about Scorpios; you have your stinger and you use it! (lived with an ex-bf for five years; Scorpio). Just imagine this: you called him 30 times (you used your stinger 30 times on him; it takes ONE sting from a scorpion to die from since the poison is DEADLY; you stung him 30 times -- overkill). That's how he felt. Uh! He said at the first ring; then went to voicemail (he goes back to his "problems/trials/tribulations", ring#2 from X 15 = 30 times you called. Would YOU be pissed off? What would you think of when he saw your pic on his phone when you called? Yeah, he sighed, rolls his eyes, turned it off and went back to his trials/tribulations, etc. Gets a break for lunch. He checks his phone. "30 messages from you" he saw/heard on voicemail. DANG girl! Question: are you EMBARRASSED by this? after the fact, yeah, you are, and you just validated the reason, "Being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it." Well, you're gonna lose a batch of GOOD men until one of them puts up w/this and then y'all can live happily ever after...wanna wait 20 years? Not! Scorpios want their way yesterday!!! If they don't get their way they hold their breath until they turn purple and the person gives in. Learn to change. Learn from your mistakes.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
So in other words it's okay to ghost somebody and just leave them hanging rather than tell them what really the problem is?
It's probably just me but I've never really liked being ghosted (this is actually the first). I've always been nice and not really into online dating either. I was just there with no expectations. The 30 miscalls was me demanding for answers why he wanted to be done. Like I've mentioned, everything was good till he just decided that he had a bad day and I added to it and for that, I am done too. (In his book)
I suppose there isn't anything I can do from my end? The damage has been done and might as well just let it go? I sent him a final message today, (I started to accept that he isn't coming back) so I told him how grateful I am for all the times he spared and the good conversation and I apologized if I have hurt or upset him in any way I wasn't aware about.
Let me add though, during our phone conversation he said he was the bad one and I shouldn't be apologizing. He just doesn't know. He used the term "I'm busy buying time" what does this mean— As much as I'd hate to think of it, I think he was just there to play games and I fell for it. Shame
HOW, how did you reach him? I thought he blocked you?
http://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/buy+time
buy time: to postpone an event hoping that the situation will improve. You are just stalling to buy time. Maybe I can buy some time by asking the judge for a continuance.
See also: buy, time
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
So in other words it's okay to ghost somebody and just leave them hanging rather than tell them what really the problem is?
It's probably just me but I've never really liked being ghosted (this is actually the first). I've always been nice and not really into online dating either. I was just there with no expectations. The 30 miscalls was me demanding for answers why he wanted to be done. Like I've mentioned, everything was good till he just decided that he had a bad day and I added to it and for that, I am done too. (In his book)
I suppose there isn't anything I can do from my end? The damage has been done and might as well just let it go? I sent him a final message today, (I started to accept that he isn't coming back) so I told him how grateful I am for all the times he spared and the good conversation and I apologized if I have hurt or upset him in any way I wasn't aware about.
Let me add though, during our phone conversation he said he was the bad one and I shouldn't be apologizing. He just doesn't know. He used the term "I'm busy buying time" what does this mean— As much as I'd hate to think of it, I think he was just there to play games and I fell for it. Shame
HOW, how did you reach him? I thought he blocked you?
http://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/buy+time
buy time: to postpone an event hoping that the situation will improve. You are just stalling to buy time. Maybe I can buy some time by asking the judge for a continuance.
See also: buy, time
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by KoniuchaaHow deadly are scorpions? www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/explainer/.../how_deadly_are_scorpions.htmlPosted by EvatheDivaThe sting from a scorpion is not deadly actually. Unless perhaps your immune system is compromised or you are severely allergicPosted by Scorpio_dragon214I know, that's why I use my "cyber hugs" as MY signature block because you need this hug. I know about Scorpios; you have your stinger and you use it! (lived with an ex-bf for five years; Scorpio). Just imagine this: you called him 30 times (you used your stinger 30 times on him; it takes ONE sting from a scorpion to die from since the poison is DEADLY; you stung him 30 times -- overkill). That's how he felt. Uh! He said at the first ring; then went to voicemail (he goes back to his "problems/trials/tribulations", ring#2 from X 15 = 30 times you called. Would YOU be pissed off? What would you think of when he saw your pic on his phone when you called? Yeah, he sighed, rolls his eyes, turned it off and went back to his trials/tribulations, etc. Gets a break for lunch. He checks his phone. "30 messages from you" he saw/heard on voicemail. DANG girl! Question: are you EMBARRASSED by this? after the fact, yeah, you are, and you just validated the reason, "Being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it." Well, you're gonna lose a batch of GOOD men until one of them puts up w/this and then y'all can live happily ever after...wanna wait 20 years? Not! Scorpios want their way yesterday!!! If they don't get their way they hold their breath until they turn purple and the person gives in. Learn to change. Learn from your mistakes.Posted by EvatheDivaI guess I came across a stupid immature bull I must say! He just confused the living sh*t out of me and being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it. Who would? After he told me he likes me and all... all the sweet endearment names then all of a sudden just go rogue? I thought I deserve better than that?!
Good morning. I, too, met a Taurus (4 May) man online (OKCupid), both of us are from Texas. Long story short, he drove from Texas to California to see his ailing father (he texted me a driving app and I could see his travels). He too, makes me laugh soooooooo much! My story is a little different from yours. He deactivated his profile and when I asked him "why" he said, "Because I found the one". I, too, deactivated my account. Well, he arrived to CA on Tuesday, texted me, and said, "We'll talk tonight" we did. Last night, we lost the call and I frantically tried calling him back (but NOT 30 times like you did). I am Piscean; I allow the man to get in touch with me. He did. There seems to be hot spots in that damn area and this has happened before. After the "what happened questions" my Taurus guy said, "Yeah, things like this happens...I'm not tripping". I told him I didn't like that feeling of not contacting him and he said, "I thought YOU were mad at me for not calling you at work today" I told him I wasn't since he is with his family in CA, driving to the hospital, recuperating from a 31 hour drive (yeah, I asked him how long it took him to drive from Texas to CA; he had car problems and was stuck in Arizona; he had me on speaker as he was talking to the mechanic....what a sweetheart! etc). No matter what a Taurus man is going thru it was wrong of you to have contacted him 30 times. Again, as Piscean I allow the man to get in touch with me (a little "test" I do) and it seems to work with this Taurus man. You went thru a scenario in your head in a "negative" way (he doesn't like me, what the f*uc*k did I do? Is he playing with me? Why is he ignoring me?, etc). In my mind MY scenario was like this, "Damn California hot spots! Oh, well, he'll contact me IF HE CARES". He did. I know it's not a good feeling when a man blocks you, then calls you and verbally tells you to stop calling him. Next time, when this happens you will think POSITIVE and let the dude get in touch with you first; allow the man to come after YOU if he cares that much; if he doesn't then you can move on.
Sorry, it's a lesson learned little Scorpio.
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Love,
Eva
When he finally answered the phone he told me to stop calling and leave him alone. I had to tell him to calm down because I will respect his wish as long as he gives me a reason as to why he just changed his mind all of a sudden? You can't be liking a person then all of a sudden just either curve or ghost them?!!! I thought highly of this bull, it wasn't just so like him or perhaps I misjudged him. He was super nice and funny and cool then everything just changed drastically and I'm just really sad and disappointed. #sigh
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Only about 25 of the 1,500 known species of scorpions can deliver stings that are fatal to humans. And most of these potentially lethal scorpions can't kill healthy adults, although their neurotoxins can cause such troubling symptoms as convulsions and shortness of breath.Sep 21, 2004
I LOVE Google, love to cut and paste; esp links. I have two monitors at my workstation (working during lunch time). You obviously don't see the metaphor. Sigh!! 😢
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Eva
I think this is just an example of internet dating. Online and phone you may have appeared to get on well but that doesn't mean it's a perfect match in real life. He showed you who he was with his actions. I get the impression you hadn't actually met?
I'd let him go. I'd also chill out on the pursuing and the 30 calls! As a Scorp too, I've been there with that kind of behaviour and it can be destructive. I get that you were pissed off with this fella but I'd counter that next time by not becoming too attached to the next one too soon. Especially when you haven't met.
I'd let him go. I'd also chill out on the pursuing and the 30 calls! As a Scorp too, I've been there with that kind of behaviour and it can be destructive. I get that you were pissed off with this fella but I'd counter that next time by not becoming too attached to the next one too soon. Especially when you haven't met.
Posted by ImpulsvNope. She just doesn't get it.... 😢Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by Scorpio_dragon214I know, that's why I use my "cyber hugs" as MY signature block because you need this hug. I know about Scorpios; you have your stinger and you use it! (lived with an ex-bf for five years; Scorpio). Just imagine this: you called him 30 times (you used your stinger 30 times on him; it takes ONE sting from a scorpion to die from since the poison is DEADLY; you stung him 30 times -- overkill). That's how he felt. Uh! He said at the first ring; then went to voicemail (he goes back to his "problems/trials/tribulations", ring#2 from X 15 = 30 times you called. Would YOU be pissed off? What would you think of when he saw your pic on his phone when you called? Yeah, he sighed, rolls his eyes, turned it off and went back to his trials/tribulations, etc. Gets a break for lunch. He checks his phone. "30 messages from you" he saw/heard on voicemail. DANG girl! Question: are you EMBARRASSED by this? after the fact, yeah, you are, and you just validated the reason, "Being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it." Well, you're gonna lose a batch of GOOD men until one of them puts up w/this and then y'all can live happily ever after...wanna wait 20 years? Not! Scorpios want their way yesterday!!! If they don't get their way they hold their breath until they turn purple and the person gives in. Learn to change. Learn from your mistakes.Posted by EvatheDivaI guess I came across a stupid immature bull I must say! He just confused the living sh*t out of me and being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it. Who would? After he told me he likes me and all... all the sweet endearment names then all of a sudden just go rogue? I thought I deserve better than that?!
Good morning. I, too, met a Taurus (4 May) man online (OKCupid), both of us are from Texas. Long story short, he drove from Texas to California to see his ailing father (he texted me a driving app and I could see his travels). He too, makes me laugh soooooooo much! My story is a little different from yours. He deactivated his profile and when I asked him "why" he said, "Because I found the one". I, too, deactivated my account. Well, he arrived to CA on Tuesday, texted me, and said, "We'll talk tonight" we did. Last night, we lost the call and I frantically tried calling him back (but NOT 30 times like you did). I am Piscean; I allow the man to get in touch with me. He did. There seems to be hot spots in that damn area and this has happened before. After the "what happened questions" my Taurus guy said, "Yeah, things like this happens...I'm not tripping". I told him I didn't like that feeling of not contacting him and he said, "I thought YOU were mad at me for not calling you at work today" I told him I wasn't since he is with his family in CA, driving to the hospital, recuperating from a 31 hour drive (yeah, I asked him how long it took him to drive from Texas to CA; he had car problems and was stuck in Arizona; he had me on speaker as he was talking to the mechanic....what a sweetheart! etc). No matter what a Taurus man is going thru it was wrong of you to have contacted him 30 times. Again, as Piscean I allow the man to get in touch with me (a little "test" I do) and it seems to work with this Taurus man. You went thru a scenario in your head in a "negative" way (he doesn't like me, what the f*uc*k did I do? Is he playing with me? Why is he ignoring me?, etc). In my mind MY scenario was like this, "Damn California hot spots! Oh, well, he'll contact me IF HE CARES". He did. I know it's not a good feeling when a man blocks you, then calls you and verbally tells you to stop calling him. Next time, when this happens you will think POSITIVE and let the dude get in touch with you first; allow the man to come after YOU if he cares that much; if he doesn't then you can move on.
Sorry, it's a lesson learned little Scorpio.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
When he finally answered the phone he told me to stop calling and leave him alone. I had to tell him to calm down because I will respect his wish as long as he gives me a reason as to why he just changed his mind all of a sudden? You can't be liking a person then all of a sudden just either curve or ghost them?!!! I thought highly of this bull, it wasn't just so like him or perhaps I misjudged him. He was super nice and funny and cool then everything just changed drastically and I'm just really sad and disappointed. #sigh
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This man wasn't a good mAn at all.
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Posted by ImpulsvI've left him alone and decided that I'll just move on. To be honest, I've come to realised that I couldn't put up with the immaturity. If he decided to just block me out of no apparent reason and didn't have the balls to tell me what went wrong and just ghosted me and here I was finding myself having to call him a million times demanding for answers because I felt like I was unjustifiably dismissed, who would wanna put up with that? To say your busy and can't text is not hard but to just block and take off and get mad because u demanded answers, hmmm... I suppose I'm not from this planet.Posted by Scorpio_dragon214The can be cowards n Scorpios don't accept the given them the easy way outPosted by EvatheDivaSo in other words it's okay to ghost somebody and just leave them hanging rather than tell them what really the problem is?Posted by Scorpio_dragon214I know, that's why I use my "cyber hugs" as MY signature block because you need this hug. I know about Scorpios; you have your stinger and you use it! (lived with an ex-bf for five years; Scorpio). Just imagine this: you called him 30 times (you used your stinger 30 times on him; it takes ONE sting from a scorpion to die from since the poison is DEADLY; you stung him 30 times -- overkill). That's how he felt. Uh! He said at the first ring; then went to voicemail (he goes back to his "problems/trials/tribulations", ring#2 from X 15 = 30 times you called. Would YOU be pissed off? What would you think of when he saw your pic on his phone when you called? Yeah, he sighed, rolls his eyes, turned it off and went back to his trials/tribulations, etc. Gets a break for lunch. He checks his phone. "30 messages from you" he saw/heard on voicemail. DANG girl! Question: are you EMBARRASSED by this? after the fact, yeah, you are, and you just validated the reason, "Being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it." Well, you're gonna lose a batch of GOOD men until one of them puts up w/this and then y'all can live happily ever after...wanna wait 20 years? Not! Scorpios want their way yesterday!!! If they don't get their way they hold their breath until they turn purple and the person gives in. Learn to change. Learn from your mistakes.Posted by EvatheDivaI guess I came across a stupid immature bull I must say! He just confused the living sh*t out of me and being a Scorpio with a temper and a good dosage of pride myself I wasn't just putting up with it. Who would? After he told me he likes me and all... all the sweet endearment names then all of a sudden just go rogue? I thought I deserve better than that?!
Good morning. I, too, met a Taurus (4 May) man online (OKCupid), both of us are from Texas. Long story short, he drove from Texas to California to see his ailing father (he texted me a driving app and I could see his travels). He too, makes me laugh soooooooo much! My story is a little different from yours. He deactivated his profile and when I asked him "why" he said, "Because I found the one". I, too, deactivated my account. Well, he arrived to CA on Tuesday, texted me, and said, "We'll talk tonight" we did. Last night, we lost the call and I frantically tried calling him back (but NOT 30 times like you did). I am Piscean; I allow the man to get in touch with me. He did. There seems to be hot spots in that damn area and this has happened before. After the "what happened questions" my Taurus guy said, "Yeah, things like this happens...I'm not tripping". I told him I didn't like that feeling of not contacting him and he said, "I thought YOU were mad at me for not calling you at work today" I told him I wasn't since he is with his family in CA, driving to the hospital, recuperating from a 31 hour drive (yeah, I asked him how long it took him to drive from Texas to CA; he had car problems and was stuck in Arizona; he had me on speaker as he was talking to the mechanic....what a sweetheart! etc). No matter what a Taurus man is going thru it was wrong of you to have contacted him 30 times. Again, as Piscean I allow the man to get in touch with me (a little "test" I do) and it seems to work with this Taurus man. You went thru a scenario in your head in a "negative" way (he doesn't like me, what the f*uc*k did I do? Is he playing with me? Why is he ignoring me?, etc). In my mind MY scenario was like this, "Damn California hot spots! Oh, well, he'll contact me IF HE CARES". He did. I know it's not a good feeling when a man blocks you, then calls you and verbally tells you to stop calling him. Next time, when this happens you will think POSITIVE and let the dude get in touch with you first; allow the man to come after YOU if he cares that much; if he doesn't then you can move on.
Sorry, it's a lesson learned little Scorpio.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
When he finally answered the phone he told me to stop calling and leave him alone. I had to tell him to calm down because I will respect his wish as long as he gives me a reason as to why he just changed his mind all of a sudden? You can't be liking a person then all of a sudden just either curve or ghost them?!!! I thought highly of this bull, it wasn't just so like him or perhaps I misjudged him. He was super nice and funny and cool then everything just changed drastically and I'm just really sad and disappointed. #sigh
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
It's probably just me but I've never really liked being ghosted (this is actually the first). I've always been nice and not really into online dating either. I was just there with no expectations. The 30 miscalls was me demanding for answers why he wanted to be done. Like I've mentioned, everything was good till he just decided that he had a bad day and I added to it and for that, I am done too. (In his book)
I suppose there isn't anything I can do from my end? The damage has been done and might as well just let it go? I sent him a final message today, (I started to accept that he isn't coming back) so I told him how grateful I am for all the times he spared and the good conversation and I apologized if I have hurt or upset him in any way I wasn't aware about.
Let me add though, during our phone conversation he said he was the bad one and I shouldn't be apologizing. He just doesn't know. He used the term "I'm busy buying time" what does this mean— As much as I'd hate to think of it, I think he was just there to play games and I fell for it. Shame
So in this case why do u even want him back
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I'm not gonna speak to him ever again, he is just a small fish in the ocean. As much as I've enjoyed talking to him because he was funny, there's no point to it. Thanks for all the advices guys! Cheers!
Posted by clay541The first time he answered he was yelling " stop calling me and leave me alone!!!" I hung up. Then I thought to myself, wait a minute... I didn't deserve that and I still didn't get the answers that I need. So I called again and I said to him " listen, calm down. I'm gonna respect your wish and leave you alone as long as u tell me what have I done wrong to make you block and delete me?"
you seem calm and collected even after him yelling at you? how do you take yelling and a bad temper from boyfriend?
That's when he said he was having a bad day at work and me calling and texting wasn't helping. He couldn't deal with the craziness and I've made it clear to him that I don't usually call people like 30 times but I got pissed when I realised that rather answer me, he just blocked and delete me. Proved to him who can even be more stubborn! Head to head with the bull! And now that I've calmed down I realised, oh well! He deserved it. I wish I called more like a hundred times —.
Here's the vindictive nature coming out! It was okay for him to keep messaging him and get mad when I excused myself because I had work to do and he thought I was leaving him but here he is... doing the exact same thing but by far the worst and get mad for no apparent reason? I'm probably the worst and most pathetic woman out there in the entire universe because I can't deal with this sh*t lol!
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Hi! I'm a Scorpio woman (28) and I've met this Taurus man online (29), I must say he was quite patient with me when I gave him a hard time when we first chatted. We got along really well, he was funny, genuine, he makes me laugh hard!, charming... he told me he likes me and was thinking about me when he wakes up in the morning. 4 days ago, I sent him a couple "good morning messages and hope his day was doing well" he never responded and I thought to myself "this is not him?" So I tried calling him then finally he said "leave me" and just like that.... deleted and block me.
With my stubborn nature (I felt like I didn't do anything wrong at alll because the night before he just snapped, we were good and laughing) so I kept calling him like 30 times because I was pissed myself and I demanded some answers because I wanted to know what I did wrong to upset him cause if ever I did then at least I could apologize.
He told me he had a bad day and me calling him wasn't a good idea. (I wasn't a mind reader at least he could just tell me to back off and talk later instead he had me worried) and boy oh boy, Taurus men really have that attitude eh? He yelled at me and told me to stop calling (I was shocked! Never in my whole life somebody just yelled and was just absolutely nasty!)
Any advice how to get this guy back? I really enjoyed talking to him, he was sweet and genuine... or am
I screwed for good and might as well just move on? —?
I didn't read any of the other comments so I don't know if you heard this from 50 other people, but he acted like an asshole. Seems like too much drama with that dude. Grown ass people shouldn't act like that. Try to stay on his good side if you think you'll enjoy putting up with his shit for the rest of your life.
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I screwed for good and might as well just move on? —?