I have a Taurus man as a booty call and his behavior confuses me. I think a booty call should be drama free but he is very jealous. He loves to cuddle and kiss which I found odd for a booty call and he used to call every day, even when we could not see each other (because of work) and we would talk for hours. He is really funny and VERY honest which I love but he also asks me questions in a way like if he is testing me I guess because if I say the wrong thing he gets really hurt. At first I tried to scare him off by giving him a Scorpio tongue lashing because I thought him too good to be just a booty call but even though I was mean, he would still find some excuse to come around and we would end up making up. He is the only person whom I have ever met that could see through my mind games right away and he was very confused as to WHY I played those games. He finally broke me down and got me to trust him and we have been getting along great but for the past week I have not been able to meet up with him because of my new job and he has stopped calling every day and he's throwing himself into his work. The last time he called he was very funny as always but when I said I had to go because I was getting a haircut, he sounded hurt again. I asked him if he could call back in half an hour and he said, "Yeah, I'll give you a call later." which I knew meant he would not be calling me in half an hour. My question is, is he mad at me or just hurt or has he lost interest—
Why is Taurus man suddenly withdrawing?

Doesn't sound like it was a booty call situation to him from the beginning, and it doesn't sound like it is to you anymore. Maybe he is tired of it all and has decided to cut his losses.

If he is just a booty call, there is no need to analyze his behavior in any fashion. Put the man out of his misery. Step up or cut him loose. If he distances himself to regroup, prepare. He has feelings obviously if he's a bit le pout over the haircut scene. FWB..I honestly have not one idea how people think this works. *smh*

Obviously he cares about you more than you care about him. You're treating him like he's nothing to you; he's only in your life to give you what you want. A Taurus will give and give and give but eventually there comes a point when we are so hurt by others' actions that we can't tolerate it anymore. You've thrown his feelings around and used him and he's hurting. He doesn't want you in his life anymore if he isn't going to be special to you at all. He's withdrawing to save himself further hurt. I've been in the same situation where I've gotten very close to people and then found out they were just using me, and that's something no Taurus will tolerate. Does he KNOW he's "just a booty call" to you? Have you straight up told him IN THOSE WORDS? If not, IF he ever does come back, you need to tell him.
One of the worst things you can do to someone is make them think you care about them/love them more than you really do.
@Venusianbull honestly. The whole booty call/FWB is just an excuse to use and hurt people. Never works out.
One of the worst things you can do to someone is make them think you care about them/love them more than you really do.
@Venusianbull honestly. The whole booty call/FWB is just an excuse to use and hurt people. Never works out.

This was sad to read. Poor guy. Maybe, reality has hit him. Hopefully he IS withdrawing and preparing to move on. Hmm..my spidey senses are telling me that you're not going to let him. Poor guy.lol
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