WHY IS THIS TAURUS KEEPING ME AROUND?

Him Taurus april 28th (22yrs old)
Me Gemini June 3rd 1990 (20 yrs old)

(In june) My Taurus and me have known each other since we are both athletes in college but never really talked. He asked for my number at my birthday party downtown and we are talking every single day after that.

We are going to the park at night lying in the grass looking at the stars, seeing shooting stars, talking about life, and getting to know each other. We are telling each other our aspirations and where we see ourselves in the future. He talks about his future wife ALL THE TIME.. Its really cute. He comes to all of my home games, gives me the best advice after games and just really supports me. Tells me some of his deepest secrets. And my favorite, we have redbox movie nights.

(In August) I start going over his apt and him over mine and spending the night but its strictly cuddling and talking and enjoying each other??s company. No kissing still, no crossing the boundaries. (just kisses on the forehead) Because at this point we haven't even discussed one thing about what we are and where we are going and of course as an impatient Gemini I want communication. I want to know exactly how he feels and what is going on. So this was really bothering me because its never fun not knowing how the other person feels.

(In September) He finally talked one night saying.

—I care about you and I am invested in you. But I don't want to be a mistake or regret. I want to protect you. But like everyone knows I always think about the future and what happens when I graduate in may? I don't want to bring you along in that mess. (Because he is trying to get into law school and grad school and pursue his dreams) I want to watch you grow. This isn't saying I want everything to change because I still want to keep doing all the same things with you (meaning he still wants me to come over, text, talk on the phone, go on adventures with him, cook for me, and keep saying sweet things with out being —handcuffed to him??) And that's the reason I haven't kissed you even though I thought about it every night you were laying in this bed with me. I just couldn't. I don't want things to change, but if you do, I understand. (he wants to do things that couples do but doesn't want to be a couple). I want to let you know I don't do just bring girls over here back to the cave. I am a one occupancy guy. I think your beautiful and I always have. I don't want to be a mistake?

PROBLEM:

When do I protect myself? He promises not to hurt me but only I know when my heart is being threatened. Do Taurus males normally do this? I feel like he is so sure that he isn't going to fall for me. I am not trying to rush into a relationship at all because I know things that last always are built on a strong foundation. But why is he keeping me around? We aren't a couple, but we do things couples do. But he's afraid I will get attached so he holds back. But He wants to keep me around?

Well, what a head mash!

Ask him?

Sounds like he's saying he wants to enjoy the moments until he goes away.I'm not sure to be honest, it's a weird one and I don't know a lot about Taurus males, only just getting know one myself.

Perhaps a few other people can post and shed some light on it.

I KNOW! so mind boggling. But thanks for trying to understand. oh and he finally kissed me after the talk saying that when someone kisses you make sure they kiss every inch or your body. and he did. *blushes*

Any advice for how i should approach this situation? Do i just go with the flow and take a risk? Take it day by day? Do Taurus ever take time to invest in anything if they dont think they are going to get anything out of it?

Bella And CB,

thanks for the advice. I guess the only thing I can do is take it day by day and just be myself. If it doesn't work out then it just wasn't meant to work out. But hopefully things work out 🙂

CB what did you say good luck with taking on this Taurus man, elaborate please.