Would you accept your girlfriend texting with another guy? Question to all Earth and Water signs

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Parkourler
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Hey,

I have a ot single in my social circle who is texting with another guy who is known to lay A LOT.

She is very very hot. That got me thinking, how would I react? Would I become suspicous, would I dump

her immediately? Would I stop trusting her? On the other hot woman always have tons of admirers who

would hump her without hesitation. So is it natural to flirt a bit? I think I would stop trusting her and dump

her if she keeps texting. How do you fellow taurus feel? And Air and Fire signs, please don`t be offended,

I just feel earth and water signs often not always are more keen about loyalty, monogamy, bonding, than you,

and I want to ask them too. Maybe I am wrong and I value your opinion? So how would you react? What is okay for you in terms of flirting with other guys when you are in a relationship? Which behaviour pattern are

tolerated and where do you draw the line?

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I have two male best friends that I have known for close to 20 years. I consider them family. My man knows them. No secrets here. If it hasn't happened in 20 years, it never will, lol.

However, the problem with 'side' friends is that these people are not permanent fixtures in their lives, nor do they serve a purpose. Seasonal people you come in contact with, exchange phone numbers, and your significant other hasn't met any of them? Then, you have a problem. What are you doing then? Just meeting random people in the street, conversing, and handing out your personal number. I find that quite scared actually, it's like inviting a stranger into your home.

But I'm a smart cookie. I know better. A stranger who approaches me in the street, and wants to exchange phone numbers so we could 'platonically' text, isn't fooling anyone. This isn't a business transaction, if so, you would have asked for a business card.

I think I would want to be linked to a man who 'knew' better as well....and could see right through the BS. A smart, disciplined man is a sexy man.
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Posted by Parkourler


Hey,

I have a ot single in my social circle who is texting with another guy who is known to lay A LOT.

She is very very hot. That got me thinking, how would I react? Would I become suspicous, would I dump

her immediately? Would I stop trusting her? On the other hot woman always have tons of admirers who

would hump her without hesitation. So is it natural to flirt a bit? I think I would stop trusting her and dump

her if she keeps texting. How do you fellow taurus feel? And Air and Fire signs, please don`t be offended,

I just feel earth and water signs often not always are more keen about loyalty, monogamy, bonding, than you,

and I want to ask them too. Maybe I am wrong and I value your opinion? So how would you react? What is okay for you in terms of flirting with other guys when you are in a relationship? Which behaviour pattern are

tolerated and where do you draw the line?


Dump her! I am dead serious.

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First off, I would be a total idiot to date someone who is seriously really hot and not expect the amount of attention she would undoubtedly get. I would be an even bigger idiot if I tried to get her to stop if we are early into the courting stage.

The foundation of a relationship is everything. It is a HUGE difference getting with someone who already texts people of the opposite sex on the regular, opposed to being with someone who suddenly starts giving that attention to other people. However, if the decision is made to be exclusive and take the relationship seriously, then the texts to other dudes needs to stop. No more fucking around when it's serious unless we agree to keep things like that open, which I am not entirely opposed to.

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Posted by Parkourler


Hey,

I have a ot single in my social circle who is texting with another guy who is known to lay A LOT.

She is very very hot. That got me thinking, how would I react? Would I become suspicous, would I dump

her immediately? Would I stop trusting her? On the other hot woman always have tons of admirers who

would hump her without hesitation. So is it natural to flirt a bit? I think I would stop trusting her and dump

her if she keeps texting. How do you fellow taurus feel? And Air and Fire signs, please don`t be offended,

I just feel earth and water signs often not always are more keen about loyalty, monogamy, bonding, than you,

and I want to ask them too. Maybe I am wrong and I value your opinion? So how would you react? What is okay for you in terms of flirting with other guys when you are in a relationship? Which behaviour pattern are

tolerated and where do you draw the line?


when you are in a relationship you shouldn't be texting other guys frequently. that is only for SO and friends (same gender). when people who are married frequently chat/talk with their opp gender friends i don't understand how the spouse takes that.
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Posted by Parkourler


Hey,

I have a ot single in my social circle who is texting with another guy who is known to lay A LOT.

She is very very hot. That got me thinking, how would I react? Would I become suspicous, would I dump

her immediately? Would I stop trusting her? On the other hot woman always have tons of admirers who

would hump her without hesitation. So is it natural to flirt a bit? I think I would stop trusting her and dump

her if she keeps texting. How do you fellow taurus feel? And Air and Fire signs, please don`t be offended,

I just feel earth and water signs often not always are more keen about loyalty, monogamy, bonding, than you,

and I want to ask them too. Maybe I am wrong and I value your opinion? So how would you react? What is okay for you in terms of flirting with other guys when you are in a relationship? Which behaviour pattern are

tolerated and where do you draw the line?



^^ For a simple answer to your question

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Texting and flirting while out on a date= RUDE!

Even if it was a guy I wasn't romantically interested in, I still would NEVER be this disrespectful right in front of him.

I have a Gemini Moon and I'm not even this callous, and this hurtful for Pete's sake!

Blame it on the consistency of a Bull, how you get them is how you keep them.

...And flirting with other people in front of your date does not show attractiveness and popularity, it spells CONCEIT!